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00:00I
00:14I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country
00:21Everyone thinks is our holiday romance, but he's so hot. I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love
00:30In the Gambia it feels romantic when I'm in England then reality hits me
00:37What the this go I?
00:41Don't know how to show affection way that you want
00:45We need to go to go
00:49I'm an evil genius
00:51No more are anymore something you will come back. I know pronounce you husband and wife
01:01We are now married
01:04It's just a dream come true for me. I
01:07Don't think our family will accept to you. You're not convincing us
01:12She would like you to go back with your ex
01:16You don't have to worry about my ex. I'd like to talk to Eloise and explain. This is how I feel
01:22I don't want you to talk to her
01:26I'm in Albania. I'm so happy that Adnan is acting warmly towards me
01:32Our first night together was amazing. Good morning my love
01:37one thing less to
01:40another one
01:42Hopefully a proposal is on the horizon
01:46I love you so much, so I want you to be my wife
01:52Will you marry me?
02:12Ibrahim's down on one knee and he's asking me to marry him. It's a lot to take in
02:30Yes
02:32I will
02:34Yes, I will
02:36Yes, yes
02:38Oh
02:40Oh
02:42Ibrahim, that was my surprise
02:44Thank you for accepting
02:46You're very welcome
02:48I'm the happiest man
02:50Zena is going to marry me
02:52I'm your fiance now
02:54Yeah, of course
02:56Yeah, I really love it. Thank you so much. I'm very happy for you. Thank you so much. That's really really kind and lovely
03:05Lovely. Thank you. I'm engaged and I love the ring. I really love it and I'm
03:11Overwhelmed with love from Ibrahim
03:13I'm very happy
03:15That's my happiest day ever
03:17Is it? Oh, I'm fine. I'm lost for words at the moment
03:21Okay
03:22Once I get over the shop and I sit down
03:24Okay, you know I'll come to it. I love you so much Ibrahim
03:28Are you of you too?
03:29Good
03:30From my heart, okay
03:34Let me take you to the next part of your surprise. It's this way
03:43Ibrahim's got another surprise for me and I'm very excited
03:53Welcome man
03:55I have to be a hundred percent sure
03:57That he's not just wanting to marry me to get out of the Gambia
04:01Because he thinks he might have a better life in England
04:04In England
04:05Babe, today I'm very very happy as you accept my proposal
04:11I love you so much
04:12Oh, that's really nice
04:14What do you expect for the future?
04:18I want to marry with you in the UK
04:24And where would you prefer to live?
04:27I prefer in the UK, yeah
04:29In your house they can do it there
04:36What would you do if you eventually came to the UK?
04:40From there I can have any job there then
04:44Very good
04:48The more he's talking about the UK, the more I'm getting worried
04:51Just because Ibrahim wants to get to the UK
04:54Doesn't mean that he doesn't love me
04:56I don't know
04:57Oh, thank you
04:58Thank you, all right
04:59Oh, I say
05:00That looks lovely
05:02Yeah, thank you
05:03All right, enjoy your dinner
05:04We will
05:05Thank you
05:06This is nice, this is our engagement meal
05:08The nicest one
05:10So when are you going to tell your family?
05:13I'm dreading it
05:18Okay
05:19Because they're not going to like it
05:22Hey, why not?
05:24They're worried
05:26That you are only wanting to marry me
05:28To get to the UK
05:32I don't mind anywhere, Gambia or the UK
05:37I'll be happy
05:39Wherever I live
05:40So you just don't want to come to the UK
05:43You'd be quite happy if I stayed in the Gambia
05:47You don't mind?
05:48Of course I don't mind, yeah
05:50Oh, that's really lovely
05:54Initially Ibrahim said he'd like to move to the UK
05:57But now he's changed his tune a bit
06:00I don't really know what Ibrahim really wants
06:03If you stay in Gambia having more time with my family
06:06I'll be very happy
06:07Yeah, it'd be good for you
06:08Yeah, of course
06:09Yeah
06:10Alright, give me a little kiss, babe
06:11Okay
06:12Mmm
06:15I don't really think he's a con man
06:17Or anything like that
06:19But my mind's all over the place at the moment
06:22I'm having a lot of reservations about the engagement, the marriage
06:26And I'm going to sleep on it and see how I feel in the morning
06:32Thank you so much
06:33You're welcome
06:34You're welcome, you're welcome
06:35Oh, cool, that's lovely
06:36That's lovely
06:53Me and Adnan were having such a great time in Albania
06:56People were flirting with each other
06:58Things were going in the right direction
07:01But we had an argument, so I've left
07:08I just need some time to reflect and get my head around things
07:11So I've booked myself in a hotel to get some space
07:14Hey, babe
07:15Hey, how are you, babes?
07:16I'm good, thank you
07:17How are you?
07:18Oh, not so good at the moment
07:32Oh
07:34Where do I start?
07:35We were having a great day today
07:37We went out
07:38We were driving back home
07:40And I saw this hospital
07:42I said to him, Adnan
07:43Oh, did you see that guy?
07:44He had a hair transplant
07:46The taxi driver said
07:47Oh, yeah, I had one done
07:49I'm like, I know someone that wants to get it done
07:52So I took the cab driver's number
07:54I messaged him, said hi
07:55This is Shauna
07:56When I get back, he started acting a bit agitated
08:00He says to me, oh, you didn't ask my permission
08:02If you could take his number
08:06I took his number right in front of you
08:08I haven't got anything to hide
08:09So I said to him, listen
08:10I do apologise if you felt that disrespectful
08:13Maybe it's like a culture difference
08:15He says to me, oh, I don't want to hear it
08:17Fuck off
08:19Yeah
08:20He says to me, you can go and do whatever you want with this guy now
08:23I said, he's married
08:24He's married
08:25I'm like, there's nothing intentional
08:27So what is up with him?
08:29I don't know
08:30He was just acting weird
08:32This is really wrong on so many levels
08:34Yeah, I think so
08:35I said to him, I've seen a different side to you
08:37What's wrong with you?
08:38He said, I'm stressed
08:39I'm like, if you're stressed
08:41Like, talk to me
08:42Let's have that conversation
08:43Maybe I can help you
08:45I do think this is their culture
08:47Mm-hmm
08:48Because the man is very chauvinist
08:50Yeah
08:51But I'm so sorry I had to go through this
08:53This is just not really I know
08:55It's painful
08:56But
08:57I'm all pain for us to have a conversation
09:01When he's calmed down
09:02I'm hurting, but I'll get over it
09:04I'll survive
09:05I'm so sorry
09:06Yeah, I know
09:07Me if you need me
09:08Thanks, babe
09:09I'll message you later as well
09:10All right, take care
09:11Bye
09:12Bye
09:13Bye
09:14Bye
09:15Bye
09:19He says, unavailable
09:20That's been blocked
09:21it's not going through
09:22He just messaged to say, don't call me anymore
09:27I'm a bit hurt
09:29Like someone can be so nice, loving
09:34And then, act this way
09:36He is messaging now
09:36I can offer to meet up with him
09:38he's messaging now I can offer to meet up with him and see what he says I just
09:43don't know what to think my head's all over the place
09:46Wow didn't realize something so small could cause someone to react the way
09:52they reacted we've been together for two years and I don't feel like I should
09:59give up just like that I can't it was just an innocent chat between me and the
10:04taxi driver and I don't feel like we should give up over something so silly
10:34I'm back in the UK now this time as a married man but I've had to come back without my wife
10:43Ara and I are waiting for the visa to be approved so Ara can move to the UK
10:50feels like everything's on hold we were told that the visa would take up to six weeks
10:57I got an email through just now from our immigration lawyer
11:03I haven't opened it yet I'm a little bit scared to to be honest
11:09there's no way it can be a decision yet we only put it in two weeks ago
11:15hopefully it's the case officer being assigned or yeah something like that but
11:21I don't know I hope they haven't rejected us
11:25this is all feeling very real now please find attached a decision letter for your entry clearance
11:34application
11:35this is it I'm kind of nervous but also very very skeptical whatever's in this attachment
11:43could decide what happens next in mine and Ara's relationship
11:47your application for the United Kingdom visa has been successful
11:55no way it's real
12:00Ara's going to lose her mind
12:03all the things we've talked about doing and living together and being together we can actually
12:09do now I better call Ara I better tell her the good news
12:16hi ma'am
12:17good morning I got an email through
12:19I am just at home and I saw my phone ring
12:24my heart stopped because I realized that it could be the visa
12:30what email is that um it's from the lawyer okay and it's a forwarded letter from UK immigration
12:42what does it say you've been given a visa really yeah are you joking no 100% true
12:52the visa gonna prove it I am so happy and excited
12:59this is what we're dreaming for before I can be with you forever now
13:06yep you ready to come over here
13:10I am so ready to be with you
13:13good
13:14I'm happy and I'm scared I'm gonna be leaving my family but yeah I'll be with you ma'am
13:21I better get those flights booked and come and pick you up
13:24yes book it please
13:27I feel like I'm excited because finally I'm going to see my husband again but at the same
13:33time I'm gonna be sad
13:36because Andy coming here in the Philippines means that I'll be leaving soon
13:44I think it's just become really real for her and her family like obviously me knew she
13:51was gonna move over here but she's only ever really known living in the Philippines and living with her family
13:58I think there's a lot of pressure for me to make her feel comfortable here because it's not gonna be easy for her to settle in
14:06gotta find little ways to remind her of home and make sure she feels like this is her place
14:11needs to feel like a family home
14:13so how are you feeling?
14:30how are you feeling?
14:32a little bit
14:33really?
14:34a little bit tired
14:35a little bit tired
14:36yeah
14:37today I'm taking Sandra to see my mum
14:40I'm really looking forward to today but I can't stop thinking about this barbecue that Heloisa is having
14:46it's just really on my mind
14:53today's gonna be a good day
14:55yeah
14:56definitely
14:57you're not gonna have any argument about what Missy said
15:02right?
15:03no
15:04no
15:05we're certainly not gonna have an argument about it
15:08yeah
15:09but I think I would like to call her
15:11just to air the view and say look you know what's been going on
15:15and I feel a little bit upset that you know the barbecue that you're having or had with me
15:21you're also now having with your ex
15:25Sandra's my partner and I love her
15:27but to be honest Sandra's ex he's been a massive part of her life
15:31so I'm not convinced there's nothing to worry about and that it means nothing
15:36I just think it's not the right time to call her
15:44who are you?
15:52how lovely to see you Sash
15:53good that you're on now in England to stay with Finn
15:56so I've been trying to persuade Sandra to move here
16:00Sandra does not like the UK as much as I'd hoped
16:04it's cold
16:06yes
16:07it's dark
16:08it's expensive
16:09people are rude
16:10yeah because it's some huge readjustment
16:13plus all your commitment
16:14well it's yeah
16:15she's got two kids
16:16um
16:17a boy and a girl
16:19yeah so great
16:20it's better for him to move to Brazil right?
16:22yes
16:23see?
16:24yes
16:25lots to think about first though
16:27I'm trying to work out how I'd live there
16:29so are you going to start learning Portuguese?
16:32see?
16:33your mum is in my mind
16:35yeah you can teach me
16:36right then
16:37I'm going to go and make another cup of tea
16:39I will see you in a bit
16:40we'll see you in a little
16:41the timing is right
16:44Sandra's having a nice time with my mum chatting to her
16:48so if she's talking to one of my family members
16:50maybe I could talk to one of hers
16:52I need to know if Heloisa is plotting to get Sandra back together with her ex
17:07how are you?
17:09I'm good
17:10and you?
17:11yeah not too bad
17:13I want to talk to you
17:16really?
17:17what happened?
17:18what's been happening with her ex-partner?
17:21I don't understand your question
17:23why are you asking this?
17:24so Sandra mentioned the other day
17:27that you guys were going to have a barbecue with him
17:32and it made me really sad
17:34because I then thought
17:35wow Heloisa doesn't really want me to be with Sandra
17:39I thought all of this
17:41I was talking with my husband
17:44and they met
17:46and they invited each other to have a barbecue
17:48what did you want me to do?
17:50say no to my husband?
17:53your friend
17:54and I think that you're jealous
17:56are you?
17:57not jealous, no
17:58I think it's the emotion I felt when I heard that
18:01was I felt sad
18:02and I thought
18:03wow
18:04he's still getting inside her mind
18:07getting inside her family's mind
18:09how can he not be
18:11if he's going around having barbecue at your house?
18:15he's still a big part of your whole family
18:18I'm not going to say anything about you
18:20I'm not going to say anything about you
18:22what this feels like
18:25is
18:27Heloisa's sabotaging our relationship
18:33do you want Sandra and him to get back together?
18:39I don't want her to go back to him
18:41definitely not
18:42because she says she loves you
18:44but
18:45you are not going to get married with my sister
18:49wow
18:50because I doubt a lot
18:52if you're coming to Brazil
18:54really?
18:55I don't think you're going to leave your country
18:57and come here
18:58to live here
19:02I don't believe it
19:03I don't think you're doing anything
19:09well
19:13the proof is in the pudding
19:15and I'm a spotted dick
19:19how are you doing?
19:20we ate all our lunch
19:21hi
19:22hi
19:23I just called your sister
19:28why did you call her?
19:29er
19:30I just wanted to have a conversation with her about
19:33but we talk about this
19:35yeah
19:36and I thought it was
19:37you're not ready
19:38no
19:39but it was on my mind
19:40and I thought the time was right
19:41why did you phone?
19:43she is having a barbecue with Sandra's ex-partner
19:47and I wanted to understand why
19:49it's quite upsetting
19:50because if the shoe was on the other foot
19:52and you were having some wine and cheese with my ex-partner
19:56Sandra might feel betrayed is the word I'd use
20:03and that's quite a strong word
20:04and it's not a word I was comfortable saying to your sister
20:07and I didn't say that
20:08I just said I felt hurt
20:10but why?
20:11this is going to change something for you?
20:13and I did ask her
20:14do you want them to get back together?
20:16and she said no
20:17yeah
20:18I told you meet on time
20:19but she still has doubts about our relationship
20:21and I'm going to prove her wrong
20:23that was not the right time to talk to my sister
20:29can we move on?
20:30you're not going to talk about this anymore?
20:31no because it's resolved in my mind
20:33it's all finished
20:34I think she'll see
20:35I've said
20:36and now I just need to show
20:53it's all finished
20:54today's my last day
21:08and Ibrahim proposed to me last night
21:10and I did say yes
21:11but really I do have a lot of reservations about the engagement
21:16oh that's it
21:18lovely
21:19and before I go home
21:21I do need to be honest with him
21:23I can't believe it
21:26the last day
21:27it's gone by in a flash
21:29I hate this day man
21:31I hate this day as well
21:33I really do
21:34fish and chips?
21:36yes please
21:37ladies first?
21:38yes of course
21:39lovely
21:40yeah thank you brother
21:42enjoy Niamila
21:43the last supper
21:45I hope to see you very soon now
21:50yeah I hope so
21:52I really need to tell Ibrahim about how I'm feeling
21:59it's only fair to be honest with him
22:02I don't want you to take it the wrong way
22:06or be upset but
22:10I've been thinking overnight
22:12about the worries that I have
22:14about our engagement
22:18I know we're engaged
22:20but
22:22I don't know
22:24if I can commit to marriage
22:30there's a lot of things stacked against it
22:33at this moment in time
22:34like
22:35the suspicions that I had about you
22:37when I thought your sister was your wife
22:40then your nephew was your child
22:42I'm not happy about all
22:45what's happened
22:46no
22:47these things go over in my mind
22:52I still love you
22:54but it's very very difficult for me
22:56and I can't commit
22:58when I have nagging feelings in my mind
23:01you look upset are you?
23:05yeah of course I look upset man
23:11yesterday I was the happiest man but
23:14things are going from backwards now
23:19Ibrahim, hold my hand
23:23it's not a no
23:25but I'm going to go home
23:26and speak to my family
23:28and see what my family have to say
23:30about the whole situation
23:32I understand you
23:34I have to
23:36explain to the family
23:37and see what they're going to say
23:38so
23:40I'm upset but
23:42I already love you
23:43so you are already on my heart
23:45so
23:47I can go back
23:49I don't know what's going to happen
23:51when I hop on
23:53oh
23:55I think I better go now
23:56and start packing
23:58oh
24:00alright
24:01see you back in the room
24:02see you now
24:03now
24:04I'm
24:07you
24:08I'm
24:10I'm
24:11you
24:13I'm
24:15you
24:17I'm
24:18I'm
24:19you
24:20you
24:21I'm
24:22you
24:23I'm
24:24you
24:25you
24:26you
24:27I decided I'm going to meet Adnan.
24:44Maybe if we meet each other, we can get things back on track.
24:54Thanks for coming.
24:55You won't see it.
25:02I come all this way and I have to see it through.
25:05I'm going to give it one more push and try and talk through what happened.
25:10Are you okay?
25:12I'm good.
25:15That's good.
25:18You have something to say.
25:21Okay.
25:24Just to recap.
25:26Yesterday, when I exchanged numbers with the driver, I was up with my friend back in the UK.
25:34He wanted a transplant.
25:35And I said, I will give you my number and then he can get in contact and they can chat.
25:43We left the band.
25:44We left the band.
25:45You became upset.
25:46Yes.
25:47Shouting.
25:48Telling me to F off.
25:51Because I didn't ask you permission.
25:52Everything was going great, but something happened that I can't accept.
26:00It made me realize we are not for each other.
26:03This conversation here is not a conversation where it's going to be agitated.
26:09So I appreciate you to be a bit more mindful in the way you're speaking to me.
26:14You know, Adnan, I think that's very disrespectful because I've been in your life for two years.
26:31We have ups and downs.
26:35Go.
26:36Girl, you can't tell me to go.
26:37Go.
26:39The fact that there's no consideration, there's no love, there's no sympathy shows me that this relationship is done.
26:47You can hate me, but there is a way that you can speak to someone without being disrespectful because I don't wish you bad.
26:56I always wish you well, but the relationship has run its course.
27:01You go your way and I go my way.
27:04At the end of the day, Adnan, I'm here just for us to part amicably.
27:08It's not to get back together.
27:10That ship has sailed.
27:11We both understand.
27:12You do your wish, but you can't.
27:15I don't want to be with you, Adnan.
27:16Are you listening to me?
27:17Are you wish?
27:18Are you listening to me?
27:20It's your wish.
27:21Don't dream.
27:23Are you listening to me?
27:23Don't dream.
27:24Please.
27:27Comprehend and listen.
27:29The ship has sailed.
27:30Do you know the meaning?
27:32Ship, sail, gone, gone, bye-bye.
27:36It's over between us.
27:37I catch a fish in the sea.
27:40I catch a fish in the sea.
27:42You understand?
27:42I was fishing in the sea.
27:48So is this your anger coming out then?
27:50I was fishing in the sea.
27:51I was fishing.
27:52You caught a fish and what happened?
27:54Just no substance to you.
27:55Is that it?
27:56I'm so happy that I've seen this side to you because I've been living into a bubble.
28:03And that bubble is hot.
28:08And I've seen the real Adnan.
28:12The one that fake pretends.
28:16You're a user.
28:18You pretend that...
28:20What I use you?
28:22For what I use you?
28:23You're a liar.
28:25You are a narcissist.
28:27For what I use you?
28:28And you're so immature.
28:30Don't whistle at me.
28:32I'm not a cat or a dog.
28:33Anaconda.
28:34How am I a snake?
28:36A snake goes behind your back and take his number without you knowing.
28:41There you go whistling.
28:42Is that the way the Albanian men treat the women in Albania?
28:47He's so immature.
28:49This is a revelation.
28:51I'm seeing the true Adnan and I don't like it one bit.
28:55To be fair, I'm always a bigger person, so I'll give you a hug, Adnan.
29:01We can part ways on a hug.
29:03I don't want a fake hug.
29:06Fake?
29:07Adnan, why do you call me fake?
29:09Am I fake?
29:10I can't talk anymore.
29:13You are fake.
29:16You are fake.
29:19I am done.
29:21No.
29:24See you, little boy.
29:25Have a great life.
29:26You deserve it.
29:28What's fake?
29:34There's no consideration.
29:36There's no love.
29:38So I can't be with someone like that.
29:40I can't.
29:45Fake.
29:46He's calling it fake.
29:51Say goodbye to the skimpy bikini top.
30:11Until next time when it comes back.
30:13I'm just packing to go home and I'm feeling really sad to be leaving the Gambia because
30:20it's so lovely and I'm going to have to be leaving Ibrahim, but I have to go sometime.
30:26Passport, money, I think that's about done now.
30:33My head is just, I want to know what my family are going to say when I tell them that Ibrahim
30:39wants to marry me.
30:40My England coat.
30:45Look, this is what I'll look like when I get to the airport.
30:50I should have got a scar, really.
30:54Horrible England cold weather.
30:57I have a message for you about your family.
31:01So when you go, you have to try to convince them.
31:05They can accept our marriage, ma'am.
31:09Mm-hmm.
31:10I have to talk to them and...
31:11I will, I promise.
31:13In a couple of days, once I'm home settled and I'm counting all the icicles on the window
31:17and then I'll go out and then I'll go to my family and see them.
31:20Shall we head off?
31:27Yeah.
31:27Yes.
31:28It's very, very difficult to say goodbye to someone you love.
31:40Come, bud.
31:41You all right?
31:42Yeah.
31:44You don't know when she will be coming back.
31:48Oh, Ibrahim, the end is nigh.
32:04It's time to go.
32:06I don't know what the future holds, but I'm going to speak to my family.
32:09Okay.
32:09I don't want you to be upset because it's not the end.
32:13No.
32:13It could be the beginning.
32:15Don't be upset.
32:15Okay.
32:16Greet everyone for me.
32:17Love you.
32:18Love you, babe.
32:19Love you.
32:20I'll FaceTime you when I get in.
32:22Okay.
32:23Bye.
32:23Okay.
32:24Bye.
32:28I'm hoping for Xena to call me as soon as possible to tell me that her family agreed to be married.
32:37I'll be the happiest man on earth.
32:46I always get emotional when I say goodbye to Ibrahim because I just love him so much.
32:54But there's been a lot of ups and downs on this trip and I need to get home and think about it and make a decision on what the future holds.
33:07I'm back in the Philippines, but this time when I go home, Ara's going to be with me and that feels amazing.
33:23Okay.
33:23So, we're going to the cemetery today to see my dead relatives.
33:27You're going to see the tomb of my grandmom as well as my uncle.
33:31On Halloween?
33:32Yeah.
33:33Spooky.
33:33It's all souls day, Mahal.
33:35Of course.
33:35It's very important to Ara that I take part in her cultural traditions.
33:40She's made it very clear from the start.
33:42And I'm kind of enjoying it.
33:44It's so different from what we do in the UK.
33:46We're going to sleep there.
33:49In a cemetery?
33:50Yes.
33:51Ara has just told me that we're spending the night in the family mausoleum.
33:57It's a bit weird.
33:58All Souls Day is kind of the Filipino equivalent of Halloween or like the Day of the Dead.
34:09It's a day where they go to the cemetery and celebrate their dead relatives.
34:24Wait, this isn't the...
34:25Yeah, this is the mausoleum.
34:27Andy looks quite surprised because we do have a big resting place for the dead ones in our mausoleum.
34:35But it's normal here in the Philippines.
34:39It's a house.
34:40I told you in the first floor there are all graves on the second floor that this is where we sleep usually.
34:46At least the dead get their own floor.
34:47That's reassuring.
34:49Okay, this is not what we get in the UK.
34:50This place has blown my mind.
34:55When Ara said we were going to go to the cemetery to spend the night in the cemetery, I was expecting gravestones.
35:01You know, like creepy, like, Adam's family stuff with, like, the fog rolling in.
35:04It's like a little festival here.
35:06It's about a celebration of life, not a celebration of death.
35:09It's kind of beautiful.
35:10It's kind of made me realize I need to make more of a conscious effort with my family when I get home.
35:14You just kind of get caught up in everyday life.
35:16Now I'm bringing Ara back.
35:17I know she's going to want to have some kind of family around her.
35:20And if it's not her family, then it should be mine.
35:26It's a good thing that you witness our tradition.
35:31Now that you're getting my daughter away from me.
35:35Oh, you're making me feel guilty now, don't you?
35:37I'm going to miss her.
35:38So, I'm asking, what is your plan?
35:42I think my mom will going to ask Andy about starting a family.
35:49Give me my grandchild.
35:54I don't have two minutes to eat my food, and I'm already getting grilled about having kids.
35:59It's a lot of pressure for me.
36:01And little me.
36:04Yeah, I mean, hopefully we're going to start a family at some point when we get back, right?
36:08Yeah.
36:08We are planning to have kids.
36:10Like, we're planning to have a basketball team.
36:14You're going to do that?
36:16Yeah.
36:16I am joking.
36:19I love teasing my mom about having grandchildren.
36:23And I know she loves it.
36:25When I move to the UK, I hope Andy and I are going to build a spicy hot Asian kids.
36:30That's the biggest responsibility of a wife, to annoy a husband, right?
36:35And you do so well at it.
36:38I'm going to miss this kind of celebration we're in.
36:42Andy will not be having a good life if he's going to stay here in the Philippines.
36:47You need to separate yourself from your family to build your own.
36:51This is the life that I chose.
36:57So if I like it or not, I'll be staying in the UK to be with Andy.
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37:51I tried to stop my tears. I don't want to cry.
37:55I'm going to North Pole, that's why I'm wearing pants.
37:59North Pole.
38:01Bye, Cuyandi.
38:03Bye, little sis.
38:04I cried three times in my life.
38:06One, two, three.
38:08And one of them is leaving my family at the airport.
38:12It's hard. It's really, really hard for me to leave my family behind.
38:24She's crying a lot. She's very emotional.
38:27Bye-bye, Mama.
38:29I don't think I've seen her like this since the wedding.
38:32And it's kind of hit home for me how much I'm asking her to do.
38:42Oh, Lord, thank you for having my best day here for me to discuss my worries and my problems.
39:03Oh, Lord, thank you for having my best day here for me to discuss my worries and my problems.
39:11I'm back in the UK and it's really hard for me to move on from what has happened in Albania.
39:17At least I can turn to my church sister Bea.
39:20How were you doing?
39:21It's just love highs and lows.
39:24It's enough now and it's come to an end.
39:27I'm sure there is a lot of heartache.
39:29I had it all planned out. Are you going to get married? He's going to come to the UK.
39:32I was adamant that he was the one.
39:35So I wanted to do anything to keep that relationship going.
39:38So there was a time where I struggled.
39:40Should I stick with my face? Should I stick with him?
39:42Yes, exactly.
39:43It's not easy.
39:45I think if Adnan really truly loved me, he would have made an effort to resolve the situation.
39:51And I don't think that the love was there in the first place.
39:54It was easy for him to just walk away.
39:56I haven't got no regrets going to Albania. I've got closure.
40:01I said to myself, why did you not spot this? Why didn't you see the red flags?
40:05Don't be too hot on yourself.
40:07I know, but it's so difficult.
40:09My friends always had a problem with Adnan.
40:12And my daughter think that it was a holiday romance from the start.
40:15But I wanted to prove everyone wrong.
40:17So maybe this one was for you to just enjoy a little bit of fun.
40:22Maybe not too much.
40:23Maybe not too much.
40:25Maybe not too much.
40:26Yeah.
40:27I'm glad she is okay.
40:28I think that's the main, main important thing is that she's okay.
40:32Greatest thing that I've taken away is I have to find someone that's like-minded like myself.
40:38Someone that's in the church.
40:39Someone that understands my faith.
40:42Someone can relate to me.
40:43And guess what?
40:44I know you told me about the church dating app.
40:46I'm on it.
40:47Yes.
40:48Yes.
40:49I'm on the dating app.
40:50I'm not ready.
40:51But I've learned my lesson.
40:52I will never, ever, ever date a 25-year-old again.
41:07No more toy boys for me from now on.
41:11At least I've got one person that would never let me down, and that is God.
41:17Amen.
41:38Last night, after we got home, we have a huge argument.
41:44I want to call with Luisa and tell her what happened.
41:51Hello, Luisa.
41:53Hi.
41:54Hi.
41:55How's everything?
41:57Ah, here is amazing, as always.
42:01What about you?
42:03What about you?
42:04Ah.
42:05So, last night when we got home from Finn's mom's, we have a huge argument.
42:16Because I didn't like that he called you without saying anything to me.
42:22And right now we're not talking.
42:25And he went to work.
42:28I'm really sad.
42:29He is so obsessed with my ex.
42:32And I really don't know why.
42:35Since the beginning of your relationship, I saw him very incompetent with your ex.
42:43If you cannot try to solve this problem, I think you're not going to be together.
42:48You should come back here and stay here, you know?
42:52Break half this relationship.
42:54What do you think?
42:56Yeah, maybe.
42:58Right now I just want to fly to Brazil.
43:05I try a lot.
43:06I did a lot.
43:08For this relationship to work.
43:12And...
43:17And I don't know what I can do anymore.
43:26I'm sorry.
43:34Yes, I...
43:36I don't know.
43:38So today he invited me to go to the radio station where he works.
43:45Right? So I'm going to meet him there.
43:47You're listening to Asian Star.
43:54It's Finn with you on your drive home.
43:56Coming up to 10 to 5.
43:58I'm talking about bucket lists in the final hour.
44:00Sandra and I had a massive argument last night.
44:03But I've got a plan to make things better.
44:06I'm going to let you in on something.
44:08I've got a big surprise for you in the final hour of today's show.
44:11I'm going to propose to my long-distance girlfriend live on air.
44:14So stay tuned for that.
44:15Asian Star, see you soon.
44:18Right, so that's done.
44:20Out to the listeners.
44:21Done and dusted.
44:22I'm nervous about it.
44:23A lot could go wrong.
44:24But I think a lot could go right.
44:26There's chaos underneath.
44:27There's chaos inside.
44:29But on the outside, I'm swimming like a swan.
44:32There's never a place to do it in my head.
44:34It's right here.
44:35The great Michael Jackson said that the only place that he felt comfortable was on the stage.
44:40And I can relate to a little bit of that.
44:45I hope he thought about our argument and he will apologise me.
44:54Come on.
44:56Come into the office.
44:57That's where all the magic happens.
45:00How are you?
45:01I'm fine.
45:02This is really weird.
45:05I'm sitting here.
45:07I listen to him making radio show.
45:10And for Westbound, Junction 8, Junction 10, also another broken down vehicle has caused a lane closure there.
45:16And he's acting like nothing happened.
45:18So we're talking about bucket lists.
45:21I really need something from you.
45:23Would you like to do a quick thing on the radio?
45:27He wants me to speak on live radio.
45:30I really don't want to be here right now.
45:32Well, you won't have to do a lot of talking.
45:35I'll do most of the talking as I did in this relationship.
45:37But...
45:39He's asked me about my backing list.
45:42Right now, my backing list is going back to Brazil.
45:47Bucket list is what we're talking about.
45:49So what is on your bucket list?
45:51Well, mine is varied.
45:53For a while now, I've been, as you know, in a relationship with someone from afar.
45:59She's actually joining me in the studio right now.
46:05Sandra, good evening. How are you?
46:07I'm fine.
46:09Sandra, you sound nervous. You sound worried.
46:12Yes, but...
46:13Well, I'm the one that's nervous because I'm about to do something on my bucket list.
46:17Something that's probably never been done on radio before.
46:21Yeah, I'm just going to go for it.
46:25I just wanted to ask you one thing.
46:32Will you marry me?
46:35Are you sick?
46:37There it is.
46:39It's never been done before.
46:40This is live on the radio and I'm holding a ring out to my girlfriend
46:44and she's just asking me the question, are you sick?
46:47So there it is.
46:48This is a proposal ring.
46:49What's your answer?
46:51I think today was not a good day to ask that.
46:55She's looking at the ring now.
46:56Is she putting it on her finger?
46:57Because I can't reach over, which is what you should do traditionally,
47:00but I'm married to the microphone before I'm married to the actual person.
47:03What's your answer?
47:08This is awkward.
47:09This is the people of Slough.
47:14What's your answer?
47:19It's not been a show of laughs.
47:21We can't continue.
47:23I think this is over.
47:25I've just landed in the UK for the first time with Ara.
47:28What?
47:29Aw, it's cute.
47:31What's next?
47:33Yeah, we're going to try for a baby.
47:35We're obviously trying to do it as often as possible.
47:38It's just like a dead fish.
47:40What?
47:42I'm telling you that we have to decide when to get married.
47:46You really need to talk to him.
47:47I don't want you to just do things because you're trying to please someone else.
47:50So how is the Gambi then, Nan?
47:54Why do you think he wants to marry you?
47:56Because he loves me, Sij.
47:57Oh, you don't seem very happy, babe.
47:59I'm not too pleased.
48:01I've been doing a lot of thinking.
48:02Sinking.
48:32Sinking.
48:34Sinking.
48:36Sinking.
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