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00:30to be so connected with that show to be able to do that because now in seconds we are going to hit the right
00:36chord with the story of every house because it's real, it's raw, it's authentic
00:42Hi guys, welcome to FilmEbeer, this is Kinari Singh in conversation with Juhi Ma'am, Juhi Ma'am
00:47first of all, FilmEbeer, I have a great pleasure, thank you, and congratulations to the show, thank you so much
00:53we have seen a glimpse of the show and I really believe that one of the primary reasons the channel
01:00you know actually thought about you as the host is that when you come to the limelight,
01:06whatever challenges you have, whether it's high or low, we have always been honest with it and we have
01:12been very calm and confident about it but you know still this show we have seen a glimpse of the topics
01:20covered whether it is doubting or whether it is you know harassment and you know having multiple
01:26affairs, you know partners having multiple affairs, because you also have to listen, you also have to
01:31understand and then maybe you know you have to come to a common ground while shooting,
01:36have you ever seen that it also you know exhaust you mentally at some point of time?
01:41um exhaust though I won't say but yeah it it does affect because um you empathize with the other
01:50person you're listening to them so intently so um if you don't have any impact on it, it won't be
01:57but um if I get exhausted, then it's already started. So um when they understand and even if I am
02:08affected, even if I am affected, I have to keep the side of it and remember that it's not about me, it's about them.
02:16uh you know as you said, of course you have to keep thinking that you know you have to be more
02:22affected because you have to host, but still is it difficult because you have said that you have
02:28heard cases that you have heard in your life that you have never heard in your life,
02:32sometimes you feel that you have to be affected especially when the discussions are happening.
02:38yes absolutely there are so many times that I feel angry, there are so many times
02:43anger doesn't have to be only loud, so there have been times that I have gotten angry on people
02:49and I have put my thoughts across but in a way which is keeping the sanctity of being an anchor
03:00and also the other person because they have chosen to come in front of the entire world because the
03:07objective is not to put them down, the objective is to look for solutions. By putting somebody
03:12down, we won't find solutions but by making them realize that what they did was so wrong
03:16is definitely going to help us find solutions. So, I always remember that
03:20that people are not bad, they are bad, they are bad, they are wrong, they are wrong,
03:27so if we can make them feel good, they are bad, they are bad, they are bad, they are bad,
03:32so I always have to listen to that thought and approach.
03:36So, in this show, you will try to change the lives of people's lives and motivate them,
03:43so rather than just giving up, fight for it and take those efforts. If I ask you,
03:50whatever challenging phase you have gone through in your personal and professional life,
03:55how did you deal with it? And you also said in some interview, you know,
03:59as a person, you become more evolved. So, what has been the biggest challenging phase for you?
04:07See, for me now, when I look back, I only look at every stage of my life as an opportunity to grow.
04:17So, and this difference comes when you genuinely heal yourself. So, in my life,
04:27whatever ups and downs comes, professionally, by the grace of God, never comes. But yeah,
04:32personally, whatever hiccups I saw, I just look at it with gratitude, because had I not seen those
04:41difficulties and challenges, I wouldn't have been the person that I am today. So, I am thankful for
04:47for everything that happened in my life, because it made me who I am today. It put me onto the path
04:54of self-discovery, self-healing, self-love, and this is where I am today, where I am able to
05:03help others heal. So, there can't be anything more meaningful. We have two choices in life. If
05:10happened with us, then we will be cynical about things, or we will find the way to help others.
05:19I have found the way to help others. Wonderful. Last two questions. You know, often,
05:25you know, when people have asked in your interviews, you have said that, you know, if your popular
05:30show comes from the second season, then we love to be a part of it. Recently, you know,
05:34a culture has come back, because when they come back, you know, the first week, the TRP was great,
05:40but unfortunately, the TRP dipped out. And unfortunately, we are in the entertainment industry
05:44in that direction that we judge everything from TRP and box office. Do you now think that when we
05:50do you get skeptical if, you know, you're offered second season, which is QQI. I don't
06:04compare myself to anyone. I have compared that, if this show is coming back, now I should
06:11return to my show. When I ask what I want to return, I say yes, I would love to do it if it comes back.
06:18Should it or should it not is never something I have gotten into. The same way, we can never compare
06:26the fate of a show with whatever happened with another show. It totally depends on many,
06:32many factors, which includes the storyline to lots of other things. So, there's no point of comparing
06:38or thinking that what happened here, our show was different. And if our show came,
06:46will tell us how it will happen.
06:49Yes, yes. But G Ma'am, you know, you have been living in that direction of the television,
06:54where TRP, like, 15, 20 was a very common thing, you know, peak.
06:59Now, I understand, because there are so many platforms coming, the TV audience will
07:03become bigger. But do you think, what is the reason that shows like,
07:06Kong Kong, Kasaudi, QQI, you know, it worked well. People were glued. And unfortunately,
07:11today's shows are not possible. Do you think it is the storyline? What do you think is the reason?
07:16See, I think one of the primary reasons is also more platforms that have come in. Because
07:23just as you said that the audience is getting bigger, there were no platforms before. So,
07:28that was one reason. And also, one very big reason, I feel, is that with time and with technology and
07:33social media coming in scene, the patience to sit and watch an episode and wait for it for 24 hours for
07:41the next episodes to come. You really need to be so connected with that show to be able to do that.
07:46Because now, within seconds, we go to the next video and don't wait for it. So, I think to be able to
07:53wait for that long is also a challenge for the viewers.
07:56Yes, yes, yes. The last question is, you know, you have won the show. You are one of the co-star
08:03in Gaurav. Of course, you did not do a lot of work with them. Because we have on the show,
08:09any well-wish or any advice you want to give to him?
08:12Best wishes, I would give to him and to every other participant. Because it is unfair to
08:18root for one person even without knowing what others are doing. But advice, be yourself, be
08:26authentic, be real. There is nothing better than being real in life.
08:29That is what you follow?
08:30That is, yeah, of course. I was one of the most real participants on the show. You saw
08:35the season that even Sanjidat said it also, that from the first week and the last week,
08:43there is no change in their nature. So, I think real works. And that is why we know that we are
08:51going to hit the right chord with the story of every house because it's real, it's raw, it's authentic.
08:57Right. One USP, of course, you said a lot of things about the show. But one USP of this show,
09:03you know, what you want to say is that if the viewers watch the show,
09:07they will keep it in mind and mind.
09:10I think I don't need to keep it in mind and mind. Because when you watch this show, you will
09:15automatically connect. You don't need to relate to each story, but you will need to connect.
09:22When you heard the audio, you didn't feel the connection, you didn't feel that, my God, so much pain.
09:31Because we all are humans and we are made out of emotions. When we see another human being going
09:35through it, we are bound to feel emotional for them. Right. On this note, I wish you all the best.
09:40Thank you. And may this show do well. Thank you. Thank you so much.
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