00:00Let them be, we buy two bazookas, we don't have to be at home all the time, that's what they want to hear, right?
00:09As a housewife, everyone has their ups and downs, right?
00:14Don't you want to share all the good and bad things on Instagram?
00:17As long as it's not to the point of going to court, arguing, covering up, or being strict,
00:23that's normal, that's the life of a housewife.
00:27To say that we're happy all the time, no. To say that we're sad all the time, no.
00:32Ups and downs, especially when we're just having our first baby.
00:34Of course, we have our own struggles.
00:36I want to work, I want to stay at home, I want to take care of my child.
00:38It's all the first time, first. Everything is first, first, first, first.
00:42It's normal.
00:43For example, if you go to wash your hands to hold your child, you have to wash your hands first, right?
00:46It's like that.
00:47Is that a joke?
00:48I don't know, people say that it's a matter of life and death, it's not in God's hands.
00:52Sometimes we say no, no, no, no, no, and people test us.
00:56So, how strong do we have to defend ourselves and our partner?
01:00Everything is tested by God.
01:02The partner A will also be tested by God.
01:04The partner B will also be tested by God.
01:05The partner C will also be tested by God.
01:07So, it's not easy to defend yourself.
01:11And as people all say, in the Quran, it's not easy.
01:15So, it's difficult.
01:16It's difficult for us to defend ourselves with our feet now,
01:20and then with the mouths of outsiders, all kinds of words.
01:23So, whatever it is, we have to be strong mentally.
01:25I just had a baby.
01:27When I had a baby and became a mother, I felt like it was emotional.
01:32I am the most important.
01:33I always put aside the little things.
01:36I said, what kind of joke is this?
01:38We are joking.
01:40They said, let them be, we bought two bazookas.
01:44We don't always have it at home.
01:45That's what they want to hear, right?
01:46It's like that.
01:47Just laugh like that, there's nothing to take seriously.
01:51I'm not afraid or anything.
01:54Because people's mouths don't want to stop, right?
01:56It doesn't matter if you're an insider, an outsider, a distant person, or a close person.
01:59Mouths, hearts, emotions, all those things.
02:03Including all of you, what you're discussing,
02:05all of these questions are there.
02:06You ask the smallest questions in your heart,
02:08you want to ask, but you can't reach it.
02:09It's the same with people close to you, or people far away,
02:12or someone who tells a story, or something.
02:13You don't know.
02:15I want to go on a diet.
02:18No, one more thing, because I'm like,
02:20imagine I'm nine months pregnant,
02:22I don't do anything, just eat, eat, eat.
02:24And then I'm pregnant, pregnant, and then my body is big.
02:27And then I still don't do any activities at home.
02:30I have an emergency seizure.
02:32So I feel like when the baby is five months, four months,
02:36I feel like, oh, maybe I want to clean up,
02:38I want to be active, slow, slow.
02:39So I'll go.
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