00:00So that was more heartbreaking, even though you had a baby and the relationship didn't succeed?
00:06It was a different kind of heartbreak because that's what happened to me and my ex.
00:11We were together for almost four years.
00:14It got to the point that we lived together.
00:18We didn't have a child.
00:20And when we decided to really part ways,
00:23we were given a gift, which is Uno.
00:28How did it happen that you parted ways?
00:30Yes.
00:31How did it happen?
00:32That's possible!
00:34Wow!
00:36Wow! Pleasant experience!
00:38That's possible!
00:40Even though you parted ways, you still have a child!
00:42It's a shame!
00:46How about you?
00:48No, I don't have a child.
00:50Share that with us!
00:52He's not allowed there!
00:55His reaction was like a first-hand experience.
00:59That's pretty!
01:01I've heard a lot of stories like that.
01:05But in reality, when a couple parted ways,
01:09you can't totally separate.
01:12You'll still meet each other.
01:14There's one more chance.
01:15And sometimes, you parted ways.
01:17You fought.
01:19Sometimes, the intense fight,
01:21when you saw each other again,
01:23sometimes, they patch up the issue
01:25by...
01:27Fussing?
01:29Yes!
01:31Fussing!
01:33Yes!
01:35Sometimes, they end up in an action movie
01:37by Regal Films.
01:39Yes!
01:41Action drama!
01:43Aramina in the movie,
01:45Sagad sa Init.
01:47Aramina was like that in the movie.
01:49Aramina in the movie, Sagad sa Init.
01:52So, there.
01:54When did you part ways?
01:56That's hard.
01:58Being a single mom,
02:00it's really a choice.
02:02Definitely, when I was pregnant,
02:04I considered to work things out with him.
02:06Because usually,
02:08that's the advice of a parent.
02:10Work it out.
02:12Get married.
02:14And of course, the baby is pitiful.
02:16But I realized that
02:18I think the child is more pitiful
02:21if we direct the relationship
02:23to be proven and tested
02:25that it won't really work out.
02:27Because the child will grow up
02:29with issues that he'll see
02:31that they always fight
02:33and they don't get along.
02:35I think I chose the path
02:37that even if we're not together,
02:39our love will grow first.
02:41I said,
02:43we don't have to get back together
02:45just to feel
02:47our first love.
02:49That's what pro-divorce
02:51is fighting for.
02:53Right?
02:55Divorce doesn't destroy
02:57our relationship.
02:59The relationship is really broken
03:01and it can't be fixed.
03:03But because you don't want to
03:05give us a divorce,
03:07we can't escape that relationship.
03:09The relationship
03:11cannot be fixed anymore.
03:13But we can fix ourselves.
03:15But we cannot fix ourselves
03:18because we're trapped.
03:20That's one of the arguments
03:22of pro-divorce.
03:26So, we are hoping that...
03:28How are you now?
03:30Are you okay? Are you single?
03:32Yes, I have to say
03:34being a single mom,
03:36it's really challenging.
03:38That's a beautiful saying.
03:40How do you say it again?
03:42It's beautiful, right?
03:44I want to hear it in a podcast
03:46Say it again
03:48because I'm quiet.
03:50Yeah, I have to say
03:52being a single mom is really challenging.
03:54Right? You're like Siri's friend
03:56when you were a kid.
03:58It's like Siri's friend.
04:00Because in high school,
04:02Alexa, even though her last name is Ilacat,
04:04she's still Alexa Ilacat.
04:06Because in high school,
04:08I'm a voice actor.
04:10Yes, and I'm really voicing
04:12in TVCs.
04:15So, congrats to your arrogance
04:17to make us do that.
04:19Because we're not high school.
04:21Her voice is well-modulated.
04:23You said you're a good singer, right?
04:25Yes, I'm a good singer.
04:27That's why...
04:29That's why I'm here now.
04:33So, it's very challenging, but then again...
04:35Very, very.
04:37Because, think about it, I'm pregnant
04:39but my mindset is
04:41I'm already a single mom.
04:43You're heartbroken, right?
04:45No, because I can't
04:47complain, I can't demand
04:49there would be someone
04:51who would really support me and make me feel
04:53that someone will take care of me.
04:55The support from family,
04:57of course, I have a lot of respect
04:59for my family because
05:01they never left me.
05:03They made me feel that I'm not alone.
05:05But, of course,
05:07you have to find
05:09what's really there for you.
05:12The love you get from family
05:14is different from the love you get from romance.
05:16From the love
05:18of a person
05:20other than your family.
05:41you
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