00:00Often in the past and even today, sex has been used to humiliate the other.
00:05When an army would win over a country, then to stamp its authority, the soldiers would go and rape the women in the newly won territory.
00:14It was to show to them that now we are your masters.
00:17That is one use of sex, to show to the other that I have control over you.
00:21Even today, armies do that.
00:23Even today, so called lovers do that.
00:25To stamp their authority, they have sex.
00:27This is one way of having sex.
00:29The other way is be respectful.
00:31Touch the other only when you do not look at the other as material.
00:35Touch the other only when you know that you are not going to spoil the other with your touch.
00:40Touch the other when you are completely sure that your touch is beneficial to the other.
00:45Sex is beautiful only if you can see the divine in the other.
00:50Sex is beautiful only if the body is not just body but a temple.
00:55The temple at the center of which God himself sits.
00:58This is a temple at the center of which God himself sits.
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