00:00I actually, the first time I met Natasha is in the 6th standard.
00:04Oh God! But you have not been dating since then?
00:06We have not been dating since then.
00:08We were friends till like the 10th, 11th, 12th grade.
00:11We were very close friends.
00:12But the minute I saw her, like I remember now also,
00:15and I remember her walking and I remember seeing her
00:18and actually when I saw her I felt like I fell in love with her that day.
00:26I think you and me both have grown up in that same kind of space
00:29where we are always continuously in a high speed shot.
00:32Correct.
00:33I think it happened with me and Saif.
00:34Correct.
00:35In his head a Hindi film was not playing.
00:36No, never. He is at Clint Eastwood.
00:38He is at another…
00:39A Hollywood movie was going on.
00:40And I was in Main Hoon Na, like that Sushmita Saree Wala Flying.
00:43So that's why I said we both are quite similar.
00:45I think the same thing happens with me and Natasha also that
00:48you know I am obviously more filmy.
00:50Like if we are going for drives, I want to play Hindi songs.
00:53And she is like…
00:54And I want to play Hindi songs.
00:55And she is like, what are you doing man?
00:56And I am like, come on.
00:57And she is like, let's play Chainspokers.
00:59And I am like, yeah, yeah, we will play, we will play.
01:01But good, but it's good to have a mix, please.
01:03Yeah, 100%.
01:04So tell me what are some things which you wanted in your partner which you got?
01:09I really got honesty in my relationship from my partner, you know.
01:12And that is something which I had to kind of learn from
01:16and understand the value of that as I went about in my relationship.
01:21Yeah, of course.
01:22It's a very deep rooted answer.
01:25But this is the answer to any boys who are listening to me.
01:27This is the answer.
01:28That's exactly what women want.
01:29Honesty.
01:30But you have to be careful when you hit them with that honesty.
01:33Let me be honest.
01:34I love women.
01:35I just love women.
01:36I love being around them.
01:38I love talking to them.
01:39But are you actually like that?
01:40Like, you know, playing pranks and doing that in real life?
01:43No, no, not so much in real life.
01:45But yeah, I have a lot of fun in me and all that stuff.
01:49I do all that.
01:50But to a level, I love women because I just feel that
01:53they have a far better insight on things than men.
01:56The way they understand things.
01:58They're more mature.
01:59Yeah.
02:00When someone starts dating someone,
02:03do you think that you should actually tell those lies to them
02:06to kind of impress them first?
02:08You know, those little little white lies to just kind of impress them.
02:11A little bit.
02:12But how much lie is too much according to you?
02:14No, obviously you can't change your name and all.
02:17I remember when I was in college and I was dating this girl.
02:21She was like the hottest girl in the college at that time.
02:25And she was way out of my league.
02:27And I wanted to talk to her somehow.
02:30How do I talk to her?
02:31And she had a boyfriend.
02:33But I wanted to talk to her.
02:34She had a boyfriend, not a husband.
02:36So during class or something, I would sit,
02:39not near her, but very close to her.
02:42Just that she'll see me at some point.
02:44And I think after a month or something,
02:46after I stopped trying is when she started noticing actually.
02:49Yeah, so I think girls like that.
02:52When the guy actually...
02:53They love it.
02:54I actually, the first time I met Natasha,
02:57is in the sixth standard.
02:58Oh God, but you have not been dating since then?
03:01We've not been dating since then.
03:02We were friends till like the 10th, 11th, 12th grade.
03:05We were very close friends.
03:07But the minute I saw her,
03:08like I remember now also,
03:09I went to Manejji Cooper and she was in yellow house,
03:12I was in red house.
03:13And it was on the basketball court.
03:15And in lunch break, we would get like,
03:17you know, in the canteen,
03:18they give you food or give you energy
03:19and you get samosa or whatever you get.
03:22And I remember her walking and I remember seeing her.
03:25And actually, when I saw her,
03:28I felt like I fell in love with her that day.
03:31That was it.
03:32But then you didn't obviously see her for a while.
03:35No.
03:36I mean, I always,
03:37she rejected me like some three, four times.
03:39And then started dating much later.
03:41Yeah, but see, I was, I kept, I didn't give up hope.
03:46You seem like quite a, like love lawn.
03:49You believe in.
03:50I wouldn't, but once it hits you,
03:53then you're a goner.
03:55Yeah.
03:56So you do believe that love is all you need.
03:58And you feel that, you know,
03:59for the happiness of the company,
04:01money is very important.
04:03And you know, like.
04:04No, not money.
04:05I can live on love and fresh air.
04:06No, I don't think anyone can live on love.
04:08Let's be practical.
04:09I don't think so that's possible.
04:10But definitely when you fail in life,
04:12which every human being will,
04:14having that one person by you,
04:16who you can lean on,
04:17is the most important thing in the world.
04:19You know.
04:20Because you never know when that time.
04:21See, I know hits and flops don't affect you,
04:23but they affect me.
04:24No, what rubbish.
04:26It doesn't affect her, I'm telling you the truth.
04:27No, that's not true at all.
04:28Even if she's given the biggest blockbuster,
04:30she has the same smile like she has
04:32if a film will not do that.
04:33But now, Varun,
04:34you've been with your fiancée since school.
04:36You've been with Natasha.
04:37So I want to know who made the first move
04:40and like, you know,
04:41like how did you all decide that,
04:43this is it, we have to get married?
04:44See, marriage,
04:45obviously now coming into this,
04:48like coming into this time period
04:50after you've been with someone for so long,
04:52I felt like getting married
04:54is after I saw my brother and my sister-in-law.
04:57And after they had,
04:58my niece has come,
04:59so when I saw my niece,
05:01it's like, this is good.
05:03And even Natasha,
05:04I think her parents
05:05and even she's been pretty chill in that sense.
05:07But I think after a certain period
05:09when you decide that you want to live with each other,
05:12like me and she would have not mind
05:15living in together.
05:16Doing a living in scene.
05:18But I think my parents in that sense wanted us,
05:20because I have my own place now, so.
05:22But now you're not living with?
05:24With her? No.
05:25No, with your parents.
05:26No, I don't live with my parents anymore.
05:27So Varun, do you have a communication style?
05:29Like, are you like the traditional face-to-face kind of guy?
05:33Or, you know,
05:34do you prefer WhatsApp messages?
05:38I hate talking on the phone.
05:39Why? Yeah, I know.
05:40Why is this?
05:41This generation is just like,
05:42they don't want to pick up the phone and talk.
05:44I just get really like,
05:46I mean, I just, I don't know.
05:47I don't enjoy talking on the phone.
05:49I talk to one person on the phone
05:50and that's my friend Kavish.
05:52Yeah, but otherwise,
05:53more for work to like, you know.
05:55Yeah, yeah, work, we talk.
05:56Work, I mean, work I do talk.
05:58I mean, those work calls I do do.
05:59But that's better face-to-face, I feel.
06:01That's face-to-face.
06:02So you prefer conversations that are face-to-face?
06:04I can't have phone conversations.
06:05No, or messaging?
06:06Messaging is okay.
06:07Time pass.
06:08And have you ever mistakenly
06:10messaged someone by mistake?
06:11You know, where you're like,
06:12thinking about a person
06:13but you're texting someone else
06:14and then you send that message.
06:15Oh, like a mistake message?
06:17Oh no, no, no.
06:19I've had mistakes where I've called the person
06:21by other names and all that stuff.
06:23Like by other names?
06:24Yeah, yeah, yeah.
06:25Like girls?
06:26Yeah, yeah, that's happened.
06:27Oh God, that's even worse.
06:28That's happened, that's happened with Kapoor.
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