00:00one young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company
00:08he passed the first interview the director did the last interview made the last decision
00:14the director discovered from the cv that the youth's academic achievements were excellent
00:19all the way from secondary school until the postgraduate research never had a year when
00:24he did not score the director asked did you obtain any scholarships in school
00:28the youth answer done the director asked was it your father who paid for your school fees
00:34the youth answered my father passed away when i was one year old it was my mother who paid for my
00:39school fees the director asked where did your mother work the youth answered my mother worked
00:46as clothes cleaner the director requested the youth to show his hands the youth showed a pair of hands
00:51that were smooth and perfect the director asked have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes
00:57before the youth answered never my mother always wanted me to study and read more books
01:02furthermore my mother can wash clothes faster than me the director said i have a request when you go
01:10back today go and clean your mother's hands and then see me tomorrow morning the youth felt that his
01:16chance of landing the job was high when he went back he happily requested his mother to let him clean her
01:21hands his mother felt strange happy but with mixed feelings she showed her hands to the kid the youth
01:27cleaned his mother's hands slowly his tear fell as he did that it was the first time he noticed that
01:33his mother's hands were so wrinkled and there were so many bruises on her hands some bruises were so
01:38painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water this was the first time the youth
01:44realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes every day to enable him to pay the school fee
01:49the bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation academic
01:55excellence and his future after finishing the cleaning of his mother's hands the youth quietly
02:00washed all the remaining clothes for his mother that night mother and son talked for a very long time
02:06the next morning the youth went to the director's office the director noticed the tears in the youth's
02:11eyes asked can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house the youth
02:16answered i cleaned my mother's hand and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes the
02:21director asked please tell me your feelings the youth said number one i know now what appreciation
02:26is without my mother there would not a successful me today number two by working together and helping
02:33my mother only i now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done number three i have
02:39come to appreciate the importance and value of the family relationship the director said this is what i am
02:45looking for to be my manager i want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others a
02:50person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done and a person who would not put money
02:55as his only goal in life you are hired later on this young person worked very hard and received the
03:02respect of his subordinates every employee worked diligently and as a team the company's performance
03:07improved tremendously a child who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted
03:13would develop an entitlement mentality and would always put himself first he would be ignorant of
03:18his parents efforts when he starts work he assumes that every person must listen to him and when he
03:23becomes a manager he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others for
03:29this kind of people who may be good academically they may be successful for a while but eventually they
03:34would not feel a sense of achievement they will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more
03:39if we are this kind of protective parents are we really showing love or are we destroying our
03:43children instead moral you can let your kid live in a big house eat a good meal learn the piano watch
03:51a big screen tv but when you are cutting grass please let them experience it after a meal let them wash
03:57their plate and bowl together with their brothers and sisters it is not because you do not have money to
04:02hire a maid but it is because you want to love them in the right way you want them to understand no
04:07matter how rich their parents are one day their hair will grow gray same as the mother of that young
04:12person the most important thing is to learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty
04:17and learn the ability to work with others to get things done try to forward this story to as many
04:22as possible this may change somebody's fate
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