This Video Explains Sexual Consent Using A Cup Of Tea

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Not sure what sexual consent really means? Make a cup of tea...and watch this video by Blue Seat Studios. ️

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00:00If you're still struggling with consent, just imagine instead of initiating sex,

00:05you're making them a cup of tea.

00:07You say, hey, would you like a cup of tea?

00:09And they go, oh my god, fuck yes, I would fucking love a cup of tea, thank you.

00:15Then you know they want a cup of tea.

00:17If you say, hey, would you like a cup of tea?

00:20And they're like, uh, you know, I'm not really sure.

00:23Uh, then you could make them a cup of tea, or not,

00:26but be aware they might not drink it.

00:29And if they don't drink it, then, and this is the important part,

00:33don't make them drink it.

00:35Just because you made it doesn't mean you are entitled to watch them drink it.

00:39And if they say no thank you, then don't make them tea.

00:43At all.

00:44Just don't make them tea.

00:46Don't make them drink tea.

00:48Don't get annoyed at them for not wanting tea.

00:50They just don't want tea, okay?

00:53They might say, yes please, that's kind of you.

00:56And then when the tea arrives, they actually don't want the tea at all.

01:00Sure, that's kind of annoying, as you've gone to all the effort of making the tea,

01:04but they remain under no obligation to drink the tea.

01:08They did want tea, now they don't.

01:10Some people change their mind in the time that it takes to boil the kettle,

01:13brew the tea, and add the milk.

01:15And it's okay for people to change their mind.

01:17And you are still not entitled to watch them drink it.

01:20And if they're unconscious, don't make them tea.

01:23Unconscious people don't want tea.

01:25And they can't answer the question, do you want tea?

01:28Because they're unconscious.

01:31Okay, maybe they were conscious when you asked them if they wanted tea.

01:34And they said yes.

01:35But in the time it took you to boil the kettle,

01:37brew the tea, and add the milk, they are now unconscious.

01:40You should just put the tea down.

01:42Make sure the unconscious person is safe.

01:45And this is the important part again.

01:47Don't make them drink the tea.

01:49They said yes then, sure, but unconscious people don't want tea.

01:55If someone said yes to tea, started drinking it,

01:58and then passed out before they'd finished it,

02:00don't keep on pouring it down their throat.

02:02Take the tea away.

02:04Make sure they're safe.

02:05Because unconscious people don't want tea.

02:08Trust me on this.

02:10If someone said yes to tea around your house last Saturday,

02:13that doesn't mean they want you to make them tea all the time.

02:16They don't want you to come around to their place unexpectedly

02:19and make them tea and force them to drink it going,

02:21but you wanted tea last week.

02:24Or to wake up to find you pouring tea down their throat going,

02:26but you wanted tea last night.

02:28If you can understand how completely ludicrous it is

02:30to force people to have tea when they don't want tea,

02:33and you're able to understand when people don't want tea,

02:36then how hard is it to understand it when it comes to sex?

02:39Whether it's tea or sex, consent is everything.

02:43And on that note, I'm going to go make myself a cup of tea.

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