00:00That's right, you have a point there.
00:02It really depends on the person and on what's going on.
00:05Because this is like, let's try it.
00:07Because it's different ways to cope up.
00:10But according to my studies,
00:12usually, there are five stages of heartbreak.
00:15The first stage is denial.
00:17This is the stage where you can't believe in the events.
00:21You're shocked.
00:22You're shocked.
00:23It's like, is this really happening?
00:25Because it's not going to sink in.
00:26Yes, what is going on?
00:28Am I dreaming?
00:29Ganyan.
00:30Yung next stage is yung anger.
00:33Oo.
00:34Dito na nagsisink in lahat.
00:36Lumalabas lahat ng galit mo.
00:38Kumbaga naintindihan mo na kung ano yung nangyari.
00:41Bargaining.
00:42Ito yung tumatawad ka.
00:45Literally, tumatawad ka.
00:47Nakikipag-negotiate ka.
00:48Nagtatalo kasi yung isip at puso mo.
00:50Ilalaban ko pa ba?
00:52Patatawarin ko pa ba?
00:53Or hindi na?
00:54At tapos, pampupunta ka sa depression.
00:57Dito mo pinaka nararamdaman yung sakit talaga na down na down ka.
01:01At nagiging detached ka na sa paligid mo.
01:03Wala ka nang narinig.
01:04Pupunta ka sa friends mo.
01:06Nangingi ka ng advice.
01:07Kuno, kuno.
01:08Pero hindi mo naman pinapakinggan.
01:10Wag mo muna i-text.
01:11Bigyan mo ng space.
01:12Pero hindi mo na talaga alam.
01:14At nandyan na rin yung pinaka favorite nating stage.
01:17Ano po?
01:18Wala tayong magdadaan sa breakup.
01:19Ano po?
01:20Ito yung pinaka maganda.
01:21Yung acceptance.
01:22Dito ka lang talaga nagsisimulang mag-move on
01:24kasi tanggap mo yung reality na wala na kayo.
01:28Boogs.
01:29Oh, teka.
01:30Ba't mo mapasok na naman yung anger?
01:32May buhangin na po.
01:33Okay.
01:35Okay.
01:36Magsimula tayo sa first stage ha.
01:38Sa experience nyo,
01:39kayo ba ang madalas nakikipaghiwalay?
01:42O hinihiwalayan?
01:44Ay, naku.
01:45Parang na-experience ko both.
01:47Okay.
01:48So, ba-balance?
01:49Yes.
01:50Na-balance siya.
01:51Na-experience ko naman yung
01:52ako yung hiniwalayan.
01:53Tapos ako na-experience ko rin yung
01:55ako naman mismo yung nakipag-break.
01:57O kwentohan mo kami tungkol dun sa
01:59kung paano ka,
02:00paano mo na-realize na
02:01ay, hiniwalayan ako.
02:02Ano yung nag-lead doon?
02:03And ano din yung nag-lead sa'yo
02:05para makipaghiwalay?
02:06Maghiwalay.
02:07Siguro kasi bata pa ako nun.
02:10Siyempre parang immature pa lahat.
02:12Selos.
02:13Punta dito, selos.
02:14Punta dun, selos.
02:15Kaya siguro,
02:16natapos yung relationship.
02:17Doon naman sa ako yung nakipaghiwalay,
02:19eh, punong-puno na rin talaga ako nun.
02:21Alam mo kung sino ka.
02:23Uy!
02:24Shout-out sa'yo!
02:26No!
02:27Shout-out sa'yo!
02:28Shout-out sa'yo!
02:29Shout-out yung kaawan.
02:31Kaya yun yung nag-lead naman sa,
02:33ako na mismo nag-decide na,
02:35tama na.
02:36Mahaba kasi yung PC ng babae, eh.
02:38Oo.
02:39Laging nagpapasensya.
02:40Sige, okay, okay lang.
02:41Sige, sige.
02:42Try natin ulit.
02:43Kung hindi naman mag-work,
02:44try pa natin ulit.
02:45Pero pag once na ayaw,
02:46ayaw na talaga ng babae,
02:48kahit lumuhod ka pa na may asin,
02:51ayaw na.
02:52Oh my God, may asin.
02:53Grabe, may asin.
02:54Ikaw, Koy.
02:55Ako same din.
02:56Experience ko pareho.
02:57Pero kasi yung una,
02:58yung ako yung nakipag-
02:59Ah, hindi.
03:00Yung isa kasi,
03:01feeling ko hindi naman siya nakikipag-break eh.
03:04Parang nandun lang sa-
03:05In denial ka ba din?
03:06Ano lang?
03:0725 na ba?
03:09Lama na?
03:10Oo!
03:11Hindi siya nakikipag-break nun eh.
03:13Hindi, yung isa pala,
03:14pareho pala,
03:15pareho pala ako nakikipag-break.
03:16Ah!
03:17Inipan na lang!
03:18Inipan na lang!
03:19Hoy!
03:20Hoy!
03:21Ito kasi yung nangyarinan.
03:22Ay!
03:25Nag-copy kami!
03:26Nag-copy kami!
03:27Uy!
03:28Wala.
03:29Parang feeling ko,
03:30pareho ako.
03:31Kasi yung una,
03:32ako yung nakikipag-break
03:33kasi wala naman ako ang choice
03:34kasi nagloko.
03:35Hindi, wala naman ako.
03:36So parang sa akin,
03:37baka ano rin,
03:38maturity din,
03:39yung timeline siguro,
03:40baka
03:41kaya rin siya,
03:42hindi naman siya talaga valid
03:43yung mag-cheat ka.
03:44Pero para sa akin,
03:45baka may nagagawa rin naman akong,
03:48o meron din akong
03:49hindi nag-provide
03:50nung time na yun.
03:51Uy!
03:52Ang bait mo naman.
03:53Pero regardless,
03:54kahit talimbawa,
03:55ito lang ha,
03:56may but-in lang.
03:57Ano,
03:58kahit meron kang
03:59hindi nagagawa
04:00o hindi na po-provide,
04:01pero nandun siya
04:02sa relationship,
04:03nag-choice niya yun to stay.
04:05Hindi pa rin reason,
04:06walang enough reason
04:08para mag-cheat.
04:09Kasi hindi mo naman
04:10pwedeng takpan yung
04:11isang pagkakamali
04:12ng isa pang pagkakamali.
04:13Ikaw yung mas mali doon
04:15sa case na yun.
04:16Hindi ikaw ah,
04:17siya,
04:18kung sino man siya.
04:19Aisha,
04:20shishtori.
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