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00:00:00 Good morning everybody, welcome to your Sunday morning chitty chatty bing bang

00:00:05 and it is, I don't even know why I keep saying this but I do, it's the 19th of May 2024

00:00:12 and it's time for Sunday morning philosophy, I have topics

00:00:19 but it's a live stream so let's do your topics

00:00:23 because apparently it's just never about me, it's all about you

00:00:26 alright, welcome, good morning everybody, thank you for joining

00:00:31 aging like a marble monument, yeah yeah

00:00:34 let's see here

00:00:37 Good morning Steph, I joined an organized sports league to keep in shape as a kid

00:00:41 during pick up and neighborhood games I play very well and get picked first or second

00:00:46 but when it comes to uniforms and whistles I just fold

00:00:49 same now as an adult, any thoughts behind this?

00:00:53 when it comes to uniforms and whistles, I just fold

00:00:59 well sports was not uniforms and whistles like when we evolved sports was pretty

00:01:08 you know and the sports you played as a kid so your experience is outside of that kind of highly regulated environment

00:01:14 so my guess is that you have a familiarity with the less regulated environment

00:01:20 and maybe you associate, there's a kind of intimidation factor with the uniforms and whistles

00:01:26 like you feel constrained, you feel less natural, you feel less at ease in your own body and environment

00:01:31 so maybe that has something to do with it

00:01:36 alright, let's move back a smidge here

00:01:39 yes, you don't need quite as much Steph

00:01:42 alright, Steph in the past you talked about evil doers being haunted

00:01:47 I think you mean hunted, please check your typos

00:01:50 in the past you talked about evil doers being hunted down by their conscience

00:01:55 oh that's two typos, ok, not conscious, conscience

00:01:59 in the past you talked about evil doers being hunted down by their conscience

00:02:04 in the last live show you said that you cannot create a conscience in people who don't have one

00:02:09 does that mean that evil doers who don't have a conscience get away with it?

00:02:14 that's a fine question

00:02:19 what do you mean by get away with it?

00:02:23 do they get away from feeling moral guilt for their crimes?

00:02:30 do they feel moral guilt for their crimes?

00:02:34 no, no they don't

00:02:37 no because that would be to have a conscience, right?

00:02:40 so do they feel moral guilt for their crimes? they do not

00:02:43 are they afraid of getting caught? they are, right? they are

00:02:48 if you sort of think of an animal analogy would be like the dog who's done something wrong

00:02:54 knows that he's in trouble, he's only afraid of getting caught and being scolded

00:02:58 he's not terrified of the moral guilt of snatching the slice of pizza or something like that

00:03:05 chewing up the sofa

00:03:09 so they don't experience guilt at doing wrong

00:03:16 they experience fear of consequences so they don't want to get caught

00:03:19 they'll work to hide being caught, they understand that people disapprove, they'll hide their crimes and so on

00:03:23 they understand all of that

00:03:25 so it depends what you mean by get away with it

00:03:28 if you mean by get away with it do they suffer no negative effects from their lack of conscience?

00:03:34 well yes, yes they do

00:03:37 because you can't have love without a conscience

00:03:42 right? dial down the conscience, dial down the capacity for pair bonding, love, attachment, trust, security

00:03:50 you know falling into the arms of another loving person

00:03:53 and knowing that they'll always be there

00:03:55 I mean you don't get that, now that seems to me a pretty high price to pay for not feeling guilt

00:04:01 so and the reason I say that of course love is our involuntary response to virtue

00:04:06 and you can't be virtuous without a conscience

00:04:11 because then you're just following rules blindly

00:04:13 like you think of, I always think of this when actors are playing

00:04:18 you know they always have these Mary Sue actors who everywhere they go they can just speak the language

00:04:24 and everyone's like oh wow he can speak Arabic, oh wow she can speak Russian

00:04:29 and they just go, and you know the actors don't learn the whole language right

00:04:32 they just learn to sound out the words right

00:04:35 "je voudrais un croissant pour la dieu"

00:04:38 I would like a croissant of the gods right

00:04:40 so they're just sounding out the syllables, they're not actually learning the language right

00:04:46 and so without a conscience with regards to morality all you can do is sound out the syllables

00:04:52 you can follow the rules but having a conscience is having the capacity to have an observing ego

00:05:03 so having a conscience is the ability to compare your actions to ideal standards

00:05:14 and you have ideals not calculations

00:05:17 so people without a conscience all they have is calculations

00:05:19 can I get away with this, will this blow back on me, what would be the positive and negative

00:05:24 you do calculations right

00:05:27 you don't have free will in that sense right

00:05:30 so the free will is to choose your ideals and also to choose to compare your proposed actions to ideal standards

00:05:37 or your past actions to ideal standards so that's free will right

00:05:40 our capacity to compare proposed actions to ideal standards

00:05:44 so if you have a conscience it means that you are allowing your brain to function in its natural state of universalization right

00:05:53 so if you inflict a moral rule on someone else your brain wants to inflict that moral rule upon you

00:06:00 because it's just easier, it's universal right

00:06:02 like when you're playing catch with someone as a kid right

00:06:05 you're playing throw catch, throw catch, throw catch

00:06:07 you don't expect that the physics are gonna fundamentally change when the ball comes back to you right

00:06:12 you just assume that the same patterns of gravity and air resistance and weight and momentum

00:06:17 that that's all gonna, you throw the ball, you catch the ball, you throw the ball, you catch the ball right

00:06:21 when you're playing baseball right you're gonna hit the ball

00:06:25 you don't expect the physics to fundamentally change every single game

00:06:28 they don't dial up and down the gravity like they do the interest rates

00:06:32 so universalization is what happens right

00:06:35 if you don't pick up every apple saying I hope this one isn't poisoned right

00:06:41 so I mean unless you had them I guess

00:06:45 so you universalize and that's great that's how we get everything done

00:06:50 and it's just so much more efficient

00:06:52 to not universalize is to live in a state of hypocritical paranoia

00:06:56 hypocrisy or paranoia

00:06:57 so our brain wants to universalize all the time

00:07:00 it's a great strength is our ability to universalize and conceptualize right

00:07:03 to extract general patterns from individual instances and extrapolate them to new situations

00:07:12 you know you don't have a sex life and then say

00:07:17 I hope it doesn't feel horrible next time right

00:07:20 I mean you just generally have a pattern right

00:07:23 and so if and this is another reason love involves trust right

00:07:30 because virtue is all about reproducibility

00:07:33 excellence in any habit is about reproducibility

00:07:36 so even a blindfolded golfer can sink a hole in one

00:07:40 maybe once a lifetime just swinging randomly

00:07:43 but it's and every golfer has that amazing game right

00:07:45 every golfer has that just amazing game

00:07:48 but it's being able to reproduce it right

00:07:50 I mean if you write a hundred novels probably one of them is going to be pretty good

00:07:58 right but it's just being able to reproduce it

00:08:00 I mean I try to apply the very high standards of quality to every show that I do

00:08:06 and I really appreciate you guys being here today

00:08:09 so it's really just about being able to consistently reproduce something

00:08:15 now if you don't have a conscience

00:08:18 then you don't feel bad if you are hypocritical

00:08:22 now if you don't feel bad when you're hypocritical

00:08:24 and since hypocrisy can be a very powerful way of acquiring resources

00:08:28 right like the central banking is like well we can counterfeit currency

00:08:32 but you can't right you go to jail if you counterfeit currency

00:08:36 but that's basically our entire mission statement

00:08:39 so that is the way things work

00:08:42 I mean political power is founded on hypocrisy

00:08:45 it's a very powerful way to get resources

00:08:48 so if you don't have a conscience

00:08:52 then you can't act in a morally consistent manner

00:08:54 if you can't act in a morally consistent manner

00:08:57 or at least have that as a goal

00:08:58 you can be called on it right

00:08:59 so if you say you know we don't yell in this household

00:09:03 and if you start yelling somebody says hey we don't yell

00:09:05 and they're like oh yeah so sorry sorry

00:09:07 calm it down or whatever right

00:09:08 you can't be called on anything

00:09:10 so you can't be trusted you can't act in any consistent manner

00:09:13 it's like the guy who he's on a business trip

00:09:17 you know maybe things haven't been going super well with his wife

00:09:21 and there's some woman there who really wants to sleep with him

00:09:24 and you know he'll use a condom maybe avoid pregnancy or STD issues

00:09:29 or at least most of them I don't think it solves crabs but anyway

00:09:32 and so he knows he can probably get away with it

00:09:35 he knows like there's not going to be any particular blowback right

00:09:38 if you can do it right

00:09:41 and then he'll just do a calculation can I get away with it

00:09:44 not well I have these vows I have to say no I'm not going to cheat right

00:09:52 so if it's just a matter of what he can get away with

00:09:55 then he can't be trusted

00:09:57 because if an opportunity arises

00:09:59 and they do opportunities arise in life

00:10:01 where you can do bad things and get away with it right

00:10:04 you can betray your vows you can betray your values

00:10:07 you can betray him you can get away with it

00:10:12 so if you don't have a conscience

00:10:14 you can't be consistently good

00:10:17 which means you can't be trusted

00:10:19 which means you can't be loved

00:10:23 love is admiration

00:10:25 and we don't admire a calculation machine

00:10:28 like we don't morally admire

00:10:31 you know like you're trying to feed a squirrel

00:10:33 and the squirrel is weighing it

00:10:34 you can see the squirrel doing this right

00:10:36 you can see the squirrel coming up

00:10:39 and he's like I really really want that

00:10:42 those couple of nuts that's in the hand

00:10:44 but I don't want to be grabbed right

00:10:46 and the squirrel is doing a calculation right

00:10:49 so you know when you've got kids

00:10:50 they always want to feed the animals

00:10:52 so you're always backing off right

00:10:54 so your big bulk doesn't alarm the animals

00:10:56 so the animal is doing a calculation right

00:10:59 cost benefit and animals do this all the time

00:11:01 cost benefit analysis right

00:11:03 when the lion is chasing the zebra

00:11:05 if the zebra is really fast

00:11:06 the lion is like well I'm expending more calories

00:11:09 chasing the zebra than I could reliably get from the zebra

00:11:12 if because you know it's getting away

00:11:14 so the lion stops running

00:11:15 it's just a cost benefit calculation

00:11:17 now you can't love a cost benefit calculation

00:11:19 you can only love a dedication to virtue

00:11:22 and wisdom right

00:11:23 so not foolhardiness

00:11:24 like where you just suicidal in your virtues right

00:11:26 so respect right

00:11:28 respect and love

00:11:29 so yeah people without a conscience

00:11:31 they can get away with a bunch of stuff

00:11:32 that you and I can't get away with

00:11:34 in terms of well if they get away with it

00:11:36 they're fine woo I get away with it

00:11:38 but what they don't get away with

00:11:40 what they don't succeed in

00:11:44 is love and being loved

00:11:47 right because if all you are is a calculation machine

00:11:49 you can't even trust yourself

00:11:52 virtue is a way of knowing

00:11:55 how you're going to behave in a particular situation

00:11:57 in the future

00:11:58 now if you don't know

00:12:00 how you're going to behave in a particular situation

00:12:02 in the future

00:12:03 you can't trust yourself

00:12:04 because the situation can change

00:12:05 circumstances can change

00:12:06 it's like I'm not going to rob from a store

00:12:09 because I don't want to go to jail right

00:12:10 oh the police are on strike

00:12:12 oh there's chaos

00:12:13 I'm going to go loot everything

00:12:14 you can't tell what you're going to do

00:12:16 and if you can't tell what you're going to do

00:12:18 you can't predict your own behavior

00:12:19 you can't trust yourself

00:12:20 other people can't trust you

00:12:22 so you lose love

00:12:24 and you end up actually with people despising you

00:12:28 because hypocrisy

00:12:31 in the realm of morality

00:12:32 always engenders contempt

00:12:36 right

00:12:38 it always engenders contempt

00:12:40 and contempt is one of the ugliest

00:12:42 moral feelings that there is

00:12:44 so you have self contempt

00:12:45 because you only pretend to be moral

00:12:47 you use morality as a way of exploiting others

00:12:49 you have self contempt

00:12:51 you have contempt for those around you

00:12:52 who believe you're nonsense moralizing

00:12:54 other people have

00:12:55 it's all just a circle of mutual contempt

00:12:58 and

00:13:01 it's an ugly ugly ugly place to be

00:13:04 I've certainly seen a number of people

00:13:07 without a conscience

00:13:08 and

00:13:10 they have a certain charm

00:13:11 and energy and momentum when they're young

00:13:14 because they're you know

00:13:15 unconstrained by any speed bumps

00:13:18 of maybe we shouldn't do immoral things

00:13:20 right

00:13:21 so these are the guys who are like

00:13:22 you know they'll

00:13:24 they'll skim at work

00:13:25 they'll

00:13:27 they'll go lie to women

00:13:28 and sleep with women

00:13:29 with no sense of conscience

00:13:32 and

00:13:33 I mean any one of these guys

00:13:34 actually I borrowed his story for

00:13:36 my novel The Present

00:13:38 just sleeping with a bunch of different girls

00:13:40 he got sick and they were all calling him

00:13:42 really really angry

00:13:43 because they found out about each other

00:13:44 and then they progressively called him

00:13:45 with like are you okay

00:13:46 why aren't you calling back

00:13:47 are you sick

00:13:48 I'm so sorry

00:13:49 like I didn't mean to

00:13:50 like just

00:13:51 he just was there

00:13:52 and he had no conscience about it

00:13:53 he told the story like it was just hilarious

00:13:55 really burned in my brain

00:13:56 like he just

00:13:57 sleeping with

00:13:58 he was a good looking guy

00:13:59 slept with a bunch of women

00:14:00 and had no conscience about it

00:14:01 no sense that anything was wrong

00:14:02 it's like you take what you can get

00:14:04 and

00:14:06 it's wild

00:14:07 now of course he never fell in love

00:14:09 couldn't

00:14:10 how could you fall in love

00:14:12 so they seem to have a lot of charm

00:14:14 and energy

00:14:15 and they can do a bunch of stuff

00:14:16 because they're unconstrained

00:14:17 right

00:14:18 they're unconstrained

00:14:19 I mean I

00:14:20 I have to wrestle with my

00:14:21 okay this is the right thing

00:14:22 this is the wrong thing

00:14:23 is this

00:14:24 I mean I want to do more and more good

00:14:25 but you know you do too much good

00:14:27 and you go gulag

00:14:28 so

00:14:29 you know you gotta weigh it

00:14:30 and you aim for maximum good

00:14:32 right maximum good

00:14:33 is not

00:14:35 being unpersoned

00:14:36 right so

00:14:37 so you aim for the maximum good

00:14:41 and it's a wrestle

00:14:42 it's a challenge

00:14:43 it's a wrestle it's a challenge

00:14:44 it's a high wire act

00:14:45 everything I do

00:14:46 particularly the live streams right

00:14:47 unedited

00:14:48 it's a high wire act

00:14:49 I'm excited to do it

00:14:52 but I recognize the risk

00:14:53 so people who don't have that high wire act

00:14:55 who don't have that

00:14:57 restraint who don't want to do maximum good

00:14:59 but rather just reap maximum material rewards

00:15:01 they can just do a bunch of stuff

00:15:02 these are the people who do the pump and dump stocks

00:15:04 you know whenever you work in CXO level

00:15:06 in the business world

00:15:08 your name your number goes on some registry

00:15:10 and there's a bunch of people calling saying

00:15:12 well you got this great stock

00:15:13 it's gonna double next week

00:15:14 you know but they're trying to appeal to your greed

00:15:16 and these guys are all liars and scam artists

00:15:18 in my opinion because

00:15:20 of course if the stock was gonna double

00:15:22 next week you wouldn't be telling people about it

00:15:24 you'd be buying it all yourself

00:15:26 right so you just know it's a pump and dump right

00:15:28 and

00:15:30 I knew some of these guys in the business world

00:15:34 and yeah they've got a lot of charm

00:15:36 they got a lot of easy you know amen

00:15:38 it looks like life is easy for them

00:15:40 because they're unconstrained

00:15:42 by any ethical considerations

00:15:44 so

00:15:46 but you know it's the old thing

00:15:49 first half of your life second half of your life

00:15:51 don't tell me how happy someone is

00:15:53 until we see the second half of their life

00:15:56 right

00:15:57 the second half of their life

00:16:00 it's pretty sad

00:16:02 it's pretty sad

00:16:05 Locals has not started stream

00:16:10 ah yes it has

00:16:12 alright so

00:16:16 um

00:16:17 yeah do they get away with stuff?

00:16:19 sure

00:16:20 but it's massively costly

00:16:23 you know it's massively costly

00:16:26 like

00:16:27 there were people who you know when I was younger

00:16:29 they didn't really exercise

00:16:31 they didn't you know they ate what they wanted

00:16:33 and you know when you're young you can kinda get away with that for a while

00:16:35 you got the high metabolism and generally you're moving around

00:16:37 more than when you get to be sort of middle aged

00:16:39 and have a desk job

00:16:41 and you know they ended up with dead bods and so on

00:16:44 and you know when I had cancer

00:16:46 one of the things that allowed me to kick it fairly easily

00:16:50 was and you know the doctors told me this

00:16:52 it's like you have an excellent baseline of health

00:16:54 and that's really gonna help with kicking this thing

00:16:56 so I did right so

00:16:58 all the people who weren't spending all their time in the gym

00:17:00 if they happen to get sick they might not make it right

00:17:02 so just pay later

00:17:03 alright

00:17:04 pay me now pay me later

00:17:05 choose your suffering

00:17:06 let's get to your questions

00:17:12 new local sub here thanks for everything staff

00:17:19 well thank you and welcome

00:17:20 I appreciate it

00:17:21 I appreciate it

00:17:22 do you think with mice and men

00:17:32 of mice and men that Gary

00:17:34 could have just left his buddy at a bus stop

00:17:36 instead of capping him

00:17:45 is that Gary

00:17:47 I'm sure I'm sure that you have this

00:17:50 correct

00:17:51 no it's George

00:17:52 George and Lenny

00:17:53 not Gary

00:17:54 yeah it's like George

00:17:55 George and Lenny

00:17:57 so I'll just do two seconds on

00:18:00 the classic American story by

00:18:02 leftist proto-socialist John Steinbeck

00:18:05 called of mice and men

00:18:06 which is the story of

00:18:08 two itinerant farm workers

00:18:10 wandering the back alleys of the American Midwest

00:18:15 during the great depression

00:18:17 with their work permits and so on

00:18:18 and George is a young whore mongering

00:18:22 well he's probably about 30

00:18:23 like a young whore mongering guy with no future

00:18:25 and he's attached at the hip to a guy named Lenny

00:18:27 who's a giant with the strength of three men

00:18:30 but is mentally retarded to the point where he's like a big

00:18:33 dangerous child

00:18:35 and the story is about codependency

00:18:37 I mean fundamentally

00:18:39 the story is about codependency

00:18:40 so Lenny is this big dangerous guy

00:18:42 and he's attracted to women

00:18:44 and then he panics and hurts women

00:18:47 right he likes to stroke their hair

00:18:50 and then he strokes too hard

00:18:52 and then they panic

00:18:53 and then he hurts them

00:18:55 right and then this sort of plays out

00:18:57 with a number of different creatures

00:18:58 like mice and puppies

00:19:00 like he kills the puppy because he strokes it too hard

00:19:02 so he doesn't know his own strength

00:19:03 he's like a big child

00:19:05 and the relationship at least in the movie

00:19:06 is not particularly explained

00:19:07 like they're not like brothers or something like that

00:19:10 so it's not particularly explained

00:19:12 so George the quote normal one

00:19:14 and Lenny the retarded one

00:19:16 George hangs out with Lenny

00:19:18 and stays with him even though

00:19:20 he says he could have this great life without him

00:19:22 well that's codependence

00:19:24 so what he does is because he's so needy

00:19:26 and he's so lonely

00:19:27 he holds on to Lenny as his companion

00:19:29 and loneliness is all throughout the whole story

00:19:31 he holds on to Lenny

00:19:33 won't let Lenny go

00:19:34 and thus gets animals and people killed

00:19:38 right Lenny should be in some kind of charity home

00:19:41 he should be in some kind of institution

00:19:43 he should be in some place where

00:19:45 he can be taken care of

00:19:46 and other people can be protected

00:19:48 from his giant childlike dangerous strength

00:19:51 but no George

00:19:55 he always played the sympathetically

00:19:56 the quote normal guy

00:19:57 always played sympathetically

00:19:58 oh he's just so attached he cares for him

00:20:00 no it's just he's exploiting Lenny

00:20:03 to avoid his own loneliness

00:20:05 and thus getting animals and people killed

00:20:10 right it's horrible

00:20:13 to me he's no different from a lonely woman

00:20:16 who enables her husband's drunken behavior

00:20:18 buys him alcohol

00:20:19 and he regularly mows down people in his car

00:20:22 when he's drunk

00:20:23 that's a villain

00:20:25 right so everybody gets it wrong

00:20:26 sorry everybody gets it wrong

00:20:28 oh it's such a tragic sad story

00:20:30 it's like no this is a guy

00:20:31 who won't protect his fellow man

00:20:33 from a giant dangerous

00:20:35 mentally handicapped man

00:20:37 because he's lonely

00:20:39 so he clings on to this relationship

00:20:42 which gets animals and women killed

00:20:46 so he's a complete villain

00:20:48 and everybody always plays him with such sympathy

00:20:50 because oh John Steinbeck was a socialist

00:20:53 and therefore all the poor are noble

00:20:56 and heroic and nice and wonderful

00:20:59 and they just care for each other so much

00:21:01 and they're wise and deep and meaningful

00:21:04 you know like

00:21:06 George and Lenny get to this work farm

00:21:11 or they get to this ranch

00:21:12 where they're doing this work

00:21:13 and they sit down

00:21:14 oh you guys are traveling together

00:21:16 says their new local boss

00:21:17 like not the guy who owns

00:21:19 the guy who owns the ranch

00:21:21 always has to be a complete jerk

00:21:23 and blah blah blah right

00:21:25 so they sit down

00:21:27 and the new local work boss

00:21:29 like the head of their gang

00:21:31 he's like oh you guys travel together

00:21:33 yeah yeah we do

00:21:34 he's like ah not a lot of people

00:21:35 travel together these days

00:21:36 it must be because everyone's just scared

00:21:38 of everyone else

00:21:39 everyone's just born frightened

00:21:40 of everyone else

00:21:41 all this kind of nonsense right

00:21:43 poor people don't talk like that

00:21:47 it's all fantasy

00:21:49 it's walking trees in Lord of the Rings

00:21:52 are more realistic than the

00:21:53 immediately deep and thoughtful poor

00:21:55 and I actually consider it quite appalling

00:22:00 quite appalling

00:22:03 it's constant

00:22:04 now I grew up among the poor

00:22:06 like significantly poor

00:22:08 like not homeless poor

00:22:09 but you know hanging on by the edge of their

00:22:11 lives kind of poor

00:22:13 like one step away from the abyss poor

00:22:17 and yeah mostly terrible people

00:22:19 mostly terrible people

00:22:21 you know

00:22:23 now of course they want to play the victim

00:22:26 they want to

00:22:28 well we're noble

00:22:30 we've had bad luck

00:22:31 like George the supposed hero

00:22:33 of the story

00:22:36 what does he do?

00:22:39 what does he want to do?

00:22:40 well he wants to get drunk

00:22:42 and go to whore houses

00:22:45 mmm fabulous guy

00:22:47 wonderful guy

00:22:49 amazing guy

00:22:50 no he's just he's lonely

00:22:51 he's isolated

00:22:52 he's tragic

00:22:53 he's bitter

00:22:54 he's unloved

00:22:55 so he just clings to this big guy

00:22:57 and if it has to be that his loneliness is

00:22:59 assuaged at the cost of a pile of

00:23:01 female bodies

00:23:02 well too bad

00:23:03 I'm lonely

00:23:04 it's just it's absolutely

00:23:06 everybody gets the story wrong

00:23:07 it's so

00:23:08 I'm sorry I hate to be blunt

00:23:10 but everybody gets the story wrong

00:23:11 it's appalling

00:23:12 absolutely appalling

00:23:14 George is a total villain

00:23:15 he gets people killed

00:23:16 because he doesn't want to be alone

00:23:18 so

00:23:21 yeah it's really

00:23:22 it's really sad

00:23:23 alright

00:23:26 that's codependence

00:23:30 so I'll

00:23:33 like oh my god

00:23:34 so if you want to survive

00:23:38 the winter

00:23:39 like you're in a cold climate

00:23:40 you store up enough food for the winter

00:23:42 the entire purpose of your survival

00:23:44 is to keep

00:23:45 the fat greedy pigs away from your store of food

00:23:48 right the people who eat more

00:23:50 than they need

00:23:51 your entire purpose

00:23:53 is to keep the fat greedy pigs away from your store of food

00:23:56 now

00:23:58 the purpose of a society that wishes to progress

00:24:01 economically which helps the poor

00:24:03 the purpose of a society that wishes to progress

00:24:05 economically is one thing and one thing only

00:24:08 keep idiots away from capital

00:24:11 keep them away from capital

00:24:13 just keep them away from capital

00:24:16 because capital

00:24:20 stored savings, stored energy right

00:24:22 deferred gratification

00:24:24 savings

00:24:25 is what you use to build the future

00:24:28 now

00:24:29 what happens

00:24:31 when you give a lot of money

00:24:33 to the poor

00:24:34 99 times out of 100

00:24:37 you can all think of exceptions

00:24:38 what happens if you give a lot of money to the poor

00:24:40 they blow it

00:24:41 they waste it

00:24:43 you might as well just set fire to it

00:24:46 and give them drinks

00:24:47 for the most part

00:24:48 for the most part

00:24:49 I tried giving money to my mother

00:24:53 and she used it for nefarious ends

00:24:56 if you've ever had

00:24:57 you know I've given money out of the course of this show to people

00:25:01 and again sometimes it works

00:25:03 I've given a lot of people money for therapy

00:25:05 which is you know for me a great investment in people's lives

00:25:07 and in society as a whole

00:25:09 but yeah I remember sending one kid a thousand dollars

00:25:12 because he was about to be evicted

00:25:13 and he gave him some advice

00:25:15 and helped him with his resume to get a job

00:25:17 and then he just played video games all night

00:25:19 for a couple of days

00:25:20 didn't show up for work, got fired

00:25:21 just burned up the capital

00:25:23 so you have to keep people

00:25:25 who are bad with money

00:25:27 away from capital

00:25:29 otherwise it's all burnt to the ground

00:25:31 and you can't grow your economy

00:25:33 and everybody stays poor

00:25:35 so segregating people

00:25:38 who are idiots with money

00:25:39 keeping them away from capital

00:25:41 is absolutely essential

00:25:42 but of course the poor don't want that

00:25:44 they want free money right

00:25:45 and the way that they get free money

00:25:47 is to pretend that they're all wise and noble and wonderful

00:25:49 and they just fell upon hard times

00:25:51 and there's this terrible system man

00:25:53 that just won't let you get ahead

00:25:54 and blah blah blah blah blah

00:25:56 yeah I get it

00:25:57 you just

00:25:58 I want stuff that's not earned

00:26:00 so I'm gonna guilt you

00:26:02 and this propaganda is relentless

00:26:05 absolutely relentless

00:26:08 most people are poor

00:26:09 because they won't defer gratification

00:26:11 most people are poor

00:26:13 because they have addiction issues

00:26:15 now I have sympathy for the addiction issues

00:26:17 but let's not pretend that they're poor

00:26:19 because some terrible boss man system

00:26:21 keeps them down man

00:26:23 yeah like it's really not that hard

00:26:28 to get out of poverty

00:26:29 just get yourself a decent education

00:26:32 even if it's self education

00:26:33 defer gratification

00:26:34 work hard, provide value

00:26:36 it's really not that hard

00:26:38 alright

00:26:39 let's see here

00:26:41 hey Steph regarding the show about UPB and babies

00:26:46 please correct me if I'm wrong

00:26:47 is it fair to say that behaviors

00:26:49 that are usually classified as immoral

00:26:51 like breaking into a house

00:26:52 aren't immoral

00:26:53 if consent is given after the fact

00:26:55 well sure

00:26:56 well sure

00:26:57 well sure

00:27:00 I mean if you think about a legal system

00:27:04 right

00:27:05 so

00:27:06 somebody has to press charges

00:27:07 somebody has to initiate

00:27:08 the pressing of charges right

00:27:10 and so

00:27:12 if let's say

00:27:14 you have

00:27:15 a house in the woods

00:27:17 and let's say

00:27:18 somebody is being chased by a bear

00:27:21 that's gonna rip their head off right

00:27:23 right

00:27:24 the

00:27:25 not quote feminist bear

00:27:28 right so let's say

00:27:29 some guy is being chased

00:27:31 by a bear

00:27:33 and the only way he can escape the bear

00:27:35 is to dive through your window

00:27:37 right or maybe you know

00:27:40 your house is unlocked

00:27:41 because it's in the woods right

00:27:42 so he opens your house

00:27:44 he opens the door

00:27:45 goes into your house

00:27:46 and closes the door

00:27:47 right now he's safe from the bear

00:27:49 right

00:27:50 but he's breaking and entering

00:27:52 now let me ask you this

00:27:53 would you rather

00:27:55 when you

00:27:56 let's say you're just driving up right

00:27:58 and would you rather

00:27:59 like you open the door

00:28:00 some guy is in here

00:28:01 he's like oh man I'm so sorry

00:28:02 I had to come into your house

00:28:03 I was being chased by a bear

00:28:04 right

00:28:05 would you be like

00:28:07 damn it I'm pressing charges

00:28:08 breaking and entering right

00:28:09 well of course not

00:28:10 because what's your alternative

00:28:12 that you drive up to your house

00:28:13 and there's a guy with no head

00:28:17 being eaten by a bear

00:28:18 and maybe you've got kids in the backseat

00:28:20 or something

00:28:21 and it's like

00:28:22 well that's

00:28:23 horrible

00:28:25 horrific ugly

00:28:26 and it's gonna

00:28:27 take a lot of time

00:28:28 effort and energy to deal with

00:28:29 you gotta call the cops

00:28:30 they gotta come

00:28:31 it's gotta be an autopsy

00:28:32 and you may need to provide statements

00:28:34 and your kids are screaming and crying

00:28:36 and they never want to go back to the

00:28:37 to the house in the woods

00:28:39 because

00:28:40 they saw a guy

00:28:41 getting

00:28:42 a headless guy getting chewed up by a bear

00:28:44 like so would you rather the guy come into your house

00:28:46 and save himself from the bear

00:28:47 or would you rather come across

00:28:48 his beheaded corpse being chewed up by a bear

00:28:50 well of course you would rather

00:28:54 of course you would rather

00:28:56 have the guy in your house

00:29:00 so whether you get permission before

00:29:02 or after the fact is functionally irrelevant

00:29:04 now

00:29:05 you have to have a reasonable

00:29:07 you have to have a reasonable anticipation

00:29:11 that somebody would prefer that right

00:29:14 you know like if you go

00:29:17 and you steal someone's

00:29:19 diamonds from their house

00:29:21 you don't get to later say

00:29:22 well I just assumed he was gonna throw them out

00:29:24 and I'm doing him a favor

00:29:25 like there has to be some sort of reasonable expectation

00:29:27 that the person's life

00:29:29 like my life if you've got a house in the woods

00:29:31 your life is better if the guy is in the house

00:29:33 not being eaten by a bear

00:29:34 right

00:29:35 your life is worse if he's outside the house

00:29:37 so you have to have some reasonable expectation

00:29:39 but yes consent before or consent after

00:29:42 is relatively unimportant

00:29:44 alright he says I'm asking because

00:29:46 recently I had a confrontation with my brother

00:29:48 in law about circumcision and he argued

00:29:50 that everyone he knows including himself

00:29:52 are okay with it after the fact

00:29:54 the same argument could be made by abusive parents

00:29:56 that beat their children

00:29:57 I'm better off having been

00:29:59 beaten

00:30:01 right

00:30:02 so there's two aspects to that

00:30:04 right

00:30:05 there's two aspects to that

00:30:07 so there's the moral

00:30:09 and then there's the legal right

00:30:11 so if somebody gives permission after the fact

00:30:13 right

00:30:15 then there's no legal action

00:30:17 right so if somebody's okay with having been

00:30:19 circumcised then there's no

00:30:21 legal action that would be initiated right

00:30:23 because they're not gonna press charges

00:30:26 and so

00:30:28 legally if somebody gives permission after the fact

00:30:30 it doesn't really matter

00:30:32 however

00:30:36 morally it's a different matter

00:30:38 so morally it's a different matter

00:30:40 so morally

00:30:42 if someone gives consent

00:30:44 after the fact

00:30:46 sometimes morally it doesn't

00:30:49 it doesn't matter right

00:30:52 so let's say that

00:30:54 some guy

00:30:56 his kid is kidnapped right

00:30:58 his kid is kidnapped and

00:31:00 you know I don't know sold into slavery or something

00:31:02 like that and he gives permission

00:31:04 after the fact he's like yeah I'm fine with it

00:31:06 I mean that doesn't make it moral

00:31:08 so something that's a violation of fundamental rights

00:31:10 giving permission after the fact

00:31:12 doesn't change the reality

00:31:14 and the moral functional facts

00:31:16 of the situation

00:31:22 and you can make decisions about yourself

00:31:24 right so if you don't have a problem

00:31:26 with circumcision

00:31:28 obviously nothing legally is going

00:31:30 to happen

00:31:32 and you can make that decision about yourself

00:31:34 I suppose but you

00:31:36 can't make that decision for someone else

00:31:38 so the reality is if you

00:31:42 want to get circumcised if you're an adult and you

00:31:44 want to get circumcised you can get

00:31:46 circumcised right there are doctors that will do it

00:31:48 and I suppose

00:31:50 it's sort of similar to some

00:31:52 weird piercing or you can get your

00:31:54 nipples pierced or god forsaken things

00:31:56 that happen to people who want to advertise their

00:31:58 usually sexual abuse as children

00:32:00 so you can screw up your

00:32:02 own body if you can find some doctor willing

00:32:04 to do it I think it's gross I don't think doctors should do it

00:32:06 but you know you can find

00:32:08 people who will tattoo your eyeballs or like you can

00:32:10 just find oh that's you right

00:32:12 but you can't make the decision for other people

00:32:14 so if circumcision is fine

00:32:16 then people can get circumcised as adults

00:32:18 but you can't make the decision

00:32:20 for other people

00:32:22 really struggled with this only counter argument I have is that

00:32:26 unlike the hanging by the window situation where

00:32:28 almost everybody would agree it's okay to break the window

00:32:30 only some people would be fine with

00:32:32 having been circumcised or beaten in their childhood

00:32:34 could you share your thoughts

00:32:36 so the problem you can't compare circumcision

00:32:38 with beatings right because

00:32:40 I mean unless the beatings do you

00:32:42 some permanent injury like

00:32:44 you break your arm so badly or somebody

00:32:46 breaks your arm so badly it never sets again right

00:32:48 so if somebody is doing you some horrible

00:32:50 injury as

00:32:52 a kid irreversible

00:32:54 injury right circumcision is an

00:32:56 irreversible

00:32:58 violent

00:33:00 unnecessary removal of a third of

00:33:02 the skin of your penis

00:33:04 like a third of the skin of your

00:33:06 penis is act off

00:33:08 often without any

00:33:10 anesthetic or at least only but local anesthetic

00:33:12 as a baby

00:33:14 so

00:33:16 circumcision

00:33:18 is I know that there are some people

00:33:20 who try to restore the

00:33:22 the

00:33:24 penis skin right restore

00:33:26 the effects of circumcision

00:33:28 or undo it

00:33:30 but it's irreversible a beating

00:33:32 I mean I was beaten as a child

00:33:34 I mean no

00:33:36 permanent physical damage right I mean

00:33:38 whatever I rolled with it

00:33:40 but that's not

00:33:42 but that's not

00:33:44 the case with circumcision you can't make

00:33:46 no I don't accept anyone who

00:33:48 says I'm glad I was circumcised

00:33:50 because they don't know

00:33:52 they don't know

00:33:54 they don't know

00:33:56 they don't know

00:33:58 because they don't have any compared to what

00:34:00 they don't know what it's like to be

00:34:02 uncircumcised

00:34:04 they don't know the additional third of nerve

00:34:06 endings that you have on your penis if you're uncircumcised

00:34:08 they don't know the additional pleasure that

00:34:10 it provides for the woman because

00:34:12 the whole purpose of the skin on the penis

00:34:14 at least one of the reasons why we have the extra skin

00:34:16 on the penis is so that

00:34:18 intercourse is less chafy for the woman

00:34:20 right because the penis rolls in and out

00:34:22 of the foreskin so it's

00:34:24 less chafy and remember we didn't grow up with all

00:34:26 these industrial strength lubricants for all

00:34:28 these sex acts so it is

00:34:30 better for the woman it is better

00:34:32 for the man I mean physically

00:34:34 right so

00:34:36 and you can you know people who

00:34:38 have had to have circumcision as

00:34:40 adults for various reasons or have chosen to have

00:34:42 circumcision as adults for various reasons

00:34:44 they will talk about the loss of sensation

00:34:46 right

00:34:48 and so yes

00:34:50 you can't I wouldn't why would I accept

00:34:52 anybody who

00:34:54 says I'm happy to be circumcised

00:34:56 because they have no experience not being circumcised

00:34:58 so

00:35:00 and see here's the thing

00:35:04 here's the thing

00:35:06 you don't want

00:35:08 to focus on circumcision right

00:35:10 because

00:35:12 philosophy is not about a

00:35:14 particular action it's about general principles right

00:35:16 I mean physicists don't say

00:35:18 this rock they say

00:35:20 all matter right

00:35:22 they don't say well this rock falls they say

00:35:24 well mass attracts mass and it's

00:35:26 the principle of gravity right

00:35:28 so you don't want to talk about circumcision

00:35:30 right

00:35:32 you want to talk about

00:35:34 general can

00:35:36 can babies

00:35:38 be sliced up for the preferences of their parents

00:35:40 for non medically important reasons

00:35:42 can I mean let's say that

00:35:44 you have a

00:35:46 you're part of a cult that

00:35:48 says every second toe needs to be removed

00:35:50 can you go in with

00:35:52 little

00:35:54 scissors and cut off every second toe for the baby

00:35:56 is that okay

00:35:58 right I mean it's

00:36:00 not about circumcision it's about a general

00:36:02 principle

00:36:04 so everybody focuses and not everybody

00:36:06 but in general people get lost in the weeds

00:36:08 get lost in the details right

00:36:10 it's not about

00:36:12 circumcision and what is the principle

00:36:16 what is the principle

00:36:18 can

00:36:20 a female

00:36:22 baby have her breasts removed

00:36:24 so that she will never get breast cancer

00:36:26 right where would that end

00:36:30 can you take an appendix out of a baby

00:36:32 so that the baby never gets appendicitis

00:36:34 can you remove all the teeth

00:36:36 from a baby so they never have to deal

00:36:38 with dental issues

00:36:40 you understand at some point

00:36:42 it's going to hit people's sick trigger

00:36:44 and most people they don't reason

00:36:46 they just have to wait for that like okay

00:36:48 that's sick trigger right you remove all the teeth

00:36:50 from a baby so that they never have to deal with dental issues

00:36:52 and hey you know they can just get

00:36:54 dentures and you know it's so much easier

00:36:56 and blah blah blah or removing the breast

00:36:58 tissue so that they don't get

00:37:00 right or you know I guess theoretically you could say

00:37:04 well we're going to remove all of the reproductive

00:37:06 organs of a female

00:37:08 so they never get endometriosis

00:37:10 or cancer of the uterus right

00:37:12 like at some point aren't you just in fucking

00:37:14 mangalay territory like at some point aren't you

00:37:16 just mutilating children

00:37:18 and yes you can find some

00:37:20 potential benefit out of that

00:37:22 but aren't you then just going to end up with

00:37:24 like nothing

00:37:26 well you got to remove the testicles of the little boy

00:37:28 because there is such a thing as testicular cancer you know

00:37:30 well let's remove one lung

00:37:32 from the baby because you know

00:37:34 lungs can get infected

00:37:36 they can get tumorous and you know

00:37:38 whatever right

00:37:40 like so you understand at some point

00:37:42 you're just stripping the baby of everything that makes a baby a baby

00:37:44 and like so it's not about circumcision

00:37:46 it's about the principle

00:37:48 if somebody can't defend something on principle

00:37:50 then they need to stop advocating

00:37:52 and stop advocating

00:37:54 for whatever violates that principle

00:37:56 it's not about circumcision

00:37:58 you're focusing on circumcision

00:38:00 which then gets into well penile cancer and AIDS

00:38:02 and STDs and pluses and minuses

00:38:04 like no no no it's nothing to do with that

00:38:06 can we mutilate children

00:38:10 can we mutilate babies

00:38:12 with no permission from them

00:38:14 for local customs

00:38:16 preferences or whatever right

00:38:18 well no, no you can't

00:38:22 so think clearly says

00:38:24 had to re-up my coinage, gotta pay for this amazing knowledge

00:38:26 education and wisdom, you can't get this wisdom

00:38:28 in any of the top universities

00:38:30 love this man, true gift, well thank you, I appreciate that

00:38:32 just remember that

00:38:34 not due to any fault of locals

00:38:36 I think it's Google or something but

00:38:38 I lose a third of your coins

00:38:40 because it's a payment through an app

00:38:42 so freedomain.com/donate

00:38:44 is the place to go

00:38:46 if you'd like to donate and give me maximum

00:38:50 retained earnings I would really really

00:38:52 appreciate that, by the way I made my

00:38:54 lighting a little bit, I was experimenting with my lighting

00:38:56 this morning, I made it a little bit less orange

00:38:58 I think that's good, I think it's actually

00:39:00 quite nice, I think it's quite nice

00:39:02 I am forever obsessed with the lighting

00:39:04 so alright

00:39:06 do do do

00:39:08 in the case of

00:39:10 children not consenting as an argument

00:39:12 against surrogacy, does it not also apply to

00:39:14 all cases of adoption or can it be

00:39:16 retroactive to where the child is

00:39:18 of an age, even adult age

00:39:20 where they can consent or approve of the adoption

00:39:22 that does not sound right to me, is this

00:39:24 a case where a moral imperative

00:39:26 overrules preferences at least

00:39:28 where the one subject to adoption

00:39:30 is not able to make the choice yet

00:39:32 I think I understand

00:39:34 I think I understand

00:39:38 so yes

00:39:46 I think that

00:39:48 if somebody says

00:39:50 well the only reason I'm alive is because of surrogacy

00:39:52 right

00:39:54 if they prefer to be alive then they're happy

00:39:56 to, if they're giving

00:39:58 their permission

00:40:00 in retrospect right, they're giving their permission

00:40:02 after the fact, it's true for the adoption as a whole

00:40:04 so if you get adopted into a sort of

00:40:06 nice healthy good middle class family or whatever

00:40:08 you want to say and you're

00:40:10 the people who gave birth to you were

00:40:12 like diseased drug addicts

00:40:14 right, would you give permission after the fact

00:40:16 right, would you say well I get to grow up with

00:40:18 a pool and you know

00:40:20 bottles of coke

00:40:22 in the fridge and you know food in the table

00:40:24 and you know

00:40:26 TVs and activities and stability and

00:40:28 education right, or

00:40:30 I could be living in the sewers with some

00:40:32 diseased drug addicts, I think people would say

00:40:34 after the fact, yes it was a good thing right

00:40:42 alright, let's go here

00:40:44 how did I know

00:40:46 the guy with no conscience

00:40:48 well I've known a number of guys

00:40:50 with no conscience right

00:40:52 just run into them in the

00:40:54 I mean not in any of my personal

00:40:56 relationships at least not for the last quarter century

00:40:58 but alright

00:41:00 thank you for the tip

00:41:10 oh that comment was

00:41:12 unrumbled it wasn't working

00:41:14 sorry for the typos, English is not my first language

00:41:16 thank you for the great answer, no problem

00:41:18 I had to read

00:41:20 of mice and men in high school, the curriculum really

00:41:22 emphasized John Sleinbeck, yeah

00:41:24 everything you read in high school

00:41:26 is pure programming

00:41:28 everything that's

00:41:30 assigned to you in high school

00:41:32 is assigned to you for

00:41:34 leftist programming

00:41:36 one thing I love

00:41:38 most about Just Poor is its honest handling

00:41:40 of the poor, yeah

00:41:42 so I wanted to write a novel with

00:41:44 super wealthy

00:41:46 middle class

00:41:48 and

00:41:50 the just poor and the unjust poor

00:41:52 right so there are bad guys among the rich

00:41:54 there are good guys among the poor

00:41:56 but the poor do not have a monopoly

00:41:58 in long suffering heroic

00:42:00 virtue

00:42:02 see it is

00:42:04 hyper feminine

00:42:06 to have

00:42:08 endless

00:42:10 sympathy for the poor

00:42:14 right it is

00:42:16 hyper feminine

00:42:18 to have

00:42:20 endless sympathy for the poor

00:42:22 because it's you know the sympathy

00:42:24 for the underdog is feminine

00:42:26 encouragement for the underdog

00:42:28 with a ruthless exclusion

00:42:30 of the underdog from excellence is the mark

00:42:32 of masculinity

00:42:34 right I mean I was talking about

00:42:36 this in a show the other day

00:42:38 which is when I first

00:42:44 came to Canada I was good at athletics

00:42:46 in England

00:42:48 I grew up on rugby

00:42:50 soccer

00:42:52 rounders which is a British

00:42:54 variation on

00:42:56 baseball and then when I came to

00:42:58 Canada I couldn't skate

00:43:00 which of course you know

00:43:02 I didn't grow up with skating they didn't really play

00:43:04 soccer they played baseball

00:43:06 which is not the same as rounders

00:43:08 and I never got the hang

00:43:10 of American football I played some touch

00:43:12 football but I was too into

00:43:14 rugby I could never quite get round

00:43:16 to the football thing

00:43:18 so

00:43:20 when I was

00:43:22 first came to Canada at the age of 11

00:43:24 I was not picked

00:43:26 for the sports teams very quickly

00:43:28 right but

00:43:30 then I got better

00:43:32 I improved

00:43:34 I'm fairly athletic I mean strengths and weaknesses

00:43:36 as a whole I'm fairly athletic

00:43:38 very fast

00:43:40 reflexes for sure and pretty good

00:43:42 hand-eye coordination and good

00:43:44 good ball control

00:43:46 especially when I'm starring

00:43:48 in Michael Flanley's Lord of the Dirts

00:43:50 so

00:43:52 but I was

00:43:54 it was like you suck

00:43:56 and but there was

00:43:58 I didn't encourage them to get better

00:44:00 so you know the guys who were picking the teams

00:44:02 they wanted to win so they wanted to not

00:44:04 take me

00:44:06 when I was bad of course

00:44:08 I didn't take it personally it's like yeah

00:44:10 I kind of suck at these games

00:44:12 so

00:44:14 they don't want me on their team

00:44:16 I would feel it's basic empathy I would feel the same way

00:44:18 because I was team captain sometimes

00:44:20 when I was a kid and I didn't want the bad kids on my team

00:44:22 because I wanted to win because it's more fun that way

00:44:24 but then when I got better

00:44:26 people wanted me on their team

00:44:28 I remember this very clearly

00:44:30 then I would start getting picked in the middle and then eventually

00:44:32 I was one of the first couple of kids picked because

00:44:34 I'm a good hitter in baseball

00:44:36 I can crack that thing like nobody's business

00:44:38 so

00:44:40 yeah and so

00:44:42 because I'm left handed right so

00:44:44 I throw with my left so

00:44:46 I couldn't afford a glove

00:44:48 I couldn't afford a baseball glove

00:44:50 it was like 20 bucks or whatever

00:44:52 you could barely afford rent so I couldn't afford a baseball glove

00:44:54 so I would borrow kids gloves

00:44:56 but there weren't any other lefties around

00:44:58 so the glove would go on my left hand

00:45:00 so I'd have to catch it on the left hand rip off the glove and throw it

00:45:02 but when I finally did inherit a

00:45:04 left handed glove which went on my right hand

00:45:06 a glove for a left handed people

00:45:08 I immediately moved up to the top

00:45:10 one or two picks because I could now catch and throw

00:45:12 without the delay of ripping off the glove

00:45:14 and so you know I started off bad

00:45:16 and I wasn't picked and then I got better

00:45:18 and then I started getting picked

00:45:20 it's not personal

00:45:22 anything to do with men you know

00:45:24 women take things more personally in a lot of ways and men are just like

00:45:26 well but I do suck

00:45:28 so alright

00:45:30 let's see here

00:45:32 yeah they spend

00:45:34 flat screen TV's, trendy sneakers

00:45:36 yeah the poor, casinos, big car rims

00:45:38 spend it on strippers and all of that right

00:45:40 well or

00:45:42 you know if somebody who's poor

00:45:44 comes into money then everybody swarms around

00:45:46 them with their crazy business idea and all of that right

00:45:48 they blow it and grow all of the vice industries

00:45:50 well yeah so I mean

00:45:52 I grew up among the poor

00:45:54 and then when I worked up north

00:45:56 as a gold panner and prospector

00:45:58 from post high school until I went to university

00:46:00 for about a year and a half

00:46:02 and it's how I saved money

00:46:04 for a lot of my university

00:46:06 and the towns up north were all the same

00:46:08 towns up north were all the same

00:46:10 so there would be a post office

00:46:12 and then there would be a post office

00:46:14 and then there would be a post office

00:46:16 so there would be a post office

00:46:18 a convenience store

00:46:20 and a liquor store

00:46:22 right so you'd get your check

00:46:24 this is before your pokey right

00:46:26 you get your unemployment check, your welfare check or whatever right

00:46:28 your disability check and you'd go and cash it

00:46:30 at the post office and then you'd go

00:46:32 to the convenience store to pick up

00:46:34 your snacks and smokes and then you'd go to

00:46:36 the liquor store to get your beer and liquor

00:46:38 and it was always the same, always the same

00:46:40 when I spent a little bit of time

00:46:44 we would hire

00:46:46 the natives right

00:46:48 we would hire the natives sometimes to go and blaze the trails

00:46:50 in areas that we wanted to go and

00:46:52 and prospect

00:46:54 you'd mark off in kilometers square

00:46:56 you'd put your

00:46:58 markers onto the trees, you'd hammer your

00:47:00 metal studs into the trees and that's how you get

00:47:02 the mineral rights right so we'd have people go ahead

00:47:04 and sometimes clear the brush

00:47:06 so I'd spend some time on the native

00:47:08 reservations and they were hell

00:47:10 they were hell

00:47:12 this is why this whole

00:47:14 wise indigenous graham green

00:47:16 dances with wool stuff, it's just not

00:47:18 true right, I mean they were

00:47:20 hell, your children wandering around with no pants

00:47:22 at 2 o'clock in the morning

00:47:24 it was just absolutely appalling

00:47:26 alright

00:47:28 Steph when selling

00:47:32 custom machines that increase productivity for food

00:47:34 manufacturer companies

00:47:36 would a good pitch be

00:47:38 if it doesn't increase your productivity by say value

00:47:40 x I'll go and take the machine back and give you

00:47:42 your money back

00:47:44 why would you do that

00:47:48 I mean unless it's something totally

00:47:50 new

00:47:52 so the way you work

00:47:54 in business is you build business cases

00:47:56 right, you build verifiable

00:47:58 business cases so when I was in business

00:48:00 selling software

00:48:02 there was a particular process

00:48:04 that a lot of businesses had to do

00:48:06 and we could cut the cost by 40%

00:48:08 and we knew that because we

00:48:10 gave the software away relatively cheap

00:48:12 early on, on the condition that we built the business

00:48:14 case right, so we measure

00:48:16 how much time and money they spend on this

00:48:18 particular process before our software and then

00:48:20 after the software and then

00:48:22 we say you know they're saving x amount

00:48:24 of dollars a month and by the way you can

00:48:26 you know we got the guy to sign off

00:48:28 that this is true and so

00:48:30 then he would be a reference

00:48:32 and so he would get the software very cheap in return

00:48:34 for a business case that he would act as a reference

00:48:36 to right, so they could call and say this is what these

00:48:38 guys are claiming, this is true, absolutely it's true

00:48:40 I gave them all the numbers so

00:48:42 maybe you give a subsidy to begin with but

00:48:44 in return for a business case and then you use that business

00:48:46 case to convince everyone else to

00:48:48 buy your software at full price or in this case

00:48:50 their food stuff so

00:48:52 alright

00:48:54 I'm so happy to listen to a live show

00:48:58 I broke my phone and decided to go without

00:49:00 until I could buy a new paid phone in full

00:49:02 I'm sorry about that

00:49:04 it's God's way of saying upgrade

00:49:06 alright

00:49:14 some places in Canada

00:49:16 they leave all car doors

00:49:18 open in case of polar bears

00:49:20 yeah it's just up in Nunavut and places like

00:49:22 that right and I'm sure this is the case in Alaska

00:49:24 yeah so yeah for sure you would leave all

00:49:26 the car doors open in case

00:49:28 somebody needs to get into your car because there's

00:49:30 a polar bear so yeah

00:49:32 very happy right you don't want to come back

00:49:34 with some guy's head on your car

00:49:36 right

00:49:38 when I was a kid

00:49:44 there was a super poor family in our village

00:49:46 and

00:49:48 people were giving them things out of pity but they always

00:49:50 destroyed them if somebody gave the kids a bicycle

00:49:52 it would not last more than a month

00:49:54 yeah

00:49:56 yeah so

00:49:58 poor people

00:50:00 there's lots of exceptions as a whole right

00:50:02 but poor people in general blame

00:50:04 externalities

00:50:06 poor people blame externalities

00:50:10 for their poverty right

00:50:12 you know like the kids who are bad in school

00:50:14 a lot of time "oh the teachers just got it

00:50:16 in for me" or you know they didn't teach the

00:50:18 test or "how am I supposed to know" or

00:50:20 whatever whatever they blame externalities

00:50:22 as to why

00:50:24 they're doing badly in school

00:50:26 and because they blame externalities

00:50:28 right one of the things

00:50:30 that's quite characteristic to poor people

00:50:32 is a complete avoidance of responsibility

00:50:34 right

00:50:36 oh yeah

00:50:44 yeah yeah so Lord of the Flies

00:50:46 is another piece of pure propaganda that

00:50:48 kids are forced to read about how "geez without

00:50:50 a government it's just a war of all against all and the

00:50:52 fat kid goes sailing off a cliff

00:50:54 but

00:50:56 the actual story of Lord of the Flies

00:50:58 is that people

00:51:00 the kids function like it's based on a real

00:51:02 story but in the real story the kids function very

00:51:04 very well

00:51:06 right as somebody's pointing out they survived on fish

00:51:08 coconuts, birds, the days

00:51:10 began and ended with song and prayer

00:51:12 friendship and loyalty yeah it's

00:51:14 it's William Golding right so

00:51:16 if you

00:51:18 don't push propaganda

00:51:20 you don't make money because they pay you for

00:51:22 programming the children

00:51:24 yeah the kids got along

00:51:26 they helped each other

00:51:28 I never I remember

00:51:30 reading Lord of the Flies I read a sanitized

00:51:32 version to my daughter when she was younger

00:51:34 and it's just not believable

00:51:36 it's just not believable

00:51:38 that suddenly they all turn feral

00:51:40 and attack each other and want to kill

00:51:42 each other and it's like come on man

00:51:44 I mean we

00:51:46 we all played in the woods when I was a

00:51:48 kid we all played in the middle of nowhere and

00:51:50 this never happened

00:51:52 it never happened it's all just lies and nonsense

00:51:54 alright were you circumcised

00:51:56 Steph? I was not and I remain

00:51:58 not I remain not

00:52:00 alright

00:52:02 is Lenny's IQ less than

00:52:04 85? Yes I think you probably have

00:52:06 about a 60

00:52:08 somebody says in 2013

00:52:10 my only close friend robbed my life savings

00:52:12 nearly 3 grand from an envelope in a drawer in my bedroom

00:52:14 just before I got around to taking it to the bank

00:52:16 yeah yeah I'm sorry

00:52:18 about that I wonder what percentage of

00:52:20 homeless people are either addicted or mentally ill

00:52:22 right well I mean

00:52:24 yeah there's the addiction of course

00:52:26 and they I did a whole

00:52:28 series on this the destruction of

00:52:30 America's mental health care system

00:52:32 the communists

00:52:34 love turning loose the asylums

00:52:36 on society to destabilize and make people

00:52:38 frightened and therefore easier to rule

00:52:40 when I'm at the ATM

00:52:42 at night I am not looking over my shoulder for

00:52:44 bears true

00:52:46 yeah

00:52:48 yeah

00:52:54 circumcision is a

00:52:56 I think it's a form of branding I think it's just terrible

00:52:58 absolutely terrible

00:53:00 thank you for the great

00:53:04 work thank you for the tip thank you for the great work

00:53:06 you do Steph as for polar bears Churchill

00:53:08 Manitoba has that bylaw that you are not

00:53:10 allowed to lock cars also there are no highways

00:53:12 out of town

00:53:14 oh that's interesting you can't even drive away right

00:53:16 for myself at the time and since I was thought of

00:53:20 and described to the public schools I went to as

00:53:22 Lord of the Flies yeah interesting

00:53:24 somebody says I grew up around poor people

00:53:28 in fact I was poor poor people aren't

00:53:30 moral or poor due to reasons outside

00:53:32 of their control the majority are horrible people

00:53:34 yeah I mean I think there's

00:53:36 IQ issues there is certainly trauma

00:53:38 issues and so on but the one thing

00:53:40 that's exhausting about the poor is that just

00:53:42 don't take responsibility

00:53:44 they don't take responsibility

00:53:46 I mean the single moms are all like well I just couldn't

00:53:48 have known and it just happened and it's like

00:53:50 they just won't take responsibility

00:53:52 and I get I get I understand

00:53:54 the seduction of not taking responsibility but

00:53:56 avoidance of personal responsibility

00:53:58 is a drug

00:54:00 it gives you a high in the moment

00:54:02 and costs you everything in the long run

00:54:04 it is a I view the avoidance

00:54:06 of personal responsibility as the equivalent

00:54:08 of heroin or crack cocaine

00:54:10 or meth or something

00:54:12 like that like I view the avoidance

00:54:14 of personal responsibility is a giant red flag

00:54:16 of course right

00:54:18 but people it's a drug it's an

00:54:20 addiction to avoid personal responsibility is

00:54:22 a massive addiction and it's

00:54:24 very seductive it's fundamentally demonic

00:54:26 though

00:54:28 all right we're having a low tip

00:54:30 day just wanted to mention

00:54:32 just wanted to

00:54:34 mention that

00:54:36 it's a little bit of a low tip day if we get some

00:54:38 decent tips I can give you guys a link to the

00:54:40 AI

00:54:42 the peaceful parenting AI which you really should

00:54:44 check out I don't care how

00:54:46 expert you are you really got to check out the peaceful

00:54:48 parenting AI because

00:54:50 you're going to hand it to other people

00:54:52 and I really would appreciate a bit of a test drive

00:54:54 of the AI that would

00:54:56 be excellent let me know if there's anything that goes awry

00:54:58 and so on but

00:55:00 yeah I would get some tips you know

00:55:02 25 bucks not much for

00:55:04 almost an hour I think it's a pretty great

00:55:06 philosophy we've gone through a lot of

00:55:08 stuff here now if you have

00:55:10 questions comments issues challenges I'm certainly

00:55:12 happy to hear them I have of course

00:55:14 some

00:55:16 some

00:55:18 oh that's interesting

00:55:20 why would you talk

00:55:22 about my father's name in that detail

00:55:24 seems vaguely sinister

00:55:26 seems vaguely sinister

00:55:28 if so

00:55:30 yes if there's anything else you want to chat about I'm certainly

00:55:32 happy to hear it

00:55:34 I did have a request

00:55:36 I did have a request

00:55:38 to talk about

00:55:40 codependency

00:55:48 I did have a request I could do that as a solo show

00:55:50 or again I'm certainly happy to

00:55:52 sorry people are typing and I'm

00:55:54 sort of vaguely vamping here to

00:55:56 yeah I mean

00:56:02 strip the copper like you know in poor

00:56:04 neighborhoods the

00:56:06 libraries get ransacked and they take everything

00:56:08 but the books and all that

00:56:10 Jane Goodall

00:56:16 admitting reports that the chimps would effectively war against

00:56:18 each other instead of instead

00:56:20 portraying them in nature's great and peaceful

00:56:22 Rousseauian way tip thanks Lee

00:56:24 so

00:56:26 yes

00:56:28 it's the

00:56:30 pessimism

00:56:32 the noble savage

00:56:34 the noble savage is

00:56:36 foundational to the lies of the left

00:56:38 the noble

00:56:40 savage

00:56:42 it's a very very seductive

00:56:44 fantasy that nature

00:56:46 what are the topics you want to talk about

00:56:50 well no but here's the thing so if I have a topic

00:56:52 that I want to talk about then I will

00:56:54 talk about that

00:56:56 topic

00:56:58 in a solo show right

00:57:00 so that's not

00:57:02 alright so let's see here

00:57:14 thank you for the tip I appreciate that

00:57:16 thank you

00:57:18 Adam I appreciate that

00:57:20 I can't trust Adams

00:57:24 I just I can't trust Adams

00:57:26 I can't

00:57:28 they make up everything

00:57:30 everything

00:57:32 oh did you get caught

00:57:34 oh here comes the philosophy

00:57:36 did you get caught

00:57:38 I'm not saying I'm proud of it I'm just saying it happens

00:57:40 the dad jokes they come out

00:57:42 like nipple splosions

00:57:44 alright sorry I lost the tap here

00:57:46 let's get back to your comments

00:57:48 oh and the lies of the silent spring

00:57:54 DDT is thinning the eggs and blah blah blah

00:57:56 blah blah right

00:57:58 yeah it's just nonsense

00:58:00 the state makes lying profitable

00:58:02 the state makes lying profitable

00:58:04 because you can't undo the lies

00:58:08 so if somebody lies to you you ostracize them

00:58:10 somebody lies to you they promise you something

00:58:12 they don't deliver you just don't go back

00:58:14 so you can ostracize liars

00:58:16 but the state doesn't allow you to ostracize liars

00:58:18 just as it doesn't allow you to ostracize immoral people

00:58:20 alright

00:58:22 there are people on tiktok

00:58:28 showing how to rob copper wires out of abandoned buildings

00:58:30 yeah

00:58:32 yeah

00:58:34 in this poor area they had to replace

00:58:36 the nice seats on the bus with steel seats

00:58:38 because they destroyed the nice seats

00:58:40 somebody says

00:58:44 I actually have a job

00:58:46 replacing copper street lights wire to aluminum

00:58:48 so I won't steal them in poor neighborhoods

00:58:50 I mean this is one of the reasons

00:58:54 why red lobsters fighting for bankruptcy

00:58:56 because they had this all you can eat shrimp thing

00:58:58 and then poor people came in two of them ordered it

00:59:00 six of them ate it it became impossible to police

00:59:02 and they just lost millions and millions and millions of dollars

00:59:04 what do you think about this Steph?

00:59:08 my girlfriend says

00:59:10 that there are some things that she has some secrets

00:59:12 that she believes

00:59:14 she will never tell me

00:59:16 no hints as to what they are

00:59:18 and she is adamant that she won't tell

00:59:20 we are five months in and I'm thinking and proposing

00:59:22 it makes me uncomfortable

00:59:24 what should I do?

00:59:26 so this is a torture

00:59:28 she's just torturing you

00:59:30 it's not a good sign

00:59:32 it's not a good sign

00:59:34 you know as human beings

00:59:36 there are some things we just don't talk about

00:59:38 I mean there are secrets I will take with me to my grave

00:59:44 I've said this before

00:59:46 I'm not trying to torture you because it's not something I owe you

00:59:48 but yeah I mean I am stuffed full of secrets

00:59:50 there are things I know about people

00:59:52 that I will take to my grave

00:59:54 there are things that have happened to me

00:59:56 that I will take to my grave

00:59:58 and

01:00:00 but I'm not dangling that

01:00:02 you know trying to torture someone

01:00:04 so why would someone tell you they have secrets

01:00:08 if they are not going to tell you the secrets

01:00:12 right why?

01:00:14 that's very disturbed right

01:00:16 oh I have really important things that really affect you

01:00:18 big secrets

01:00:20 I'm not going to tell you

01:00:22 that's just psychological torture

01:00:24 and you are experiencing it as psychological torture

01:00:26 I mean to tell you

01:00:30 to dangle in front of you

01:00:32 important secrets

01:00:34 I mean the secret is not

01:00:36 her nickname for her Barbie

01:00:38 when she was eight right

01:00:40 that's what she's talking about

01:00:42 if it's important enough to keep from you

01:00:44 it must affect you

01:00:46 if it's important enough to keep from you

01:00:48 it must affect you

01:00:50 otherwise she'd just tell you

01:00:52 so she's saying I have important secrets

01:00:54 that really affect you

01:00:56 that I'm never going to tell you

01:00:58 that's just psychological torture

01:01:00 let's see here

01:01:04 I'm checking the AI right now

01:01:06 I asked it according to the documents

01:01:08 it's a peaceful parent and it gave a great answer

01:01:10 curious about trying the staffbot AI

01:01:12 for dream analysis next

01:01:14 it's interesting I don't know how well it would do with that

01:01:16 yeah so with regards to the

01:01:26 girlfriend, your fiance I suppose

01:01:28 why would you tell me?

01:01:30 why would you tell me that things

01:01:32 can you tell me do these secrets affect me?

01:01:34 right

01:01:36 and of course if she

01:01:38 says no the secrets don't affect you then you say

01:01:40 but then there should be no barrier to telling me if they don't affect me

01:01:42 right if they don't affect me

01:01:44 then you can tell me and if she says well they do

01:01:46 affect you it's like well then you're withholding information

01:01:48 from me that affects me

01:01:50 and telling me that you're withholding information

01:01:52 from me that affects me so how can I

01:01:54 trust you

01:01:56 so

01:01:58 and not even so much tell me the secrets

01:02:00 the question is not what are the

01:02:02 secrets the question is why

01:02:04 would you tell me you have secrets that affect me

01:02:06 without telling me what they are

01:02:08 right you would want

01:02:10 to explore that motivation not

01:02:12 details right again philosophy

01:02:14 is all about the principles so you wouldn't just

01:02:16 want to focus on the details

01:02:18 it's not about these secrets

01:02:20 why do women

01:02:22 torture like this it's because they're insecure

01:02:24 about their value and want to put you down

01:02:26 no

01:02:28 sorry no

01:02:30 no so this indicates

01:02:32 that you can't negotiate with your

01:02:34 fiance so

01:02:36 if you're in a relationship oh

01:02:38 this might be

01:02:40 too much for people

01:02:42 yeah

01:02:46 yeah

01:02:50 this might be too much

01:02:52 I mean too much for 30 bucks of donations

01:02:54 sorry

01:02:56 I'll hold off on that one

01:02:58 unless you know if we get some donations

01:03:00 that would be great but that's a lot of juice

01:03:02 right that's a lot of juice

01:03:04 but it's not because they're insecure about

01:03:08 their value and want to put you down it's nothing like that

01:03:10 people

01:03:16 psychologize right that's psychology

01:03:18 and that's not how people work

01:03:20 and just sort of making up reasons

01:03:22 as to why people do stuff without evidence

01:03:24 based upon psychology is not great

01:03:26 thank you for the tip on rumble

01:03:28 I appreciate that

01:03:30 well what do you

01:03:32 think of being obsessed

01:03:34 with a fictional female character for years

01:03:36 because you don't have any other positive way to

01:03:38 express yourself or feel

01:03:40 loved

01:03:42 alright

01:03:46 what is the fictional female

01:03:48 character tell me

01:03:50 tell me

01:03:52 what is the fictional female character

01:03:54 tell me

01:03:56 what is the fictional female character

01:03:58 tell me

01:04:00 what is the fictional female character

01:04:02 tell me

01:04:04 what is the fictional female character

01:04:06 tell me

01:04:08 what is the fictional female character

01:04:10 tell me

01:04:12 what is the fictional female character

01:04:14 tell me

01:04:16 what is the fictional female character

01:04:18 tell me

01:04:20 what is the fictional female character

01:04:22 tell me

01:04:24 what is the fictional female character

01:04:26 tell me

01:04:28 what is the fictional female character

01:04:30 tell me

01:04:32 what is the fictional female character

01:04:34 tell me

01:04:36 what is the fictional female character

01:04:38 tell me

01:04:40 what is the fictional female character

01:04:42 tell me

01:04:44 what is the fictional female character

01:04:46 tell me

01:04:48 what is the fictional female character

01:04:50 tell me

01:04:52 what is the fictional female character

01:04:54 tell me

01:04:56 what is the fictional female character

01:04:58 tell me

01:05:00 what is the fictional female character

01:05:02 tell me

01:05:04 what is the fictional female character

01:05:06 tell me

01:05:08 what is the fictional female character

01:05:10 tell me

01:05:12 what is the fictional female character

01:05:14 tell me

01:05:16 what is the fictional female character

01:05:18 tell me

01:05:20 what is the fictional female character

01:05:22 tell me

01:05:24 what is the fictional female character

01:05:26 tell me

01:05:28 what is the fictional female character

01:05:30 tell me

01:05:32 what is the fictional female character

01:05:34 tell me

01:05:36 what is the fictional female character

01:05:38 tell me

01:05:40 what is the fictional female character

01:05:42 tell me

01:05:44 what is the fictional female character

01:05:46 tell me

01:05:48 what is the fictional female character

01:05:50 tell me

01:05:52 what is the fictional female character

01:05:54 tell me

01:05:56 what is the fictional female character

01:05:58 tell me

01:06:00 what is the fictional female character

01:06:02 tell me

01:06:04 what is the fictional female character

01:06:06 tell me

01:06:08 what is the fictional female character

01:06:10 tell me

01:06:12 what is the fictional female character

01:06:14 tell me

01:06:16 what is the fictional female character

01:06:18 tell me

01:06:20 what is the fictional female character

01:06:22 tell me

01:06:24 what is the fictional female character

01:06:26 tell me

01:06:28 what is the fictional female character

01:06:30 tell me

01:06:32 what is the fictional female character

01:06:34 tell me

01:06:36 what is the fictional female character

01:06:38 tell me

01:06:40 what is the fictional female character

01:06:42 waifu isn't that your

01:06:44 anime girlfriend in your imagination

01:06:46 isn't that waifu

01:06:48 is that right

01:06:50 let me just see

01:06:52 is that

01:06:54 oh it's a way of

01:06:58 waifu is a way of

01:07:00 Japanese speakers will never use that word

01:07:04 waifu is a term

01:07:06 for a fictional character usually in anime

01:07:08 related media that someone has

01:07:10 great and sometimes romantic affection for

01:07:12 waifu came from the

01:07:14 Japanese word for wife

01:07:16 ok

01:07:18 yeah I mean you understand

01:07:20 she's a talented gymnast who joins

01:07:22 a high school vigilante group

01:07:24 so she's violent right

01:07:26 right

01:07:28 so she's violent

01:07:30 so a healthy person

01:07:36 is sexually attracted to a woman

01:07:38 who will make a good mother

01:07:40 right

01:07:42 a healthy person right

01:07:44 cause what is the purpose of love what is the purpose of sexual

01:07:46 attraction and pair bonding and marriage

01:07:48 it's for children

01:07:50 it's for children

01:07:52 big eyes in anime is because

01:07:54 they base their characters on American

01:07:56 influences it's not to do with pedophilia

01:07:58 I don't

01:08:00 believe you

01:08:02 I don't believe you

01:08:04 alright

01:08:06 um

01:08:08 waifu girl you would

01:08:10 marry day go steady with as my pal said it to me

01:08:12 well that's not what the meaning is so you can make up your

01:08:14 own meanings but that doesn't help the general population

01:08:16 so

01:08:18 a healthy man is attracted to a woman

01:08:20 who will make a good mother

01:08:22 now a woman

01:08:24 who is a teenager who hacks

01:08:26 people up with a sword

01:08:28 would such a woman a girl

01:08:30 make a good mother if she's very

01:08:32 good at

01:08:34 disassembling people

01:08:36 with her samurai

01:08:38 blade if she's willing to hack

01:08:40 and slash and cut people

01:08:42 to ribbons

01:08:44 would she be a good mother

01:08:48 right

01:08:50 so men who are attracted

01:08:54 to violent women

01:08:56 are overly bonded with

01:08:58 abusive mothers

01:09:02 I'll say it again

01:09:04 men who are attracted to violent women

01:09:06 are overly bonded with abusive mothers

01:09:08 because now they associate femininity and motherhood

01:09:10 with violence

01:09:12 and therefore and this is why since the rise

01:09:14 of single motherhood you have all of these

01:09:16 kick ass female heroines who go around

01:09:18 beating everyone up in their impossibly

01:09:20 tall stiletto heels

01:09:22 and you know they all know kung fu

01:09:24 and you know it's all really really boring

01:09:26 stuff all the kill bill stuff and the alias

01:09:28 stuff and you know

01:09:30 all of the stuff that Charlize Theron plays from time

01:09:32 to time so yes when you

01:09:34 get violent

01:09:36 abusive single mothers then

01:09:38 you have a drive

01:09:40 for sexually attractive

01:09:42 violent

01:09:44 abusive women

01:09:46 so yeah you've bonded and

01:09:48 you've identified femininity

01:09:50 with violence and abuse and therefore

01:09:52 you're bonded to a violent

01:09:54 abusive character

01:09:56 Steph have you heard of Yandere

01:09:58 I have not

01:10:00 do you lose 30% of locals

01:10:02 subs no it's the coins

01:10:04 it's the coins that cost

01:10:06 and it's not anything to do with locals it's just the architecture

01:10:08 of google

01:10:10 and apple they just take 30% of in

01:10:12 game or in app payments

01:10:14 let's see here

01:10:18 I love her nice personality and cute looks

01:10:20 she helps the major domain character get

01:10:22 through the story and supports him no matter

01:10:24 what she pretends to be

01:10:26 her twin sister out of

01:10:28 guilt over causing her death

01:10:30 what

01:10:32 she could do her own abortions with a sword like that

01:10:34 I don't know what that means she fights against

01:10:36 evil shadows in people's minds

01:10:38 she doesn't kill real people or anything

01:10:40 she's a noble fighter

01:10:42 female officers can arrest men without backup in the real world

01:10:44 she fights against evil shadows

01:10:46 in people's minds she doesn't kill

01:10:48 real people or anything

01:10:50 she's a noble fighter okay so let me ask

01:10:52 you this can you be

01:10:54 a fighter and a nurturer

01:10:56 let's see here

01:11:02 there's a sub genre of anime

01:11:04 called mamanga or

01:11:06 hentai animated pornography the lines

01:11:08 are blurred razor thin

01:11:10 yandere is often

01:11:12 sweet caring and innocent before switching

01:11:14 into someone who displays an extreme often

01:11:16 violent or psychopathic level

01:11:18 of devotion to a love interest right

01:11:20 yeah so that the reason why you have this

01:11:22 duality is that

01:11:24 abusive mothers

01:11:26 are nice in public and violent

01:11:28 in private right so you have these two poles

01:11:30 right

01:11:32 so

01:11:38 I would assume that it has to do with

01:11:44 being raised by a violent

01:11:46 woman and then

01:11:48 your fusion is that you find

01:11:50 violence sexually

01:11:52 attractive now you can say oh but

01:11:54 she only fights shadows in people's minds okay so let's

01:11:56 say she only fights shadows in people's minds

01:11:58 but of course it's animated right there in front of you

01:12:00 so she's a fighter

01:12:02 and a killer of delusions and delusions

01:12:04 so she's still very

01:12:06 aggressive and can you be

01:12:08 a violent aggressive

01:12:10 person

01:12:12 can you be

01:12:14 a violent aggressive person and a good

01:12:16 nurturer to babies

01:12:18 right

01:12:20 don't want to derail the stream but why have you

01:12:28 associated big eyes in animation with sexual

01:12:30 interests in minors pretty much all characters

01:12:32 in anime have abnormally large eyes I'm pretty sure

01:12:34 it's just an art style

01:12:36 um

01:12:38 I don't

01:12:40 I don't follow I already explained it

01:12:42 I already explained it so if

01:12:44 you weren't listening I'm not going to go through it again

01:12:46 if you were listening then you need to address my arguments

01:12:48 and not pretend that you didn't right because that's kind of rude

01:12:50 right to pretend I didn't say anything when they already

01:12:52 explained it is kind of rude unless you weren't listening

01:12:54 which is also kind of rude to

01:12:56 ask me to repeat something that I've already said because

01:12:58 you weren't listening unless you apologize for not listening

01:13:00 which is a little bit more polite but this is

01:13:02 just rude sorry

01:13:04 alright questions comments issues

01:13:06 it looks like nobody wants to know about

01:13:08 why do women

01:13:10 torture like this is it because they're insecure about their value

01:13:12 and want to put you down

01:13:14 okay that's fine

01:13:16 just added to the tip jar because

01:13:18 this chat is being fussy keep up with the phenomenal work

01:13:20 thank you I appreciate that very kind

01:13:22 very kind

01:13:24 alright any other

01:13:30 last questions comments issues challenges

01:13:32 problems feedback

01:13:34 tips are low

01:13:36 motivation is low maybe this is not

01:13:38 the greatest show for y'all so

01:13:40 I will not drag the show

01:13:42 out if it's not a particular value

01:13:44 to you and it's not particularly motivating

01:13:46 to me so I will

01:13:48 close this off early again

01:13:50 no problem or whatever but

01:13:52 I know it's a tough economy so I sympathize

01:13:54 with all of that but I do

01:13:56 I do have to work for money right I mean

01:13:58 I've got employees and all of that

01:14:00 so

01:14:02 thank you I appreciate that

01:14:04 if you tip on freedomay.com please let us know here

01:14:08 well no I can see that I can see that show up

01:14:10 that hasn't been happening

01:14:12 I think we got

01:14:14 two

01:14:16 so

01:14:18 one member check out and one donation so

01:14:20 no problem sounds unlikely

01:14:22 that violent does not equal

01:14:24 nurturing sounds unlikely that violent

01:14:26 does not equal nurturing

01:14:28 what

01:14:30 that's two double negatives so you're saying

01:14:32 that violent women are great nurturers

01:14:34 I would have questions

01:14:36 now violent men can be

01:14:38 good at nurturing because nurturing for males

01:14:40 is protecting right so you

01:14:42 need to have the capacity for some aggression

01:14:44 to protect your family so

01:14:46 it's a little different for men as a whole

01:14:48 yes I like the show

01:14:54 well thank you I appreciate that

01:14:56 maybe I'm attracted to her because she doesn't

01:15:00 leave and abandon me

01:15:02 and

01:15:04 Sumira's real world personality is kind

01:15:06 and supportive

01:15:08 she doesn't leave and abandon me

01:15:10 I don't understand

01:15:14 you have no

01:15:16 relationship with her whatsoever

01:15:18 she's not real

01:15:20 she has no relationship with you

01:15:22 so I don't know what you mean by she doesn't

01:15:24 leave and abandon me

01:15:26 that's like me saying Gandalf the wizard will

01:15:28 always be there for me it's like no

01:15:30 he's not there for you in any way shape

01:15:32 or form

01:15:34 so

01:15:36 why would you bond with the unreal

01:15:38 why would you bond with the unreal

01:15:40 thank you

01:15:42 Chris I appreciate that so yeah why would you bond

01:15:44 with the unreal

01:15:46 so you

01:15:48 wouldn't just bond with the unreal because

01:15:50 that's your thought

01:15:52 or feeling or you would bond

01:15:54 with the unreal because

01:15:56 you had to do that as a kid in order

01:15:58 to survive so you would bond with the

01:16:00 unreal because you

01:16:02 had to create a fantasy of your mother

01:16:04 to bond with that because your mother couldn't be

01:16:06 bond you couldn't bond with your actual mother

01:16:08 imaginary

01:16:12 lovers yeah that's a great song

01:16:14 I remember that from the 70's right

01:16:16 imagination's

01:16:20 unreal yeah

01:16:22 it's a good song imaginary lovers

01:16:24 I guess that was the dawn of the

01:16:26 porn age so

01:16:28 I'm not sexually attracted to her

01:16:30 she's 15 in the game but I started

01:16:32 to love her when I was 19 my mother

01:16:34 was never violent she abandoned my family

01:16:36 when I was 4 and I barely ever saw her

01:16:38 in my life

01:16:40 sorry you don't experience maternal abandonment

01:16:42 it's violence

01:16:44 of course it's violent to abandon your family

01:16:46 because how are you supposed to survive without a mother

01:16:48 throughout most of her evolution

01:16:50 okay so

01:16:56 when I said that you had to bond with the

01:16:58 unreal so you had to have

01:17:00 some kind of imaginary bond with a mother

01:17:02 who barely showed up so then you end up with an imaginary

01:17:04 bond with an imaginary character

01:17:06 right so you've been trained

01:17:08 for that right

01:17:10 does that make sense you've been trained for the unreal

01:17:12 right

01:17:16 and you don't want to stay there right

01:17:22 you don't want to stay there

01:17:26 because

01:17:28 bonding with the unreal prevents reality

01:17:30 from coming in right

01:17:32 thank you

01:17:34 Steph for your hard work I appreciate that

01:17:36 getting addicted to anime is very easy

01:17:38 they make them so stimulating especially for a male audience

01:17:40 yeah because it's all like

01:17:42 sexy woman archetype little girl

01:17:44 voices baby eyes and yeah it's really

01:17:46 creepy

01:17:48 my grandpa was an English professor

01:17:52 his interpretation of lord of the flies

01:17:54 was that it was anti-urbanist more than anti-government

01:17:56 there was a thick return to nature ethos

01:17:58 at the time it was written

01:18:00 yeah I mean

01:18:02 I don't see that to be the case

01:18:04 if it's anti-urbanist then they should be in paradise

01:18:06 in nature but they're not so no that's not right

01:18:08 let's see here thank you I appreciate that

01:18:14 I appreciate your tip

01:18:16 was typing then

01:18:18 got caught up in listening then started re-typing

01:18:20 without re-reading what I wrote bad habit

01:18:22 I appreciate that

01:18:24 alright so looks like

01:18:26 looks like we might have

01:18:28 yeah okay

01:18:30 so hit me with a why

01:18:32 I think we've hit some decent tips

01:18:34 and I appreciate that

01:18:36 I appreciate that I really do

01:18:38 it's tough to nag I don't enjoy it

01:18:40 I don't like it but it's not about my feelings

01:18:42 it's about what's good for philosophy

01:18:44 so alright I appreciate the tips and support

01:18:46 now you're just training me to nag right

01:18:48 you know that because it works

01:18:50 just kidding so thank you for the tips

01:18:52 I appreciate that so let's get

01:18:54 do you want the answer to this question

01:18:56 why do women torture like this

01:18:58 but the woman who wouldn't give the secrets is because

01:19:00 they're insecure about their value and want to put you down

01:19:02 is that

01:19:04 right

01:19:06 is that something you want an answer to

01:19:10 thank you tippers the show must go on

01:19:12 yes thank you

01:19:14 yes

01:19:16 yes

01:19:24 how much would I need to increase my local subscription

01:19:28 to know about how the torturing comes from

01:19:30 porn negotiation listen man you're already subscribing

01:19:32 that's totally fine

01:19:34 you like the anime topic

01:19:36 right alright

01:19:38 it's gonna blow your mind

01:19:40 it's gonna blow your mind

01:19:42 alright

01:19:44 so a woman who

01:19:46 tells you I have secrets that really

01:19:48 affect you but I'm not gonna tell you

01:19:50 them so what's she doing

01:19:52 so she's trying to establish dominance now why is she trying to

01:19:54 establish dominance she's trying to establish

01:19:56 dominance because she can't negotiate

01:19:58 so she's saying

01:20:00 I'm going to provoke a need in you

01:20:02 that I will not satisfy

01:20:04 I'm going to provoke a need

01:20:06 in you that I will not satisfy

01:20:08 that puts you in a position of wanting

01:20:10 and her in a position of having

01:20:12 right so whenever we want

01:20:14 something that the other person has

01:20:16 and they won't give it to us

01:20:18 we're in a subservient position

01:20:20 we're in a subservient position

01:20:22 so why would she want to be in a

01:20:24 hierarchical position

01:20:26 where she would tell you something to provoke a need in you

01:20:28 and then refuse to satisfy it that puts you

01:20:30 in a subversive sorry that puts you in

01:20:32 a lower position

01:20:34 that puts you in a position of need and want

01:20:36 that she is going to either provide or not provide

01:20:38 it's totally up to her right

01:20:40 so why would

01:20:42 she want to put you in a subservient

01:20:44 there's the word I was looking for

01:20:46 subjective so why would she want to put you

01:20:48 in a subservient position

01:20:50 because you need to figure out how to

01:20:52 resolve things in your relationship and the only thing

01:20:54 that she can think of is to be dominant and to get

01:20:56 her way at your expense so she doesn't

01:20:58 know win-win so she's putting you

01:21:00 in a win-lose situation to train

01:21:02 you to have to look

01:21:04 at her as an authority that you have to beg

01:21:06 things for you have to beg

01:21:08 of her you have to ask of her she may

01:21:10 or may not choose

01:21:12 to give you what you want but your want she's

01:21:14 going to provoke that want and

01:21:16 then not satisfy it

01:21:18 right so she doesn't know

01:21:20 win-win right she doesn't know

01:21:22 or understand what it means

01:21:24 to be in a win-win

01:21:26 negotiation or a situations

01:21:28 situation if that makes sense

01:21:30 so that's why she's doing it

01:21:34 that's why

01:21:36 she's doing it

01:21:38 anybody who provokes a need in you

01:21:40 without satisfying it

01:21:42 is trying to lower you in the hierarchy

01:21:44 and train you to subservience

01:21:46 so that they can get their way

01:21:48 at your expense because that's the only

01:21:50 way they know how to get their way

01:21:52 is at your expense

01:21:54 does that make sense

01:21:56 so that's why she's doing it

01:21:58 anybody who provokes a need in you

01:22:00 without satisfying it

01:22:02 and that's the answer

01:22:04 and that's the answer

01:22:06 and that's the answer

01:22:08 and that's the answer

01:22:10 low self-esteem

01:22:12 oh for heaven's sakes

01:22:14 that's just a

01:22:16 that's just a phrase

01:22:18 what does it mean

01:22:20 what does it mean

01:22:22 low self-esteem that's just a big catch-all

01:22:24 what does that mean

01:22:26 can't just ask to insecurity

01:22:28 you keep thinking it's insecurity

01:22:30 it's not insecurity

01:22:32 it's not insecurity

01:22:34 she was raised in a

01:22:36 win-lose environment where it's dominance

01:22:38 and submission that's it

01:22:40 you can make up all this other insecurity

01:22:42 low self-esteem slave morality

01:22:44 blah blah blah no she just the only way she knows

01:22:46 how to get what she wants is to be dominant

01:22:48 at the expense of someone else

01:22:50 at the expense of someone else

01:22:52 so you're making up all of this stuff

01:22:54 that's unnecessary

01:22:56 like let's Arkham's razor this shit a little bit

01:22:58 can't we

01:23:00 well she's insecure

01:23:02 I don't know insecure she can't be direct

01:23:04 it's like no she unfortunately

01:23:06 and we can say this is a sad thing in her childhood

01:23:08 she hasn't grown up with a win-win mentality

01:23:10 she hasn't grown up with a win-win mentality

01:23:12 what do you do you try and figure out something that works for everyone

01:23:14 you keep going back to the negotiating table

01:23:16 until you find out something that works for everyone

01:23:18 I mean

01:23:20 I just provided an example of that

01:23:22 I just provided an example of that

01:23:24 right

01:23:26 what's the example I just provided of that

01:23:28 of trying to give a win-win

01:23:30 right

01:23:32 I just did it in the show

01:23:34 what is an example I just provided

01:23:36 of a win-win negotiation

01:23:38 what did I just do

01:23:46 one symptom of having bad parents is ignoring red flags in relationships

01:23:52 no not just ignoring pursuing

01:23:54 pursuing red flags

01:23:56 nobody ignores red flags they know them

01:23:58 I mean I've talked to thousands of people about this over the years

01:24:00 and there are always red flags

01:24:02 that they knew about

01:24:04 you don't

01:24:06 sorry you pursue them

01:24:08 you end up pursuing them

01:24:10 let's see here

01:24:12 insecurity is giving her an excuse

01:24:14 yes you know and for heaven's sakes

01:24:16 let's stop putting women in this fragile insecurity position

01:24:18 women can be both good and evil

01:24:20 equal to men

01:24:22 so she's approaching the relationship

01:24:24 from a status win-lose scenario

01:24:26 rather than a mutually beneficial relationship

01:24:28 I didn't know Google was getting that big of a cut

01:24:32 from the tips

01:24:34 you asked for more money

01:24:36 yeah I was not particularly happy

01:24:38 working that hard this hard

01:24:40 for very low donations

01:24:42 so I didn't threaten

01:24:44 I was honest I said I'm not feeling motivated

01:24:46 and maybe

01:24:48 I view donations as a proxy for the value

01:24:50 of the show

01:24:52 and look it could be that the show is just not hitting people

01:24:54 in the right way it could be that this is not issues

01:24:56 that you're interested in

01:24:58 so it's not like you're bad or anything

01:25:00 but you know I'm

01:25:02 you know how long are you a musician

01:25:04 playing your heart out

01:25:06 on a street corner if nobody gives you any money

01:25:08 really right I mean you just at some point like you're either

01:25:10 playing the wrong music or I'm in the wrong location

01:25:12 or like I'm not right so

01:25:14 I had a big important deep question

01:25:16 and I did not have within me the motivation

01:25:18 because I wasn't feeling like I was providing

01:25:20 enough value and if you don't feel like

01:25:22 you're providing enough value it's tough to do a good job

01:25:24 right

01:25:26 it's tough to do a good job you know

01:25:28 it's the old Freddie Mercury thing right

01:25:30 I can only sing as well as the audience wants me to

01:25:32 right so if they cheer and then he'll go

01:25:34 further and he'll dig deeper and he'll

01:25:36 right but if you're you know singing your heart

01:25:38 out to

01:25:40 a silent audience it's

01:25:44 tough to sing well because then you're like well what am I doing

01:25:46 wrong like you know what I mean like so

01:25:48 it's just tough to do well in

01:25:50 particularly in public if you're not getting any

01:25:52 particular feedback

01:25:54 now I've learned to live on little feedback

01:25:56 that's just something I've learned to live with

01:25:58 for a while and this is not the case so

01:26:00 I was feeling unmotivated

01:26:02 and I was honest about it and I told you guys

01:26:04 why I was feeling unmotivated

01:26:06 you guys stepped up and I really appreciate

01:26:08 that so I felt motivated and it became

01:26:10 a win-win you got what you wanted

01:26:12 which was me talking about this secrets thing

01:26:14 and I got what I wanted was

01:26:16 a recognition of the value that I'm providing

01:26:18 right

01:26:20 training you yes the woman is training you to not

01:26:24 have expectations of reciprocity

01:26:26 you give her what she needs and she gives you scraps

01:26:28 for which you should be grateful for she does not see you

01:26:30 as an equal say give tips

01:26:32 Steph gives us an answer to the question

01:26:34 right I mean tell me

01:26:36 am I wrong is this a win you guys gave me a little

01:26:38 bit of money which I appreciate I don't mean to say little bit like

01:26:40 it's nothing I appreciate that

01:26:42 so I

01:26:44 got what I wanted and you got what you

01:26:46 wanted right

01:26:48 so this is an example of me

01:26:50 I mean I wasn't mean and I wasn't

01:26:52 blaming you I was oh you cheap guys

01:26:54 I'm just saying look clearly the show is not

01:26:56 providing the kind of value that

01:26:58 deviation on the low side for tips right

01:27:00 so clearly the show is not providing the kind of value that

01:27:02 you want so you know I've got

01:27:04 a lot of things to do with my day my family's waiting

01:27:06 for me to finish the show so we can do something lovely

01:27:08 but there's Sunday so I

01:27:10 don't want to be in a situation where I'm

01:27:12 unmotivated and I said like I feel unmotivated

01:27:14 because you know it was a very low tip

01:27:16 day and you know I mean is it about

01:27:18 money no it's about philosophy but

01:27:20 again you know

01:27:22 I am responsible for the people who work

01:27:24 for the show as well right

01:27:26 because there you're

01:27:28 paying for people who work for the show and

01:27:30 I think we're getting a lot of great stuff out of it

01:27:32 so thank you I really appreciate

01:27:34 that so

01:27:36 um

01:27:38 I

01:27:40 think this was an example of RTR

01:27:42 I was not blaming you I was not mad at you

01:27:44 I was just saying this is my genuine

01:27:46 experience I'm

01:27:48 not motivated I'm

01:27:50 I wasn't even blaming myself because I think

01:27:52 I'm doing really a great show

01:27:54 I'm not blaming myself I'm not blaming you

01:27:56 just you know there's not a connection between what I'm

01:27:58 doing and the value that you experience right

01:28:00 for whatever reason and we don't need to sort of

01:28:02 figure it out or anything like that

01:28:04 so

01:28:06 I was saying

01:28:08 this is my honest experience I wasn't

01:28:10 blaming myself oh clearly I'm doing a bad show

01:28:12 and you know I just I should just stop

01:28:14 but you know I'm not blaming myself

01:28:16 I'm not blaming you I'm just saying

01:28:18 that whatever I'm doing is not connecting to the

01:28:20 value proposition that is usually the case when

01:28:22 I do a live stream right

01:28:24 which is fine you know it's gonna happen

01:28:26 sometimes that I do a show

01:28:28 that you know just there's a cluster right

01:28:30 there's a bell curve right and some

01:28:32 shows are gonna hit your sweet spot and it's

01:28:34 gonna be like man everything he's saying is

01:28:36 really great for my life and you know

01:28:38 and then there's other times it's like well I don't have that issue

01:28:40 I'm not into anime or I've never had a girl

01:28:42 do this to me or it's not so

01:28:44 there's gonna be times where just what I say doesn't

01:28:46 hit the audience in terms of value and which is fine

01:28:48 which is fine

01:28:50 so

01:28:52 I hope that I'm

01:28:54 it's funny because it's really interesting

01:28:56 how this works right

01:28:58 it's really interesting ah maybe that's

01:29:00 got to do with it maybe the tips were low

01:29:02 so that I would show a

01:29:04 win-win negotiation rather than just talk about it

01:29:06 ooh isn't that

01:29:08 funny how that cluster brain might be working together

01:29:10 ooh goosebumps

01:29:12 goosebumps do you see what I mean

01:29:14 like maybe you needed more of a

01:29:16 practical example which I completely understand

01:29:18 I mean the half of a like a third of the

01:29:20 book on peaceful parenting is about practical examples

01:29:22 so maybe the tips were

01:29:24 low in a

01:29:26 win-lose conversation

01:29:28 a conversation about win-lose so

01:29:30 that you could see me assert

01:29:32 a win-win negotiation

01:29:34 to illustrate

01:29:36 the principle that I was talking about

01:29:38 ooh that's interesting

01:29:42 I think that might be

01:29:44 this unconscious like

01:29:46 the unconscious is always kind of playing tennis underneath

01:29:48 right muck muck muck

01:29:50 right the unconscious is always playing tennis and I think that

01:29:52 I think that's it

01:29:54 tell me what you think Joe says I had a job where I was

01:29:56 getting paid so low I had no motivation to complete

01:29:58 the job so it is understandable

01:30:00 somebody says sorry I'll donate again soon mortgage sucks

01:30:02 up most of my income at the moment

01:30:04 yeah it's going to be brutal for people who have to renegotiate

01:30:06 this summer right

01:30:08 that anime girl attachment might be

01:30:10 a growing problem with a lot of guys in the future

01:30:12 especially with the emergence of these VR

01:30:14 personalities out there

01:30:16 yeah

01:30:18 yeah I mean I

01:30:20 want people of course to get married and have kids

01:30:22 it's a wonderful thing to do and a great payback for all

01:30:24 of the ancestral suffering that brought us life

01:30:26 but you know if people prefer

01:30:28 anime I'm not entirely

01:30:30 I don't consider it

01:30:32 massively tragic that they don't reproduce

01:30:34 if that's where your mind is and that's what you want

01:30:40 and if there is a creepy aspect to it

01:30:44 I'm not

01:30:46 if somebody prefers

01:30:48 childlike anime for

01:30:50 sexual gratification I'm not entirely

01:30:52 sad that they don't have kids

01:30:54 alright

01:30:56 somebody says

01:30:58 I think your work is outstanding, unparalleled

01:31:00 and needed in this world so much I think censoring and false

01:31:02 info about you have blocked a wider audience

01:31:04 to a great loss

01:31:06 yeah for sure for sure

01:31:08 absolutely but

01:31:10 everyone I watch asks for donations

01:31:12 that is 100% appropriate

01:31:14 but normally I don't say I'm unmotivated

01:31:16 by low donations right because normally the donations

01:31:18 are fine

01:31:20 you have an outstanding

01:31:22 work ethic too, thank you I appreciate that

01:31:24 I would like to say I'm so disciplined

01:31:26 but it's a really, it's really fun

01:31:28 it's really fun

01:31:30 to do this kind of work

01:31:32 Stefan's a lot like me

01:31:34 I bet we are both ENTJ personalities

01:31:36 oh that's Myers Briggs stuff

01:31:38 it's voodoo

01:31:40 I don't think it's good

01:31:42 don't categorize yourself

01:31:44 I had a

01:31:46 let me just get to your questions

01:31:48 in case anything else has popped up

01:31:50 I'm going to get to the final topic

01:31:52 oh my gosh

01:31:54 I can't believe how many tabs I have open

01:31:56 I should close them at some point

01:31:58 I should close my tabs at some point

01:32:00 there are some shows

01:32:04 I enjoy more than others but in general I value

01:32:06 all of them, it's why I have two decent subscriptions

01:32:08 on locals and telegram, thank you I appreciate that

01:32:10 that resonates with me? yeah yeah

01:32:12 minimum wage in Ontario

01:32:14 Canada is $17.20

01:32:16 is that right?

01:32:18 times four employees, do you think

01:32:20 they're not worth at least that? yeah yeah

01:32:22 yes I think I also found

01:32:24 a rise in my own motivation since the win-win

01:32:26 right

01:32:28 uh

01:32:30 hi Stef

01:32:32 just got married yesterday

01:32:34 thank you for all you've done to help us get here

01:32:36 you are absolutely welcome

01:32:38 I didn't get an invite

01:32:40 I'm a wedding singer too

01:32:42 on the side, no I'm not

01:32:44 but no congratulations

01:32:46 that's completely wonderful and thrilling

01:32:48 you are on the journey of a lifetime and I wish you all the very very

01:32:50 very best

01:32:52 I'm on a tip once a week budget at the moment

01:32:54 mainly on Friday and Wednesday, I will stop tipping here

01:32:56 and do so directly in free domain so you get full blast

01:32:58 thank you very much, I appreciate that

01:33:00 anyone see the AI female

01:33:02 influencer who makes like $500,000

01:33:04 a year from sims donating to it?

01:33:06 ok

01:33:08 shall we end on

01:33:10 why sims donate to AI

01:33:12 or why sims donate to women at all

01:33:14 would you like to finish on that

01:33:16 I mean the sim phenomenon is huge right

01:33:18 and this is just, this is also just part of keeping capital

01:33:20 away from idiots

01:33:22 you have to keep capital away from idiots or you lose your whole civilization

01:33:24 because you either give capital to people like Elon Musk

01:33:30 or you give it to people who

01:33:32 donate to AI bots

01:33:34 right, so you either give capital

01:33:36 to people who increase the value

01:33:38 and capital of society or

01:33:40 you give it to people who waste it

01:33:42 so do you want to know the sim thing

01:33:44 so

01:33:48 if you grow up

01:33:52 with an exploiting mother

01:33:54 if you grow up with an exploiting mother

01:33:58 you will likely develop

01:34:00 a sexual fetish for being exploited

01:34:02 you follow

01:34:08 so there are men

01:34:10 it's a

01:34:12 BDSM kind of thing

01:34:14 it's a submissive kind of thing

01:34:16 so there are men who get exquisite

01:34:18 sexual pleasure from being exploited

01:34:20 now why would they have sexual pleasure from getting

01:34:22 exploited because

01:34:24 they probably grew up without a father and with exploitive mothers

01:34:26 Steph what's up with the Canadian economy

01:34:30 seems everyday you have a female complaining

01:34:32 about the high costs in Canada

01:34:34 yeah they voted for a lot of free stuff and

01:34:36 they comply a lot with the government

01:34:38 and everyone got vaxxed

01:34:40 and stayed home and took massive amounts of money

01:34:42 and so lots of money was printed

01:34:44 to keep people in a state of delusion

01:34:46 and now reality is breaking through that delusion

01:34:48 and all they know how to do is complain

01:34:50 yeah UBI and straight to AI that's right

01:34:54 there are so you've seen

01:34:58 the pictures online of some

01:35:00 hot e-girl and some guy

01:35:02 pays like $10,000 a meter and then

01:35:04 she takes that money and goes on a vacation with her boyfriend

01:35:06 and you look at that guy

01:35:08 and he's like you know kind of sad eyed

01:35:10 and you think oh gee that's but no that's his fetish

01:35:12 right

01:35:14 like do you know how strange human sexuality

01:35:16 can be

01:35:18 wasn't this German politician

01:35:20 was licking public toilets

01:35:22 and there were pictures of him

01:35:24 covered in feces

01:35:26 Steph actually takes his shirt

01:35:28 off on a stream more than those girl streams

01:35:30 I'm going to do for you yeah yeah

01:35:32 especially if it's a day when I've worked out

01:35:34 do you know

01:35:36 I mean do you have any idea

01:35:38 how strange and bizarre

01:35:40 human sexuality can become

01:35:42 it's a wild

01:35:44 and powerful force

01:35:46 and when it goes right society is a

01:35:48 beautiful place to be but when it goes wrong

01:35:50 and it really really

01:35:52 really goes wrong

01:35:54 it goes

01:35:56 seriously wrong and life

01:35:58 becomes hell

01:36:00 I mean

01:36:02 I mean there are people

01:36:04 well it's the whole monkey pox thing

01:36:06 right like there are people into things so strange

01:36:08 that it would

01:36:10 ravage your very soul to even think

01:36:12 about it

01:36:14 so yeah when it goes bad

01:36:20 why do some guys have a fetish

01:36:22 of a woman taking his

01:36:24 girlfriend or wife

01:36:26 a woman taking his girlfriend or wife

01:36:30 um

01:36:32 I don't know I've not

01:36:36 heard of that one I assume that just about

01:36:38 every crazy thing that you

01:36:40 can imagine is someone's fetish somewhere

01:36:42 uh licking toilets yeah guys

01:36:46 he's got videos of himself licking public toilets

01:36:48 it's like

01:36:50 when human sexuality goes wrong

01:36:52 it goes unbelievably

01:36:54 wrong you know

01:36:56 it's like a very very

01:36:58 it's a car that's

01:37:00 very very high speed you either drive it well

01:37:02 and get where you want or it's a flaming

01:37:04 crash to nowhere

01:37:06 right

01:37:08 was it that uh

01:37:12 the sexual position

01:37:14 of guys who want to ban guns and it's just a guy holding

01:37:16 up his iPhone in the cuck chair

01:37:18 it's pretty funny

01:37:26 well and I would assume

01:37:28 that the sort of watching

01:37:30 sex phenomenon comes from guys

01:37:32 who have inappropriate mothers

01:37:34 or fathers usually mothers like single

01:37:36 mothers they can hear the sex and so

01:37:38 you know you gotta hide sexual

01:37:40 activity from your kids obviously right

01:37:42 and so I would assume that it's because

01:37:44 they're in an observational way

01:37:46 with regards to sexual activity

01:37:48 and uh something

01:37:50 something like that but yeah the humiliation

01:37:52 fetish is very real it's very real

01:37:54 so guys

01:37:56 they're buying sexual excitement

01:37:58 by giving money to women right

01:38:00 there's a

01:38:02 spanish politician who was eating his own

01:38:04 feces and barking like a dog

01:38:06 yeah

01:38:10 he left office now

01:38:12 excellent

01:38:14 so yeah so

01:38:16 why is there an AI making

01:38:18 half a million dollars because

01:38:20 people's sexuality is so twisted that they

01:38:22 turned on by giving money away for

01:38:24 nothing right isn't it dangerous leaking

01:38:26 toilets yeah that's the whole point

01:38:28 that's the whole point

01:38:30 it's uh it's just appalling

01:38:32 I don't I don't I don't understand that

01:38:34 I don't understand that I

01:38:36 in a million years I will never even remotely get

01:38:38 close to understanding any of that

01:38:40 kind of fetish stuff

01:38:42 I just think it's just so bizarre

01:38:44 and

01:38:46 and it's it's completely otherworldly

01:38:48 to me you know right or wrong I just

01:38:50 can't fathom it

01:38:52 I can't fathom it

01:38:54 last question are we unwittingly

01:38:58 using the leftist communist one dimensional

01:39:00 employment of the word capitalism to describe the

01:39:02 complex interaction between individuals and the economy

01:39:04 as a whole and therefore a corrupted interpretation

01:39:06 from the get go of all subsequent conversations

01:39:08 essentially aren't they

01:39:10 poisoning the well that free market

01:39:12 operations are biased towards capital without further

01:39:14 considerations yeah so capitalism is a

01:39:16 largely Marxist term for sure

01:39:18 why are we using a term that the communists have termed

01:39:20 because the communists

01:39:22 run the educational system because the educational system

01:39:24 is communist right

01:39:26 I mean you can't have a free society

01:39:28 if

01:39:30 coercion is at the root of how children are educated

01:39:32 it's just a matter of time then right

01:39:34 uh let's see here

01:39:42 yeah I don't I mean

01:39:44 the kind of thing it's just okay you have a fetish

01:39:46 that you haven't dealt with right you have some weird

01:39:48 bizarre oddball

01:39:50 programming in your brain to

01:39:52 do with sexual activity you haven't dealt with it

01:39:54 and therefore you're just paying for sexual

01:39:56 gratification from humiliation but I don't view them as

01:39:58 victims

01:40:00 uh

01:40:04 let's see here

01:40:06 there was an American politician

01:40:08 advertising her only pants while running

01:40:10 for office in Texas yeah yeah

01:40:12 was Rome also degenerate when it came to its

01:40:14 end yes absolutely I mean just

01:40:16 look up Caligula right yeah Rome was completely

01:40:18 degenerate single motherhood

01:40:20 welfare state dissolution of the marriage

01:40:22 and sexual

01:40:24 kinks all over the place yeah

01:40:26 we don't do well

01:40:28 with bad childhoods

01:40:30 and economic freedom bad childhoods plus

01:40:32 economic freedom end up producing degeneracy

01:40:34 as a whole

01:40:36 with the state right throwing in there as well

01:40:38 so

01:40:40 alright any last questions comments issues challenges problems

01:40:42 very interesting stream for me

01:40:44 I love it

01:40:46 hope I've been of use and hope I've been of help

01:40:50 and listen I do really want to thank you guys for

01:40:52 listening

01:40:54 to my requests

01:40:56 and us finding a win win

01:40:58 honestly and I'm really honest about this

01:41:00 like if the donations hadn't come and I closed

01:41:02 down the stream early that wouldn't be a

01:41:04 hate problem or anything like that right so

01:41:06 do you see the viral Pokemon main clip of her

01:41:10 complaining to her chat that she only

01:41:12 attracts beta males

01:41:14 who the hell is Pokemain

01:41:16 Moroccan Canadian

01:41:20 streamer and YouTuber

01:41:22 oh she's like a pretty girl

01:41:26 streaming video games

01:41:28 yeah

01:41:30 uh yeah

01:41:32 yeah she's pretty oh yeah

01:41:34 there's a picture with her sucking a lollipop

01:41:36 oh so subtle

01:41:38 I swear to god like

01:41:40 landscape was invented so that

01:41:42 people could fit in mountains and

01:41:44 portrait was invented so women could show

01:41:46 their cleavage right that just

01:41:48 seems to be the way that

01:41:50 it goes but yeah

01:41:52 oh she's pretty and she's making that weird

01:41:54 Japanese orgasm face with the tongue out and stuff

01:41:56 like that cross eyed and stuff like that

01:41:58 it's not good

01:42:00 man so yeah and

01:42:02 you really do have to you have to limit your

01:42:04 exposure to this kind of stuff

01:42:06 digital beauty is junk food for your balls

01:42:08 it's junk food

01:42:10 I guess it tastes good in the moment

01:42:12 but digital beauty is junk food for your balls

01:42:14 because and same thing with women right

01:42:16 super handsome charismatic

01:42:18 guys are junk food for your ovaries

01:42:20 so you have to limit

01:42:22 your exposure I mean you know I guess a little bit of junk food

01:42:24 once in a while isn't going to kill you but if you're on a

01:42:26 steady diet of it you're going to have a pretty bad life

01:42:28 and it's the same thing what happens

01:42:30 is the it's part of this whole

01:42:32 depop thing is to promote these you know

01:42:34 one in a million or one in half a million

01:42:36 beautiful people you know the perfect skin

01:42:38 and the great hair and you know they've got

01:42:40 the charisma that comes often from

01:42:42 being physically attractive

01:42:44 a lot of charisma is just the result of positive feedback

01:42:46 based on good looks

01:42:48 and so you continually

01:42:50 expose yourself to this

01:42:52 one in a million people and it happens in ads

01:42:54 it happens you know all of this kind of stuff

01:42:56 and then when you meet a normal looking person they look ugly

01:42:58 to you right in the same way

01:43:00 if all you eat is junk food like heavy

01:43:02 sugar, heavy fat, heavy salt, heavy whatever

01:43:04 right then you eat a normal

01:43:06 healthy piece of food and it tastes bland

01:43:08 you're programming

01:43:10 yourself to find

01:43:12 equivalent

01:43:14 looks females ugly

01:43:16 you're going to look

01:43:18 spoiler

01:43:20 here's the fact right here's the final fact

01:43:22 I'll leave you it's very very important

01:43:24 look you're going to end up

01:43:26 with someone

01:43:28 who's kind of the same attractiveness as you

01:43:30 we see this

01:43:32 all the time and let's say some deviations

01:43:34 right like how can you tell a millionaire

01:43:36 from behind and you know some fat guy

01:43:38 on a beach with some really hot girl

01:43:40 but that's not love right so you're going to end up

01:43:42 if you're a 7 you're going to end up

01:43:46 with a 7 if you're a 9 you're going to end up

01:43:48 with a 9 if you're a 3 you're going to end up with a 3

01:43:50 in general

01:43:52 right it's just the way it is

01:43:54 like attracts like plus

01:43:56 you have similar experiences

01:43:58 if you grow up and you're a 4

01:44:00 you have a similar experience to somebody else who's

01:44:02 grown up with a 4 right you've developed

01:44:04 particular tastes and habits social interactions

01:44:06 levels of charisma outgoingness

01:44:08 confidence you will have developed all of that

01:44:10 in part based upon your looks it's not fair

01:44:12 it's not right whatever I don't care fairness

01:44:14 is just a word that idiots use

01:44:16 in place of justice

01:44:18 it's a theft word

01:44:20 unfair it's not fair man it's just a theft word

01:44:22 it's a precursor

01:44:24 to a hand in your wallet

01:44:26 so

01:44:28 spoiler if you want to know

01:44:30 how attractive you are to the opposite

01:44:32 sex look at how attractive your partner

01:44:34 is to the opposite sex

01:44:36 my wife is about as attractive as

01:44:38 I am and I'm

01:44:40 about as attractive as my wife is

01:44:42 and if you look around the world

01:44:46 you see the same thing

01:44:48 right if you see like if you ever

01:44:50 done this game I used to do this game when I was younger you

01:44:52 see some really good looking guy

01:44:54 turned around the corner

01:44:56 in the mall he's holding someone with his hand but you don't see her

01:44:58 yet and some really really good looking

01:45:00 guy you say would I date the girl whose hand

01:45:02 he's holding would I be would I find her

01:45:04 attractive and of course she comes around the corner

01:45:06 and if he's a 10 she's a 10

01:45:08 I mean it's just the way that it is

01:45:10 right it is the way that it is

01:45:14 and I mean

01:45:16 come on in high school the pretty people tend to hang

01:45:18 out together right

01:45:20 the jocks hang out with the jocks and the pretty girls

01:45:22 hang out with the pretty girls and blah blah blah blah blah

01:45:24 right it's just the way that it is

01:45:26 and so

01:45:28 for the most part you wouldn't get to

01:45:30 hang out with the pretty girls so if

01:45:32 you're constantly looking at these

01:45:34 super good looking

01:45:36 sniper wolf right

01:45:38 super good looking super sexy

01:45:40 um what was it

01:45:42 sniper wolf done a video she's like oh it's date night

01:45:44 and she shows her she's got a great figure and she's pretty

01:45:46 and all of that and you know

01:45:48 it's just a way of thinking you're in the room

01:45:50 right and so if you're constantly

01:45:52 surrounded by

01:45:54 pretty girls and you're looking at them movies

01:45:56 porn tv pictures

01:45:58 whatever right anime

01:46:00 then you're programming your

01:46:02 brain to think that you're more attractive than you are

01:46:04 because would those

01:46:06 really pretty girls have hung around with you in high school

01:46:08 or pretty handsome

01:46:12 guys would the handsome guys

01:46:14 in high school hang out with you and thus draw

01:46:16 the pretty girls into your environment right so

01:46:18 when you surround yourself when your visual cortex

01:46:20 is constantly being programmed with attractive people

01:46:22 it's programming you

01:46:24 to have hyper unrealistic expectations

01:46:26 of your own level of attractiveness

01:46:28 right

01:46:30 and it's really toxic

01:46:36 you know it is the equivalent of why are so many people

01:46:40 single because they program themselves into thinking

01:46:42 they're more attractive than they are

01:46:46 now

01:46:48 quick question

01:46:50 how do you know

01:46:52 if you are

01:46:54 unrealistic

01:46:56 in your

01:46:58 perception of your own attractiveness

01:47:00 right

01:47:04 how do you know

01:47:08 how do you know

01:47:14 I owe you for many years to come up

01:47:16 with all the intelligence you've imparted to me

01:47:18 I donate $80 every few months thank you

01:47:20 I appreciate that that's very very kind

01:47:22 how do you know

01:47:24 thanks Steph I'm getting a lot of value

01:47:30 from your thoughts and the comments this morning

01:47:32 and did on Friday as well RTR is beautiful

01:47:34 and feels free

01:47:36 female sexuality

01:47:42 has completely gone off the rails in the modern world

01:47:44 I mean the number of rape fantasies is just

01:47:48 horrifying

01:47:50 single you have to test it for real by talking

01:47:58 to women asking people out

01:48:00 you don't like the girls that are attracted to you

01:48:02 lots of rejection

01:48:04 I mean I would say

01:48:08 you guys are alright and I'm not trying to say that my

01:48:10 formulation is better but my formulation is

01:48:12 you're not in demand

01:48:14 you're not in demand

01:48:16 right so if you have

01:48:22 a small house and you list it for 5 million

01:48:24 dollars will you get any offers

01:48:26 no you're not in demand you're not in the

01:48:28 marketplace because your price is too high

01:48:30 if you're a relatively unskilled guy and you say

01:48:32 I need a quarter million dollars a year

01:48:34 to sweep the floor of the factory

01:48:36 you're not going to get any offers because your demands

01:48:38 are outrageous and unrealistic and nobody's

01:48:40 going to take them seriously

01:48:42 you're not in demand

01:48:44 now if you're Brad Pitt and you say

01:48:46 hey the next guy

01:48:48 I'm going to do the next movie for 10 dollars

01:48:50 right rather than the 10 mil

01:48:52 or whatever he commands right so if you're Brad Pitt

01:48:54 then you're massively in demand

01:48:56 people are going to be swarming you to get

01:48:58 Brad Pitt in their movie for

01:49:00 for 10 dollars right

01:49:04 you're in demand

01:49:06 because

01:49:08 if you lower your price

01:49:10 then you're in demand

01:49:12 right so let's say that you're

01:49:14 a 6 you're a guy who's a 6

01:49:16 well if you're going for the 10's

01:49:18 you're not going to get there if you're going for the 9's you're not going to

01:49:20 get there unless you have

01:49:22 some other massive compensating quality in which

01:49:24 case you're not a 6 I'm talking about 6 overall

01:49:26 right

01:49:28 so what do you do in a free market

01:49:32 you lower your price

01:49:34 till you get buyers

01:49:36 don't you

01:49:38 I mean if you say well the burger I make is so good

01:49:40 and it's made with such love

01:49:42 the burger is 300 dollars well nobody's going to buy your burger

01:49:44 right if your

01:49:46 burger is 30 cents and it's a really fantastic

01:49:48 burger you're going to have a line up around the block

01:49:50 so you got to get that

01:49:52 sweet spot are you in demand

01:49:54 if you're not in demand

01:49:56 you're aiming too high

01:49:58 and that's vanity and that's the

01:50:00 programming that society does to raise your

01:50:02 expectations right

01:50:04 I apologize for this in advance

01:50:06 I apologize for this in advance

01:50:08 are you ready

01:50:10 I'm looking for a man in finance 6 bar

01:50:12 blue eyes trust fund

01:50:14 finance 6 bar

01:50:16 blue eyes

01:50:18 this is like the song of the summer

01:50:20 I'm looking for a man in finance 6 bar

01:50:22 blue eyes trust fund

01:50:24 I mean so this is

01:50:26 right a 6 foot 4 guy

01:50:28 in finance with blue eyes

01:50:30 so they want a handsome guy

01:50:32 making 250 to 500 thousand

01:50:34 a year who's 6'4

01:50:36 how to increase demand

01:50:40 lower your price

01:50:42 lower the price or increase

01:50:44 the value

01:50:46 so you understand

01:50:48 all of this insult shit

01:50:50 male and female is just absolutely

01:50:52 unrealistic expectations

01:50:54 don't settle well of course

01:50:56 you should settle

01:50:58 wouldn't we all like to get paid a billion dollars

01:51:00 a minute for doing what we love oh no we have

01:51:02 to settle

01:51:04 do you see what I'm saying it's just

01:51:08 mismatch expectations we've been programmed

01:51:10 to be absolutely

01:51:12 stuffed full of

01:51:14 bottomless satanic vanity

01:51:16 I deserve everything

01:51:18 like this anime shit that this guy was

01:51:20 talking about no woman looks like

01:51:22 that

01:51:24 no woman

01:51:26 looks like that

01:51:28 and you've seen the you know the

01:51:32 lumpy guys with the neck

01:51:34 beards and the double chin saying well if you don't

01:51:36 look like this anime girl I don't even want to hear

01:51:38 from you all the women who were like

01:51:40 okay I have three children there my world

01:51:42 but you better step up and you better have a car

01:51:44 or you better have a house and right

01:51:46 I'm looking for a man in finance

01:51:50 are you

01:51:52 who isn't but then the funny thing is

01:51:54 they get that man in finance and those finance

01:51:56 bros work like 80 90 hours a week and then

01:51:58 they'll be like but I'm lonely

01:52:00 I never get to see anyone right

01:52:02 do I do a good entitled

01:52:12 valley girl with a glottal

01:52:14 stop and

01:52:16 oh my gosh

01:52:18 Wikipedia right

01:52:20 vocal fry

01:52:22 vocal fry girl

01:52:24 I'm so hot I don't even need to

01:52:26 my real voice

01:52:28 sounds like valley girl

01:52:30 is looking for caricature

01:52:32 right so

01:52:34 you know there's

01:52:36 all these heart breaking messages

01:52:38 I'm 29 when is it going to be my turn

01:52:40 when I get my special person how long

01:52:42 do I need to manifest it's like

01:52:44 if you're a young woman and you're not

01:52:46 in demand it's because you're insane

01:52:48 and if you're a reasonable

01:52:50 young man and you're not in demand

01:52:52 it's because you're insane

01:52:54 you guys can hit me with the very best

01:53:00 words for vocal fry

01:53:02 and I blame

01:53:04 Britney I blame Britney

01:53:06 hit me one more time

01:53:10 so

01:53:12 well don't lower price just

01:53:14 increase value whatever

01:53:16 but if nobody's sliding

01:53:18 into your DMs it's because

01:53:20 you're unrealistic

01:53:22 you're unrealistic

01:53:28 and you don't want to face how attractive

01:53:30 you are

01:53:32 or are not

01:53:34 you know people got

01:53:38 married and had children

01:53:40 who had smallpox

01:53:42 and had massive facial scars

01:53:44 people got married and had

01:53:46 children when they were missing fingers or limbs

01:53:48 people got married and had children

01:53:50 when

01:53:52 they lived on a steady diet

01:53:54 of crap

01:53:56 had never brushed their teeth and had

01:53:58 rotting gums

01:54:00 people got married and had

01:54:02 children when they bathed once a year

01:54:04 onomatopoeia

01:54:14 literally

01:54:16 there was a comedian

01:54:20 vocal fry girlfriend

01:54:22 vocal fry girlfriend was his song

01:54:24 I could never been able to find the song again I heard it on the radio once

01:54:26 Wikipedia

01:54:28 and it was very funny I just can't find it again

01:54:30 so if anyone can find it it was very very funny

01:54:32 but the vocal fry thing

01:54:34 it's a mark of status

01:54:36 I don't have to be clear

01:54:38 I don't have to use full voice

01:54:42 I'm a 4 or 5

01:54:44 at best I'm coming to that reality

01:54:46 and there's nothing wrong with that most of us are 5's

01:54:48 it's an average

01:54:50 it's a bell curve

01:54:52 pumpkin spice latte

01:54:54 latte is not great

01:54:56 it's gotta be aah it's better

01:54:58 I don't need to use my full voice because I'm superior

01:55:02 I'm too lazy

01:55:04 I'm so hard

01:55:06 I'm so in demand

01:55:08 I don't need to sound pleasant

01:55:10 live laugh laugh

01:55:12 yeah

01:55:14 so look most of us survive most of us in the middle

01:55:16 there's nothing wrong with that

01:55:18 absolutely nothing wrong with that

01:55:20 most of us aren't 6'4" most of us aren't 5'2"

01:55:22 I mean men right

01:55:24 you're in the middle I'm shade under 6'

01:55:26 I'm taller than average I'm not particularly tall

01:55:28 but everyone's like she's not pretty enough

01:55:36 she's not hot enough she's not there

01:55:38 you're programmed to end your line

01:55:40 anthropomorphic

01:55:42 yeah maybe yeah

01:55:44 no it's gotta be at the end right

01:55:46 yeah people made children through the razor wire

01:55:48 in concentration camps

01:55:50 yep

01:55:52 yep

01:55:54 yep

01:55:56 people made children

01:56:02 with early onset arthritis

01:56:04 people made children

01:56:06 while still mourning the death of their last child

01:56:08 has pep bonding been broken due to the bottom 20%

01:56:12 being rejected by women to rejecting the bottom 80%

01:56:14 no

01:56:16 vanity is killing the bloodline

01:56:18 that's all it is vanity is killing the bloodlines

01:56:20 that's it

01:56:22 I had to start outsourcing my vocal fry to AI

01:56:26 it was exhausting

01:56:28 so it's the devil right

01:56:34 the devil tempts you with vanity

01:56:36 and vanity is the ultimate depopulation

01:56:38 vanity is the ultimate depopulation

01:56:40 I won't lower myself

01:56:42 to a woman who's not up to my

01:56:44 attractive standards

01:56:46 the sin of pride is the root of all sins

01:56:48 pride

01:56:50 are you in demand

01:56:52 have you ever seen this video of this woman

01:56:54 walking around New York and all these guys

01:56:56 cat calling her and so on

01:56:58 so they put a male model with a great physique

01:57:00 and he was striding around

01:57:02 and all the women were cat calling him

01:57:04 have you ever been cat called? I think I've been cat called twice in my entire life

01:57:06 have you ever been cat called?

01:57:08 height obsession is very tough

01:57:10 to get over for some men

01:57:12 you mean for women who have height obsessions

01:57:16 thank god women have height obsessions

01:57:18 thank god women have height obsessions

01:57:20 thank god women have height obsessions

01:57:22 because they're signaling

01:57:24 that they're incredibly shallow

01:57:26 and can't pair bond

01:57:28 because they don't care about qualities of character

01:57:30 they only care about

01:57:32 they only care about things that

01:57:38 oh did you find it?

01:57:40 the vocal fry girlfriend? yeah yeah

01:57:42 yeah I'll copy that

01:57:44 thanks I appreciate it. It was very funny

01:57:46 it was very funny

01:57:48 you know for me it's wikipedia

01:57:50 but for them it's wikipedia

01:57:52 so

01:57:54 thank you

01:57:56 I'm not going to read out the youtube link

01:57:58 so it's just vanity right?

01:58:00 so if you're vainglorious and you think that you just deserve

01:58:02 the hot cheerleader who's also brilliant

01:58:04 and like I remember in the film

01:58:06 fisher king, burned in my brain

01:58:08 burned in my brain

01:58:10 there's this incredibly hot girl

01:58:12 sitting at a desk reading Nietzsche

01:58:14 I'm like oh

01:58:16 oh right

01:58:18 hmm we like right

01:58:20 but no you

01:58:22 you get who you can get

01:58:24 of course you do

01:58:26 don't settle

01:58:28 really? so we're all perfect

01:58:30 and therefore we prefer perfection

01:58:32 I don't know

01:58:34 it's just a matter of sheer vanity

01:58:36 well I'm good looking so I determine

01:58:38 I deserve a good looking girl

01:58:40 it's like ok I don't care are you in demand?

01:58:42 who's knocking at your door?

01:58:44 right it's the old line from that Julia Roberts movie

01:58:46 my best friend's wedding who's chasing you?

01:58:48 no the men who are

01:58:50 distraught because they're below average height

01:58:52 no I get that

01:58:54 so they're below average height which eliminates a lot of women

01:58:56 so those women you don't want

01:58:58 anyway

01:59:00 one of my friends is short

01:59:02 and he's insecure as hell I try to help but insecurity

01:59:04 runs deep

01:59:06 height is an excuse

01:59:08 height is an excuse

01:59:10 I mean I started going bald in my early 20's

01:59:12 did that mean that I couldn't date?

01:59:16 did that mean I couldn't be confident?

01:59:18 I mean that's just

01:59:20 I don't know boring physical shit

01:59:22 right

01:59:24 I mean have I ever

01:59:26 seemed to you insecure because

01:59:28 of my baldingness?

01:59:30 I mean by my age like 75%

01:59:32 80% of men are balding anyway

01:59:34 so

01:59:36 no and balding helps you

01:59:38 accelerate things right because it's a reminder of mortality

01:59:40 right so every time I talk to some

01:59:42 player who's wasting his 30's still

01:59:44 sleeping around I say to the same guy

01:59:46 you still have all your hair? Yep!

01:59:48 so you don't have to grow up in a lot of ways

01:59:50 so it's good right

01:59:52 no it's like if you

01:59:56 say to a woman you have to have

01:59:58 big boobs but no body fat

02:00:00 ok there are a few freaks out there like that

02:00:02 but if that's your

02:00:04 requirement or demand then you have

02:00:06 you don't have a capacity

02:00:08 to pair bond you have a fetish

02:00:10 that's exploitive

02:00:12 so yeah I mean I can't

02:00:16 encourage you enough you lower your standards

02:00:18 until you're in demand

02:00:20 right you lower your standards until

02:00:22 you're in demand true for men or women

02:00:24 you lower your salary

02:00:26 requirements until you can get a job

02:00:28 isn't this obvious

02:00:30 you lower your salary requirements

02:00:34 until somebody offers you a fucking job

02:00:36 dating is

02:00:38 fucking job in a way right so

02:00:40 yeah girlfriend is

02:00:42 insecure it's destroying our relationship

02:00:46 girlfriend is insecure

02:00:48 it's destroying our relationship

02:00:50 no you're

02:00:52 destroying the relationship by staying with her

02:00:54 if she won't fix it you're destroying it

02:00:56 it's not her fault

02:00:58 I still think you need to ask to find

02:01:00 out how in demand you are a lot of guys

02:01:02 who have never been catcalled are with beautiful

02:01:04 women I'm not saying it's the only thing

02:01:06 oh my gosh come on man

02:01:10 that's dumb and defensive

02:01:12 and you're smarter than that you're absolutely smarter

02:01:14 than that

02:01:16 you don't need to ask to find out how in demand

02:01:18 you are

02:01:20 a lot of guys who have never

02:01:22 been catcalled are with beautiful women yes

02:01:24 they're wealthy

02:01:26 right so

02:01:28 yeah I get it

02:01:30 but

02:01:32 you know you go and talk

02:01:34 to women and do they respond positively

02:01:36 right

02:01:38 if you're in a women if you're in a room

02:01:40 do women give you the once over

02:01:42 do they try to catch your eye again

02:01:44 do you turn around suddenly and see them looking at you

02:01:46 do they right do they flip their hair

02:01:48 like there's tons of

02:01:50 Hugh Jackman is short

02:01:52 plays Wolverine

02:01:54 he just got divorced didn't he

02:01:56 after like a is he short

02:01:58 is he short

02:02:00 is he short

02:02:02 I just hate him

02:02:04 cause he's a pro Bill Gates book

02:02:06 uh

02:02:08 height alright

02:02:10 what is his height

02:02:12 6 foot

02:02:14 no he's not short

02:02:18 he's above average I didn't think he was short

02:02:20 so yeah

02:02:24 I mean peak height was apparently 6'1

02:02:28 right so good guys get a little shorter

02:02:30 as they age right

02:02:32 so yeah I think you're wrong about that

02:02:34 I could be wrong I know it's just the internet

02:02:36 but

02:02:38 in general for women confidence and charisma

02:02:40 is more important than physical looks

02:02:42 trustworthiness

02:02:46 you don't want to get laid you want to have a family

02:02:48 and to have a family you need to be trustworthy

02:02:50 alright Steph would you say

02:02:52 being approached by women is a good marker of attractiveness

02:02:54 uh

02:02:56 it's not a bad way yeah for sure

02:02:58 yes that's true I do see them looking at me

02:03:00 and all that kind of stuff yeah

02:03:02 good alright lower your

02:03:04 expectations until you get what you want

02:03:06 keep your high expectations to a genetic

02:03:08 dead end that's really depressing

02:03:10 because you only get one shot at it you only get one shot

02:03:12 at youth right

02:03:14 you only get one shot at youth

02:03:16 and particular for a woman right there's no point

02:03:18 adjusting your expectations when you're 45

02:03:20 because your genes are dead right

02:03:22 your eggs are dead there's no point adjusting

02:03:24 your expectations then right

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