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It’s the guys’ turn to spill their hot takes! 👀  In this episode, we dive into the male perspective on first dates—from exclusivity to expectations, and whether guys really think about labeling things this early.  Find out what these men have to say about consent, vibe check, and more!  Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes on love & life!  #FirstDateTips #FilipinoPodcast #DatingEtiquette #FirstDateRules #PEPVideo  Podcasters: Arzel Mariano, Kean Garcia, Mig Mabanta, Kyle Yabut Producers: Khym Manalo, Katrina Gangcuangco & Rachelle Siazon Director: Khym Manalo Videographer: Rommel Llanes Editor: Jaymar Talabon  Subscribe to our YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/@pep_tv  Read the latest in showbiz at http://www.pep.ph  Watch more videos at https://www.pep.ph/videos  Follow us!  Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/user/pepalerts/. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pepalerts/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PEPalerts  Twitter: https://twitter.com/pepalerts Viber: https://bit.ly/PEPonViber Kumu: pep.ph  Visit our DailyMotion channel! https://www.dailymotion.com/PEPalerts

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00:00Hello Pepsters! Welcome back to another episode of PepLive, your go-to space for hot takes and

00:16real talk. My name is Mik. I'm Kian. I'm Arzel. And I'm Kyle. In the previous episode, we heard

00:22the ladies' hot takes on their first dates. Now it's our time to weigh in. Let's kick things off

00:28with who should initiate the first date. Ideally, it should be the guy, right? But because

00:33now, the ladies are empowered. I guess if the attraction is strong enough, just go for

00:39it. I agree with you, man. It depends on your, I guess, dynamic. If you're coming in as

00:46friends, right? I mean, friends to lovers. I think however your dynamic is will really

00:53dictate the end of the first date. But assume, let's say, you met this girl at like a bar

01:00or like, I don't know. If the guy approaches the girl, I guess that's the initiation, right?

01:05Yeah. If you feel the pull that's strong enough, right? Go for it. Yeah. Why not, right?

01:11I'll take care. What do you think? Based on my experience, I'm always interested.

01:17Oh, okay. Yeah, so guilty. So, it's me who always initiate the date. But, of course,

01:24with consent, if they don't care. So, if they don't care both sides, then why not, right? So, that's it.

01:33Of course, if you don't care, you don't care. Take the no, man. Take the no, man.

01:38Yeah. You can feel that you both want, right? If you wanted to, you will.

01:45Yeah. How about you, Kyle? What do you think?

01:47I actually agree with what you guys said, right?

01:50That it depends on the dynamic and also the level of attraction.

01:57But, if you're the one pursuing, I mean, the guys, usually the ones who are pursuing, di ba? So, I think yun yung nakasanayan na guys always initiate the first date.

02:08But, you know, it's always a surprise if it's the girl who initiates it.

02:15It's something na parang we don't get to experience all the time, di ba? It's nice to the feeling. But, you know, at the end of the day, parang, again, it's based, like you guys said, it's based on the dynamics and also how attracted you are.

02:31What if, let's say, online dating? I don't know if you guys have tried online dating. Pero, what do you think? Should it be the guy?

02:38Because di ba, there's some apps na the girls don't initiate. Like, Bumble, I believe, that it should be the girl. Pero, what if it's say, Tinder, where it could be the guy or the girl? What do you think?

02:50Well, it's still the guy kasi, generally, you're gonna be swiping first. I feel like girls have more swipes than guys. And we have to, like, play up to the ratio then. So, I guess you have to take initiative and then just show confidence.

03:07Confidence. True, true. I agree. Actually, I agree. Don't be so, just be confident, right? And, maging tapat lang. And show honesty. And show your, what your intention really is.

03:25Online dating, like, online dating, like, apps. I find it very, you know, transactional. Parang, ang dami mo'n choices to, to swipe on, di ba? But once, once you, if you're passively looking for someone to date, it becomes transactional.

03:42But if you're, if you're, if you're, if you're, if you're just looking around, passively checking on someone to date, you wouldn't think na, to initiate, oh, let's meet up, or let's, but if you're really, you want it, di ba?

04:04Well, it doesn't, it doesn't, it doesn't play on dynamics, but, oh, yeah. Yung, parang, yung, magnet to, to how attracted you are to, yeah.

04:14the one you wanted, to date. Yeah, how much you want this date

04:16to happen, to maganda. Ah, yes. Ah. Yeah, no, I agree. I, especially with, especially with what everyone's saying. Parang, you're right, eh. I think us guys

04:23I think us guys have less choices than girls.

04:25We don't get swiped.

04:26We don't get super swiped a lot.

04:27No, nobody swipes on nothing.

04:28No, no.

04:29But like, we do get less people swiping on us.

04:32So I think, you know, my guess, I've never been a girl or a girl.

04:41But I assume that a lot of people swipe on girls in general.

04:45So if they have a lot of swipes, I think the guy has to really put his best foot.

04:49I mean, initiate the date.

04:51You know, be the one to really put himself out there.

04:54Okay, well, thanks for sharing for that question.

04:58So let's proceed to the next question, which is,

05:02How do you pay expenses during our first date?

05:07I've always been, I'll always offer to pay.

05:11To pay for the two foot, especially if I'm the one who initiates, right?

05:15Like, if I'm the one who asks this person out, the girl out, I want to be the one to, I'm not going to ask her if I can't afford.

05:26That's my thing.

05:28So for me, I think the expenses the guy should pay, especially if he initiates.

05:33Now, if the girl is asked to split, offer pa rin.

05:39But if she really pushes back, then it's okay.

05:42Don't, wag mo naman i-force na i-foot yung bill.

05:48Actually, same din.

05:50Ako madalas yung nag-initiate ng date.

05:52So, syempre, automatically, ako yung sasagot sa bill.

05:56And if she requests to split the bill, then it's fine for me din naman.

06:02Let them offer, but don't force.

06:05Yeah, no forcing.

06:07Kayo, yes.

06:08Personally, I offer first.

06:11Pero I wouldn't take it against the girl if she wanted to pay her half of the meal.

06:15Pero I would insist.

06:16Kasi the dance is always going to be there.

06:19Paglabasan na ng bill, mag-offer naman talaga, usually.

06:22But as a guy, I have to take initiative na.

06:25I would pay.

06:25Pero if she offers, it's not against you naman.

06:29She just wants to pay for her half.

06:30Or probably the date didn't go as well.

06:33But I wouldn't take it against the girl talaga.

06:35And if she does pay for her half, siguro offer ko na lang, like, desert akin na parang ganit.

06:40Or like, where we go after, if we want to stay out, if we want to have a drink after, ako na dun.

06:45For me, I usually offer and cover the expense, especially on a first date.

06:51Again, like you guys said, there are times na yung date ma will offer to pay for the half.

07:01Pero ako, I'd insist on paying the whole expense during the date.

07:08Especially if I'm the one who initiated.

07:11What if the girl who initiated, do you expect her to pay?

07:16Or tayo pa rin ba yung dapat gumastos?

07:19On a first date, I think, if the girl initiates, I'd still pay.

07:24Kasi parang, it's, it's, I don't know if it's a rule for you guys.

07:28Like, self-rule na parang, I think you mentioned, Migs, earlier na, you won't go on a date if you cannot afford it.

07:36Or if you cannot, kundi mo siya kaya ang panindigan, di ba?

07:38So, um, like what I said also earlier, like dating is intentional.

07:45So, you should be prepared lagi for anything na mangyari.

07:49So, I guess when it comes to expenses, um, regardless, like, who initiates it,

07:56uh, I think the guy should be the one paying, paying for the first date.

08:00Especially first date.

08:01Yeah, no, I agree.

08:02You know, it's funny, I mean, I'll go back to the earlier question, which, maybe this is why us guys should initiate more, because,

08:10you know, you choose what you can afford.

08:13If you can, if what you can afford is, like, uh, can I curse?

08:17Uh, uh, a high-end restaurant, then go for it, di ba?

08:22Pay for it.

08:23If what you can afford is Jollibee, that's still great.

08:25But at least you initiated, at least you don't know who offered.

08:28And you know your limit, your budget, di ba?

08:31Yep.

08:31Yeah, know your budget.

08:34Yeah, know your budget.

08:35That's why.

08:35So, yun, I'll go back to the first question.

08:38Men should really initiate, pero, and, you know, it's really good.

08:41I think that, I think the guys should pay for that, no?

08:45Or should at least expect to pay for the, for the date.

08:48If, if, if the girl offers, sure, right?

08:51Would you let the girl foot the entire bill if she wanted to, like, she really insisted?

08:56On a first date?

08:58On a first date.

08:59Like, like, she really, like, likes you, Ganad?

09:02Uh, I think no.

09:03But if, like, nandun na siya sa insist level na Alpe, or naunahan ka niya magbayad, I'll make sure, like, the next one, I'll be the one covering it.

09:15Yeah, paunahan na mag-abot nung card ka niya.

09:17Yeah, yun yun, eh.

09:18May times ka siya.

09:20Yeah.

09:20That's on me.

09:21Yeah.

09:22Actually, yun parang, ano yun, no?

09:23Yun yun parang dance talaga.

09:25Hindi yun pag-abot, eh.

09:26Like, paunahan mag-abot nung card ka niya.

09:28Yeah, sometimes what I do is, I step out of the table and pay, pay behind nalang.

09:35You sneak in, eh.

09:35I sneak out nalang.

09:37Parang, you know, I don't know.

09:39She might take your, your dining and dashing.

09:42Okay, my exit night.

09:43Hindi na, man.

09:45French exit na pala.

09:47Pero yun din, eh.

09:48Parang, it depends on, like, how well the date goes.

09:50Yeah.

09:51So sometimes, like Arzal mentioned, it's, it's a dance.

09:54So if you feel like it's not recur any, it will not recur any time soon.

10:02I don't know.

10:03Sometimes, it's okay to split.

10:05Sometimes, di ba?

10:07Pero yun, at talaga, ano, cover all dapat.

10:12So sino nga ba ang magde-decide kung saan ang date?

10:17Ideally naman, it's the person who asks out, di ba?

10:20Kasi hindi ka naman maghihaya ng date if you don't have an idea

10:23of where to bring the other person.

10:26Like, siguro naman, pag may intention ka na to ask someone out,

10:30na-plan out mo na na, ladalhin ko siya sa this restaurant,

10:33or like, we're gonna hang out somewhere.

10:35Kayo, what do you guys think?

10:38Ako, it's a two-step process for me.

10:42I think the guy should be the one to decide where to go,

10:45but I think in the end, it's the girl,

10:47it's up to the girl whether to say yes or no.

10:49Because, I mean, I'll be honest,

10:51it's a more dangerous world for girls than for guys.

10:53I think she should be able to say yes

10:56to where it's safe for her,

10:59to where it's somewhere where

11:03she has access maybe to friends or to ano.

11:07So I think, yes, the guy should

11:09choose or present options where to go.

11:13The girl should have the power to say yes or no,

11:17to go there or not.

11:18Without sounding like she's being picky or anything like that.

11:24Mostly kasi, in my experience before,

11:27since mostly ako yung interesado,

11:30ako yung nadayo.

11:31Siyempre, you're interested, right?

11:33So, you're the one risking.

11:35Risking to travel kahit malayo pa yan.

11:37You're willing eh.

11:39If not naman, if gusto niyang medyo malayo,

11:42we can meet halfway naman.

11:44Ako actually, taga Batangas pa ako.

11:47Oh, yeah.

11:49So, what if this person is from Manila?

11:52So, we can meet like in Alabang or in Tagaytay.

11:56If hindi niya kaya pumunta ng Batangas

11:59or kaya nahiya siya, pupunta pa ako Manila.

12:03So, halfway, we can do that naman.

12:06Ibuusapin yung saan yung halfway ng Metro Manila.

12:08Parang hirap yung halfway ng Batangas is Tagaytay pala.

12:12I assume you're from Metro Manila.

12:15Yes.

12:15So, anong magde-decide saan ang first date?

12:19It depends on where you are

12:22dun sa talking stage ninyo.

12:25Interesting.

12:26I had an experience of meeting someone on a date

12:30and just, I swiped that person

12:33tapos, in 30 minutes, magme-meet na kami.

12:39Oh, wow.

12:39Ganun kabilis.

12:40Fast.

12:41So,

12:41Ano ito, speedrun?

12:42Parang ganun, di ba?

12:44So, it depends.

12:45So, parang if, if, if,

12:47I just did it for fun.

12:49Alam mo yun, parang I wanted to experience something na

12:52what if I meet someone spontaneously

12:54in, in a quick amount of time,

12:57in a short amount of time, di ba?

12:59So, I was the one who chose the place na,

13:04I know we're in the same area.

13:06So, usually, kapag mga ganyan,

13:09I, I do it in a public space, di ba?

13:13Para, you know, to, to make it safe for the both of us.

13:16But then, that's the past.

13:19And, that's the past already.

13:22But, when I met my fiancé, parang,

13:24our first date was in a public space also,

13:29parang, laging consideration yun na,

13:32when choosing.

13:35Also, if, for example,

13:37first date, you give options as well.

13:41Parang,

13:42it,

13:42it depends also kung,

13:45dun sa tao, if,

13:46prefer niya ba na,

13:48you meet in a private place,

13:49you meet in a public space,

13:51you, you always consider,

13:53uh,

13:54saan siya magiging kompartable.

13:56So,

13:58it's,

13:58it's the guy who chooses, yes,

14:00but,

14:00give options,

14:01all the time.

14:02Are you guys okay,

14:03if, in the first date,

14:05they have a friend nearby, or?

14:08I think it's fairly common.

14:09Lala na sa dating apps, yeah.

14:10I think it's a,

14:12safety thing din.

14:13I also wanna,

14:15have my friends have an idea,

14:16and, uh,

14:17I'm just nearby,

14:17I'm on a date.

14:18Yeah, true.

14:19Like, if anything bad happens,

14:20di ba?

14:22In other words,

14:23we shouldn't be taking offense,

14:24to the fact that,

14:24you know,

14:25they wanna bring their friends,

14:27yeah.

14:27What do you mean, like?

14:29Hindi man kasama,

14:30like,

14:30di naman,

14:31di naman kailang kasama.

14:32Like, in the nearby,

14:33nearby.

14:33Is there a table?

14:34Ah, yeah.

14:35No, no, no,

14:36three tables,

14:36three tables away,

14:38kaya.

14:38May binoculars pa,

14:39may spy pun.

14:41Oh, okay.

14:42Oh, I mean,

14:42you won't be offended naman,

14:43if they say,

14:44oh,

14:44can a friend be nearby,

14:45gano gano.

14:45Yep,

14:46no problem.

14:47So,

14:47valid nga ba,

14:48ang first kiss,

14:49sa first date?

14:50We'll answer that,

14:51when we return.

14:51Hmm.

15:21and we're back

15:26ngayon pag-uusapan naman natin

15:28ang first kisses on the first date

15:30so valid nga ba ang first kiss

15:32sa first date kagad

15:33sana ko

15:35for me kasi

15:36papaso ka sa date not expecting anything

15:40like valid siya pero

15:41it's not required

15:42it depends doon sa vibe check eh

15:45kasi may mga first dates na

15:47parang madadala ka talaga

15:50uy grabe yung iba yung tama

15:52lalo na pag like you said

15:53earlier na

15:55organic yung na hinahanap yung person

15:57like hinahabol yung talaga

15:59so it depends

16:02talaga sa vibe check but never

16:03ever expect the first kiss

16:05valid nga so valid yeah I agree

16:07valid yung first kiss sa first date pero

16:09based on vibes you know

16:11it's all vibes man like

16:13if it's really not going well

16:16don't force it dude

16:17take the L na

16:19take the L man

16:20yeah it's valid

16:24for me din

16:26pero I

16:26I haven't had the first kiss yet

16:29so

16:30masyado mabilis for me and for us

16:33first date pa lang

16:35kiss agad

16:36pero we respect naman each others

16:39pati

16:40we respect naman other people's

16:42perspective but

16:43for us

16:45hindi muna like

16:46enjoy enjoy muna

16:47get to know more

16:48about each other

16:49holding hands

16:51pwede siguro

16:51ako minsan pag gano eh

16:52pag hindi vibes

16:54walang

16:55walang

16:56again the vibe

16:59if it's there

17:00why not

17:01yeah why not

17:02yeah it's valid on the first date

17:04but

17:05uh

17:06my fiancé

17:07took us

17:0810 dates

17:10before we had our first kiss

17:11you know

17:12it's a dance

17:15again as you said

17:16so

17:16uh

17:17i think

17:18i think it's more of

17:20uh

17:20not taking advantage of

17:22that moment

17:23and

17:24as you guys said

17:25it's

17:26you have to feel it

17:27right away

17:28so

17:29it doesn't mean

17:31na hindi ko siya na feel

17:32during

17:32during the first date

17:34pero

17:34it's more of

17:36um

17:36giving us time

17:38both

17:38to know well

17:39each other

17:40and know

17:41na

17:41that moment

17:43is the right time

17:44yeah

17:45yeah

17:46and also consent

17:46yeah

17:47yeah

17:47consent

17:48consent is key

17:48always man

17:50consent is key

17:51so

17:52yeah

17:53but on these

17:54on these dates

17:55um

17:55do you think

17:56you should be

17:57always be best

17:58foot forward

17:58or natural ba

17:59especially pag first date

18:00imagine you're

18:02meeting her

18:02for the first time

18:03for me

18:04um

18:05just natural

18:06it's something that you

18:07can do in the long run

18:09yung kaya mong panindigan

18:11kasi sometimes

18:12uh

18:12we get so overwhelmed

18:14like on first dates

18:15we

18:15like

18:16do big things

18:17but

18:18eventually

18:18it's not something na

18:20you normally do

18:21yeah

18:21so

18:22it can cause problems

18:23in the future

18:24so

18:25you know

18:26don't

18:27kumbaga parang

18:28wag mong

18:29teperin yung

18:30sarili mo sa effort

18:31I mean

18:31just do the things

18:32that you know

18:33you can

18:33naturally do

18:35but at the same time

18:37wag kang

18:38mag

18:38pano ba yun

18:39parang wag mong

18:40i-short sell

18:41also yung sarili mo

18:42na

18:42you'll seem like

18:43di ka din nage-effort

18:45yeah

18:46unless you're that

18:47kind of person

18:47di ba

18:48I mean

18:48sorry na lang

18:49di ba

18:49but

18:50you know

18:50it's still

18:51it boils down to

18:52being intentional

18:53when it comes to

18:54dating

18:55how about you guys

18:56personally

18:59if it's a first date

19:02naturally

19:02best foot forward

19:04ka talaga

19:04you're

19:05you're going out

19:06with someone

19:06for the first time

19:07you wanna make

19:08a good impression

19:09talaga

19:09so

19:10you wanna

19:11keep it

19:12simple

19:13pero

19:13medyo elevated

19:14ng konti

19:15like

19:16dress up

19:17a bit more

19:18than usual

19:18put on some

19:19cologne

19:20or

19:20pick out

19:22your favorite

19:23shirt

19:23ganun

19:24pero

19:24it has to be

19:25sustainable

19:26like you said

19:27it's intentional

19:27but

19:28you don't wanna

19:28set yourself up

19:29for failure

19:30na

19:30hindi mo na

19:31hindi mo na

19:32top off

19:33yung

19:33what you had

19:35manage expectations

19:37manage expectations

19:38yeah

19:39I agree man

19:41super agree

19:41I think

19:42you have to be

19:43natural

19:43but

19:44your best

19:45natural

19:45your best foot forward

19:46in the sense

19:47na

19:47hindi ka OA

19:48sa

19:48pagkagalante mo

19:50or something like that

19:51I mean

19:51you can be

19:52you can give us

19:54you can give all

19:55that you want to give

19:56pero wag yung

19:57you're right

19:57wag yung

19:58not sustainable

19:59parang

19:59it's still you

20:00you're still

20:01that's who you're

20:02presenting

20:02right

20:03I mean look

20:04forward thinking

20:05kasi in a relationship

20:06I think

20:07in a relationship

20:08it's supposed to

20:09better you

20:10so if your best

20:11foot's forward

20:11that should be

20:13your gold standard

20:13anyway

20:14that's

20:15what I think

20:16yep

20:17you're right

20:17syempre

20:19the simpler

20:20the better

20:21the natural

20:22the better

20:22so it's better

20:23just go with the flow

20:24and

20:25don't

20:27okay

20:28okay

20:29but not too much

20:31yeah

20:32because

20:33not too much

20:34what do you mean?

20:35yung to the point

20:35na

20:36buis-buhay na

20:37hindi na kaya

20:38panindigay

20:39yeah

20:40just

20:41do what you can

20:43yeah

20:45wag

20:45sobra

20:46wag kang fake

20:47I mean

20:47that's

20:47yeah

20:47don't be fake

20:49have you guys

20:50experienced yung

20:51you did your best

20:54foot forward

20:55during a first date

20:56and then

20:57scared off the girl

20:58yeah

20:59because it's too

21:00it's too grand

21:02yeah

21:02diba

21:02experience yung

21:03na ba

21:04ako never pa

21:05like

21:05I like to play it safe

21:06na

21:07simple date lang talaga

21:09for the first date

21:10and then just

21:10um

21:11get something

21:12or like

21:13do something

21:14na special

21:14later on

21:15but

21:16gusto ko kasi yung

21:17like

21:18the attention is

21:19for the date

21:21mismo

21:21hindi like yung sa venue

21:22or whatever I do

21:23yeah

21:23so

21:24grounded yung

21:25expectations

21:26then

21:26it's not

21:28setting yourself up

21:29for failure

21:29yeah

21:30oh

21:31ako parang hindi

21:32na man

21:33I mean

21:33this is given

21:35that I've never

21:35really done

21:36anything like

21:37I don't know

21:38buy her plane ticket

21:40on the same

21:40on the first date

21:41right

21:41I've never done

21:42anything like that

21:42parang

21:43I don't think

21:43I've ever done

21:44anything so grand

21:45na parang

21:45it would scare

21:46off

21:47my date

21:47yeah

21:48or me

21:49sorry

21:49or myself

21:51yeah

21:51what do you prefer

21:54uh

21:54exclusive

21:55or

21:56open

21:57to others

21:58it depends

21:59on uh

22:00where you are

22:02and your

22:02intentions

22:03like I said

22:04earlier

22:05kung

22:05if you're dating

22:06passively

22:07then you should

22:08be fine

22:09being open

22:10with others

22:11if you're dating

22:12uh

22:13actively

22:14I mean

22:15intentionally

22:16then it's

22:17something na

22:17you can discuss

22:19with uh

22:20the person

22:21you're dating

22:21it depends eh

22:23it doesn't go

22:24one way

22:24parang

22:25minsan ikaw

22:25gusto mo

22:26exclusive

22:26but the one

22:27you're dating

22:28uh

22:29ayaw na

22:29exclusive

22:30so

22:30it has to be

22:32uh

22:33an agreement

22:34between the

22:35two of you

22:36what would you

22:36do kung ganun

22:37if opposing

22:38yes

22:39I would consider

22:40like for example

22:41ako gusto ko

22:42exclusive

22:42and then

22:43the one I'm

22:43dating is

22:44open to

22:45others

22:45I'll be fine

22:46with it

22:47but then

22:48I'll

22:49take into

22:50consideration

22:51na

22:51uh

22:52she's dating

22:54others

22:54also

22:55yeah

22:55kumbaga

22:56again

22:56managing

22:57expectations

22:57di ba

22:58parang

22:59um

23:00so you'd

23:01still push

23:01through

23:01with

23:02the dates

23:03maybe even

23:04follow up

23:04dates

23:04knowing

23:05that

23:05yeah

23:06but

23:07probably

23:07that will

23:08fade out

23:09eventually

23:10yeah

23:10di ba

23:11I mean

23:11you should

23:12always

23:12take your

23:13chances

23:13even if

23:14you don't

23:15know

23:15what's gonna

23:16happen

23:16next

23:17di ba

23:17because it

23:18doesn't

23:18sometimes

23:19there are

23:20dates

23:20that

23:21na-justify

23:22after the

23:23first one

23:24but sometimes

23:25meron mga

23:26follow-up

23:26dates

23:27that happens

23:27di ba

23:28so it

23:29depends on

23:29how

23:30interested

23:30you are

23:31how

23:31attractive

23:32you are

23:32to the

23:33person

23:33and

23:33that

23:34vibe

23:35you felt

23:36during the

23:36first date

23:37it's hard

23:37enough

23:37I mean

23:37I think

23:39it's

23:39that's

23:40the

23:40it's

23:41really

23:41more

23:42are you

23:42guys

23:43on the

23:43same

23:43page

23:43right

23:43if

23:44you

23:44guys

23:44are

23:44both

23:44open

23:45to

23:45others

23:45then

23:45great

23:46why

23:46not

23:47right

23:47if

23:47you

23:47guys

23:47want

23:48to be

23:48exclusive

23:49at least

23:49be

23:50transparent

23:50yes

23:51from the

23:51very

23:52get-go

23:52don't

23:54don't

23:54play

23:54around

23:55unless

23:55that's

23:56what

23:56you

23:56want

23:56you

23:56know

23:56but

23:57I mean

23:57that's

23:59the

23:59for me

24:00what

24:01I think

24:02you said

24:02this

24:02earlier

24:02and I

24:02think

24:03this

24:03is

24:03great

24:03the

24:04key

24:04really

24:05is

24:05to

24:05make

24:05your

24:05intentions

24:06known

24:06as

24:07early

24:07as

24:07possible

24:07if

24:08it's

24:08an

24:08online

24:08from

24:10your

24:10profile

24:11just

24:11say

24:11I'm

24:12open

24:13this

24:14is

24:14going

24:14to be

24:14an

24:14open

24:14thing

24:15or

24:15I

24:15want

24:15to

24:15look

24:16for

24:16something

24:16exclusive

24:16and

24:17don't

24:17put

24:17it

24:17if

24:17you're

24:18not

24:18looking

24:18for

24:18it

24:18correct

24:20so

24:21my

24:22take

24:22here

24:23is

24:23it's

24:24too

24:24early

24:24because

24:25we're

24:25speaking

24:25in the

24:25context

24:26of the

24:26first

24:26few

24:26dates

24:27it

24:28adds

24:31extra

24:32pressure

24:32to

24:32what

24:33you're

24:33trying

24:33to

24:33build

24:33with

24:34this

24:34person

24:34you're

24:35still

24:36getting

24:36to

24:36know

24:36each

24:36other

24:37so

24:38you

24:38might

24:38as

24:38well

24:39just

24:39take

24:39the

24:39time

24:40just

24:40enjoy

24:40and

24:41try

24:42to

24:42figure

24:42out

24:42what

24:42makes

24:43her

24:43laugh

24:43or

24:43what

24:44her

24:44preferences

24:45and

24:46even

24:47if

24:47she

24:47says

24:48I'm

24:48still

24:50looking

24:50for

24:50other

24:50options

24:51I

24:51wouldn't

24:51take

24:51it

24:51against

24:52her

24:52too

24:52because

24:52that's

24:53her

24:53point

24:53of

24:53view

24:53I

24:54would

24:54respect

24:54that

24:55choice

24:55but

24:56at

24:56least

24:56I

24:56make

24:57my

24:57intentions

24:57clear

24:57I

24:58agree

25:01make

25:01your

25:01intentions

25:02clear

25:02I

25:04depend

25:05on

25:05it

25:06we

25:06are

25:07different

25:07trips

25:08actually

25:09it's

25:09really

25:12situational

25:13there's

25:14no

25:15right

25:15or

25:15wrong

25:15answer

25:16to

25:16this

25:16it's

25:16just

25:16a

25:16matter

25:17of

25:17don't

25:18lie

25:19to

25:20whoever

25:21you

25:21see

25:21don't

25:22get

25:23pressured

25:23with

25:23the

25:24society

25:24speaking

25:26as

25:28a

25:28Gen

25:28C

25:28sometimes

25:30because

25:31it's

25:31okay

25:31to

25:31date

25:32like

25:33open

25:33to

25:33others

25:34I

25:35mean

25:35again

25:36if

25:36you're

25:36passively

25:37dating

25:37but

25:38it

25:38depends

25:39where

25:39you

25:40are

25:40and

25:40your

25:40intentions

25:41because

25:41sometimes

25:42dating

25:43many

25:44people

25:44will

25:45also

25:45help

25:45you

25:45learn

25:46about

25:46yourself

25:46and

25:47eventually

25:47define

25:48define

25:49what

25:49kind

25:50of

25:50person

25:51you're

25:51looking

25:51for

25:52so

25:53probably

25:53okay

25:53you start

25:55with

25:55dating

25:56openly

25:56and

25:56then

25:56eventually

25:57transition

25:59to

25:59dating

26:00exclusively

26:01yeah

26:01in fact

26:02if I may

26:03I think

26:04if you're

26:04dating

26:05on

26:05doing

26:05online

26:06dating

26:06I think

26:07it's almost

26:08implied

26:08unless

26:11the second

26:12date

26:12goes well

26:12then that's

26:13when you

26:13start off

26:13okay

26:14where are

26:14we at

26:14you know

26:15yeah

26:15and

26:16Arzel

26:17said

26:17first few

26:19dates

26:20DTR

26:20it's

26:21crazy

26:21you're

26:23really

26:23scared

26:23of

26:24you have

26:26to

26:26you have

26:27to

26:27feel

26:28it

26:28muna

26:28then

26:29that's

26:29the time

26:30you

26:30vibe

26:30check

26:31pa

26:31rin

26:31talaga

26:31so

26:32guys

26:32anong

26:33mas

26:33prefer

26:33nyo

26:33soft

26:34lunch

26:34ba

26:34or

26:35private

26:36muna

26:36we'll

26:37be right

26:37back

26:37after

26:38the

26:38break

26:56and

27:12we're

27:12back

27:13from

27:14the

27:14short

27:14break

27:14let's

27:15get

27:15back

27:15to

27:16the

27:16question

27:16soft

27:17lunch

27:17ba

27:18guys

27:18or

27:19private

27:19muna

27:20what do

27:21you

27:21prefer

27:21bro

27:22I think

27:22on a

27:23first

27:23date

27:24like

27:24first

27:25first

27:25date

27:26I'll

27:27do

27:27private

27:27I'll

27:28do

27:28private

27:29muna

27:29parang

27:30of course

27:31you have

27:31to

27:32respect

27:34also

27:34your

27:34dates

27:35privacy

27:35when it

27:36comes

27:36to

27:37the

27:37first

27:37date

27:38and

27:39then

27:39again

27:39consent

27:40eventually

27:41if you

27:41want

27:41to do

27:42the

27:42soft

27:42lunch

27:42I

27:44think

27:44that's

27:44how

27:46I'll

27:46do

27:46it

27:46Mia

27:47I'm

27:47kind

27:47of

27:47a

27:48private

27:48person

27:48I

27:49mean

27:49sempre

27:49in

27:50this

27:50day

27:50and

27:50age

27:50how

27:51can

27:51what

27:52what

27:52is

27:52privacy

27:52right

27:53but

27:53I

27:53think

27:54when

27:55it

27:55comes

27:55to

27:55my

27:55privacy

27:56is

27:56fine

27:56I

27:58don't

27:58think

27:59I

27:59want

27:59to

28:00especially

28:01on the

28:01first

28:01date

28:01share

28:02that

28:03I'm

28:03out

28:03with

28:04with

28:04us

28:05that's

28:08still

28:08the

28:08stage

28:08where

28:08you're

28:09sort

28:09of

28:09feeling

28:09out

28:09the

28:10vibes

28:11the

28:11date

28:12you

28:12know

28:13maybe

28:14on the

28:14second

28:14date

28:14it's

28:15more

28:15soft

28:16lunch

28:17home

28:18home

28:19home

28:20in the

28:20IG

28:20story

28:21picture

28:22me

28:22coffee

28:23there's

28:23two

28:24two

28:24it's

28:26hide

28:27the name

28:28it's

28:29blur

28:29the face

28:30that's

28:31that's

28:32that's

28:33I would

28:35keep it

28:36private

28:37especially

28:37if

28:37my

28:38date

28:38wants

28:39to keep

28:39it

28:39private

28:39first

28:39if

28:41she'll

28:41start

28:42story

28:42first

28:42okay

28:43go

28:43story

28:44why

28:45mention

28:46I

28:46re-story

28:49oh

28:50we

28:50are

28:51really

28:52that's

28:54me

28:56I'm

28:56more

28:57private

28:57first

28:57before

28:58I like

28:58what Kyle

28:59said

28:59that

28:59day

29:00and age

29:01is so

29:01different

29:02from

29:02the

29:02dating

29:03experiences

29:03that

29:04our

29:04parents

29:04had

29:05everything

29:06we

29:06share

29:06is

29:07going

29:07to be

29:07online

29:08our

29:09whole

29:09lives

29:09are

29:10online

29:10right

29:10away

29:11right

29:11what

29:11you

29:12keep

29:12private

29:12is

29:13actually

29:13more

29:13valuable

29:14now

29:14so

29:15for

29:15me

29:15secret

29:17or

29:17private

29:17keep

29:19it

29:19low

29:19key

29:19you

29:20don't

29:20flaunt

29:21it

29:21because

29:21you

29:21of course

29:22want to

29:22keep

29:23it

29:23between

29:24the

29:24two

29:24of

29:24you

29:24first

29:25you're

29:26still

29:26getting

29:26to know

29:26each

29:27other

29:27especially

29:27in the

29:27first

29:27few

29:28dates

29:28so

29:29I

29:30guess

29:30justified

29:33now

29:33the

29:33relationship

29:33will

29:34be

29:36the

29:36right

29:38people

29:38will

29:39know

29:39if

29:40you

29:40know

29:40you

29:41know

29:41kind

29:41of

29:41thing

29:42not

29:44to

29:44the

29:44point

29:44na tinatago muna siya

29:46kasi alam mo na

29:48may iba pala no

29:50ibang pagtago na may nyo

29:52wag yun, keep things private

29:55masyado lang ata din

29:56na

29:58pressure yung tao ngayon dun sa

30:00soft lunch culture

30:03to put things out

30:05right away

30:05it's not really required

30:07mas okay pa rin yung private

30:10for me

30:11the people who need to know will know

30:13so

30:15if the people who need to know will know

30:19do you agree that

30:20you should meet the parents kagad

30:22ang loaded ng question

30:25first few dates

30:27para mapapakuha nang

30:29first few dates

30:31tapos you meet the parents kagad

30:32ibang pressure yun, lalo nasa guy

30:34na may kilala mo kagad

30:36yung parents hindi na-date mo

30:38it's a

30:38bigat nun

30:41but

30:42ideally it shouldn't happen

30:44within the first few dates

30:45that

30:45it should actually be a few months in

30:48pag-uusapan niyo talaga

30:50if you're both ready for it

30:51lalo nasa Filipino culture na

30:53we value so much

30:55oh yeah

30:56the family

30:57the family thing

30:59na

30:59if pinakilala makagad sa parents mo

31:02iba yung the thing for them

31:04and it's gonna add

31:05to the relationship

31:06then

31:06you're bringing in people

31:07into your relationship

31:08also

31:09so

31:09for me

31:11wag muna

31:12it has to be like

31:13a conscious choice

31:15between the two of you

31:16but

31:16what do you guys think?

31:18no yeah

31:19no i agree

31:19i

31:19like what you said

31:20it's very Filipino culture

31:22na parang

31:22you're dating a girl

31:25you're dating the family

31:25yeah

31:26right

31:26so i think that's part of it

31:28but

31:28to meet the parents

31:29if you guys are serious

31:31early on

31:33then maybe yes

31:35but

31:35if it's just a first date

31:37first date

31:38first date

31:39first date

31:39so wag muna

31:40wag muna

31:41oh

31:41second na lang

31:43second na lang

31:44kasi seriwoso na pag second

31:46at least na level up

31:49the jump between the first date

31:52and the second date

31:52is huge

31:53yeah

31:53but i wouldn't

31:55i

31:55okay

31:57i'll share a story

31:58of my friend

31:58i know it's not a personal story

31:59but

32:00a friend told me that

32:02nag first date sila

32:04somewhere

32:05in a restaurant

32:06it just so happened that

32:07she didn't want to

32:10share it with her parents yet

32:11pero

32:12so she said

32:14oh i'm going out

32:14ganon ganon

32:15tapos the parents were like

32:16this sama kami

32:17hindi siya maka no

32:19siyempre

32:19i mean

32:19what's it gonna say

32:20no

32:20don't don't

32:21don't do it

32:21so yun

32:22the guy met

32:23ako when she told me that

32:25i was like

32:25no way man

32:26like

32:26i would freak out

32:28if i were the guy

32:29who

32:29i would not

32:30ako

32:30because

32:31you want to vibe check first

32:32the person in general

32:34you don't want to disappoint

32:35the whole family

32:36right away

32:37right

32:37i mean

32:37if it's not vibing

32:38then

32:39you know

32:40i would rather

32:42not vibe

32:43with the

32:44individual

32:45before the family

32:46so ako

32:47no

32:48not meet the parents

32:49agad

32:49it'll take a while

32:50it adds

32:53it adds pressure

32:55sa iyo

32:57and even

32:57to the person

32:59you're dating

32:59di ba

33:00if meet the parents

33:01kagad

33:01parang

33:02like on the

33:04let's say

33:04first date

33:05yung kwento ng friend

33:07mo

33:07anjan yung parents

33:08parang

33:08even if it's just

33:10a hi and hello

33:10parang

33:11it already

33:12sets expectations

33:15exactly

33:17di ba

33:17and that's

33:19that can be unfair

33:20for you

33:21and for the person

33:22you're dating

33:22na

33:23you didn't get the chance

33:25to know well

33:26each other

33:26on the next dates

33:29tapas meet the parents

33:31kagad

33:32kasi

33:32like what Arcel

33:33mentioned earlier

33:34parang

33:35that's

33:36that's

33:36the culture

33:38in the Philippines

33:39di ba na

33:39it means a lot

33:42or may wait

33:43na siya

33:44kapag pinakilala na

33:45to your parents

33:46so

33:46for me probably

33:47i don't

33:49i don't recommend

33:50like meeting the parents

33:51on the first dates

33:52and even on the first few dates

33:53yeah

33:54like wait months first

33:55to

33:56to know the person

33:57and when you're sure

33:59di ba

33:59dun mo siya

34:01i next level

34:02exactly

34:02when you wanna be exclusive

34:03yes go ahead

34:04the first

34:05your first date

34:06after being exclusive

34:06sure

34:07i mean

34:08first dates are nerve wracking

34:09dude

34:10di ba

34:10add the parents

34:11to that equation pa

34:12friends pa nga lang

34:13what do you think

34:13i mean friend

34:14meeting the friends

34:15meeting the friends

34:16awkward

34:17awkward din di ba

34:18awkward

34:18hello po

34:19hello po

34:20what if unavoidable

34:22like you're picking up

34:23your date

34:23sa bahay niya

34:24tapos

34:24hi tito

34:25kailangan no mag ano

34:26di ba

34:26yeah that's fine

34:28yeah that's fine

34:29naman di ba

34:29pag picking up

34:30okay lang

34:30parang picking up

34:32or dropping off

34:32especially

34:33i think okay lang

34:33kasi parang

34:34ano lang yan

34:34hi tito

34:36how are you

34:36it's courtesy

34:37yeah

34:37di ba

34:38but like if you sit

34:39down with them

34:40during your first date

34:42that's another thing

34:43di ba

34:44you're dating the parents

34:45also

34:45oh you're dating

34:46the parents also

34:47di ba

34:47it's like a

34:48panel interview

34:49panel interview

34:50initial interview

34:52then technical interview

34:53then final interview

34:54pero if you do

34:55at least

34:56tapos approve

34:56ka na

34:57di ba

34:58fast track

34:59fast track

35:00you're hired

35:01but what if

35:03let's say

35:03okay fast track

35:04ka nga

35:05approve ka

35:05but after your first

35:07after

35:08your next dates

35:10you find out

35:11you're not interested

35:12pala

35:12or that person

35:13is not interested

35:14that's why

35:14I don't want to

35:14make the pressure

35:15you added pressure

35:16to it

35:17speaking of that

35:18do you set

35:20high expectations

35:21or chill

35:22lang kayo

35:22when you

35:23date someone

35:25especially

35:25on a first date

35:26hirap na mga questions

35:27pag chips

35:27mga tayo

35:28ako

35:30sige

35:30I'll answer

35:31it first

35:32parang

35:33yung sabi ko

35:34kanina

35:35always manage

35:36expectations

35:37when it comes

35:38to

35:39first dates

35:40manage your

35:42self expectations

35:43manage also

35:44the expectations

35:45that

35:46person you're dating

35:48so

35:48it's more of

35:51not high

35:53expectations

35:53but knowing

35:54yourself

35:55what you want

35:56your intentions

35:58and probably

35:59that's

36:00a thin line

36:01between

36:02having high

36:03expectations

36:04or chill lang

36:04kasi some people

36:05may think na

36:06when you define

36:08what you want

36:09they already think

36:10na high yung

36:10expectations mo

36:11but it's not

36:12sometimes it's just

36:13the bare minimum

36:15di ba

36:15so may

36:16may blurry

36:16part dun

36:17of

36:18knowing

36:19what you want

36:20versus

36:20you being labeled

36:22as a person

36:23with high

36:24expectations

36:24then probably

36:26you're just chill

36:27di ba

36:27ito lang talaga

36:28yung gusto ko

36:28ito yung alam ko

36:29so

36:30probably those are

36:31the non-negotiables

36:32na

36:32you have

36:34and

36:35it's fine

36:37di ba

36:38ako naman kasi

36:39ako opposite

36:40I'm the opposite

36:41of you

36:42I think

36:42high expectations

36:43are okay

36:44with the caveat

36:45that

36:46you know

36:47you expect high

36:48but you also

36:49are ready

36:50to be disappointed

36:51yeah

36:52it's a first date

36:54I think both of you

36:54should be putting

36:55your best foot forward

36:56you expect high

36:57so you give also

36:58your best

36:59you also give

37:01what you sort of expect

37:02you can't expect

37:03ako

37:03in a date

37:04it's a dance

37:05right

37:05you can't expect

37:06them to lead

37:07the whole time

37:08and then be like

37:09oh it was disappointing

37:10so

37:11I think

37:12high expectations

37:13but you set

37:14those expectations

37:14also

37:15now if it doesn't

37:15work out

37:16that's fine

37:16it's really

37:18a lot about it

37:20is really just

37:21managing your

37:22expectations

37:22you don't want to

37:23set yourself up

37:24for failure

37:25it's still

37:26the first few

37:26dates

37:27you're

37:27learning how

37:28you actually

37:29are with the

37:29person

37:30and

37:30aside from

37:31figuring out

37:32what this

37:33person likes

37:34you're

37:34in a journey

37:35yourself

37:36you're trying

37:37to figure out

37:37who you are

37:38in the

37:41relationship

37:42so

37:43I think

37:44chill

37:45but

37:46of course

37:46manage your

37:47expectations

37:48yeah

37:48well

37:51same for me

37:52chill

37:52I don't know

37:53I don't know

37:53it's more than chill

37:54like

37:56yeah

37:57sure

37:58why

38:01because

38:02you know

38:03if you're

38:04chill

38:04you

38:05felt

38:06the peace

38:07in that

38:08date

38:08kasi

38:09medyo

38:10as I grow

38:12older

38:12as I

38:13become more

38:13mature

38:14paano mas

38:15hinahanap ko

38:15na lang

38:16yung peace

38:16I'm not

38:17sure

38:17if

38:18being chill

38:19is also

38:20like

38:21low

38:22maintenance

38:22or

38:23yeah

38:24low

38:24expectation

38:25kasi

38:26the more

38:26you expect

38:27the more

38:28things

38:28might

38:29not end up

38:30according to

38:32your plan

38:32kasi

38:33like

38:33mamaya

38:34in anxiety

38:35kakabahan

38:37ka na

38:37kasi

38:37sobrang

38:38taas

38:38ang

38:38expectation

38:38mo

38:39just

38:39go

38:39with

38:39the

38:40flow

38:40so

38:40after

38:40everything

38:41man

38:41my

38:41question

38:42is

38:42what are

38:42your

38:42tips

38:43for

38:43first

38:44dates

38:45I mean

38:45we've all

38:46gone on it

38:47I assume

38:48what are your

38:49tips for

38:50any first

38:51date

38:51I recently

38:52had this

38:54conversation

38:54with a

38:55friend

38:55last

38:55night

38:55always

38:57have

38:58multiple

38:59payment

38:59options

39:00available

39:00because

39:01you don't

39:04want to be

39:04at the

39:04end

39:04of a

39:05first

39:05date

39:05and

39:06suddenly

39:06we don't

39:07have

39:07gcash

39:09or

39:09sir

39:10we don't

39:10have

39:10the

39:10terminal

39:11always

39:11bring

39:12cash

39:12you don't

39:14want to be

39:14on the

39:15receiving

39:15end

39:15of the

39:16god forbid

39:16decline

39:16your

39:17card

39:17right

39:17you need

39:19three

39:19steps

39:20you have

39:20card

39:21you have

39:21QR

39:21ready

39:22and

39:22you

39:22have

39:22cash

39:22on

39:23hand

39:23and

39:24always

39:24have

39:24cash

39:25enough

39:26to pay

39:26for

39:26the

39:27both

39:27of

39:28you

39:28need

39:29responsible

39:30dude

39:30what are

39:32your

39:32tips

39:33well

39:34I have

39:34a better

39:35one

39:35I have

39:36another

39:36one

39:37to

39:38all

39:39genz's

39:39out

39:40there

39:40I know

39:41you're

39:41listening

39:41on your

39:42first

39:43date

39:43don't

39:44make

39:45cell

39:45phone

39:45stop

39:47using

39:47your

39:48cell

39:48phone

39:48on

39:49our

39:49first

39:49date

39:49right

39:50if

39:51you

39:51put it

39:53away

39:53the

39:54girl

39:55talking

39:56to

39:56you

39:56and

39:56then

39:56you're

39:56like

39:57yeah

39:58what

39:58it doesn't

40:01show

40:01respect

40:01I mean

40:03that doesn't

40:03apply to

40:04just

40:04genz's

40:04everyone

40:05man

40:05don't

40:06yeah

40:06not only

40:06genz's

40:08yeah

40:08even

40:10other

40:10right

40:11now

40:12in this

40:13generation

40:13we're

40:14too

40:14much

40:14we use

40:15our

40:16phones

40:16too

40:16much

40:17like

40:18we don't

40:18enjoy

40:18the

40:19present

40:20anymore

40:20because

40:21we're

40:22so

40:22we're

40:23so

40:23we're

40:24so

40:24we're

40:25so

40:25we're

40:25so

40:25we're

40:26so

40:26we're

40:26with

40:26friends

40:27we never

40:28enjoy

40:28our

40:29quality

40:30time

40:30already

40:31by the

40:31way

40:31quality

40:32time

40:32is

40:32my

40:32love

40:33language

40:33share

40:34ko

40:34yeah

40:35well

40:36first

40:36date

40:37is

40:37considered

40:37as

40:38quality

40:38time

40:39na

40:39nin

40:39diba

40:39I

40:40want

40:40every

40:41quality

40:42time

40:42to be

40:43memorable

40:43you can

40:44use it

40:45when

40:45for

40:45emergencies

40:46or like

40:47take a

40:48picture

40:49yeah

40:50tips for

40:53first

40:53dates

40:54be

40:55intentional

40:55like

40:57let's

40:57not waste

41:02time

41:02I

41:03mean

41:04if

41:04you know

41:05your

41:05intentions

41:06you position

41:06yourself

41:07where

41:07you are

41:08what

41:08kind

41:08of

41:08date

41:09do

41:09you

41:09want

41:09what

41:10kind

41:10of

41:10relationship

41:11that

41:11you

41:12want

41:12then

41:13you

41:13can

41:13spend

41:13your

41:14time

41:14efficiently

41:15yeah

41:16kung gusto

41:17mo na

41:17chill

41:18date lang

41:18or

41:19you

41:19wanted

41:19to

41:19be

41:21in a

41:21relationship

41:22or

41:22probably

41:22eventually

41:23settle

41:23down

41:24if

41:24you'll

41:25be

41:25able

41:25to

41:25address

41:26those

41:26things

41:26then

41:27may enjoy

41:29yung

41:30phase

41:31ng

41:31life

41:31when

41:31you're

41:31dating

41:32different

41:33people

41:34and

41:34learn

41:35always

41:35learn

41:36about

41:37yourself

41:38and also

41:39the people

41:40that you

41:40meet

41:40because

41:41dating

41:43will lead

41:43you to

41:44the right

41:44person

41:44eventually

41:45and

41:46I

41:46think

41:46that's

41:47the

41:47beauty

41:47of it

41:48lastly

41:49you should

41:52be secure

41:53about

41:53yourself

41:53when

41:54you

41:54enter

41:55dating

41:57I

41:57mean

41:57hindi

41:57ko

41:58naman

41:58sinasabi

41:58na

41:58dapat

41:59100%

42:00secure

42:01ka

42:01but

42:01like

42:01majority

42:02of

42:02yourself

42:02you

42:03know

42:03already

42:03so

42:04that

42:04you'll

42:06be

42:06able

42:06to

42:07lead

42:08you'll

42:10be

42:10also

42:11able

42:12to

42:12say

42:15the

42:15right

42:16words

42:16and

42:17eventually

42:19find

42:19happiness

42:20out

42:21of

42:21it

42:22how do

42:23I

42:23follow

42:23that

42:24up

42:24the

42:26tried

42:31and

42:31true

42:31tip

42:32of

42:32just

42:32be

42:33yourself

42:33right

42:33I

42:33mean

42:34your

42:34date

42:35is

42:35not

42:35dating

42:36anyone

42:37else

42:37she

42:37or

42:38he

42:39is

42:39there

42:39for

42:39you

42:40right

42:40that's

42:41very

42:42important

42:42to

42:42me

42:42because

42:43ideally

42:43when

42:44you

42:44go

42:44on

42:44a

42:44date

42:44with

42:44someone

42:45it's

42:45something

42:46that

42:46you

42:46want

42:46to

42:46do

42:46again

42:48right

42:48I

42:48mean

42:48especially

42:49if

42:49it

42:50goes

42:50well

42:50right

42:51and

42:51you

42:51don't

42:51want

42:52to

42:52I

42:53wouldn't

42:54want

42:54to

42:54have

42:55to

42:55keep

42:56up

42:56and

42:56act

42:56for

42:57the

42:57rest

42:58of

42:58my

42:58life

42:58so

42:59first

42:59date

42:59just

43:00be

43:00yourself

43:00enjoy

43:01yourself

43:01you

43:02know

43:02it's

43:03kind

43:04of

43:04nerve

43:04wracking

43:04but

43:04enjoy

43:05the

43:06date

43:06enjoy

43:07the

43:07dinner

43:07hopefully

43:09the

43:09vibes

43:10go

43:10well

43:10man

43:10and

43:11laugh

43:11have

43:12fun

43:13relax

43:22have

43:22fun

43:23that's

43:23what I'm

43:24saying

43:24canina

43:24you should be

43:26at least

43:27sure of

43:27yourself

43:27when you

43:28enter that

43:30phase

43:30you're

43:31dating

43:31because

43:31if

43:32you're

43:32not

43:32sure

43:33the

43:33whole

43:33time

43:33you're

43:34just

43:34stiff

43:34like

43:34that

43:35and

43:35you're

43:36asking

43:36if you're

43:36not

43:36able to

43:37answer

43:37questions

43:39so

43:39it's

43:41really

43:41like

43:41being

43:42prepared

43:43and

43:44also

43:44it's

43:44not

43:44just

43:44about

43:45you

43:46it's

43:46also

43:46about

43:46the

43:46other

43:47person

43:47learning

43:47them

43:48don't

43:50have

43:51monologue

43:52what's

43:53the

43:53point

43:53learn

43:55about

43:55them

43:55what

43:56are

43:57they

43:57like

43:57get

43:57the

43:57vibe

43:58check

43:59out

43:59their

43:59interests

44:00try

44:00to get

44:01to know

44:01the

44:01person

44:01I

44:02think

44:02that's

44:02something

44:02that

44:03people

44:03forget

44:04because

44:05like

44:06with

44:06online

44:06dating

44:06it's

44:07all

44:07transactional

44:07you

44:08have

44:08your

44:08set

44:09questions

44:09but

44:10if

44:11you're

44:13organically

44:14chasing

44:14for this

44:15person

44:15or

44:15being

44:16very

44:17vocal

44:18about

44:19what

44:19you

44:19like

44:19I

44:20think

44:20a lot

44:21of

44:21it

44:21lends

44:21from

44:21what

44:22Kyle

44:22said

44:23about

44:23being

44:24secure

44:24about

44:24yourself

44:25then

44:25you

44:26know

44:26what

44:26you

44:26want

44:26you

44:27know

44:27what

44:27you're

44:27looking

44:28for

44:28in

44:28this

44:28relationship

44:29we'd

44:29also

44:29like

44:30to

44:30hear

44:30your

44:30takes

44:30down

44:31in

44:31the

44:31comment

44:31section

44:32below

44:32and

44:32that's

44:32it

44:33for

44:33today's

44:33episode

44:34we

44:34hope

44:34you

44:34guys

44:34had

44:35as

44:35much

44:35fun

44:35as

44:36we

44:36did

44:36talking

44:36about

44:37the

44:37highs

44:37and

44:37lows

44:38and

44:38WTF

44:39moments

44:39of

44:39the

44:39first

44:40dates

44:40but

44:41that's

44:41it

44:41for

44:41our

44:41episode

44:41thank

44:42you

44:42pepsters

44:43bye

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