00:00Because the road is your choice, that's the road you want, right? You want to get married, right?
00:03Just go ahead, don't complain, just talk to God
00:05I am very, very grateful
00:08I am grateful and thank you for taking care of me
00:12Thank you
00:14I am so lucky to get this disease, I got it at KIA
00:24Once lived together and then divorced for almost 8 years
00:28KIA Propa actress has decided to get back together with her husband
00:32who is now living with stage 4 cancer
00:36And this time, Estrogen Park has the opportunity to meet and talk exclusively
00:40with KIA Propa at the Cancer Emergency Department
00:44Okay, we understand that you ran from egg yolk to Putrajaya
00:49What can you share? You said you are not very healthy
00:52Yes, today I have a little bruise on my neck
00:55Because when we do chemo, maybe the skin becomes thin
00:58So there is a bruise, then all my brother has diabetes, he has insulin
01:02So I don't want any infections, that's why I came here
01:06I came here, it's okay, today is a business vacation
01:082 days ago I came here, that day it was less salty, it was weak
01:11So no one said no, no one said no, no one said no, no one said no
01:14Everything is possible because this is his safety and also his comfort
01:18For his comfort, we have no compromise on any condition
01:23If he is sick, let's go
01:24Even though it's a big deal with IKN, for me, there is no obstacle
01:26God willing, God willing, ask God to take care, right?
01:28What do we want to say, right?
01:29Like us, if you are sick, people will blame you, it hurts, right?
01:33So we don't blame, I came
01:35You came down from egg yolk to Putrajaya, it's like the second home, if we look
01:40But your great sacrifice, where is your strength?
01:43Actually nothing, just like I think when I hold the responsibility that we want to get married
01:48We feel like we want to get married
01:50He got married, not just say, get married, get married, have fun, no, no
01:54When I got married to my brother for the second time, my brother also diagnosed cancer
01:57We already know our responsibility is different from other women
02:00So my sister's responsibility is different
02:01So I think that strength doesn't come from me, I'm just an ordinary person
02:04Everything comes from God Almighty
02:06There is nothing that can resist the power of God Almighty
02:09Today maybe we laugh, we don't know where we are tomorrow
02:11And the choice of IKN is the best choice for cancer patients like my brother
02:15Because we are public people, we don't know how to handle it like this
02:20If people say, I can just go to a regular clinic, I can take the easy way
02:24But I don't want to, give your comfort, where do you want to go?
02:27You want IKN, you want IKN, okay, we'll bring it
02:29So adjust it to your business, business, whatever
02:33The strength is not from us, the strength is from him
02:35Sister, about marriage, we know that you used to be with your brother for a while
02:40Then the fate was not long, you had to separate for a while
02:43And this time you are back with your brother in your current situation
02:47If we say it's not too much, not all wives or women can come back to this situation
02:54What caused you to accept it again?
02:56Because for me the world is temporary
02:58If you chase the world, the world has nowhere to go
03:00Because if he can have a hard time with his sister looking for sustenance
03:03Even though we have been separated for 8 years
03:05We are looking for sustenance together
03:06We went to Singapore, to Brunei, Sabah, Sarawak, all over the continent
03:11In the morning, afternoon, evening, camping, camping, whatever
03:14Busy, business, you know, business outside
03:17There we get money to raise our children together
03:19No way when he is in trouble, I leave him
03:21That means people have no humanity
03:23So the value must be there, he didn't have money first
03:25He didn't have money first, he valued us first as humans
03:28What is our value to humans?
03:30He is not a problem
03:30If you have high blood pressure, diabetes, we can play again
03:33You can take care of your diet, this is cancer
03:35Cancer today is different, tomorrow is different, the next day is different, the next day is different
03:38Because he is abnormal, he is not like us
03:40We can sleep 24 hours, let's think like that
03:42We can sleep 24 hours, my brother doesn't sleep like that
03:44We are sleeping well, my brother is sick
03:47We don't take medicine, my brother takes medicine for 2-3 hours
03:49So for me, he doesn't want to get popularity, he doesn't want to get this, no, no, no
03:52As long as you serve me as a wife, we serve each other well
03:57We do it well, don't tell me how to do the test
04:00Here in the world, there are a lot of tests
04:01Test, we walk, we walk, we focus on the future
04:04There are times when I'm not strong either
04:05There are times when my emotions are a bit disturbed, I want to be fast
04:08People have cancer, you know, sometimes they want to be fast, sometimes they are sick, sometimes like this
04:10But for me, that thing, consider it a toothache
04:14It's just the tip of the nail, it's okay, don't take it too seriously
04:17We have to think about the situation, try to include ourselves in cancer patients
04:21They have such high hopes here
04:23So I feel like cancer is a killer
04:25Number one, I feel like, surrender
04:27Cancer patients, I don't take a spring from you
04:30You guys are strong
04:32When he is sick or my brother says he has a disease
04:34What really comes to test your patience as a woman
04:37Well, I have to take care of my brother in this situation, my children
04:40Actually, my business, my children's business
04:43My emotions, my brother's emotions, everything is a game
04:45He's like this, people are sick like this, he wants to be fast
04:48He wants everything to be fast, everything, if possible, don't be wrong
04:50Fast, fast, fast, he says it, do it, he says it, do it
04:52But sometimes we don't let it go either
04:54If we feel it, it's normal for me
04:56This is human, I'm not a human robot either
04:58But he tests when he's sick
05:00For example, you like to be fast, like you manage time
05:02I want to be fast, this is my journey, my two hours, like this, like this
05:06My brain is time, time, time, fast, walk, firm, focus
05:09Like him, wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute
05:12He will take time, so if you want to push him, he will be angry with me
05:14In the end, if he's not angry, he cries
05:16If you feel my heart, I'm fast, fast, fast
05:18Because for me, this is what I want, this road I chose
05:21Why do I have to give up?
05:22If this is the road I chose, why do I have to be sad, why do I have to
05:25Wait a minute, I'm not a robot, I'm not a statue
05:27I feel it in my heart too, but for you, why do you want to
05:31Because the road is your choice
05:32That's the road you want, right? You want to get married, right?
05:34Just walk, don't complain, God willing, talk to God
05:37Talking about the road, I have read the story of my brother and sister
05:40I once asked Rujuk to come back when I was healthy
05:44But why did you make the decision to accept your brother in this situation?
05:47Are you really sincere or out of pity?
05:50Actually, there are two of them
05:51We have two people, we have two different feelings
05:55Eight years ago, I really didn't want to
05:57Because for me, as a woman, after eight years, I feel comfortable
06:00It's not that I'm easy, I'm also difficult
06:02But my brother also helped
06:03So I didn't feel like getting married again
06:06But when I saw his condition, he started to feel pity for himself
06:09When it comes to pity, it's okay, we have to love him, right?
06:11Love and pity, they will be in one
06:13It's a lie if people say pity, no, no
06:15At this point, maybe you can share your condition at what level?
06:19He is stage 4, which he is in the palliative cancer group
06:22Brother, I'm sorry, maybe you can share
06:24What do you feel about your condition?
06:26What do you feel about your condition? What do you feel?
06:28Sick, how are you?
06:30Sick, he's like tense down here
06:32So I want to eat, I want to swallow, it's hard, it's hard
06:36That's all, the road so far okay
06:38But it hurts, he's cancer, today it hurts, tomorrow it hurts, he's like that
06:43Because you have a neck cancer, when you have a neck cancer
06:45The effect of chemotherapy is indeed nauseous
06:47But when the neck cancer cells have attacked the swelling here
06:51How do you want to eat?
06:52Chemotherapy is also chemotherapy, but if it's always tight, you can't eat, right?
06:55Brother, can you say a little bit about when Kak Kia sincerely accepted you
06:59After a few years in your condition
07:02I am very grateful
07:05I am grateful and thankful that he took care of me
07:08Thank you
07:10You're lucky, right?
07:11Lucky, praise be to God
07:13One of the reasons I got this disease, I got Kak Kia
07:17Did you expect that you would never get it back in your life?
07:21I have given up hope
07:24After that, but we keep praying
07:26Like the auntie said, pray, pray, don't give up prayer
07:29Every disease has a remedy, God willing
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