- 7 weeks ago
Amberlynn's feud with her aunt made it to the Oklahoma County court system when Aunt Tammie decided to file a $5,000 law suit for indebtedness claiming Amberlynn owes her money, with no specifications given and paid $219.14 for the process. She appeared on Jordy's live stream the next day to explain the filing. Tammie posted more screenshots of conversations with Mamalynn, debunking one of Amberlynn's claims. She also shows us pictures from her 2005 visit to California, the one Amberlynn says did not happen.
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00:00miss tammy how is your night going oh i'm in survival mode but i'm doing all right
00:26unfortunately our family lost my uncle i found out through facebook this morning uh which was
00:33one of the fears that i was that i had going in to destroying the relationship with my family i
00:39knew um we have actually several members that aren't doing well and so i knew it was coming
00:45but you know you're never really ready um so i'm dealing with that on top of work and the stress
00:51of the lawsuit so it's a lot but you know i'm so sorry pretty strong and i know how to push through
00:58and i'll continue pushing you know it's just life you know so it's a little rough day um but i don't
01:06know how much time i have right now so i'll get right to the point of what i know everyone's
01:10interested in knowing i know it's already been shared that i did file and i did um went as soon
01:17as i could tuesday uh after the holiday uh because of course i knew i was going to be leaving town
01:22again for another five days so i didn't want it to you know sit and simmer have a chance of somebody
01:28calling and manipulating or you know just doing everything that you know you would imagine that
01:34they may do um so i just wanted to move forward because i have no fear in my case it's very cut and
01:41try um talk about receipts you know i got some receipts you know it's just it's really crazy to
01:47me it's very hurtful uh i mean even after i've heard everything about amber i'm still a little
01:54bit shocked that she said such a thing that is such a horrible accusation um and every time i hear the
02:01video over and over it's just crazy to say you know i just heard this five minutes ago but i'm gonna
02:08go online and blast my aunt as if it's true you know just i can't wrap my head around that that
02:15behavior but you know the more i see you know the more i realize and the clarity is definitely coming
02:21um so the next uh form of question i've seen a lot is why why smalls claims court and not the bigger
02:29court and that was a tough decision for me a little bit uh because according to my uh legal advice
02:36i definitely had a bigger case um but as we know it is a it's a big fight it takes a lot of money to
02:43fight it even though i stand pretty firm that i would have won hands down no problem whatsoever
02:49um i'm i'm going for quality of life right now you know and i just don't want to be tied into that
02:55for a long time um and then also i had to be honest with myself what is what is my intentions for
03:02doing this well of course i want the record set straight so that's first and foremost a public
03:08apology obviously but you can never you can't remove even if she removes her her video all the
03:16reactions all the commentary it's on there for life yeah she needs to understand that that could
03:21damage me in my future i i stand on faith and i say um anyone that knows me for me gets even
03:32any time with me they would know that it's not you know factual or um you know i just don't really
03:39worry worry about it long term because i mean i would just say watch your videos you know what i
03:45mean just you be the judge just watch them so i'm not but it still is a very big accusation to put
03:50somebody that it's on there forever uh so the most important thing was ownership of you know and
03:57apology um and then in small claims court the highest in oklahoma you can go is 10 000 uh other
04:06you know talk was i could have probably got upward over 50 000 easily uh just for the mental stress of
04:13it alone um because as we all know i get that crazy check that she likes to talk about it's it's also
04:21called disability for you know the ones with the brain um crazy money yeah crazy money and you know
04:28that it does make me laugh when i heard that it's so funny because i have said things like that in a
04:34funny way uh i watch a lot of crime shows i always have my whole entire life and at times i would joke
04:43and just be like man i could get away with it because i get a crazy check i've watched you know i know how to
04:49cover up crime you know i don't know if that's where it came from you know but there has been a
04:54couple references throughout the years out of my own mouth that i get a crazy check so i know where
04:59it came from but it's still just funny the way she says she gets money crazy money it's just it's funny
05:06to me yeah um and then uh the bigger picture and i had to look at it from my heart and i don't want
05:18to destroy amber financially i don't want her to be paying me you know a huge sum of money or even
05:28have because i don't think she would have it first of all well actually i don't know if you heard
05:32recently but like in her last stream from over the weekend she said that she can afford to take an
05:39entire month off that she's sitting on a pretty nice savings account yeah i doubt that i doubt that to
05:45be factual but you know i don't i don't know her bank account i can't say i do but i know what i
05:50know and based what i know she ain't got no savings she probably made some good money off of this
05:56you know and everything that's been going on currently so as long as she doesn't over shop you
06:00know she could be okay for a little bit i'm sure but does she have a nest egg to pay me a lawsuit
06:06i highly highly highly doubt that yeah so that was you know one thing money can't buy
06:14is a good heart can't buy it i either have it or you don't and i definitely empathize with you
06:23when or sympathize with you when you say that these kind of accusations stay with you even if
06:28you're cleared of it this this is attached to you forever more i mean you know people people will
06:33always think oh well you know you know blah blah blah but like remember that thing about that yeah
06:38like this type of topic it's like you know something you can't wash off completely yeah
06:43yeah it will have lasting effects but you know i just i can't stay stuck and i can't change what she
06:49did all i can do is show my proof which i will um i will win that lawsuit hands down um i have no
07:00worries whatsoever to that um it's just it's very hurtful though it's very hurtful yeah yeah
07:09and i mean you know we talked about because i mean you know obviously you know amber lynn was like
07:15hurt by the fact that you came and talked to me and you know came to youtube and everything but i mean
07:20really what were we talking about her eating too much spaghetti i mean she turned around and did a 180
07:25and was like i mean amber put the spaghetti down and then she goes oh well you know what about tammy
07:30like like uh yeah which honestly i was gonna make y'all a little video today practice some more but
07:37because of what happened this morning and uh just work stuff i just haven't had the time uh but you
07:44know all these things play in my head like on a constant play cycle you know um and so i i constantly
07:52thinking about things that she said that weren't true and like where could she even get the the
07:57background for that from you know and what really sticks out that i was gonna make the video for and
08:03it it stemmed from that spaghetti story so when i said that spaghetti story again i didn't in that
08:10moment i wasn't sharing that for everyone to run with the spaghetti story and make fun of it and blow up
08:17in the way that it did that wasn't my intention but it did come out as because that's like
08:21that is i was there when she was born she left when she was a couple months old and that's the
08:27very next thing that i got to see of amber you know and so it is a big memory that i have and so
08:36for her to say that that didn't happen i was like okay i mean i i mean i blocked stuff out i still
08:41continue to block things and suppress things and you know so i kind of get it so i was like okay maybe
08:46but when i can go on and on with other stories about my grandson's blanket or talking with my
08:52sister on the back porch or doing this they're going to visit with my grandpa blah blah blah you
08:58know when you when you're constantly manipulated uh like it really does mess with your brain to where
09:03you you start questioning your own reality and that i knew i went i'm not saying i doubted that at all
09:11but i'm like why would she not remember so when she came back on and she said something like my mom
09:18her mom and her daughter all said she didn't go so they she was saying that all of them say that i'm a
09:27liar right you'll you guys will see proof that it's 100 the true all the way from my daughter sent her
09:38father a message in november of last year that asked hey do you remember when my mom came out to
09:47california and you guys met up and i was pregnant and you gave her a blanket for the baby and he says
09:54yes and she said my son is a senior this year and he still has the blanket and there's a picture of him
10:01holding up the blanket so there's proof of that part if you do the math and how old he is
10:07the year i said i was there right but then i was like hmm i think there should be more because you
10:12know i take pictures and at the time i had a different phone so there's no text on that way
10:19too long ago you know so i was like so we found uh i don't know four or five pictures but what they
10:26call like the money maker one you know how it used to be in the in the old days when you actually
10:31took pictures and there was like a time stamp on it and a date yeah it's there it's there oh geez
10:39june 14th 2008 damn
10:43yeah so it will show once again that either amber is again lying on behalf of other people because she
10:55don't care who she drags in the mud or who she she destroys in the wake uh and is outright lying
11:02about my mom her mom and my daughter saying that that never happened or she's just outright lying
11:07again and i i choose to believe the second one if i've you know had to have a choice so it's just um
11:17it's very confusing i know what's gonna happen amber will meet somebody else or continue and i and i
11:24just misspoke i said 2008 i want to correct myself 2005 just looked at the picture um uh
11:30i my my biggest hope at this point is that she does meet somebody else and they in another state
11:36and she goes off and lives her miserable life or at least my sister still remains to have a chance
11:41because this has to be horrible for my sister and even though it won't change unfortunately me and
11:48my sister's relationship um i'm done you know i'm at the end of my road there's no making up
11:54there's no uh you know 500 chance uh you know and the same for my mom i just i can't there's
12:01there's still going to remain no contact 100 but that doesn't mean i don't still love my sister very
12:08much i'm still very proud of my sister from the person she came from to the person she is today
12:16even with the mess even with her part of the mess um i don't know if that'll ever change
12:21you know so that's just another thing i'm just gonna have to get through you know that um
12:27just that dream you know i think when i was in counseling i used to talk about it and i i think
12:33i got i got stuck um in the dream uh when you you're constantly waiting for your sister to be okay
12:40so then you can be with her and her kids and and i literally would say you know and have picnics in
12:45the park and have birthday parties together and those things that you know i do with my family
12:50i wanted that for me and my sister and her kids um everyone wants to talk about how you know some
12:56people aren't aren't lucky enough to have children i couldn't imagine one of the biggest stories i've
13:01ever experienced in my life and um my husband does not have any biological kids and so we've talked
13:09about that from time to time you know i just i can't imagine what it would feel like i'm so blessed
13:14to be able to share my kids and my grandkids with him and he has stepped up to the plate more than i
13:19can ever express um but it it's the same thing when it comes to being an aunt you know i was supposed
13:26to be an aunt and i was supposed to enjoy all those things that come with it and it's five times that
13:32that happened you know and i'm sitting here with nothing you know my my other two nephews that are
13:38you know the older ones that are still in our lives uh that are struggling really bad you know
13:44i do hear from them but it's usually when they need something you know or want to know about my
13:51sister or something like that um i don't give up on them though i just set healthy boundaries uh you
13:59could go way back on facebook all the way even till present you know i won't support your addiction
14:05but i will fully support your recovery i will be there you know and help you all the way through
14:11it and i've tried and tried and tried but at the end of the day i have two nephews that are struggling
14:17in and out of prison and out of just really bad situations and the other two were taken
14:23you know and then the and then amber was the one who it could have been you know and it just
14:31you know i think i've tried long enough and i'm just at that point where i need to accept you know
14:35the picnics in the park and the birthday parties is long gone you know it's long gone but i'm still
14:41like trying to fill that void i think so some people right you know think oh gosh she's so obsessed
14:49with amber it's not really obsession it's i was fooled for so long i mean i just all those i read
14:55those conversations and you know when i hear amber say um i just needed somebody to love me to support
15:03me to encourage me i look back at those messages and we're not talking one or two we're talking
15:10dozens of exactly that long-winded messages encouragement love and support you know i don't
15:18think that that's what she wanted though no no and that's the only thing that's really
15:24helped me with the now because this really got confusing when i um when i first started really
15:33putting the pieces and how long she's been here and you know i just i'm so busy all the time it's
15:38like sometimes days like i say just turn into weeks and then both i'm like whoa you know it's been a
15:42wow um i just i know she doesn't want me in her circle because she can't be who she is
15:52and she was a person that i didn't know she was to that like i you know in the very beginning of
15:59all this i always said you know i watched every single one of amber's videos and that was true up
16:05until a point until the point i was breaking away and then she'd get me to go back and sometimes i'd
16:09even watch some older ones you know then and then but now looking i've i've missed a lot i missed a
16:16lot especially over the fear like i didn't know anything about the married couple i didn't like
16:21there's a lot of things that i knew nothing about and that shows that i wasn't watching the reaction
16:27channels anymore you know since 2015 you know i was watching my niece yeah it's been a lot it's been
16:34a lot of the same i mean it's yeah i mean not that it really changes you know but uh but you know
16:40when you just start hearing just the whole time that she was with her relationships i would i would
16:49try to you know ask about them and would wonder why they weren't like in the conversation more you
16:56know i even i'd love to get to know the person that you're in love with you know it's part of your
17:00life i want to be part of your life you know and uh jade was actually the only one
17:07that i never talked to her except that one day in the apartment where she got here but as far as like
17:12texting or anything there was that she considered me she gave me personal gifts for christmas one year
17:18uh she seemed very um thoughtful in a lot of ways um but then you know her story is all top secret
17:26so it makes me wonder like whoa you know yeah that's that's definitely the mo when amber is with
17:32somebody they're the greatest thing that ever walked the earth she feels a love like she's never felt
17:38before um you know and it's that thing has been on repeat it's constant and then after you hear all
17:46the stuff you know um it's it's unfortunate what definitely set me over the edge was the feeder
17:53the feeder chapter just you know it was one thing assuming it and it was one thing trying to warn
18:00several members of my family about it and being concerned about it um i thought amber was just so
18:08blinded by the fact of wanting to be with her that if she said she wasn't that she believed she wasn't
18:14and then when i started seeing out of my own niece's mouth she knew that she knew and she
18:21i mean has done so much that i was not aware of i i just felt like an absolute fool i felt like an
18:27absolute fool and i mean those text messages you put up the other day uh you know your sister asking
18:35you to not stir the pot i mean that that you you're trying you're the only one speaking any sense
18:40yeah it's it's unfortunate because i can tell that you're someone that really cares and a lot of
18:47your care has been wasted on people that don't want it yeah they they wanted me for what i was good
18:56for for them at a very long time you know i did all those things you know getting driver's license
19:03birth certificates uh just every life thing that you could think of from teaching amber how to fill
19:10out a money order you know just i i did what a mom should have done you know can't choose your
19:18family tam no you can't you can't so and and the only other thing i could think of about is the uh
19:25court thing that people are wondering is why there's no it doesn't say uh slander or defamation of
19:31character and i don't know why it doesn't say it on that yet but it definitely was on the paperwork
19:37that i submitted in order to get that filed uh so it is what the charge is slander and defamation of
19:44character for ten thousand dollars in public apology the only reason why there's not a date
19:49is because when they gave me the hearing date it was going to be october 27th and i fortunately
19:58unfortunately will be on a cruise at that time and so that's not something i could have rearranged
20:03uh so when i get back from my cruise on that infamous date november i was about to say could
20:10you imagine if your court dates november 1st you know i that would have been that would have been
20:16something but now i'll be traveling home on my anniversary um and so um after that i go back to
20:23the courthouse tell them i'm back and then they'll look to see what that next hearing date availability is
20:30so it most likely won't be till probably november realistically oh boy well yeah oh geez but
20:39nothing's gonna change on my end i'm definitely out of percent going forward so well i wish you the
20:44best of luck i don't think what you're asking for is out of the realm of what seems fair and reasonable
20:51no the most important part of it is just the lesson the apology yeah yeah you cannot do this to people
20:59and just move on with your life and you know we know about the wreckage that she leaves behind in
21:05most relationships so yeah well i hope you feel better have a good rest of your night hon i appreciate
21:12it thank you all right thanks for chatting again all right goodbye good night
21:16you move the fuck on and you haven't been able to do that my mom literally went out of her way i think
21:30it was i don't know timelines are not it i'm just gonna say in in the two-year span my mom went out of
21:37her way to try to like make it work my mom sent her like this like video video photo collage of them
21:47and it's just like my aunt just like was so nonchalant and like nothing came from it
21:52like my aunt has not never she's never taken the steps to try to fix this
21:57you
22:06you
22:10you
23:16Constantly. I was closed off, access denied. Years later, my sister would say she didn't want me to see or deal with what her reality was. It was for my protection.
23:27I think after Tony was born, my dad went to California to visit. I was not able to go, but was so overjoyed to see the pictures.
23:36I have so much to share regarding this time in my life, but I'm trying to stay focused on the purpose of this video.
23:43Amber denies meeting me at 14 in 2005, even after I stated some of the memories. Here are some more details and more timestamps that prove I am not lying.
23:55Speaking of lying, Amber stated on a video that my sister, my mom, and my daughter all say that this never happened.
24:04I think that's just yet another lie of Amber's. What do you think?
24:08I think that's just yet another lie.
24:13I think that's just right.
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