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00:00:00This is the morning that is coming

00:00:09Your face will shine

00:00:12We will shine and shine

00:00:21This is the morning that is coming

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00:01:08as salam alaykum good morning good morning pakistan

00:01:12wada karo to se pura karo yeh jimla ham har dummy film

00:01:16uh...digest or pata nih kaha kaha sunti aur pettay

00:01:20or hemeesha se sunti aya hai bach pan se agar dhar hota tha ammi abbo ki mar ka to wada

00:01:26karathe te aagli dhafah exam mein achhe number leker aayenge

00:01:29pher kooshis puri hoti thi leken nahi liha paate te

00:01:32to hume lagta tha aachha wada to kiya hai chalo kooshis karathe

00:01:35usse nibhane ki magar kar nahi paate te

00:01:37abbo ki dhanc se aksar yeh kaha jata ta

00:01:40ke baig aagli dhafah jaldi ghar aengge please dhafah maaf kar dhe

00:01:43yehhi kaya kar bol kar jathe te aapne dhosto ke sath

00:01:47aur phir wada toop jatata ta

00:01:49aur ham dhir se ghar aate te

00:01:50aur phir tisra wada karathe te

00:01:52aagli dhafah wada maaf kar dhe dhafah

00:01:54usi tarah kiđe laggay dhaanton mein

00:01:58to wada karathe te te aapne aapse

00:02:00aur apne gharwalon se

00:02:01ab trophy twingham

00:02:03yeh fudul chizhe nahi khaeengi

00:02:04jis te dhaanton mein kiđe laggay

00:02:05lekin dhilpe kabao nye rakhpate te

00:02:08aur wada bhi toočte te

00:02:09tord dhe te

00:02:10aistah aistah ham bade huay

00:02:12ame shahur aya

00:02:13aur phir ham wada alag-alag

00:02:14chizhoon ke hisaab se karne laggay

00:02:17کہ

00:02:18mein wada karathe hu

00:02:19apni bhehnon se

00:02:21aagli dhafah

00:02:21jab mizhe tnkhaa milegi

00:02:22te tu meh tofah dhelaungi

00:02:23to yeh chhotay moutay

00:02:25wada karathe karathe

00:02:26wada tordte

00:02:27jordte

00:02:27jab ham bade huay

00:02:29toh hamarhe saro pere

00:02:31ek bada wada

00:02:33ڈal dhya gaya

00:02:33aur wada kya tha

00:02:35ji

00:02:36azdawaji zindagi me

00:02:37enter honne se pahle

00:02:39mangani ka wada

00:02:40mangani kya hai

00:02:41mangani wada hi toh hai

00:02:43ki aap

00:02:44kisi ki zindagi me

00:02:45dhakhil ho rheye

00:02:45aapni zindagi me

00:02:46kisi ko dhakhil kar rheye

00:02:47ek wada kiya

00:02:48ke uske sath

00:02:49zindagi

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00:02:51aap sath

00:02:52nibhayange

00:02:53muger

00:02:54bhod sare

00:02:55loogun ke wadhe

00:02:56tooč sete

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00:02:58teetetee

00:02:59chahi woho

00:02:59ladaka ho

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00:03:00ladaki ho

00:03:00bhod sare

00:03:01gharo me

00:03:02mangani yaha

00:03:02nahi

00:03:02hothi

00:03:03woh k、、

00:03:03kneh

00:03:04mangani ni karni

00:03:04cha hae

00:03:04bhod sare

00:03:05gharo me

00:03:06rukستi

00:03:07se pahle

00:03:07nikah

00:03:08bhi

00:03:08nikah

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00:03:13ڈن پہلے نکاح ہونا چاہیے یہ جو long distance آ جاتا ہے بیچ پہ منگنی اور نکاح کے بعد کچھ لوگوں کو یہ چیز فائدہ مند لگتی ہے اور کچھ لوگ کہتے ہیں کہ this is rubbish یہ نہیں ہونا چاہیے یہ خراب ہو جاتا ہے رشتہ خراب کر دیتا ہے بہت سارے لوگ کہتے ہیں کہ منگنی ختم ہونے مطلب بہتر ہے بجائے اس کے کہ آپ کی شادی ختم ہو آپ ساتھ رہیں اور اس سے کو جانتے نہیں ہوں اور پھر آپ کو ایک الگ روپ نظر آئے اور آپ کہیں گے میں کہاں پھز گئی آئے میں کہاں

00:03:43پھز گیا تو منگنی بیسکلی ایک تیاری ہوتی ہے ایک رشتے منٹر ہونے کی بہت سارے لوگوں کے الگ الگ پوائنٹ آف یوز ہے لیکن اس کے کیا فائدے اور نقصانات ہیں آج ہم اس شو پر ڈسکس کرنے والے ہیں

00:03:57ہم نے کبھی یہ بات کی نہیں لیکن یہ اتنی ضروری ہے کیونکہ آج کتنے ہی ہمیں رشتے ٹوٹتے ہوئے نظر آ رہے ہیں چاہے وہ نکاح ہو چاہے وہ منگنی ہے

00:04:06کیا یہ بہتر ہے یا یہ بہتر نہیں ہے یہ اس پروگرام کو دیکھنے کے بعد آپ کو اندازہ ہوگا

00:04:13Good morning Pakistan break کے بعد وعدہ کرتی ہوں اچھا سا شو لے کر آؤں گی یہ وعدہ تو میں آپ کا پورا کرتی ہوں

00:04:19تو دھائی گھنٹے رہی ہے ہمارے ساتھ اور اپنے دن کی شروعات اچھی کی جئے

00:04:23Good morning

00:04:24Welcome Welcome back Good morning Pakistan

00:04:35So آج ایک بہت important topic جس پر actually لوگ بات کرتے ہیں

00:04:39اور میں بھی شاید پہلی دفع اپنے شو پہ اس بارے میں بات کر رہی ہوں

00:04:43کیا منگنی یا نکاح رکستی سے پہلے ہونا چاہیے یا نہیں ہونا چاہیے

00:04:50کیا یہ اچھا ہے ایک رشتے کی بنیاد کے لیے

00:04:54یا یہ نہیں اچھا

00:04:56یا لوگوں نے اسے کھیل بنا لیا ہے

00:04:58منگنی کرنا منگنی توڑنا دل توڑنا

00:05:00So آج اس بارے میں اس سیریس topic پر بات کرنے کے لیے

00:05:04زرہ مجھے sensible جو celebrity چاہیے ہوتے ہیں

00:05:07اس میں سرے فیرست ہیں جی ہنا بیات

00:05:08السلام علیکم

00:05:10علیکم السلام

00:05:11کیسی آپ

00:05:11الحمبراللہ

00:05:12ٹھیک ٹھاک آپ کی ملزن سلزن والی باتوں سے ہم بڑا فائدہ ہوٹھا رہے ہیں

00:05:16آپ کے گیاں سے ہمیں فائدہ پہنچ رہے ہیں

00:05:20اور منظر آریف

00:05:22السلام علیکم

00:05:23کیسی آپ

00:05:24بالکل ٹھیک ٹھیک ٹھیک

00:05:25چچا پر آکھے

00:05:26education background سے بھی ہم فائدہ ہوٹھا رہے ہیں

00:05:28thank you جی

00:05:29ہے نا

00:05:29sure

00:05:30آج ہمارے پاس جو therapist ہے وہ ہے

00:05:35relationship counselor اور therapist

00:05:37فائزہ اسلب

00:05:38ان کو بالکم کرتے ہیں

00:05:39سلام علیکم

00:05:40پہلی دفاع آئیے ہیں

00:05:42آپ سے ہرے مارے شو پر چلیں

00:05:43انشاءاللہ آپ سے بھی بہت کچھ سیکھنے

00:05:45کہ ہمیں موقع ملے گا

00:05:46thank you so much

00:05:47اور

00:05:47شازیہ رحمان

00:05:48matchmaker

00:05:50رشتے ادھر سے ادھر

00:05:52دھونکے

00:05:53ان کو ایک ساتھ

00:05:54اللہ میں نے یہ جوڑیاں آسمانوں پہ بنائی ہیں

00:05:56یہ دنی پہ ڈونڈونکے

00:05:58انہیں ملا کیا کام کرتے ہیں

00:05:59welcome to the show

00:06:00thank you

00:06:01جی

00:06:02تو ہم شروعات آپ سے ہی کرتے ہیں

00:06:04okay

00:06:04تھوڑا سا

00:06:07اگر ہم ریسرچ پہ جائیں

00:06:08کیونکہ ظاہر ہے

00:06:09آپ experienced ہیں

00:06:10اور آپ کا اٹھنا بیٹھنا

00:06:12اوڑنا بچھونا یہی ہے رشتہ یہ ہے وہ ہر وقت

00:06:15تو آپ سے میں پوچھنا چاہوں گی

00:06:17آج کل

00:06:19منگنی اور نکاح پہ

00:06:22لوگ زیادہ

00:06:23ریلائے کرتے ہیں

00:06:24یا

00:06:25یہ اس چیز کو پسند نہیں کیا جا رہا

00:06:28کہ نہیں بھائی یہ نہیں ہونا چاہیے

00:06:29آپ کا experience کیا کہتے ہیں

00:06:31اچھا ابھی بھی اس میں دو groups ہیں

00:06:34جو دو school of thought والے لوگ ہیں

00:06:35وہ پہلے منگنی یا نکاح اس لئے کیا جاتا تھا

00:06:38کہ شادی کی تیاری کر لیں

00:06:40پھوڑا سا families ایک دوسرے کو جان لیں

00:06:43لڑکی کا مزاج پتا چل جائے

00:06:46لڑکے کی طور طریقے

00:06:47یا ان کے خوشی غم دیکھ لیں

00:06:49ان کے رشتدار وکیرہ یہ ساری چیزیں

00:06:51اب لوگ

00:06:52majority یہ سوچ کے کرتے ہیں

00:06:54کہ اگر ختم ہی ہونا ہے

00:06:56تو اللہ نہ کرے منگنی یا نکاح ختمو

00:06:58شادی نہ ختمو

00:07:00جو کافی سکیری ہے

00:07:03کیونکہ

00:07:04میں ایسے لوگوں کو بھی جانتی ہوں

00:07:07جو کے بڑے خیر علمی کی بات ہے

00:07:09کہ لڑکے والے گئے انہوں نے لڑکی کو دیکھا

00:07:11تین چار دفعہ گئے

00:07:12کافی اپنے سارے رشتدار لے کے

00:07:14اس کے بعد انہوں نے کہا

00:07:15جہا ہم انگیجمنٹ کر لے

00:07:16لڑکی والوں نے تیاری شروع کر دی

00:07:18سارا کچھ ہو گیا

00:07:19منگنی کر کے آگئے

00:07:20منگنی والے دن واپس آکے

00:07:23لڑکے والد کی وہاں کسی سے ملاقات ہوئی

00:07:26اور بہت سرسری سے انہوں نے اپنا کوئی

00:07:28کتناپنگ کا کوئی قصہ سنایا ہے

00:07:30اور انہوں نے کہا

00:07:31ارے ان کی تو اس تنظیم سے تعلق ہے

00:07:33یہ ہے یہ کیسے چھوٹے یہ ہوا

00:07:35انہوں نے ایک دن کے اندر منگنی ختم کر دی

00:07:38اچھا پھر ان کو دوبارہ سے

00:07:41لڑکی رون کے دی دوبارہ سے ہوا کہ

00:07:43اچھا جی میں سیپ ہو گیا

00:07:45یہ واقع دن ایسا ہوا ہو گیا

00:07:47دس دن کے اندر دوبارہ اس لڑکے کی منگنی ہوگی

00:07:51کیونکہ اس کانلی کو میں جانتی تھی

00:07:52تو مجھے ترسٹ دا

00:07:53کہ اچھا جی کسی کے ریفرنس سے آئے

00:07:55وہ دوبارہ کے لڑکی والوں کیاں

00:07:58ہار پھول سب کچھ کر کے آگئے

00:08:00پورے پروسس سے گزر گئے

00:08:01دوسری لڑکی کے دس دن کے اندر

00:08:03پہلی جو منگنی ختم ہوئی تھی

00:08:05ان سے ملنے ملانے کے

00:08:07تین سے چار دن میں انہوں نے بار بار ملنا جلنا

00:08:09جو دو مہینے کا ٹائم لگتا ہے

00:08:11وہ انہوں نے چار دن میں کھ لیا کہ

00:08:13ابھی ہم نے منگنی ہاتا ہے

00:08:15اس منگنی سے واپس آتی کال کر کے

00:08:17کہتے ہیں کہ نہیں جے ہمیں لوگ سمجھ نہیں آتا

00:08:19میں نے کہا پروبلم آپ کے ساتھ

00:08:21پروبلم یہ سمجھ آیا کہ

00:08:23جو لڑکے کے والد ساپے

00:08:25وہ کرنا ہی نہیں چاہتے تھے

00:08:27لڑکا بزد تھا کہ اس سے

00:08:29شادی کرنی ہے جلدی کرنی ہے

00:08:31اب ان کو یہ تھا کہ میں منگنی کر دوں

00:08:33لڑکے کو ایک تسلی بھی ہو جائے

00:08:39لڑکے سے چار بیٹے تھے

00:08:41جوائن فاملی سسٹم تھے

00:08:43اور وہ کہتے تھے ابھی ہم فانانشلی

00:08:45ہم اس پوزیشن میں نہیں ہیں

00:08:47کہ ہم افورد کریں

00:08:49تو وہ لڑکی والوں کے ہاں جا کے

00:08:51مین میک نکال کے انہی بچاروں کو

00:08:53وہ کر کے واپس آ جاتے تھے

00:08:55اور اپنے لڑکے کو ان میں یہی کہتے تھے

00:08:57کہ ہم نے دھوڑی منع کیا

00:08:59دیکھو یہ پروبلم تھا یہ

00:09:01تو میں نے پھر ان سے یہی کہاں

00:09:03کہ آپ کی ہسمن ابھی کرنا نہیں چاہتے

00:09:05جیسی سے بھی کانٹیک کریں کیونکہ

00:09:07ایسے لڑکی والے مٹھائی بات دیتے ہیں

00:09:09لوگوں کو بتاتے ہیں

00:09:11لڑکی کی ہوپس آئے ہوتی ہیں

00:09:13اللہ نہ کرے یہ نہیں ہے کہ خدا نہ خاص سے زندگی

00:09:15ختم ہو جاتی ہے

00:09:17لیکن بہت بری بات ہے

00:09:19یہ نام مناسب بات ہے

00:09:21تو یہ طریقہ ان کے ذات میں تک ہے

00:09:23مگنی ہوتی ہیں

00:09:25اور ہی آپ لوگے لباب بتائیں

00:09:27جو کانٹلوڈ کر کے کہ آج کل لوگ

00:09:29انٹرسٹڈ ہوتے ہیں مگنی کے لیے

00:09:31ہوتے ہیں

00:09:33میں نے آپ کو بتایا نا انٹرسٹڈ ہونے کے ساتھ

00:09:35سب سے بڑا موٹیف ذہن میں کیا ہوتا ہے

00:09:37کہ خدا نہ خاصتہ شادی ختم ہونے سے بہتر ہے

00:09:39کہ مگنی یا نکاح ختم ہو جائے

00:09:41یہ ایک دیکھنے کا سمجھنے کا پہلے یہ ہوتا تھا

00:09:45کہ زبان کو بہت کافی سمجھا جاتا تھا

00:09:47کہ زبان دیتی ہے

00:09:49انگیجمنٹ رینگ یا کسی چیز کی ضرورت نہیں

00:09:51اب یہ کہ بہت دھوم دھام سے بھی چیزیں

00:09:53کر کے اس کو کہتے ہیں کہ ختم ہو گئی تو کیا ہوا

00:09:55what's a big deal

00:09:57اب یہ ذہن میں رکھیں آگے بڑھتے ہیں

00:09:59دوسرا طوال میرا آپ سے یہ کہ

00:10:01کیا جب

00:10:03کسی لڑکی کی منگنی ختم ہوئی دی ہو

00:10:05یا لڑکی کی منگنی ختم ہوئی ہو

00:10:07اور آپ اس کے لیے

00:10:09کوئی نیا رشتہ ہوتا ہے

00:10:11تو اس کی سی وی یا اس کی جو لسٹ

00:10:13اس پر یہ لکھا ہوتا ہے کہ ایک منگنی ٹوٹ چکی ہے

00:10:15چار بھی ٹوٹ جاتی ہیں تو نہیں بتاتے

00:10:17نہیں بتاتے

00:10:19لڑکے والے یہ کہتے ہیں

00:10:21اور لڑکی والے بھی یہ کہتے ہیں

00:10:23جو سچ بات ہے کہ اگر کوئی آکے ہمیں پسند کر لیتا ہے

00:10:25کوئی بات کرتا ہے تو ہم ضرور بتائیں گے

00:10:27لیکن بلا وجہ سب کو بتانے کی ضرورت نہیں ہے

00:10:29اچھا نکاح کا بتانا پڑتا ہے

00:10:31نکاح کا بتاتے ہیں

00:10:33نکاح بریک پھر لکھا ہوا آتا ہے

00:10:35دن میں نکاح ختم ہوا آؤ

00:10:37کبھی باہر لوگ ہوتے ہیں تو چار سال میں رکھ ستی نہیں ہو پاتی

00:10:39وہ بتانا پڑتا ہے

00:10:41لیکن منگنی کا پیپل دو پریفر

00:10:43نہیں بتائیں تو اچھا ہے لیکن بات آگے بڑھیں

00:10:45تو ہم سچائی کے ساتھ بتا دیں

00:10:47آپ کو بتا ہے

00:10:49اچھا آپ لوگ کیا کہتے ہیں

00:10:51اس لوگوں کے پرسپشن پر

00:10:53منگنی اور نکاح کو لے

00:10:55آپ دونوں کا اپنا اپنا

00:10:57پرسنل پوائنٹ جاننا چاہتے ہیں

00:10:59جی انہا جب

00:11:01پرسنلی میں

00:11:05میں تو خیرسنلی بلیو نہیں کرتی کہ بہت بڑی بڑی شادیاں کی جائیں

00:11:07لیکن منگنی

00:11:09بیسکلی ایک زبان ہوتی ہے

00:11:11ایک کمیٹمنٹ ہوتی ہے

00:11:13تو یہ جو ٹرنڈ شروع ہو گیا

00:11:15بہت دھوم دھام سے بہت بڑے فنکشن ہو رہے ہیں

00:11:17منگنی کے

00:11:19اور ایک انیسسیری

00:11:21نظر بھی بلا وجہ

00:11:23اس چیزوں میں

00:11:25آپ نظروں میں آ جاتے ہیں

00:11:27ایک کمیٹمنٹ ہے

00:11:29ایک کچھ عرصے کے لیے

00:11:31وہ منگنی کا پیرید

00:11:33اس لیے مجھے لگتا ہے کہ بہتر ہوتا ہے

00:11:35کیونکہ آپ

00:11:37اگر کسی کو جانتے بھی ہیں

00:11:39ویسے

00:11:41تو جب تک وہ رشتہ اس طرح سے بننے ہی جاتا ہے

00:11:43آپ اس نظر سے دیکھ بھی نہیں رہے ہوتے

00:11:45تو ایک منگنی کا جیسے آپ سمجھ لیں

00:11:47ایک انڈرسٹینڈنگ پیرید ہوتا ہے

00:11:49لڑکا لڑکی کے لیے بھی

00:11:51فاملیز کے لیے بھی

00:11:53اگر خدا نہ خواستہ

00:11:55اگر آپ کو محسوس ہو

00:11:57کہ آپ رشتہ کنٹینیو نہ کرنا چاہے

00:11:59تو آپ کے پاس ایک اوپشن

00:12:01اچھا بہتر اوپشن ہوتا ہے

00:12:03کہ آپ اس چیز کو ختم کریں

00:12:05اس کے برقس اگر آپ نکاح کر دیتے ہیں

00:12:09تو نکاح

00:12:11میں بلیف کرتی ہوں

00:12:13ذاتی طور پر نکاح کریں تو رکھ ستی کرتے ہیں

00:12:15کیونکہ نکاح کر کے اپنے گھر میں بٹھانا

00:12:17پھر سو باتیں ہوتی ہیں

00:12:19سو زبانیں ہوتی ہیں

00:12:21چیز چھوٹی سی ہوتی ہیں

00:12:23وہ کہتے نا

00:12:25بات نکلتی ہے تو پھر دور تک جاتی ہے

00:12:27نکاح جیسے

00:12:29اگر بہار ہیں اور پیپرز بننے ہیں

00:12:31یہ جو ہوتا ہے

00:12:33I would say minimum time period

00:12:35minimum time period

00:12:37کیونکہ نکاح کر کے گھر میں رکھنا

00:12:39یہ problems کو

00:12:41جنم دیتا ہے

00:12:43اور اس کے بعد ہی ہوتا ہے کہ

00:12:45خدا نہ خواستہ ختم ہو گیا

00:12:47تو پھر یہ نہیں ہے کہ یہ ایک رشتہ تھا

00:12:49ٹوٹ گیا پھر یہ ہوتا ہے کہ طلاق ہو گئی

00:12:51گھر بیٹھے نہ رکھ ستی ہوئی نہ

00:12:53شادی ایکچلی ہوئی

00:12:55اور آپ کے اوپر ایک لیبل لگ گیا

00:12:57کہ یہ طلاق ہوتا ہے

00:12:59یہی کنسیڈر کیا جاتا ہے کہ لڑکی کی ڈیوورس ہوئی ہے

00:13:01جبکہ وہ برابر میں صوفر پہ

00:13:03شاید بیٹھی بھی نہیں ہوتی ہے

00:13:05کہ لوگ بغیر انگیجمنٹ کے

00:13:07یا ان کی بات چل رہی ہوتے ہیں

00:13:09تو وہ لوگ کنسیڈر یہ ہی کرتے ہیں

00:13:11کہ اس کی طلاق ہوتا ہے

00:13:13اچھا میں آپ کو بتاؤ کہ

00:13:15اب دنیا میں ٹھیک ہے ٹھوڑ ڈیفکل پروسسس ہیں

00:13:17لیکن اب جیسے لوگ

00:13:19فیانسے ویزا پر چلے جاتے ہیں

00:13:21فیانسے ویزا پر چلے جاتے ہیں

00:13:23اور وہاں پر آپ اپنا ایک

00:13:25پروسس کر لیتے ہیں

00:13:27کیونکہ جس کی نیت نیک ہوگی

00:13:29وہ آپ کے ساتھ گڑڑ نہیں کرے گا

00:13:35کیونکہ یہ جو نیکہ والا سناریو تھا

00:13:37وہ بہار پیپرز کا

00:13:39بہت سارے میرے خاندانی

00:13:41کے لوگ ایسے ہیں

00:13:43کہ وہ پیپرز لڑکی کے

00:13:45یا لڑکے کے بن ہی نہیں پا رہے تھے

00:13:47تین بچے ہو گئے

00:13:49اور وہ اتنا گیا پورا تھا

00:13:51مگر اب لیٹسٹ سناریو

00:13:53میری ابھی کازن کی انگیجمنٹ

00:13:55ویزا پر لڑکا یہاں سے گیا

00:13:57اور وہیں ہی ساری شادی ہوئی ہیں

00:13:59تو یہ چیزیں چینج ہوئی ہیں

00:14:01آپ کا کیا پرسپشن ہے

00:14:03نیدا much has been said

00:14:05already اور

00:14:07I totally agree with what Hina has said

00:14:09میری اپنی منگنی

00:14:11ایک سال رہی

00:14:13منگنی جنرلی لوگ اس لئے کر لیتے ہیں

00:14:15تاکہ پتہ چلے کہ

00:14:17اس کی بات ہوگی لڑکی یا لڑکا

00:14:19بک ہو چکے ایک دوسرے کے لیے

00:14:21تو یہ صرف اپنی

00:14:23سیکیورٹی کے لیے لڑکے والے

00:14:25ایک سٹپ لیتے ہیں

00:14:27یا لڑکی والے

00:14:29نہیں منگنی

00:14:31I would not say

00:14:33کبھی بھی lavish ہونی چاہیے

00:14:35such a wastage of money

00:14:37بہت مناسب چھوٹی سی gathering میں

00:14:39دو فیملیز ہی آپ اس میں بیٹھ کے منگنی کر لیں

00:14:41اور اچھا ہے

00:14:43that you test the waters

00:14:45before getting married

00:14:47بجائے اس کے کے بعد میں

00:14:49انسان یہ جیسے

00:14:51ڈیورس کا تھپا لگ جائے

00:14:53اور ہمارے ہم اتنے

00:14:55بعض لوگ تو

00:14:57کہ ان کو پتا چل جائے

00:14:59اچھا تلا کی آفتہ لڑکی ہے

00:15:01تو اس کے لیے

00:15:03اگے کے پروسپیکٹس بہت غراب ہو جاتے ہیں

00:15:05personally emotionally بہت traumatic ہوتا ہے

00:15:07بہت زیادہ

00:15:09اور ان کو بڑی فکر تھی کہ

00:15:11oh god اس کی جلدی سے ہو جائے

00:15:13سب سے لادلی ہماری سب سے چھوٹی بہن

00:15:15منی ہوئی

00:15:17and we were all very excited

00:15:19somehow بھائی کی شادی بیچ میں آئی

00:15:21اور وہ لوگ آئے

00:15:23and ajeeb stupid بات انہوں نے کی

00:15:25کہ ہمیں وہ پروٹوکول نہیں دیا

00:15:27and Ammi

00:15:29مجھے یاد ہے

00:15:31کہ جب وہ لوگ ان کی فیملی آئے ہیں

00:15:33تو Ammi نے کہا بھائی ان کو بٹھاؤ

00:15:35ہم خود escort کر کے لے کے گئے

00:15:37بٹھایا یہ وہ جتا

00:15:39اور کیا پروٹوکول دے بھائی

00:15:41تو Ammi نے کہا کہ

00:15:43اور اتنی لبی جوڑی فیملی تھی

00:15:45سب کے جوڑے یہ وہ

00:15:47Ammi نے ٹھیک ٹھا خرچہ کیا

00:15:49being a single parent

00:15:51اببو کی تو میرے بہت ارلی ڈیتھ ہو گئی تھی

00:15:53being a single parent she did a lot

00:15:55اور جب انہوں نے یہ نونسنس کی تو Ammi کہل

00:15:57کہ یہ بوجھ تو ہم نہیں اٹھانے والے

00:15:59کہ سارا وقت ان کے پروٹوکول کے رونے

00:16:01ختم نہیں ہو رہا ہے

00:16:03وہ مغنی ڈیزول ہو گئی

00:16:05Ammi was totally torn apart

00:16:07جو جتنی وہ depressed ہوئی تھی

00:16:09اور پھر اس phase سے باہر نکلا

00:16:11سب کے لئے بہت مشکل ہوتا

00:16:13سب لڑکیوں کے لئے

00:16:15لیکن میں کہوں گی کہ

00:16:17اللہ تعالیٰ نے بہتری کی کہ ان کا بھی

00:16:19اسل روپ آپ لوگ کے سامنے آ گیا

00:16:21جی آ گیا

00:16:23تو یہ بات ہے کہ

00:16:25ایسی toxicity آپ کو نظر آئے

00:16:27وہیں پہ آپ فیصلہ کر لیں

00:16:29مت جو کہ اپنے لڑکی کو

00:16:31مجھر بھی نہیں لیں کہ

00:16:33اتنے لوگوں کو پتا چل گیا

00:16:35اتنی مٹھائی

00:16:37اسی لئے کہتے ہیں کہ

00:16:39دو خاندانوں میں بیٹھ کر

00:16:41آپ کر لیں

00:16:43جتنا آپ دو سو پاچ سو لوگوں کو بتاتے ہیں

00:16:45مٹھائی بھیجتے ہیں

00:16:47اچھا میں اب آپ سے پوچھنا چاہوں گی

00:16:49اب ہم نے

00:16:51تین الگ الگ لوگوں کے

00:16:53point of use پوچھے

00:16:55سب یہی کہہ رہے ہیں کہ

00:16:57نکہ نہیں مانگنی ہونی چاہیے

00:16:59تاکہ آپ بہت جان پیچان کر سکیں

00:17:01آپ کے پاس زائرہ الگ الگ لوگ آتے ہوں گے

00:17:03آپ مجھے بتائیں کہ

00:17:05مانگنی ٹوٹھنے کی وجہ سے

00:17:07یا نکہ ٹوٹھنے کی وجہ سے

00:17:09بہت سارے لوگ

00:17:11جو بھی آپ کے پاس آئے ہیں

00:17:13ان کے کیا point of use ہوتے ہیں

00:17:15پیسکلی پہلے تو میں آپ کو یہ بتاؤں کہ

00:17:17مانگنی یا نکہ

00:17:19لوگ کرتے کیوں ہیں

00:17:21تھوڑا سا زور سے بولیں

00:17:23تاکہ ہمارا پیس

00:17:25آواز تھوڑی اپنے ہم تک آب کیا آواز آجائے

00:17:27پہلے تو میں یہ

00:17:29clear کروں کہ

00:17:31مانگنی یا نکہ

00:17:33لوگ کرتے کیوں ہیں

00:17:35لوگوں کا point of view یہ ہوتا ہے

00:17:37کہ ہم ایک دوسرے کو جان لیں

00:17:39سمجھ لیں

00:17:41اور جیسے انہوں نے کہا ابھی

00:17:43نہیں ٹوٹ جائے

00:17:45یا نکہ ٹوٹ جائے

00:17:47اب یہ جو سناریو ہوتا ہے

00:17:49یہ ہو تو جاتا ہے

00:17:51لیکن اس کے بعد

00:17:53جو ڈانمکس ہوتے ہیں

00:17:55وہ ہر کپل کے

00:17:57یا ہر فیملی کے بہت ڈیفرنٹ ہوتے ہیں

00:17:59کہ جیسے میں

00:18:01ایک کیس ریلیٹ کرتے ہوں

00:18:03یہاں پر

00:18:05لڑکی اور لڑکا دونوں کے

00:18:07ریلیجس انکلینیشن تھی

00:18:09کہ ہم ایک دوسرے کو جاننا چاہتے ہیں

00:18:11لیکن

00:18:13کے ساتھ

00:18:15ہم پہلے باتشیت کریں گے

00:18:17نکاح ضروری ہے

00:18:19نکاح کے بعد ہم ایک دوسرے کے ساتھ باتشیت کریں گے

00:18:21تھوڑی ڈیٹس لگائیں گے

00:18:23اور اس کے بعد ہم شادی کریں گے

00:18:25آٹھ سے دس ماہ کے بعد

00:18:27وہ لڑکی بھی کہیں باہر تھی

00:18:29وہ اس کو پاکستان آنا

00:18:31اور یہ ساری سچویشنز تھی

00:18:33اب نکاح ہو گیا

00:18:35اب نکاح کے بعد جب لڑکی پاکستان میں ہی تھی

00:18:37اس کو کچھ دن کے بعد باہر چلے جانا تھا

00:18:39لڑکی کو باہر جانا تھا

00:18:41لڑکا پاکستان میں تھا

00:18:43تو اس لڑکے نے کچھ اس طرح سے

00:18:45اس کے ساتھ

00:18:47فیزیکل ٹاچ اور انٹیمیٹ ہونے کی کوشش کی

00:18:49وداوت رخصتی

00:18:51تو یہ چیز جو ہے اس لڑکی کے لئے

00:18:53کیونکہ اس کا یہ تھا

00:18:55کہ میں اپنے پیرنٹس کی

00:18:57ان کی ایکسپٹنس کے بغیر

00:18:59اور ان کی پرمیشن کے بغیر

00:19:01رخصتی کے بغیر

00:19:03میں یہ کام نہیں کر سکتی آپ کے ساتھ

00:19:05لیکن وہ لڑکا

00:19:07وہ باؤنڈریز کرس کرتا رہا

00:19:09اچھا یہاں پر ایک بات یہ بھی آتی ہے

00:19:11کہ اگر وہ نکاح میں ہے

00:19:13اور وہ ایک چیز ڈیمانڈ کر رہا ہے

00:19:15تو وہ اس کی بیوی ہے

00:19:17پوائنٹ یہ ہے کہ اگر آپ

00:19:19نے نکاح کے بعد دو لوگوں کو الگ رکھا ہوا ہے

00:19:21تو یہ ان دو کے ساتھ بھی زیادتی ہے

00:19:23تو یہ زیادتی ان دو کے ساتھ بھی

00:19:25آپ لوگوں کو نہیں کرنی چاہیے

00:19:27اب جب کر لیا

00:19:29تو پھر اس کے بعد اب جو

00:19:31اب وہ لڑکی جب اس کی بات نہیں مان رہی تو

00:19:33اب وہ ایشوز کریئٹ ہو رہے ہیں

00:19:35اب وہ ایشوز کریئٹ ہوتے ہوتے بات یہاں تک پہنچ گئی

00:19:37کہ اب ڈیورس کی باتیں ہو رہی ہیں

00:19:39یعنی نکاح کو

00:19:41دو ماہ ہوئے ہیں

00:19:43اور اگلے چھے ماہ بعد

00:19:45رخصتی تھی

00:19:47اور اب ڈیورس کی باتیں ہو رہی ہیں

00:19:49اب یہ سوچ رہے ہیں کہ کون پہلے پہل کرے گا

00:19:51تم خلال ہوگی یا میں طلاق نامہ تمہیں بجھوا ہوں

00:19:53تو اس طرح کی جو ڈائنمکس ہے نا

00:19:55میں پرسنل یہ سمجھتی ہوں

00:19:57جیسے آپ سب کی بھی ایک اپینین ہے

00:19:59اور رائے ہے

00:20:01نکاح کے بعد فوری طور پر

00:20:03رخصتی کر لینی چاہیے

00:20:05اچھا پھر کچھ ڈائنمکس ہوتے ہیں

00:20:07کہ چونکہ ویزا فائل کرنا ہے

00:20:09اس کی نکاح کر کے لڑکا چلا گیا ہے باہر

00:20:11اور ویزا فائل کر دیا ہے

00:20:13تو پھر جب ویزا لگ جائے گا

00:20:15تو پھر رخصتی ہوگی اور لڑکی کو لے جائے گا

00:20:17یہ ڈائنمکس

00:20:19یہ بہت ٹرامٹائز ہو جاتے ہیں

00:20:21کیونکہ ایسے بھی میرے پاس

00:20:23کیسز آئے کہ ایسا ہو گیا

00:20:25یا نہیں باہر بھی نہیں تھا

00:20:27لیکن چونکہ بس وہ ڈسٹنس لیا ہوا تھا

00:20:29گیپ لیا ہوا تھا نکاح اور رخصتی میں

00:20:31تو اب فزیکل انٹیمسی بھی

00:20:39اور اس کے بعد اب ڈائنمکس یہ ہیں

00:20:41کہ اب دونوں میں جھگڑا ہو رہا ہے

00:20:43کیونکہ ساتھ تو دونوں رہتے نہیں ہیں

00:20:45ہیں میہ بیوی لیکن ساتھ نہیں رہتے

00:20:47تو وہ جو میہ بیوی والے جھگڑے ہیں

00:20:49وہ بھی ہو رہے ہیں

00:20:51غلط فہمی اپنی جگہ ہیں

00:20:53کیونکہ دونوں کی

00:20:55circumstances situations are very different

00:20:57تو یہاں پر آکے جو نا وہ بہت

00:20:59conflicts آجاتے ہیں

00:21:01نکاح is dangerous

00:21:03اگر رخصتی فورا نہیں کر رہے ہیں

00:21:05تو نکاح بہت رسکی

00:21:07اگر کرنا ہی ہے تو

00:21:09منگی کر لے

00:21:11ایک بریک کے بعد

00:21:13آکے ہم اسے continue کرتے ہیں

00:21:15ابھی تک ہمارا

00:21:17تھوڑا سا جو نکلا ہے

00:21:19منگی is better than nikah

00:21:21ابھی سب نے تھوڑا تھوڑا تھوڑا یہی بولا ہے

00:21:23next ہم کیا بات کرتے ہیں

00:21:25آئیے جانیں گے

00:21:27چھوڑا سا بریک کے بعد

00:21:29سوڑا سوڑا

00:21:31welcome

00:21:33welcome

00:21:34welcome

00:21:35good morning

00:21:36ہم بات کر رہے ہیں

00:21:38آج کے شو کا ٹاپک یہ ہی ہے

00:21:40کہ کیا منگنی یا نکاح

00:21:42شادی سے کچھ سے پہلے ہونا چاہیے

00:21:44یا نہیں ہونا چاہیے

00:21:46یہ کتنا ٹرومٹائز کرتا ہے

00:21:48کیا ضروری ہے کیا نہیں

00:21:50اگلے سیگمنٹ کی طرف

00:21:52پچھلے سیگمنٹ میں جیسے میں نے کہا

00:21:54سب نے تھوڑا منگنی کو ووٹ دیا

00:21:56نکاح کو اتنا ووٹ نہیں دیا گیا

00:21:58اب آگے ہم بڑھاتے ہیں

00:22:00کہاں سے میں نے آپ کو کرتے ہیں

00:22:02نکاح کر کے رکھستی نہ کرنا

00:22:04اس کو ہم نے ووٹ نہیں دیا

00:22:06نکاح کریں تو رکھستی کریں

00:22:08میں ان کی بات سے سوچ رہی تھی

00:22:10جنہوں نے کہا کہ وہ ایک

00:22:12کپل کا انہوں نے کہا کہ وہ

00:22:14ریلیجوس سی انکلائنٹ تھے

00:22:16ہم لوگوں نے صحیح طرح سے

00:22:18سمجھا نہیں

00:22:20اپلائی نہیں کر رہے ہیں

00:22:22کیونکہ ہمارے دین میں یہ چیز ہے

00:22:24کہ آپ جب نکاح کرتے ہیں

00:22:26تو آپ سوچ سمجھ کر لڑکا اور لڑکی

00:22:28کیونکہ وہ دو فریقین ہیں

00:22:30جنہوں نے وہ کانٹراک کرنا ہے

00:22:32وہ سوچ سمجھ کر

00:22:34اچھی طرح چانچ پڑھ کر

00:22:36پھر اپنی رضا مندی دیتے ہیں

00:22:38تو ظاہر ہے اس رضا مندی کو دینے

00:22:40تھوڑی بہت باتچیت بھی ہوتی ہے

00:22:42ہم چار بہنیں تھی تو

00:22:44ایسا کبھی نہیں آگا کہ

00:22:46وہاں چلے جو

00:22:48لیکن سیکھ ہے وہ لڑکا ہے وہ گھر آیا ہے

00:22:50آپ بیٹھے ہیں

00:22:52آپ دونوں بیٹھ کر بات کریں

00:22:54سب ادر ادر ہو گیا بات کر لیجے

00:22:56لیکن ایک وہ

00:22:58آپ ایک سکیور انبائیمنٹ میں

00:23:00اب اس طرح جگہ جگہ پھر

00:23:02اگر آپ اتنے ریلیجوس ہیں

00:23:04تو پھر آپ کو یہ سمجھ میں آنا چاہیے

00:23:06کہ انفورچنٹلی

00:23:08لڑکوں کو خاص طور پر یہ لگتا ہے

00:23:10کہ اب ان کا حق ہو گیا ہے

00:23:12مگر اس حق کے ساتھ

00:23:14کچھ فرائض بھی ہیں

00:23:16جو سمجھنے چاہیے

00:23:18آپ کی رخصتی نہیں ہوئی

00:23:20ابھی آپ کا حق مکمل نہیں ہوا

00:23:22تو پھر یہ

00:23:24ڈیمانڈ لڑکی پہ کرنا

00:23:26یا اس کو پریشرائز کرنا

00:23:28یہ بھی آپ اپنے دین کو نگیٹ کرنا ہے

00:23:30تو یہ کہنا کہ

00:23:32نکاح ہو گیا تو ہمارا حق ہو گیا

00:23:34نہیں

00:23:36نکاح کے بعد جب تک رخصتی نہیں ہو جاتی ہے

00:23:38دنیا کے لئے

00:23:40آپ ابھی بھی ایک

00:23:42رشتے میں ہیں

00:23:44مگر وہ رشتہ کمپلیٹ نہیں ہو

00:23:46چھوٹی چھوٹی چیزیں ہوتیں

00:23:48ان کو سمجھنا بہت ضروری ہے

00:23:50آپ انفورچنٹلی اب تو

00:23:52منگنی کے بعد بھی

00:23:54ہم ابھی بریک میں بات کر رہے تھے

00:23:56ہمیں اجازت ہی نہیں تھی

00:23:58کہ ہم اپنی خالہ کے گھر بھی جا کر رہے ہیں

00:24:00کیوں؟

00:24:02کیونکہ جو رشتے آپ کی حرمت کے رشتوں سے باہر چلے جاتے ہیں

00:24:06وہاں آپ سیف نہیں ہوتے ہیں

00:24:08اور اگر وہ حرمت کے رشتے ہیں بھی

00:24:10آپ کے چچا ہیں

00:24:12آپ کے ماموں ہیں

00:24:14اس کے باوجود

00:24:16آپ کی سیکیور انوارمنٹ نہیں ہے

00:24:18اللہ تعالی نے وہ حدود بڑی

00:24:20دیفائن کی ہوئی ہے

00:24:22تو آپ وہ موقع ہی نہ آنا دیں

00:24:24وہ کہتا ہے نا

00:24:26وہ بھی نہ آنا دیں

00:24:28آپ اس کمپلیکیشن میں پڑے ہی نہ

00:24:30تو ملنا اچھی بات ہے

00:24:32بہن بھائی کسی ہوتا ہے

00:24:34ساتھ لے جاتے ہیں

00:24:36وہ پوری ایک فرطون ساتھ جاتے ہیں

00:24:38لڑکہ لڑکی کے

00:24:40کہیں کہ ریسٹران میں بھی جارے ہیں

00:24:42ان کو وقت مل جاتا ہے

00:24:44اور باہر جانے میں اور گھلے ملنے میں

00:24:46اور لوگوں کے ساتھ انٹریکشن ہوتا ہے

00:24:48دوسرا کہ اگر مغنی ہوئی ہے

00:24:50تو فون پہ بات تو کرتے ہی ہیں

00:24:52بہت سارے گھروں میں اجازت نہیں ہوتی

00:24:54کہ لڑکی نہیں جا سکتے

00:24:56بہت اوپل ہیں

00:24:58اور بہت اوپل ہیں

00:25:00فون پہ بات communication

00:25:02بیسکلی مجھے تو لگتا ہے

00:25:04کہ لوگوں نے دین کی روح بھی تو نہیں سمجھی

00:25:06آپ یہ کہہ رہے ہیں

00:25:08کہ بس آپ نے چونکہ

00:25:10یہ لڑکی میرے نکاح میں ہیں

00:25:12تو میرا حق بنتا ہے کہ میں اس سے یہ چیز ڈیمانڈ کر سکھوں

00:25:14ایسا نہیں ہوتا

00:25:16اچھا ایک میں پوائنٹ ایٹ کروں گی

00:25:18کہ سوشل میڈیا نے بھی

00:25:20اپنا بڑی گیم ڈالی ہوئے

00:25:22رشتوں کے درمیان

00:25:24اور اس سے مسکنسپشنز بھی

00:25:26جیلیسیز ڈیولپ ہوتی ہیں

00:25:28اور انڈیو ایکسپیکٹیشنز ڈیولپ ہو جانے ہیں

00:25:32فلا نے یہ کیا

00:25:34اس کے تو منگیتر نے اس کو یہ گفت کیا

00:25:38اس کو بہتے پہ یہ کیا

00:25:40اب وہ جو ایک بردن ہے

00:25:42ہر لڑکی سمجھتی ہے

00:25:44کہ فلا میری دوست کو یہ ملا

00:25:46اور اس نے نہیں کیا

00:25:48تو یہ کمپریزنز جو آتے ہیں

00:25:50یہ کسی بھی رشتے کے لیے

00:25:52بھلے شادی شدہ ہو

00:25:54غیر شادی شدہ ہو

00:25:56اور بھی زیادہ یہ مولیٹائل

00:25:58چیزیں ہو جاتی ہیں تو بالکل

00:26:00اوائیڈ کرنے چاہیے

00:26:02میں تو آپ کے پروگرام کے تھو بچیوں کو یہ

00:26:04سجیشن دوں گی کہ پلیز

00:26:06سچویشنز کمپیر نہ کریں

00:26:08اور دوسری بات یہ

00:26:10پوزیٹیو سائٹ سوشل میڈیا کی یہ ہے

00:26:12کہ آپ کو فزیکلی ملنے کی کیا

00:26:14ضرورت ہے جب آپ

00:26:16اتنی سارے پلیٹ فارمز ہیں

00:26:18کسی پلیٹ فارم کے تھو آپ

00:26:20آپ بات کر سکتے ہیں

00:26:22ویڈیو کال پر آپ ملنے بات کر لیں

00:26:24آپ ورچوال میٹنگ رکھیں

00:26:26ضروری ہے فزیکلی آپ نے جا کے

00:26:28ملنے باقی دینا دلانا

00:26:30یا کسی کی کیئر

00:26:32اس سو طریقوں سے پتا چل جاتی ہے

00:26:34اب لڑکوں میں

00:26:36بچوں میں آج کل جھگڑے

00:26:38کس بات کے ہوتے

00:26:40آپ کو کیوں لائک کیا

00:26:42تم نے اس کو بلاک کر دیا

00:26:44تمہارا یہ فینڈ کیوں ہے

00:26:46ویڈیو بہت زیادہ ہوتی ہیں

00:26:48آپ تو یہ مسکے ہو گئے ہیں

00:26:50مطلب یہاں پر بچے جج کرتے ہیں

00:26:52اس کی پروفائل جا کے چیک کریں گے

00:26:54مقاعدہ سکین شورس بھیجتے ہیں

00:26:56میرے کلائنس مجھے

00:26:58بچے آپ تو کہیں گے بہت سیدھی سادھی بچے

00:27:00دیکھیں اس کی انسٹا پر اتنے فرینڈز ہیں

00:27:02بھی ہو سکتی ہے

00:27:03وہ کام بھی کر رہی ہوتی ہے

00:27:04تو بیکنگ بھی کر رہی ہوتی ہے

00:27:06آپ کیا کریں تھی بریک سے پہلے

00:27:08جو میں نے کہا تھا کہ

00:27:09میں یہ بات کر رہی تھی

00:27:11کہ جس لڑکی کو بہت چاہت کے ساتھ

00:27:13بہت اس کے ساتھ فیملی رشتہ تہہ کرتی ہے

00:27:15وہ ایک ارینج وہ ہوتی ہے

00:27:17یا کبھی لڑکی کی سیجیشن پر

00:27:19ایک مکس وہ بن جاتا ہے

00:27:20تو کچھ عرصے بعد جب لڑکی کی اپنی والدہ

00:27:23یا بہن یا بھابی آکے کہتی ہے

00:27:25کہ ہمارے بیٹا بات کرنا چاہتا ہے

00:27:27پیرنس کی اس میں لے کے آتے ہیں

00:27:31نولیج میں لے کے آتے ہیں

00:27:33نمبر ایکسچینج ہو جاتے ہیں

00:27:34جب کچھ عرصے بعد اس بچی کا آپ کے گھر

00:27:36آنا جانا شروع ہو جاتا ہے

00:27:37اور آپ کہتے ہیں

00:27:38اچھا ہمارے رشتہ آنا ہے

00:27:39آج میری بیٹے آج یہ

00:27:40تین چار مہینے بعد

00:27:42اگر آٹھ دس مہینے کا ٹائم پیریٹ ہے شادی میں

00:27:44سب سے پہلے اس لڑکی کا آنا جانا

00:27:47لڑکی کی مدر یا بہنوں کو ہی برا لگتا ہے

00:27:50پہلے وہ ہی فورس کرتی ہیں

00:27:52پہلے وہ ہی فورس کرتی ہیں

00:27:53آپ کو سمجھاتی ہیں

00:27:54تھوڑا سا لبرل ہو جائیں

00:27:55بچے دوسرے کو سمجھیں گے

00:27:57کیسے

00:27:58اور اس کے بعد پھر وہ یہ

00:27:59ہمارے ہی تھرو ہے

00:28:00وہ بولنا شروع کرتے ہیں

00:28:01ہر جگہ ہی آجاتی ہے

00:28:02ہماری اپنی بھی پرائیویسی ہے

00:28:04لڑکی بہت چلاک ہے

00:28:05ہم چاہ رہے تھے یہ ڈریس لیں

00:28:07لڑکی نے کہلوا دیا میں

00:28:08تو اسی ڈیزائنر کا پہنتی ہوں

00:28:10ہمارا بجٹ آؤٹ ہو جائے گا

00:28:12اور لڑکا کیا کرتا ہے

00:28:13وہ ہر بات بتاتا ہے

00:28:14obviously کہ ہمیں سوچ رہی ہیں

00:28:15ہمارے لیے بڑا سیٹ ڈڑوا کے یہ بنوا دیں

00:28:17وہ جو گھر کا بھیدی ہوتا ہے

00:28:19وہ جو گھر کا بھیدی ہوتا ہے

00:28:20وہ جو گھر کا بھیدی ہر بات

00:28:21اچھا بننے کے چکر میں بتا رہا ہوتا ہے

00:28:23وہ لڑکی کہتے ہیں

00:28:24میں تو پرانے ڈیزائن کی جولری نہیں پہننے والی

00:28:26اب وہ جو لڑکی بڑی چہیتی ہوتی ہے

00:28:29وہ آپ کو بھری لگے

00:28:30یہ نیچرل ہے

00:28:31وہ کہتے ہیں کہ

00:28:32روز کھو دیتا ہے

00:28:33روز کھو دیتا ہے

00:28:34روز کھو دیتا ہے

00:28:35وہ جو ایک بڑی فائن لائن ہوتی ہے

00:28:37کہ ٹھیک ہے

00:28:38آپ آنا جانا رکھیں

00:28:39یا پیرنٹس کے ساتھ

00:28:40یا آپ ہوتل میں کہیں جا رہے ہیں

00:28:42آپ کو اچھے خاصی

00:28:43ٹائم مل جاتا ہے

00:28:44جگہ مل جاتی ہے

00:28:45اور آنکھ باہر جانے کا ایک فائدہ ہوتا ہے

00:28:46کہ بہن بھائیوں کے ساتھ

00:28:48یا فرینڈز کے ساتھ

00:28:49یا گروپ

00:28:50کہتے ہیں سیفٹی نمبرز

00:28:51ایک گروپ میں آن جا رہے ہیں

00:28:52یا تبھی مادرز لانچ کر رہی ہوتی ہیں

00:28:54بچے بہت جاتے جاتے ہیں

00:28:55یہ بھی ہوتا ہے کہ

00:28:56ایک دوسرے کو دیکھنے کا

00:28:57کہ چلیں اگر

00:28:58مادرین لوہ ہیں

00:28:59یا سیسٹرین لوہ ہیں

00:29:00وہ کسی سوشل انٹریکٹ کرتی ہیں

00:29:02ان کا بہیوئر آپ کے ساتھ

00:29:04کیسا ہوتا ہے

00:29:05یا اگر آپ

00:29:06فیانسے کے ساتھ بھی جا رہے ہیں

00:29:07اور بھی لوگ ساتھ ہیں

00:29:08تو

00:29:09اگر آپ کسی ریسٹران میں

00:29:10کچھ آرڈر بھی کر رہے ہیں

00:29:11کسی سے بات نہیں کریں

00:29:13انسان کی پرسانلیٹی کے مختلف

00:29:15زاوی آپ کو نظر آتی ہیں

00:29:16اور بہت وقت پوری بات نہیں ہے

00:29:18لیکن یہ

00:29:19تنہائی والا جماملہ ہے

00:29:21یہ بہną deerous ہوتا ہے

00:29:23اور میں بہت ہریں پہل کر رہا ہے

00:29:25والا میں بہت آپ کی اپنے پر Yea

00:29:26ہمی بہت ہوتا ہوتا ہے

00:29:27میر blev اپنے پہل سے کہتی تھی

00:29:28کہ اب وہ دو لوگ

00:29:31بات باتے ہیں

00:29:32توانا ہو جانا ہوتا ہے

00:29:33تمہا ہو جب صرف

00:29:35میں تینری eBay

00:29:37اور اس جب دو لوگ

00:29:38اپنے شرодар ہیں

00:29:39جب دو لوگ

00:29:40تینری Barajان ہوتا ہے

00:29:42اب آپ آمی شر蘑و

00:29:44ہم write

00:29:47اور اللے ہو جانا ہوتا ہے

00:29:49And I said that this was a good thing that I was saying that it was a good thing.

00:29:54So if you understand these things, then there will be a lot of issues.

00:30:00And we also talk about arranged marriages.

00:30:03What happens in love marriage?

00:30:05It happens that you don't have to ask.

00:30:07So when the girl gets established or the girl gets lost,

00:30:11there will be more danger in love marriage.

00:30:15If the girl doesn't have a good feeling,

00:30:20or if the girl doesn't have a good feeling,

00:30:22then there will be a lot of love for the parents.

00:30:25But if the girl doesn't have a good feeling,

00:30:28if the girl doesn't have a good feeling,

00:30:30then we will do it.

00:30:32What happens in that situation?

00:30:34If you don't have a good experience,

00:30:36then the end result is that you are coming,

00:30:38you have to break your own therapies.

00:30:40You have to break all the things.

00:30:42you can do it.

00:30:43So when you are having a good feeling for a heart to be able to live,

00:30:47it can't be.

00:30:48If you don't have a lot of life,

00:30:49then you don't want to.

00:30:51They will just start to live.

00:30:52Because of that,

00:30:53they will go to their homes to them.

00:30:55Then they will go to them,

00:30:56and they will not give a lot of patients.

00:30:57So when they will not give themselves.

00:30:59They will go to them,

00:31:00they will be too busy.

00:31:01Then we will have to go to the old family,

00:31:02now they will get to them.

00:31:03And they will have to take them.

00:31:04They will get to know that they will all be a good feeling.

00:31:05Yes.

00:31:06They can bring a sense of family.

00:31:07After they will be a good event,

00:31:08they will have to take their own memories.

00:31:10We have to give good things, give good things, give good things.

00:31:13Society pressure is on every level.

00:31:16Middle class, lower middle class, upper middle class.

00:31:19I heard such families say that we have so much fun for a girl.

00:31:24We have no knowledge.

00:31:26But what a girl is driving a car?

00:31:29The thing is that when you have a long time,

00:31:32I don't have a favor.

00:31:34Because you want to be in your comfort zone and you want to be happy with the other family.

00:31:40True.

00:31:41But there are also 4 people in the world.

00:31:44There are 4 people who are not happy.

00:31:46Or maybe they have their own agendas.

00:31:48They want a girl.

00:31:50And if not even that,

00:31:51they will say something like that.

00:31:53They start putting things in your mind.

00:31:56Exactly.

00:31:57And they start saying that you went there.

00:32:00You didn't give a protocol.

00:32:02You gave them your thoughts.

00:32:04Or they said,

00:32:06You put this on your own.

00:32:08Okay, let's go.

00:32:09I mean,

00:32:10I mean,

00:32:12I mean,

00:32:13you come in a very long time.

00:32:15You come in a very long time.

00:32:16And in a long time,

00:32:17they open their lives.

00:32:18So,

00:32:19you keep a little commitment and commitment.

00:32:22There is also a value.

00:32:24And then you keep a long time,

00:32:26the value is not.

00:32:27You still need to understand it.

00:32:28It's not a long time.

00:32:29That's why you still need to understand it.

00:32:31For Zaringla, people are moral, how many people are afraid of each other.

00:32:37Now I want to talk about the general, but there are some people who have faced problems that have come from their marriage.

00:32:50We will share them and then we will be able to look at them.

00:32:53We have our friends.

00:32:54Hello everyone.

00:32:55Hello everyone.

00:32:56Hello everyone.

00:32:57We have six friends and one brother.

00:33:02After our brother, our brother has done everything like our father.

00:33:07Our most small friends, our love and love.

00:33:11We have one place.

00:33:13We have done a good job.

00:33:15My brothers are working with cars.

00:33:18They keep coming to new cars.

00:33:20They keep coming to new cars.

00:33:23They keep coming to new cars.

00:33:25They keep coming to new cars.

00:33:27In this way, my sister has to come to new cars.

00:33:31They have to come to different cars.

00:33:35We have a lot of money.

00:33:40We have a lot of high-five people.

00:33:42When I started this concept, my sister's date was fixed.

00:33:46Everything happened.

00:33:48We felt like a demanding type.

00:33:51However, we didn't notice this much.

00:33:53We got married.

00:33:54We got married.

00:33:55We stayed in a month.

00:33:56We had a meeting with our family.

00:33:58Their family had a strange conversation.

00:34:01They said,

00:34:02Okay, now you will know what you will give your daughter.

00:34:05You will give your daughter.

00:34:07She will use everything.

00:34:09But we have made a list for your convenience.

00:34:12You can see it.

00:34:13You can see it.

00:34:14You can give it.

00:34:15So that you don't waste your money.

00:34:17Now, when my brother saw the list,

00:34:18he was frustrated.

00:34:19There is a double door fridge.

00:34:21A.C.

00:34:22The house of two or three cameras,

00:34:24which was a space,

00:34:25they had all of them left.

00:34:26Before they removed the furniture,

00:34:27like the dining room,

00:34:28the dining room,

00:34:29everything.

00:34:30Now, brother,

00:34:31we were able to see more of them.

00:34:33We were not the only high-five.

00:34:35It was an impression from cars.

00:34:37My brother was very frustrated.

00:34:39What was the time to do?

00:34:41Because, for a month,

00:34:42it was only a week for a month.

00:34:43The cars were distributed.

00:34:44Then, the older people,

00:34:45they spoke to their families,

00:34:46we all discussed.

00:34:47The older people gave us the message

00:34:49that if you don't have any problems,

00:34:52then you will be more difficult.

00:34:53Because if they are the same people

00:34:55that are being upset and demanding,

00:34:57then after marriage,

00:34:58they will get more trouble.

00:35:00The child is in their house.

00:35:02When they go to their house,

00:35:03you will give them their own hands.

00:35:05You will have to give them their own hands.

00:35:07Yes, you will not have to do it.

00:35:09Now, after marriage,

00:35:10I didn't understand that.

00:35:11I was able to distribute the card.

00:35:13Well, we did a case for a girl.

00:35:15It was a accident.

00:35:17She was very disabled.

00:35:19And we couldn't continue to get married.

00:35:21We had to finish the marriage.

00:35:23But my daughter was very depressed.

00:35:25She was mentally disabled.

00:35:27She was completely disabled.

00:35:29That's why we left behind her.

00:35:31Our daughter is very frustrated.

00:35:33Yes.

00:35:35This is the scenario.

00:35:39If mother-in-law is so much

00:35:43she was very upset.

00:35:45She was very upset.

00:35:47She was very upset.

00:35:48She was very upset.

00:35:49She was very upset.

00:35:50Because this is the case

00:35:51is a true reflection of our society.

00:35:53That one week or a month before

00:35:56the child doesn't get upset.

00:35:58She feels like we are all about to know.

00:36:00Exactly.

00:36:01I was very upset.

00:36:03We need a child to sit there.

00:36:04We don't have a lies.

00:36:05This is more of a woman.

00:36:06We must be proud of him.

00:36:08I am emotionally attached.

00:36:09I will try it and do it.

00:36:10I will try the best.

00:36:11This is why I am curious.

00:36:12You got to mind that,

00:36:13you are also close.

00:36:14You don't have to be attached.

00:36:16So, you are not close.

00:36:17You are no attached.

00:36:18You can be very tired.

00:36:20and if there is something that happens tomorrow, then we can decide that we are going to die

00:36:27a lot of people's relationship with money

00:36:33the fight is over the world

00:36:36but this is a positive aspect

00:36:39that if you have a reward, you have the true colours in front of them

00:36:45If you don't want to come and go, if you don't want to see the car, then you won't open it to them.

00:36:53Exactly.

00:36:54They opened it before the marriage.

00:36:56You have the chance to get away from that.

00:36:59Some people are waiting for it.

00:37:01Some people are waiting for it.

00:37:03Some people are waiting for it.

00:37:05Some people are waiting for it.

00:37:07Some people are waiting for it.

00:37:09They say that you don't get away from the mouth.

00:37:13But because it was married,

00:37:15and the mother who had already four children,

00:37:19who had died before the marriage,

00:37:21that pressure was not going to be able to get away from it.

00:37:25This is my first child's marriage.

00:37:27And then it will affect my children.

00:37:29But what happened?

00:37:31The thing was coming.

00:37:33The red flags were standing in front of the eyes.

00:37:35But when the marriage came,

00:37:37the girl came back.

00:37:39And the child came back with it.

00:37:41I know,

00:37:43at this time,

00:37:45the mother and the father's skills are working.

00:37:47When you do your daughter's special.

00:37:49And the attitude.

00:37:51You don't want to be afraid.

00:37:53If something is wrong, then you don't stand.

00:37:55The mother and the father's observations are working.

00:37:58Sometimes I have seen the mothers who are very submissive

00:38:01and very straightforward.

00:38:03and the mother and their families have to be honest.

00:38:07That's a good motive of being.

00:38:09Well, you don't get too information.

00:38:10And the people have to be honest.

00:38:11I don't understand.

00:38:12I don't understand.

00:38:13You don't understand.

00:38:14I don't understand.

00:38:15It's really good for them.

00:38:16But you don't understand what has happened to the child.

00:38:18a mother will become a mother and she will be angry and she will say oh my god society

00:38:23people will say this because if a mother is like that it is a child that is a child

00:38:29to learn about it. So all the mothers who are very suppressed by the whole life, God

00:38:35how much when the children grow and grow in their own strength that you have to go

00:38:41through the whole life. You have to be very strong for your children. I have seen such

00:38:47Good morning Pakistan

00:38:56Welcome, welcome back, good morning Pakistan

00:39:08That's for the topic, mangani, nikah, rukhsati

00:39:11Se pahle, hoona chahiye, nahi hoona chahiye

00:39:13Se pahle, hoona chahiye, nahi hoona chahiye

00:39:43Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:13Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:15Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:17Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:19Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:21Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:23Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:25Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:27Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:29Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:31Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:33Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:35Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:37Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:39Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:41Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:43Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:45Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:47Seaboral, hoona chahiye

00:40:49Se pahle, hoona chahiye

00:40:53Se pahle, hooni chahi

00:40:55Misales, hoona chahi

00:40:57Se pahle

00:40:59Where are they?

00:41:00When we went inside, we saw that a girl came in.

00:41:05The girl's parents went inside and took her.

00:41:09But I stayed there.

00:41:11When I went there and talked to her,

00:41:15I asked her why and why.

00:41:19She told her that she was a close girl with her daughter.

00:41:23Now she was very shocked.

00:41:25She said that she was open and came in.

00:41:27But I talked briefly about her.

00:41:31It was our relationship.

00:41:33She said that it was our relationship.

00:41:35This relationship, this relationship.

00:41:39She said that she was a close girl.

00:41:41That she was a close girl.

00:41:43She was a close girl.

00:41:45And she was a close girl.

00:41:47Oh my God.

00:41:49Yes.

00:41:50Yes, absolutely.

00:41:51It was a story.

00:41:53So, she was like,

00:41:55I'm going to share this story.

00:41:57I'd like to share this story.

00:41:59That's a story.

00:42:01You're a close girl.

00:42:03You're a close girl.

00:42:05You're a close girl.

00:42:07I'm a close girl.

00:42:09I would like to tell people about this.

00:42:11I would like to keep a relationship with the girl.

00:42:15That she didn't have engaged in the other place.

00:42:18She would like to keep her head.

00:42:20I would like to share my personal story.

00:42:24I don't know how to get the name.

00:42:26But my relative friend of mine was not his family in Karachi.

00:42:34Who is a friend of mine.

00:42:44He told me, do you know the same thing?

00:42:47He was the one who is the one who is the one who is a man.

00:43:00So it's like, you know what?

00:43:02I'm saying, she's gone.

00:43:04Where are you going?

00:43:06Where are you going?

00:43:08Then, next.

00:43:10And that was like six months of my family.

00:43:12My relatives,

00:43:14they were going to be there for their marriage.

00:43:18And they started their observation.

00:43:20I said that this is very bad.

00:43:22You go to a girl's house.

00:43:24You have so much respect to their parents,

00:43:27and brothers and sisters.

00:43:29so that I have to give up to them and to to decide on my knees and point them.

00:43:39So she has to pick up the house, and her house has to be locked and broken off.

00:43:47And my husband, she has to give up my voice so that she has to become a girl,

00:43:51and even now the woman has to marry her.

00:43:53Unmarried.

00:43:54She doesn't even need her.

00:43:55She doesn't even need her.

00:43:56She doesn't even need her.

00:43:57Neda, I don't want to say anything about small things.

00:44:01I want to say something about eating and drinking.

00:44:03I had a client who came to my office.

00:44:06He was divorced.

00:44:08He was a mayman.

00:44:09At a very young age he was divorced.

00:44:11Like 28.

00:44:12He was a very settled business.

00:44:14He was in a very popular place.

00:44:16So, his wife was married.

00:44:18He told us that the dad was divorced.

00:44:23He was very SOLID.

00:44:24She told us that the dad was divorced!

00:44:26The parent has told us that this is a divorce.

00:44:30It doesn't want to be with you.

00:44:31But the other than the child is better.

00:44:33We are saying that are very good.

00:44:35She was a multiky?

00:44:36She didn't know the way that she was involved.

00:44:39He was a psycho killer.

00:44:40It was a regret for me.

00:44:41She couldn't tell us something from a woman.

00:44:43He told us that they wanted to marry a married woman.

00:44:46I am a married girl.

00:44:48This is a very beautiful girl.

00:44:50I will understand.

00:44:52Okay.

00:44:54His father was also a family.

00:44:56Investigations too.

00:44:58His parents said that this is a good girl.

00:45:00I am talking to him.

00:45:02He has a very popular family.

00:45:04He has a very popular family.

00:45:06He has a very popular family.

00:45:08He has a very popular family.

00:45:10He has started.

00:45:12He has a payment for fees.

00:45:14He has a very popular family.

00:45:16We have no connection.

00:45:18One day the girl said this is a marriage.

00:45:20I am not pregnant.

00:45:22Why are they doing so?

00:45:24I am going to tell you.

00:45:26Then I am going to have to take a trip.

00:45:28We have to go out and walk.

00:45:30We are going to go out and walk.

00:45:32His parents didn't tell me.

00:45:34He is having to tell me from marriage.

00:45:36He said that the parents wanted to tell me.

00:45:38He said yes, you can tell me.

00:45:40I have to tell everything in my life.

00:45:42Oh my God!

00:45:44She was learning my food.

00:45:49She was learning my own food.

00:45:51When I wanted to talk to my parents,

00:45:53she said we would have to finish this.

00:45:55I said,

00:45:56we will have to sit.

00:45:58And they said,

00:45:59we have to finish this.

00:46:01We are not understanding.

00:46:03I have to do this as well.

00:46:05I had to teach her with her parents.

00:46:07But she was so big and she told me.

00:46:09She said,

00:46:10I said, I have pictures, I am very sorry but these are my pictures

00:46:15We don't know, when I talked about the girl, she said that she was very possessive

00:46:20She said to me that she was eating and cooking

00:46:23I applied to my job in airlines

00:46:27She was very young, she was very pretty

00:46:29She said, okay, I didn't see her, so what's the big deal?

00:46:33So they both experimented

00:46:36They both had their fantasy

00:46:40That the girl was looking at the truth

00:46:43So she didn't know that she was making a lot of food

00:46:46She was making a lot of food

00:46:48Or she was making a lot of family

00:46:50So we should also protect these things

00:46:52It's not that the people are watching

00:46:54They are the same

00:46:56The girl's investigation is the right thing

00:46:58But the girl's investigation is very important

00:47:00But the girl's investigation is very important

00:47:03But the girl's investigation is very important

00:47:06They want constant validation

00:47:10True

00:47:11They want constant validation

00:47:13True

00:47:14They want everything to show

00:47:16They want everything to share

00:47:18And the oversharing

00:47:20Even in your relationships

00:47:22That comes to her

00:47:24And her abilities

00:47:25That is the same

00:47:27This is the same

00:47:28If you are asking

00:47:29It's the same

00:47:30That you are also talked to

00:47:31gaiting

00:47:32Yeah, exactly

00:47:33Exactly

00:47:34That you said

00:47:35That the sharing

00:47:36The concept is very common

00:47:37The idea of the social media

00:47:38It's oversharing

00:47:39Oversharing

00:47:40You sit with your fiance

00:47:41Or family

00:47:42Or your family

00:47:43post on Instagram. I also shared that in my family this happened that the girl's mangani

00:47:50liked her. And the engagement of the girl was in a week. Because when she was on a date

00:47:59at 2-3 months, she was on a date. She was drinking tea, she was eating food, she was sitting

00:48:04in a cinema. So the girl posted her picture in social media. And she said that the girl

00:48:11said, why don't you put these pictures on Instagram? And in my opinion, the girl's

00:48:18mindset was that she was immature. And she said, I'm going to sit here and I'm going

00:48:28to sit here. And the girl was a little mature mindset. So that's why the girl

00:48:36has been within a week. That's why I don't have a mature girl with her life.

00:48:43And she has a need for validation. Now, the girl is thinking that we are busy.

00:48:47We are busy. We are busy. We are busy. So we will validate the girl every time.

00:48:51And we are busy. When we are busy. And sometimes we are busy. And sometimes we are

00:48:55watching online people. It says that it's going to happen that you have to reply

00:48:56me to reply. And we are not doing online. Because the people already have to reply

00:48:59your family is about to share the right thing

00:49:01because as much as you share it

00:49:03now we're seeing many things

00:49:05that we see now

00:49:07where you will get the right

00:49:09you will get a chance to get the right

00:49:11if you even know before

00:49:13that is not much about it

00:49:15if you want to tell each other

00:49:17it doesn't happen

00:49:19you go to your family

00:49:21if you don't know

00:49:23if your family is oversharing

00:49:25then it may be a bit

00:49:27.

00:49:57because of the time of marriage, so that they have a friend and a girl,

00:50:00because she has no freedom.

00:50:01So, there are so many women who attend this school during this school.

00:50:03That's why I was so much older.

00:50:05Because she's a girl and baby, she's a girl, she's a girl.

00:50:08But she should be a girl.

00:50:10And she's a girl who's a girl, she's a girl.

00:50:13She's a girl, she's a girl.

00:50:15She's a girl, she's a girl, she's a girl.

00:50:17And she's an girl.

00:50:18We're not going to be a girl.

00:50:20When you're married, you're not going to be a girl.

00:50:22You're not going to be a girl.

00:50:23But after marriage you're staying at home,

00:50:25to communicate.

00:50:26There is a problem or something that you have to solve.

00:50:29You are not a person in a family, but it is an adult.

00:50:33You have to overshare it.

00:50:35And it is always going to fall.

00:50:38This is why the male is very important to understand.

00:50:41Even if the male is too busy, they need to tell everything about the mother.

00:50:44A boy has to be, I am a kid, I can say that they have to be the buffer between their wife

00:50:54their wife and his parents.

00:50:59So they control some vibrations here, some of the vibrations.

00:51:04If you keep everything transparent, then the problem is a lot more.

00:51:09And one thing I have noted on social media,

00:51:12a dirty impact on relationships that I feel like,

00:51:17that you see, children, I'm talking about today's generation,

00:51:21that I'm talking about, every thing is so customized,

00:51:25every thing is so personalized choices.

00:51:29You know, it's in a cup saucer, I drink it, I drink it.

00:51:33But this is also a difference.

00:51:36The reason is not at all.

00:51:38I remember, after marriage, number one,

00:51:41any family, any girl,

00:51:42she sees something else before marriage,

00:51:45when you come to the day-to-day life pattern,

00:51:48then the regret is feeling.

00:51:49Okay, friction comes from the day-to-day life pattern,

00:51:51there are differences in the day-to-day life pattern.

00:51:54When I was married, I knew that it was before marriage,

00:51:56but now it was before marriage.

00:51:57Nothing, it's not that you're in light and remote,

00:51:59it's like that when I sleep in the day-to-day life pattern,

00:52:01I sleep in the day-to-day life pattern,

00:52:02it's a good compromise.

00:52:03But I have to say that my goal is to say,

00:52:06that children and children,

00:52:07who are watching this program,

00:52:08who are parents,

00:52:10before marriage and later,

00:52:12there will be differences in my life.

00:52:14I remember that it was arranged marriage.

00:52:16And like I am coming home,

00:52:19I would say,

00:52:21when I went to the day-to-day life,

00:52:23it's like this, it's like this.

00:52:25I didn't play a game.

00:52:26I'm so tired.

00:52:28That's right, that's what Fadul was doing.

00:52:31My grandfather was a very sensible man.

00:52:34He said, look,

00:52:36he didn't do bad things,

00:52:39he didn't play with his friends,

00:52:42he didn't play with his friends,

00:52:44he didn't play with his friends,

00:52:46but he said, no, no, no.

00:52:48Then he started counting on his strengths.

00:52:52He said, look, this is a shereef.

00:52:54He's a great guy.

00:52:56He's so caring.

00:52:57He's so caring.

00:52:59Parents should be sensibly

00:53:01to gauge these initial problems.

00:53:05Yes, if a girl puts a hand on her,

00:53:07or abuse,

00:53:09that's the point.

00:53:11Parents should stand.

00:53:15I was newly married,

00:53:17so I was married.

00:53:19My friend was also our friend.

00:53:21I went to my mom's house,

00:53:23and I was a little scared.

00:53:25and when I came to my house,

00:53:27I said, I'll tell you,

00:53:29I'll tell you,

00:53:31I'll tell you,

00:53:33I'll tell you.

00:53:35because we have little things in our house,

00:53:37and we have clashes.

00:53:39But, don't show me this.

00:53:41Because you both will be fine tomorrow.

00:53:43You will be fine tomorrow.

00:53:45But I won't say that my daughter has a relief.

00:53:49On the other hand,

00:53:51we have given you so much

00:53:53that you should know

00:53:55that this is not a great thing

00:53:57that my mother is a great thing.

00:53:59I will tell you.

00:54:01My mother's technology is different.

00:54:03You both have told me,

00:54:05she was different.

00:54:07She was different.

00:54:09When I married,

00:54:11and I discussed some petty issues,

00:54:13my mother is so smart.

00:54:15She is so smart.

00:54:17She is so smart.

00:54:19She is so smart.

00:54:21I told her,

00:54:23she was hot and cold water.

00:54:25She was so smart.

00:54:27My mother is so smart.

00:54:29I don't want to talk to my mother.

00:54:31Because my mother is extremely,

00:54:33and my mother and my husband's relationship,

00:54:37I don't want to talk to my mother.

00:54:39She is so smart.

00:54:41Because I have shared my mother.

00:54:43That she doesn't give me this.

00:54:45She doesn't give me this.

00:54:47She doesn't give me this.

00:54:49She doesn't give me this.

00:54:51We don't do things like that.

00:54:53She doesn't take a lot of food.

00:54:55She doesn't do anything like that.

00:54:57My mother and my mother,

00:54:59I had told her,

00:55:01you are not wrong.

00:55:03I'm listening.

00:55:05So I tell you, how do you know your psyche and how to treat it?

00:55:13Yes.

00:55:14Every child and every mother is different.

00:55:18So the formula doesn't work.

00:55:22Mother or father should know about their children.

00:55:28And they should play with them.

00:55:30Because if you get married in a small age, everyone is not mature.

00:55:35There is time.

00:55:36The relationship is built.

00:55:38My marriage is 23 years old.

00:55:40I see you 23 years before and you see, there is a lot of difference.

00:55:44There is a lot of change.

00:55:46Of course.

00:55:47When you get involved in the days, you say, how do you get involved?

00:55:52It is.

00:55:53It is.

00:55:54It is.

00:55:56Yes.

00:55:57A little break break.

00:55:59Good morning Pakistan.

00:56:00Good morning Pakistan.

00:56:03Welcome, welcome back.

00:56:08Good morning Pakistan.

00:56:09So today is a very serious, very necessary discussion.

00:56:14that after listening to this discussion, maybe you can save your life.

00:56:21There are so many things that we have discussed in the show.

00:56:24Look, when you are a parent, you are also a new parent.

00:56:28If you have married in your house, that is also the first time.

00:56:33There are so many things that you don't know.

00:56:35There are so many things that you can learn from here and there.

00:56:40So that's why we have designed this show today.

00:56:42My next guest here is Samina.

00:56:45Come here and listen to her.

00:56:47And what we can put in the details.

00:56:51Yes.

00:56:52Assalamualaikum Samina.

00:56:53Assalamualaikum Asalam.

00:56:54Yes.

00:56:55What do you say?

00:56:56I am my four daughters.

00:56:57I have engaged in my most great sister.

00:57:02It was a relationship so quickly.

00:57:04They were unknown people.

00:57:05Our knowledge didn't know.

00:57:07So, after that, when the first time a person is dealing with a relationship,

00:57:12it is a mistake.

00:57:13It is a mistake after that.

00:57:15At that time, it is not a mistake.

00:57:17So, this mistake also happened.

00:57:19That when they knew and knew and knew, it was a mistake.

00:57:23It happened that we had an event for Mangani, and the girls said that you should organize the event together so that our money would be free.

00:57:33We didn't do anything like that, but the girl was good, the family was very good.

00:57:39Especially the mother of the girl was down to earth.

00:57:43The girl was very good, she was very good.

00:57:46She was very good, she was very good, she was very good when she came to the stage.

00:57:53My husband had arranged something like this, that the girl's set up was different.

00:58:01Because we don't have a mangani with the mangani, so the girl's hair is cut off.

00:58:07When the girl's hair was cut off, my husband said,

00:58:13She told me, my wife, I mean, the girl's hair is cut off.

00:58:18When the girl's hair was cut off, the girl's hair was cut off.

00:58:22At that time, the girl's mood broke.

00:58:23At that time, we went through that time.

00:58:26And the mother of the girl, she was very angry.

00:58:30She was very good, but at that time, she didn't say that you didn't give me the love of my daughter.

00:58:36The girl went home, she went home, she listened to her mother-in-law.

00:58:40She said, my husband, she didn't give me the love of my daughter.

00:58:45She said, you didn't give me the love of my daughter.

00:58:48She didn't give me the love of her.

00:58:50Basically, the girl was very unhappy.

00:58:54So, God's love to say that my daughter was dead.

00:58:57Alhamdulillah.

00:58:58I'm not sure what she said.

00:59:00Right, right.

00:59:01I'm just a question.

00:59:03Look, these are many things.

00:59:05The parents are being confused,

00:59:07and their family is not understood.

00:59:09At that time, the parents don't understand,

00:59:12that the kids can heal their children.

00:59:15How do the care of their children.

00:59:18How do you get a care of their children?

00:59:19How do you get a care of their children?

00:59:21So basically whether they are a child's mother or a child's mother or siblings, how to treat them

00:59:30They are the two people, their heart's heart

00:59:34They should leave them in their mood or talk to them?

00:59:39Initially they should talk to them and they should give them their emotions and catharsis

00:59:47So they should be able to keep their heart's heart

00:59:52They should leave them in their mood

00:59:53They should leave them in their mood

00:59:56But they should leave them alone

00:59:58They should leave them alone

01:00:00If they are parents, their heart is sad

01:00:01If they are crying, their emotions are hurt

01:00:03And their children are hurt

01:00:05So they should leave them alone

01:00:07If they are talking about their child's mother

01:00:11They should feel their mother's comfort

01:00:14They should leave them alone

01:00:17Yeah, it depends on how those relationships can be a good

01:00:21majority of their children

01:00:24because their children are

01:00:33recommendation is that you will try to do that child or the child to your emotional

01:00:39catharsis, a neutral person, therapist, counsellor, coach and relationship.

01:00:46If you say that your child is finished and you think that your child is in trouble,

01:00:51then you will send it to the therapy.

01:00:54Secondly, the second thing is that the child's mind is happening.

01:00:58I will tell you about this scenario.

01:01:00As a child has been asked for their children, they have been divorced and divorced.

01:01:05The third thing is that my mother would think that I had to say that I had to say that I had to say that I had to say that I had to say that this girl is not good.

01:01:12But I had to say that I had to say that my mother would judge me and that she would judge me.

01:01:17The best thing is that you have to say that you have a neutral person when he has a heart-like mind that he opens the heart.

01:01:25because the therapist's work is that he listens to you and doesn't judge you.

01:01:30With parents, there is also a lot of love for parents.

01:01:35But parents who are wrong with them are that they can judge their children.

01:01:40They can say something.

01:01:42They can create problems.

01:01:45The child is not able to open it.

01:01:47It is necessary that they can open their emotions.

01:01:51Parents are emotionally hurt themselves.

01:01:56They can't be emotionally attached.

01:01:59Parents also need therapy.

01:02:01Yes.

01:02:02Because the person who is wrong with them is the person who is wrong with them.

01:02:07Emotion is not so detached.

01:02:10Sometimes they are not very good listeners.

01:02:12This is a good thing to say that parents need therapy.

01:02:16Many of the people who come to study this,

01:02:18they say that one is done and one is done.

01:02:20One is done and another is done.

01:02:22They are very different.

01:02:24They say that you have done it.

01:02:27Now we are for you.

01:02:29I am talking about social media.

01:02:32You know that the parents say that they will be better than me.

01:02:37you know that they will be better than you do.

01:02:38Let us say I have to act properly.

01:02:39That as a parent I have believed in,

01:02:40that we will be better than me.

01:02:41It is better than you.

01:02:42And you know that my friends say that.

01:02:43What's going on in their parents?

01:02:44What's going on in their parents?

01:02:46They don't have social media.

01:02:48No, no, no.

01:02:49They also have to let the world of their society.

01:02:50At all in their subconscious and same time.

01:02:51There is the back of the mind that you have such good relationships.

01:02:54That I am so well with your family and I will know others.

01:02:58like you and I will tell you what you are doing

01:03:03and you will tell me again

01:03:06that I was thinking as a parent

01:03:09so maybe parents need therapy

01:03:12but where a child is arranged

01:03:15and when they are not arranged

01:03:16they will also get guilt

01:03:18then they say that you have to do another place

01:03:20but then you are doing what you are doing

01:03:23and then you are doing the same job

01:03:26I have to say that you have a lot of money.

01:03:28My case is so bad that a girl had a problem in the US.

01:03:32She had a marriage in the US and she had 4 years.

01:03:35She had a divorce in the US.

01:03:36She was in Pakistan.

01:03:38She said to me, I want to go to the US.

01:03:42I want to tell her that she is not a good person.

01:03:46She also has to make her own life.

01:03:48She has to make her own life.

01:03:50She has to be with her.

01:03:52She says, look how are you doing this.

01:03:54so I think that we can get the wrong with the relationship.

01:03:58That's not a good place.

01:04:00So the relationship between the two people

01:04:04are the ones that can be found.

01:04:06The whole life will be a side of it.

01:04:10People have a picture.

01:04:12People have the picture.

01:04:14You can't do it.

01:04:16You can't move on, don't get away.

01:04:18You can't do it.

01:04:20I can do it.

01:04:22so it's been changed our life

01:04:24a bad relationship that is like a horse

01:04:26that can go down

01:04:28when it's gone

01:04:30if it's gone

01:04:32if you go out

01:04:34this is really necessary

01:04:36that you forgive yourself

01:04:38forgive yourself

01:04:40yes

01:04:42so that you're out

01:04:44until you have to stay

01:04:46because it's never the girl

01:04:48sometimes she feels to be till

01:04:50and this is the nature of the human, I have made it but I thought it was not my way

01:04:57and the other thing is to change your life from the purpose of the purpose of the purpose

01:05:07and the purpose of the purpose of the purpose of the purpose of the purpose of the purpose

01:05:14You don't have to disconnect from the first time, you need to disconnect from the first time.

01:05:21Disconnect, if we want to do it yourself, then what is the way to do it?

01:05:29For emotional disconnection we recommend a therapy which we call chair therapy.

01:05:35In chair therapy we do this that you keep an empty chair in front of yourself.

01:05:40You keep an empty self in your life, which is the mistake there, 2 months prior to it,

01:05:48You keep an empty self and you keep your name with your name.

01:05:56That you have to fix your mistake and make your decision wrong.

01:05:59You can forgive me, I will forgive you.

01:06:04For the therapy we recommend you to continue.

01:06:08This is the whole therapy that I have uploaded on my YouTube channel

01:06:12so you can see it from there

01:06:14It's the whole technique called Faisa Aslam

01:06:18The past regressions and regrets

01:06:22How do you get out of it? How do you forgive yourself?

01:06:26Because until you don't forgive yourself

01:06:28You can't do that

01:06:30You don't do that

01:06:32The purpose of saying is that you forgive yourself

01:06:34and then you automatically forgive yourself

01:06:36Because when we forgive ourselves

01:06:38We are basically aware of it

01:06:40We are being自信 from that guilt

01:06:42That we have the decision that I have made

01:06:44that I have the guilt inside my inside

01:06:46so I have them being自信 from that guilt

01:06:48and now I am so自信 from that

01:06:51I will be able to make better decision for yourself

01:06:54which I want to take to take away

01:06:56So this is really necessary

01:06:58One thing you've ever seen

01:07:00that you've seen

01:07:02,

01:07:04the same as ...

01:07:06or the end of the circumstances.

01:07:08yes,

01:07:10or if we are doing the same relationship,

01:07:12and have met two months and met two months,

01:07:13then on,

01:07:14we see them like they like to do something.

01:07:16So, this is the first time.

01:07:17Now, I am going to say that,

01:07:20is the case?

01:07:22Yes.

01:07:23Many people are telling themselves

01:07:26that they have to go first,

01:07:28to do something.

01:07:29they just need to do it.

01:07:32They just need to do it.

01:07:34I have to say that if you have a good friend,

01:07:37if you have a good friend,

01:07:39then you can go ahead and get it.

01:07:41When you have 6 months after you have to understand

01:07:44what you have to understand.

01:07:46And you have to say that it is not a bad thing.

01:07:50So, this is a wrong thing.

01:07:52The amount of money that you have to do is not to do it.

01:07:55that they didn't even get into it and they said that they also said that they didn't get into it

01:08:02that they didn't get into it

01:08:04I'm saying that you did not want to make a gut

01:08:09they become good, they don't want to make a good thing

01:08:14so we are making a sugar coated thing

01:08:17you might say that I have to get into it

01:08:21When we were pregnant or pregnant, my mother didn't know anything,

01:08:26at 9am the phone came and we were at the bed and we were asleep.

01:08:29We were not in the house.

01:08:31And I said, what was the house?

01:08:33And I said, what is the house?

01:08:35And I said, I don't understand.

01:08:37And I said, you will come and say, this is a lie.

01:08:39And then my mother gave me a lie.

01:08:41So I said, I don't know how much the house is in the house.

01:08:45So what is the house?

01:08:47I think it's very easy to say that in the morning, I didn't think it was easy to say

01:08:52I said, who did you have to say in the morning?

01:08:56So this is what happens, people do this and they don't do it in the morning

01:09:00No, it's only one day

01:09:02One question, we ask for example, what is the salary of a girl?

01:09:09We are talking about her and she is talking about her

01:09:12a little bit of a hitchhike chart. The mother-in-law is wanting to know how good a job is, but what is the salary of the girl?

01:09:22What kind of things do they ask? What kind of technique do they need?

01:09:27It is the technique that the parents don't do this or the girl don't do this. If they are through the matchmaker then it is very easy.

01:09:35If you are in the second or third step, you are going to know the job or the business, you will automatically agree.

01:09:46Some people say that the house is a house, a house is a house, a house is a matchmaker.

01:09:53The best thing is that people are asking us until the right time, asking how many people will come or what will happen, if they are matchmaker.

01:10:01Now, there is no matchmaker in every relationship. So, people normally do it that after the second or third situation, like a puppy, a girl or a male site,

01:10:10they ask what future plans are. So, the girl says that I am a good job or I am doing it or I am doing it.

01:10:18So, they automatically do it. So, there are very few people who tell the exact figures of salary or income, they avoid it.

01:10:25They say that they have an incentive or get a house.

01:10:31I think one thing is that you keep the point of the Christian, which is the whole life.

01:10:36So, you need to have a little trust, a little honesty and openness.

01:10:43If you have a child, you are a child or a child. We just want to be sure that you both are comfortable.

01:10:54If you have a ballpark figure, that how much is saving you will be able to make it so that you don't have to.

01:11:00You will ask me to ask for love, to give a question.

01:11:05If that person will be able to give a question,

01:11:09you will know that your mindset is like or not.

01:11:14After a break, we will come back.

01:11:17Good morning.

01:11:24Welcome, welcome back. Good morning Pakistan.

01:11:27So, today we are going to discuss a very important topic.

01:11:31And one very important point,

01:11:33which is during the break,

01:11:35we will also ask them and ask them.

01:11:38One thing is that your son is angry.

01:11:42Or there is no other problem.

01:11:46This is what the people say,

01:11:48or the people say,

01:11:50do you marry?

01:11:51It will be right.

01:11:52With girls?

01:11:53Yes.

01:11:54It will be married or it will be alone.

01:11:56It will be alone.

01:11:57It will be very good.

01:11:58It will be very good.

01:11:59It will be very good.

01:12:00It will be very good.

01:12:01What parents do is,

01:12:02that they don't tell the relationship.

01:12:05They hide such things.

01:12:06Look,

01:12:07the mental mentality is coming.

01:12:10It is coming.

01:12:11The mental mentality is coming.

01:12:13The mental mentality is coming.

01:12:14And sometimes,

01:12:15they are coming.

01:12:16And the psychiatrist says,

01:12:18I mean,

01:12:19that's what we came to know.

01:12:21I mean,

01:12:22that's what we came to know.

01:12:24The doctor says,

01:12:25I mean,

01:12:26the doctor says,

01:12:27the doctor says,

01:12:28I mean,

01:12:29the doctor says,

01:12:30I mean,

01:12:31that's what we came to know.

01:12:32That's what we came to know.

01:12:33Even,

01:12:34even,

01:12:35we have cases like that,

01:12:36that the girl says,

01:12:37that the girl says,

01:12:38that the girl has told her,

01:12:39that the girl has no problem.

01:12:40Exactly.

01:12:41That's what happened.

01:12:42Exactly.

01:12:43And that the girl has no problem.

01:12:44Exactly.

01:12:45That's what happened.

01:12:46And after the marriage,

01:12:47it was disclosed.

01:12:48And now the situation is wrong.

01:12:49So,

01:12:50it's the divorce.

01:12:51So,

01:12:52it's the same thing.

01:12:53The girl's also hidden.

01:12:54Even the girl's also hidden.

01:12:55The girl's hidden.

01:12:56I remember one of them.

01:12:57I remember one of them.

01:12:58My daughter,

01:12:59who was my daughter,

01:13:00she was a girl.

01:13:01She was a girl.

01:13:02She was a girl.

01:13:03She was a girl.

01:13:05She had a trauma.

01:13:06She was a girl.

01:13:07She was a girl.

01:13:08She was a girl.

01:13:09So,

01:13:10the doctor has told me,

01:13:11let's get married.

01:13:12That'll go well.

01:13:13Actually,

01:13:14recently,

01:13:15we had someone with her family.

01:13:16I wouldn't give details.

01:13:17So,

01:13:18her daughter had a mangani dissolve.

01:13:19Just because,

01:13:20the girl,

01:13:21didn't give any response.

01:13:24She was a mangani.

01:13:26She was a mangani.

01:13:27I asked her when she married.

01:13:29She got married.

01:13:30She was a mangani.

01:13:31She was a mangani.

01:13:32She was a mangani.

01:13:33She was a mangani.

01:13:34She wanted to find out.

01:13:36When she talked about it.

01:13:38and he informed me that my suicidal thoughts were actually

01:13:44so he was going through treatment and then the doctor told me

01:13:49that you should get married and then you will have a positive

01:13:53and now it will be fine. So he told me that this is not

01:13:56that this is not that this is not that this is not that this is not

01:13:59that this is not that this is not a coping mechanism. Exactly.

01:14:02And there is no therapy.

01:14:05That is not that it doesn't mean you have drugs or bad or

01:14:09in business or if you are not taking in business

01:14:12or you have to make a responsible for his job.

01:14:14We need all this and the child will be involved

01:14:16and then the mother to do it.

01:14:17So the mother can set up.

01:14:19Now the child is not mature.

01:14:23For her to get married.

01:14:26Even the adults have this pressure on the children's

01:14:30to explain now.

01:14:31You can understand now.

01:14:33which one of them is the only one to give her a job

01:14:40her mother can't get tired from her children

01:14:46she's doing well for 20 days

01:14:50we can only have a difficult thing

01:14:53because in the girls and now in the girls there are a lot of bad habits

01:14:59for example drugs or drugs

01:15:03so if you don't know what to do

01:15:05if you don't know what to do

01:15:07how do you know

01:15:09how do you know

01:15:11how do you know

01:15:13how do you know

01:15:15how do you know

01:15:17how do you know

01:15:19how do you know

01:15:21who are friends

01:15:23who say birds or feather flock together

01:15:25they tell you

01:15:27what to do

01:15:29you know

01:15:31what to meet you

01:15:33what to do

01:15:35because if you don't

01:15:37have any

01:15:39you will be standing

01:15:41in the middle

01:15:43they are friends

01:15:45sometimes

01:15:47parents are so naive and they are so good friends

01:15:52they have a different group

01:15:56recently in Karachi

01:15:58but that group also knows you

01:16:01parents don't know anything

01:16:04you have to investigate it

01:16:07you have to investigate it

01:16:10when you take parents' knowledge

01:16:13they don't know their parents

01:16:15when you talk about it

01:16:17they have a good reputation

01:16:19where they are working

01:16:21or their education

01:16:23they are so good

01:16:25later you get to know that

01:16:26some of them were friends

01:16:28who didn't have a screen

01:16:30they have friends

01:16:32some of them don't know

01:16:34they don't know their friends

01:16:36they are obviously in a practical life

01:16:38they get to know

01:16:40their parents

01:16:43but I am sorry

01:16:45if they are like that

01:16:47they don't know how late they are

01:16:49so late they are coming back

01:16:51they are so common

01:16:52they are working on the late night

01:16:54or on weekends

01:16:56that happens

01:16:58they are going with this friend

01:17:00you can tell me

01:17:01your phone is coming

01:17:03you're correct

01:17:04you are saying

01:17:05but majority

01:17:07but we talk about a majority

01:17:09and again

01:17:11if you have to tell about someone's character

01:17:15you are not asking her mother

01:17:17so you are saying that she doesn't know her mother

01:17:21you are not asking her mother

01:17:23you are not asking her

01:17:25you are watching her circle

01:17:27if you have a mangani

01:17:29if you have 4 friends

01:17:31you will see which one is closed

01:17:33but you can check

01:17:35one time in investigation

01:17:37one person helped me

01:17:39some things happen

01:17:41when you communicate

01:17:43the girl is talking about

01:17:45some things happen

01:17:47some things happen

01:17:49there are some signs

01:17:51that she has eventually

01:17:53that she has suicidal tendencies

01:17:55or something is off

01:17:57or something is not normal

01:17:59so if your child

01:18:01she says

01:18:03that she doesn't feel right

01:18:05that she needs to investigate

01:18:07some things happen

01:18:09some times

01:18:11that you have to look at her

01:18:13but there is no big thing

01:18:15because the person in the house

01:18:17they will not be honest

01:18:19they will not be honest

01:18:21they will not say

01:18:23that she will be honest

01:18:25and then you will do it

01:18:27that she is saying

01:18:29that she is saying

01:18:31that she is asking her

01:18:33that she has asked her

01:18:35that she has a chat

01:18:37with different girls

01:18:39and very few times

01:18:41that she will not be aware of

01:18:43even that her mother

01:18:45is trying to keep her

01:18:47and make her defense

01:18:49that she will try to accept her

01:18:51if she will not make her

01:18:53anything with her

01:18:55We are not loyal to them.

01:18:57What will we do after the wedding?

01:18:59We are also doing this.

01:19:01Today, we have friends with girls and girls.

01:19:03Just be friends.

01:19:05But we don't know how to get into the chat.

01:19:07I was coming to the point that

01:19:09the chat was the same type.

01:19:11As soon as the child grows up,

01:19:15there are infatuation in teenage years.

01:19:17It's like healthy.

01:19:19Thank God for that.

01:19:21If she likes a girl,

01:19:23she doesn't know how to get into it.

01:19:25I have a joke.

01:19:27No, no, no.

01:19:29This is a very big issue.

01:19:31Allah Academy has been forgiven for us.

01:19:33We must forgive ourselves.

01:19:35But this is very big issue.

01:19:37That men are going to the side of the woman.

01:19:39And women are going to the side of the side of the side.

01:19:41And women are going to the side of the side.

01:19:43They are going to the side of the side.

01:19:45They are going to the side of the side.

01:19:47And these things are going to be done.

01:19:49I was told that there are many investigations in the past.

01:19:54So that's what I was saying.

01:19:55Gamble is not in any case.

01:19:57But you are always trying to do it.

01:19:59But if there is a change in place,

01:20:03you will have to get a clue.

01:20:05You will have to get a clue.

01:20:07We don't have to look at red facts.

01:20:09We don't have to look at red facts.

01:20:10We don't have to look at red facts.

01:20:12We don't have to look at red facts.

01:20:14We don't have to look at red facts.

01:20:16We don't have to look at red facts.

01:20:18God bless you.

01:20:19So we need to ask different sources.

01:20:21All the points connect.

01:20:23Who is the neighbors.

01:20:24Who is the office.

01:20:25Who is the business.

01:20:27If you ask the guards,

01:20:29he will tell you.

01:20:30He is a very good person.

01:20:31Good morning.

01:20:32I will mind up.

01:20:34Thank you so much.

01:20:35Very good points are there.

01:20:37I will conclude that

01:20:39the sisters are very clean.

01:20:41They don't need to be desperate.

01:20:43Right.

01:20:44True.

01:20:45Yeah.

01:20:46So you will and all your children,

01:20:47You will keep their needs.

01:20:48Right.

01:20:49Are you ready for the other side?

01:20:50Yes.

01:20:51No, no.

01:20:52No, no, no.

01:20:53And even care about that.

01:20:54You have to be a single side.

01:20:55No, no, no.

01:20:56And make sure that you have to be dead.

01:20:57Yes.

01:20:58No, no, no.

01:20:59No, no, no.

01:21:00Yes.

01:21:01Yes.

01:21:02Yes, Yes, it is.

01:21:03No, no, no, no.

01:21:04I do not want to fight for this.

01:21:06It's a clock to get married, to get married, to get married, if it's an investment, it's an emotional investment, then it will rise up to the house.

01:21:15Absolutely.

01:21:16So this was our show today, I hope that you will understand something and if you have any help in your life, it will be our responsibility.

01:21:23Good morning Pakistan.

01:21:24Khuda Hafiz.

Good Morning Pakistan | Hina Khawaja Bayat | Munazzah Arif | 18 June 2025 | ARY Digital

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