00:00To love again or to guest here again, you said to love again.
00:10Uncle, you might get offended if I didn't choose to guest here.
00:13It's just a fact talk.
00:16As a matter of fact, I liked it.
00:18To love again.
00:19Thank you.
00:20Where are you coming from?
00:21Ready to fall in love again?
00:23To love again, I don't necessarily think of it as a romantic love.
00:28Basically, to love life again, to love where I am at this point in life.
00:33Did you lose that?
00:34Your loving life?
00:36Yes, definitely.
00:37It comes with pain, heartbreak.
00:41It's hard to be happy, optimistic, and still love life
00:48when you're going through a hard time.
00:53But as long as you know that it's just temporary, it will pass.
00:57Then you'll be okay.
00:59There was no moment that you were so tired that you asked God's questions?
01:06Oh, definitely, Uncle.
01:08Actually, it was just the beginning.
01:10Because everything was so shocking, so abrupt, so instant.
01:19I couldn't comprehend.
01:22I couldn't figure out why.
01:24I had a lot of questions about why.
01:26It was just the beginning.
01:29And what was that question for God?
01:31My question was, why?
01:33Why did this have to happen?
01:35Why now?
01:36I couldn't believe what was happening.
01:39Your biggest lesson from your marriage?
01:42Oh, oh my gosh.
01:44In the context of this, in the context of learnings.
01:47Right.
01:48Look at it as a source of lection.
01:51Okay, right.
01:52Of course, relationships are so important.
01:56Family is important.
01:58Marriage is important.
02:00It's sacred.
02:02But if it's not right, or it's too much already,
02:11you shouldn't force it.
02:15I'm not saying that those who are not okay should separate.
02:20If there are things that are already too painful,
02:24or it's not okay, or can't be resolved,
02:27you shouldn't force it.
02:30Because you might lose yourself.
02:32You might be in trouble.
02:34If there are a lot of people affected,
02:37you shouldn't.
02:39Same with Ruth and George, the mother and daughter.
02:43If it's not right, but they still encourage it.
02:47I'm not just talking about yourself.
02:49But if it's not right and there are people affected,
02:52you shouldn't force it.
02:54But it takes a lot of courage.
02:55Oh, definitely.
02:56It takes a lot of courage to be able to say,
02:58I'm walking away.
02:59Yes, definitely.
03:00Now, let's go to the context of secrets.
03:02Because Basil and Tansy George have a lot of secrets.
03:06As Carla, even if we generalize,
03:10is it healthy for couples to keep secrets from each other?
03:14Maybe.
03:15Maybe it's a mystery.
03:16A little mystery.
03:17But secrets are a bit...
03:18So that the other person will be interested.
03:20Yes.
03:21But secrets are a bit questionable.
03:24It's a bit dangerous.
03:27I'm not the type who hides secrets.
03:30Because I always say,
03:34what's the point of hiding secrets
03:36when God sees and hears everything?
03:39Yes, you're hiding a secret from your husband or your family.
03:43But God knows everything.
03:45You're not safe.
03:47There's no escape.
03:51I'm not the type who hides secrets
03:55because I can't do it
03:57knowing that I know something
03:59and I'm keeping something from my loved one.
04:09I'm not the type who hides secrets
04:11because I can't do it knowing that I know something
04:13and I'm keeping something from my loved one.
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