00:00Is there anything that works for anybody, let alone marriage, is there anything in life
00:05that one is happy with when someone comes and says, I'm not happy with my spouse?
00:09Is this person happy with his car or the walls of his house or his job or his slippers or
00:15his friends or his parents?
00:16Is this person happy even with himself?
00:19The problem is not the spouse.
00:20The problem is the unrealistic expectation we cultivate with respect to the institution
00:26of marriage.
00:27The person who enters into your life or your house does not come to raise you to divine
00:34possibilities.
00:35That person comes to you because you do not deserve to lead a single bachelor life.
00:41You do not have that kind of internal discipline.
00:43To not to marry is an accomplishment.
00:46Not to marry is a status you have to achieve.
00:48You are not born bachelor, you are born married.
00:51Bachelorhood is something that you have to earn and achieve.
