00:00How would you describe your job as a wife?
00:02Oh my God, I'm very different.
00:04As I said, my life is very quiet.
00:07It's not like I go to work every day.
00:11I cook, I do everything.
00:15You wash dishes.
00:17I wash dishes, everything, name it.
00:19Everything.
00:20And you know, it's nice because I get to do that.
00:23I also do it here, but sometimes I'm always at work.
00:27So it's nice to have someone with me.
00:31But then, I do everything online.
00:34But you also do groceries.
00:36Yes.
00:37Isn't it hard? How do you manage?
00:39It's hard.
00:41It's hard.
00:42As I said, I try to meal plan.
00:47And I try to watch it.
00:49Of course, I love to eat.
00:51Sometimes I don't go out to eat.
00:53Because when we're together, it's always a celebration.
00:57So, I try my best.
00:59And I try to cook him a good meal.
01:01I don't want it to be too much.
01:03Sometimes it's too much, sometimes it's not.
01:05Do you know what you're cooking?
01:07I don't know what I'm cooking.
01:10I usually bake salmon, bake chicken.
01:13So that it's healthy.
01:17And you're enjoying it, definitely.
01:19I'm enjoying it.
01:20I'm enjoying it.
01:21I'm teaching myself how to see Oda.
01:23I'm teaching myself how to enjoy the moments
01:27wherein it's not a fast pace all the time.
01:30And so, it's hard for me.
01:32Because I've been used to it since I was a teenager.
01:35Work, work, everyday.
01:37It's a fast pace for me.
01:39It's really a fast pace.
01:40So, when I'm there, I'm like,
01:42you said it's okay, you'll be fine.
01:45You said it's been two days, you can do it.
01:48So, it's like he's helping me.
01:51Do you save money?
01:53Do you have a budget?
01:55Ever since before, even when it's not expensive,
01:58but I'm trying to be more mindful.
02:00Yes, expensive is also a good thing.
02:03But it's also like, ever since,
02:06I don't shop anymore.
02:08I don't shop anymore.
02:09Really?
02:10It's like, I like,
02:12it's easier for me to buy for others than for myself.
02:15When you see Monty, my husband will be like,
02:17Lovey, what's the point of you working
02:19if you won't buy stuff for yourself?
02:21He'll be like, buy it, buy it.
02:24And I'm like, oh, I don't need it.
02:27He'll be like, it's okay, enjoy it.
02:29That's true.
02:30And so, sometimes, I need to buy for others.
02:33What else do you buy?
02:35Do you always buy?
02:37Do you like shoes?
02:39I'm more of an experienced shopper.
02:41Oh.
02:43Yes, I really shop a lot.
02:45Maybe I'll just buy stuff if I can't stand it anymore.
02:48Because it's so full.
02:50But it's rare to happen.
02:52It's rare to happen.
02:53It's like, if I see something, then I'll buy it.
02:55What's the thing that you bought that's so full?
02:57What did you buy?
02:58All of these, I think.
02:59I have shoes that I keep coming back to.
03:01What shoes are those?
03:02They're just simple shoes.
03:03I mean, like, it's very simple.
03:05It's like, I have Stella McCartney,
03:07um, like, the platform shoes.
03:09Years ago, when I was,
03:11I remember I was at Chinabay,
03:13Chinabay, and I was like,
03:15you know what, I'll just buy it because
03:17it's full in the basement.
03:19I can't stand it anymore.
03:21And my friends would be like,
03:23no, you should enjoy yourself.
03:25When are you planning to leave?
03:27Hopefully, it happens soon.
03:29You know, in England, we're just
03:31waiting for it to happen.
03:33You don't have a plan when?
03:35No, it's just, we're like, you know,
03:37we'll just let it happen.
03:39You don't want to give up?
03:41If God blesses me, I'll be so happy.
03:43But of course, I won't avoid it
03:45because I want it to happen.
03:47I'm not a sugar baby girl.
03:49If I can leave, it would be nice.
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