00:00Don't try to be God in everything.
00:05How do we try to be God?
00:07We think everything is in our hands.
00:09And until we achieve perfection in something, we won't do it.
00:13Overthinking, wrong mindset.
00:16A person doesn't want to be happy, how can he be happy?
00:20When there are pebbles on the road, you can cross the road wearing good shoes.
00:24But when there are pebbles in the shoes, neither good nor bad road will be crossed.
00:28When the mindset is wrong, you don't want to be happy.
00:31If the mindset is pessimistic, how can you be happy?
00:35Wrong mindset.
00:36And then cognitive dissonance.
00:38What does cognitive dissonance mean?
00:41Doing what is against your values.
00:46And not doing what is against your values.
00:48Then there is a war in the mind.
00:50What am I doing? Who am I following?
00:52Whom have I made friends with?
00:54I am not like this. I have become fake.
00:57I am not showing my real self.
00:59There is a war going on.
01:01And if you don't win this war, then you will be a victim of depression all the time.
01:06And you won't be happy.
01:08So there are some obstacles in happiness.
01:10Let's quickly discuss some tips for happiness.
01:14Some of the keys of happiness.
01:17Number one, let it go.
01:19Ego, anger.
01:22Everything that has become a burden on you.
01:26Let it go.
01:28Let go of anger.
01:30Let go of enmity.
01:33Let go of hatred.
01:35Let go of grudges.
01:36Let go of complaints.
01:38Be relaxed.
01:39Allah is taking care of everything.
01:41What is your complaint?
01:43What is your problem in life?
01:44Let it go.
01:45This is the first tip for all of you.
01:47Let me tell you a great quote.
01:49Never get angry at someone for not respecting you.
01:53People will disrespect you.
01:56Don't get angry.
01:57Because value and respect is always determined by time.
02:00Grades are determined by time.
02:02Allah has determined the grades.
02:05Don't get angry at others' disrespect.
02:09Allah knows who you are.
02:11And Allah will give you respect.
02:13This is a great advice.
02:15If you are stuck in human relations, you will be stuck all your life.
02:19Solve your problems with the one who knows the difference between good and bad.
02:23All your problems will be solved.
02:25Wonderful.
02:26Solve your problems with Allah.
02:28All your problems will be solved.
02:30If you react on human relations, you will be stuck.
02:33You will be depressed all the time.
02:35Wonderful advice.
02:37Great advice.
02:38Moving on.
02:41Another advice to all of you if you want to be happy is to
02:46change the way you look at things.
02:49Change your vision.
02:50Change your framework.
02:52Look at things with a positive mindset.
02:55Don't look at the world with your negative mindset.
03:01You will be depressed.
03:03Look at the world through the lens of Quran.
03:05Look at the world through the lens of Sahaba.
03:07What is the value of the world?
03:09The Prophet said that if the value of the world was more than a mosquito's wing,
03:14then Allah would never give the risk to the disbelievers who reject Allah,
03:18who don't believe in Allah,
03:20who don't accept Allah's oneness.
03:24What is the value of the world?
03:26What is the need to be so down on the world?
03:29Change your lens and vision.
03:32How?
03:33By gaining knowledge of Islam.
03:36Number three.
03:38Number four.
03:40Don't be sad over things that are out of your control.
03:45If a person doesn't like you or hurts you,
03:49what is your fault in this?
03:50This is his fault.
03:52Don't be sad over things that are out of your control.
03:55There are many Muslims who have no control over their lives.
04:01So learn.
04:02Learn this emotional intelligence.
04:05Sit with good and wise people.
04:07You will get energy.
04:08You will learn these things.
04:10There are many advices.
04:12But I will give you the last two advices.
04:16Sit in nature a lot.
04:20Gain energy from nature.
04:22Go to the garden.
04:26Walk on the grass.
04:28Look at the moon at night.
04:30Go to the mountains.
04:33Go to nature.
04:35You will feel really happy.
04:37Go to an organic lifestyle.
04:39And last and most important.
04:41The greatest key to happiness, according to me,
04:48is the Zikr of Allah.
04:50This is the crux of happiness.
04:57If you get satisfaction and peace, it is from the Zikr of Allah.
05:02Let's conclude the lecture with an incident.
05:05This is also an incident.
05:06It is fake.
05:07It is true.
05:08I don't know.
05:09But we can learn a lot from this incident.
05:11There were three people.
05:12They took a room in a 75 story hotel building.
05:17They got a room on the 75th floor.
05:19The rule was that if you are late after 10pm,
05:23the lift will be closed.
05:26One day, all three of them got late.
05:29They had to go up the stairs.
05:32The lift was closed.
05:33All three of them made a plan.
05:35It is a long journey.
05:3675 stories.
05:37We have to go up the stairs.
05:39Let's divide it.
05:41The first 25 stories,
05:42one of them said,
05:43I will tell you jokes and jokes.
05:46Time will pass.
05:47The second one said,
05:48the next 25 stories,
05:50I will give you professional tips.
05:53I will tell you some things that will help you a lot in life.
05:57The third one said,
05:58the next 25 stories,
05:59I will tell you poetry.
06:01Sad poetry.
06:02Regret of life.
06:03This is also fun.
06:05Inshallah,
06:06the next 25 stories will also pass.
06:08The first time,
06:09he made a funny joke.
06:10The second time,
06:11he gave professional tips.
06:14He was very serious.
06:15He told life hacks.
06:17How can you be successful in life?
06:20The third one told sad poetry.
06:22He made them emotional.
06:25When they reached the room,
06:27the third one said,
06:28do you know what is the biggest sorrow of my life?
06:31Both of them said,
06:32I forgot the key downstairs.
06:34Both of them got very angry.
06:37What is to learn?
06:40That we live our lives like this.
06:42The first 25 stories,
06:43funny jokes,
06:44comparison,
06:45non-serious,
06:46no listening to religion,
06:48no listening to parents,
06:49made fun of.
06:50The next 25 years,
06:51suddenly become serious.
06:52How to earn money,
06:54how to be successful,
06:55regret the next 25 years.
06:58Poetry.
06:59My children have given me a lot of pain.
07:01No one ever faced me.
07:03I had a job,
07:04I wanted to do this,
07:06I was doing this.
07:07Regrets came.
07:08But the door from which it opens,
07:11you left it in the beginning.
07:12Which was the key.
07:14That was the philosophy of life.
07:17which we were not taught in our childhood, that how to live life.
07:22That philosophy is the philosophy of religion.
07:25So that is the crux of this lecture.
07:27Learn about religion, respect your religion,
07:31don't think that religion is only for religious scholars,
07:37or that religion is for a lower class.
07:40Religion is beautiful, it's a very pragmatic, practical way of life.
07:44But the condition is that action and knowledge.
07:47Just by listening to the lecture and following the things,
07:50nothing will happen.
07:51Take actions yourself, gain knowledge, act.
07:54I hope that this lecture was beneficial to you.
07:57And I hope that all of us can know the true concept of happiness.
08:01And we can avoid the false concepts of happiness,
08:04because those are damaging to us.
08:06JazakAllah Khair for listening.
08:07InshaAllah, see you in the next week.
08:09Take care of yourselves and your loved ones.
08:12BarakAllah Fi, JazakAllah Khair
08:15Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
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