Jestoni Alarcon, paano nga ba bilang isang magulang? | It's Showtime (May 25, 2024) - video Dailymotion

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Aired (May 25, 2024): Paano nga ba bilang isang magulang si Jestoni Alarcon? #ItsShowtime

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00:00 Are you saying that you're not? No, I'm dancing.

00:03 So, it's annoying at times.

00:07 Do you get teary when your dad is so strict?

00:10 A little bit. Because I'm maturing now, I want to live my life on my own terms.

00:16 So there are moments where I want to be independent, to my own choices.

00:21 How do you address that?

00:23 Wow, wow, wow. You're so good at Tagalog.

00:26 We have discrimination. We're racists.

00:30 So, how do you face that?

00:33 Did you tell your dad or did you just force him to do it?

00:38 Like that. You force him to do it.

00:42 You force him to do it.

00:44 There are times when you're so stressed, you sweat, you get a pimple, but you're still doing it.

00:48 How about a social force?

00:51 Oh, your arms are so nice.

00:55 I feel like I'm a social force.

00:56 Huh?

00:58 Love yourself.

01:00 That's it.

01:03 That's what you call a "skinita."

01:05 He's angry.

01:09 He's so angry.

01:11 He's so angry.

01:13 He's so angry that he's about to puke.

01:15 Like that.

01:19 How did you face that struggle of being controlled by a parent during the time that you have been maturing and wanting to control your own life?

01:27 I'm so straight-forward.

01:30 I confronted him. I told him that…

01:34 Dad! You're controlling my life.

01:38 How did you confront him?

01:40 I told him that I want to be independent, that I have my own decisions.

01:48 That I'm a number seven, that he's always watching over me.

01:51 He understood that and he's less controlling of me.

01:58 Where does that come from?

02:00 That controlling?

02:02 Did it come from fear?

02:05 Did it come from trauma?

02:07 Where does that come from as a father?

02:09 Well, actually, when you text and follow up,

02:12 if there are no answers that are long-term, you have to follow up with your child.

02:17 Because, of course, she's outside with her friends or people you don't know.

02:21 Just to make sure that she's safe until she gets home.

02:24 That's what parents always warn us.

02:27 That we'll be able to sleep if you're okay, you can drive, you're not drunk, or whatever.

02:32 That's all. And then, when I tell her, "Okay, see you, dad. No problem."

02:36 We'll be able to sleep, husband and wife. That's all.

02:38 And when you're a parent, is there a time when you're no longer afraid of your children?

02:46 Well, actually, I'm not yet, I mean, I'm not yet at the age where I'm super old.

02:52 But we'll get there.

02:54 They say that when you have a child, your obligation and love for your child,

03:00 until you grow up, it's there.

03:02 Even if you have a family, a child, you have a grandson,

03:05 you still can't force him to be with you.

03:09 You can't force him to be with you.

03:12 You can't force him to be with you, if you're okay with your wife or children.

03:18 So, it won't be gone until we're here in this world, we're there behind her to support her.

03:24 Oh, that's it. You're just behind her, why are you texting?

03:28 I'm sorry.

03:29 I'm sorry.

03:31 I'm sorry.

03:33 I'm sorry.

03:34 I'm sorry.

03:36 I'm sorry.

03:38 I'm sorry.

03:40 I'm sorry.

03:42 I'm sorry.

03:44 I'm sorry.

03:46 I'm sorry.

Jestoni Alarcon, paano nga ba bilang isang magulang? | It's Showtime (May 25, 2024)

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