00:00I can't say that she has wronged her.
00:03If she has wronged her, why would we be blind?
00:06She wanted to live so much.
00:08But then I had to pray to God,
00:10take her away, I cannot see her suffering.
00:13Suffering, okay.
00:14The God has given you a lot of things, right?
00:17Yes, I have given you a lot of things.
00:19I have given you a lot of things, right?
00:21I have given you a lot of things.
00:23Tell me a little bit about what you are doing.
00:25Tell me a little bit about what you are doing.
00:27Tell me a little bit about what happened with Payal,
00:30and what did you go through?
00:32Because I think that is one of the worst experiences
00:35any human being can go through.
00:38Number one Bharti, I don't like to talk about it now,
00:42because since Payal is not around, yeah?
00:45But Payal did a wrong choice,
00:47and she paid the price,
00:49and we all paid the price.
00:52And somewhere something has to be, you know,
00:56because I couldn't even say that,
00:58that Payal did wrong.
00:59If Payal did wrong,
01:01then why would we be blind?
01:03Okay, I cannot say that I am blind as a mother,
01:06then why would my husband be blind as a father?
01:08Why would my daughter, younger one,
01:10why would she be blind as a sister?
01:12Yeah.
01:13My blind brother used to cry on the phone,
01:15that what day is for me,
01:17and what night is for me.
01:18So if you know me,
01:20if you don't know me,
01:21take me to payal,
01:23and payal was, you know,
01:25Payal was, you saw her born and brought up,
01:28such a lovely and a child.
01:30She had so, suffered so much,
01:35so which I don't like to go back.
01:37She was in a coma for two and a half years.
01:40Yeah, 2017 she was in a coma.
01:42She came back in between, in between,
01:44but then we are forbidden to see her
01:47on our terms and condition.
01:49We had to go through police, court, everything.
01:53So the lesser, the better,
01:55you know, on this subject also,
01:57because it is not something nice thing
01:59or talking about proud thing.
02:01Not at all,
02:02but it is very inspirational to know
02:05how as a parent,
02:07did you handle the loss of a child?
02:11How is it that you are?
02:13Together.
02:14How is it that you are?
02:15Together.
02:16Only together.
02:17Togetherness means?
02:18Together means,
02:19hum ek saath jhele.
02:21You, Babu and Megha.
02:23Megha.
02:24My brother, my sister,
02:25jo bhi her, family.
02:27My mother also died in that time.
02:29She could not,
02:30she did not know why payal is not coming to see her.
02:32I could not tell her,
02:34ke payal is in coma hospital.
02:36Right.
02:37So I told you,
02:38I had very very big stroke
02:40and my child like Dodo,
02:43the lever dog.
02:44Yeah.
02:45Dogs.
02:46He also,
02:47you know,
02:48they all are fighting.
02:49I think they all gave their life for Payal,
02:51but it did not happen.
02:53And Payal wanted to live so much towards the end,
02:56she understood.
02:57She neglected herself,
02:58whatever her mental condition.
03:00Yeah.
03:01And she wanted to live so much.
03:03But then I had to pray to God,
03:05ki take her away.
03:06I cannot see her suffering.
03:08Suffering.
03:09Okay.
03:10Okay.
03:11Better because,
03:12we are a soul,
03:13we are going to leave our body,
03:14Wandi Bharti.
03:15What is the point suffering?
03:16Yeah.
03:17Yeah.
03:18If you are my,
03:19if you are love with my soul,
03:20you should always say,
03:21let it be free,
03:22now.
03:23Yeah.
03:24But how?
03:25The most damage is my younger daughter.
03:27Actually.
03:28Babu,
03:29not until now,
03:30got over.
03:31Because,
03:32he is still,
03:33sometimes seeing Payal's photo.
03:34I was not thinking,
03:35take her away from here.
03:36He is,
03:37get choked,
03:38you know,
03:39like.
03:40But,
03:41we do the birth of Payal's birth too.
03:43Even now,
03:44after she is no more?
03:45Yes.
03:46Yes.
03:47Oh, her birth anniversary.
03:48First,
03:49May Day.
03:50May Day.
03:51Look,
03:52God loves me.
03:53May Day.
03:54May Day.
03:55May Day.
03:56May Day.
03:57May Day.
03:58May Day.
03:59First May.
04:00Okay.
04:01So,
04:02you celebrate her birth anniversary every year?
04:03Oh, yeah.
04:04Everywhere.
04:05But,
04:06Megha also.
04:07Everybody,
04:08in our house.
04:09Cake cutting,
04:10shutting,
04:11dough type cake.
04:12Payal loves pineapple cake.
04:13Okay.
04:14So,
04:15we used to always,
04:16order for her.
04:17Not only that,
04:18Payal ke saath,
04:19jo colleagues bhi kaam karte,
04:20jo friends bhi hain.
04:21They also celebrate,
04:22you know.
04:23You know,
04:24you're a very fortunate lady,
04:25because,
04:26you've had,
04:27tragedies like this,
04:29and yet,
04:30and you've not,
04:31not,
04:32reached,
04:33the number one position,
04:34but you're such a happy,
04:35adjusted person.
04:36That's why I said,
04:37I'm like a water.
04:38No,
04:39that,
04:40because,
04:41I think,
04:42I got,
04:43I'm blessed person,
04:44what you are saying it.
04:45Baru ki ashirva,
04:46chotu ka payar.
04:47Because,
04:48that's right.
04:49That's right.
04:50So,
04:51God gave me so much.
04:52And,
04:53I tell,
04:54conversation with my God,
04:56and I said,
04:57but,
04:58I also give you so much.
04:59I gave my daughter.
05:00Yeah.
05:01You know.
05:02Yes.
05:03But,
05:04I think,
05:05I feel,
05:06I'm okay.
05:07Absolutely.
05:08Balance.
05:09Yeah.
05:10But,
05:11Bhagawan,
05:12has given you a lot.
05:13Yes.
05:14No,
05:15I also gave my daughter,
05:16and what can we do?
05:18But,
05:19then,
05:20also,
05:21I'm happy.
05:22Yeah.
05:23Because,
05:24every day,
05:25there's a mother,
05:26especially,
05:27our young people.
05:28That's right.
05:29That's why,
05:30we sleep,
05:31in the night properly.
05:32That's right.
05:33You know.
05:34And,
05:35aapna kisaan,
05:36jo bhi hai.
05:37They all are,
05:38Contributes.
05:39And,
05:40not only,
05:41the young people,
05:42are prepared.
05:43Correct.
05:44Aek ka body aata hai,
05:45dusra ko tiyaar karta hai.
05:46Correct.
05:47To,
05:48us ke samane,
05:49humara koi dhukhi nahi hai.
05:50That's right.
05:51That's right.
05:52You're absolutely correct.
05:53And,
05:54that's why,
05:55I could laugh.
05:56I could smile.
05:57I could make.
05:58I always say,
05:59you should be source of happiness.
06:00uh,
06:01premature death,
06:02in ke family bhe.
06:03But,
06:04they mostly also,
06:05you know,
06:06grief,
06:07and all the time,
06:08talk.
06:09And,
06:10I say,
06:11so,
06:12jo sadness hai na,
06:13wo baatne ka chiz nahi hai.
06:14And,
06:15I can't cry,
06:16my personal reason.
06:17Hmm.
06:18Hmm.
06:19Hmm.
06:20feel,
06:21I feel,
06:22I'm a brave girl.
06:23My parents are so brave.
06:25They brought me up so well.
06:27Well.
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