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Aired (April 29, 2024): Mula sa simpleng likes at follow sa Instagram, unti-unting may namuong mabuting ugnayan sa pagitan nina DJ at Miyuki sa umpisa ng kanilang naging relasyon. Pakinggan ang buong kuwento sa video na ito.
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00:00Thank you very much, Jex de Castro.
00:04And Kim, do you want to join us?
00:06Yes!
00:07You guys look good together.
00:09I wasn't invited.
00:11You don't have a ribbon.
00:13Welcome to Xpecially For You, Miyuki and DJ.
00:17Hi!
00:18Hello!
00:19Thank you.
00:20Hello.
00:21Miyuki is beautiful.
00:22Thank you.
00:23She has two dimples.
00:24Where did you buy that?
00:26I just bought it.
00:28Are you Japanese, Miyuki?
00:30Yes, I am.
00:31My dad is Japanese.
00:32Your dad.
00:33Her name is Miyuki.
00:35What?
00:36Do you know her last name?
00:38What's her last name?
00:39I don't know.
00:40That's why I'm asking you.
00:42No, she's...
00:43See?
00:44You've been waiting for a long time.
00:45You have a lot of entries.
00:47Say it here.
00:48She's American.
00:49American?
00:50Yes.
00:51Why?
00:52Her last name is Mouse.
00:54Miyuki Mouse?
00:59No.
01:00Her last name is...
01:02That's her last name.
01:03What's Miyuki's last name?
01:05California.
01:06California Miyuki?
01:09Why?
01:11Just kidding.
01:12Her real name is Miyuki.
01:13What's her last name?
01:14Belo.
01:15Miyuki Belo?
01:19Hello to Doctor Miyuki Belo.
01:22No, that's right.
01:23Her name is Miyuki.
01:24What's her last name?
01:25She likes singing.
01:26Let's choose.
01:28Let's choose Miyuki.
01:30What?
01:32If I can't support you, forgive me.
01:35Ogie, you talk to her.
01:37She's starting again.
01:38Ogie is here.
01:40What's Miyuki?
01:41Miyuki.
01:42Let's choose Miyuki.
01:43I admit, Miyuki.
01:44I'm joking.
01:45But it's too far.
01:48You're embarrassing Miyuki Belo.
01:51Her name is Miyuki.
01:53What's her last name?
01:54She likes Pansep.
01:59Her last name is Bihon.
02:00Miyuki Bihon.
02:03It's so funny.
02:07It's embarrassing for DJ.
02:09DJ is an Ilocano.
02:10Why?
02:11Her last name is Banger.
02:13DJ Banger.
02:15DJ Banger.
02:19I'm sorry.
02:20We're just kidding.
02:22We're happy with your name.
02:23Miyuki is also Ilocano.
02:25What?
02:26Ilocano?
02:27Yes.
02:28Why?
02:29But they moved.
02:32Why?
02:34Her city hall was burned.
02:36Her birth certificate was taken.
02:40She's just one word.
02:42Don't do that.
02:44Where are you from Miyuki?
02:47I'm from Dasma.
02:48She moved.
02:51Have you been there ever since?
02:53No.
02:55I told you.
02:56I know her life.
02:58I'm from NSO.
03:00DJ, where are you from?
03:02I'm from Marikina.
03:04Do you know each other?
03:05Are you from the same place?
03:06No.
03:08We met on Instagram.
03:12Like, like, comment, comment.
03:13Yes, like, follow.
03:14There are suggested accounts online, right?
03:18Or you can see on events.
03:20What's your Instagram?
03:21Who's the first one to DM?
03:23Me.
03:25Because he's a DJ.
03:27Did you see each other?
03:30Or you just saw me on your scroll?
03:32I just saw you on the explore page.
03:36You saw me and messaged me?
03:38Not immediately.
03:40Just a simple like, follow.
03:42I just like your photos and stories.
03:46Does he reply?
03:48No.
03:49It's been a year since I read his DMs.
03:53If you're not an artist,
03:54where do you think you'll be on Instagram?
03:57Like, like?
03:58You'll get to know each other.
04:03You'll get noticed on DMs.
04:06Cutie, cutie, like, like.
04:08Because crush is?
04:09Hanging out.
04:11Of course.
04:13If you like each other, you won't crush right away.
04:16And it's not bad to express.
04:20It's just bad if you're being given an issue.
04:25It's bad if you're being treated badly.
04:27If you're being given a meaning.
04:29Even if it's nothing,
04:30if you're being treated badly,
04:31it's bad for you.
04:33If you're broadening your understanding,
04:34it's bad.
04:36And we all get excited.
04:38All of us, right?
04:39Like, this is okay.
04:41This is beautiful.
04:42This person is good at this.
04:43If you show talent, right?
04:45And also,
04:47usually,
04:49it's one of the reasons
04:50why we post beautiful pictures on Instagram.
04:52We get noticed.
04:55We get noticed by your followers.
04:57You want to be liked.
04:59You want to be noticed.
05:01You want to be praised.
05:03Right?
05:04So you're asking for something.
05:06Unless,
05:08you're the private one.
05:10You just want to post,
05:11but you don't have anyone.
05:12But even if you're private,
05:13you still have followers.
05:14You still have followers.
05:15You just know them.
05:19But even if you're private,
05:20you still have followers.
05:21Yes, you still have followers.
05:23They're following you.
05:25They're the ones you're following.
05:27They're your friends.
05:28Yes, they're your friends.
05:31I'm going to stop here.
05:32Why are you stopping?
05:34Take a picture of him.
05:35Why?
05:36And then,
05:37this is what the photographer will wear.
05:40Did he think about that last night?
05:42It's beautiful.
05:43I'm going to the hospital.
05:44Why?
05:48I'm not going to have a baby.
05:51Oh, my God!
05:52I didn't bring that.
05:53I'm not going to have a baby.
05:55Good thing it's pink.
05:57Okay.
06:00So, how long have you been dating?
06:02Or was it easy?
06:03Did you get attracted to DJ?
06:05No, because one year later,
06:07I saw his DMs.
06:09And then,
06:10it was January 2021.
06:12And then,
06:13we started talking in August.
06:14That's when I replied to him.
06:16Good thing you still remember him.
06:19Because if it's just one year,
06:20you won't get to know each other.
06:21Right?
06:23Good thing you still remember him
06:24when he replied to you.
06:25It's because he's a fan.
06:26That's why I always see
06:28his page.
06:29You're stalking him too.
06:31You're really looking at him.
06:32Because
06:33it's not that you're stalking him.
06:34If you're always looking at him,
06:36or seeing him,
06:37he really shows up.
06:38If you don't notice
06:39his accounts,
06:40even if you're following him,
06:41he doesn't show up.
06:42He doesn't show up.
06:44It's like he's in your algorithm.
06:45He's already suggested.
06:47He's already suggested.
06:49I'm also stalking him.
06:50And then,
06:51they like
06:52the photos.
06:54Why did it take you a year?
06:56Did you run into a lot of people?
06:58They don't have Wi-Fi.
07:01I don't have a date tag.
07:03But,
07:04it's been a long time.
07:06I didn't check my DMs.
07:07I didn't check my DMs.
07:09And then,
07:11I didn't know him.
07:12He was in the message request.
07:14That's when I saw him.
07:17A lot of people sent you messages
07:19and messaged you randomly.
07:21Before.
07:22Why did you notice his message?
07:24Did you also look at his profile?
07:26I looked at them one by one
07:27because
07:28there might be work.
07:30What kind of work?
07:31Actually,
07:32his bio before
07:34is something to do with marketing.
07:35That's why I followed him.
07:37I thought it might work.
07:39You're also an opportunist.
07:40That's true.
07:42Why not?
07:43Of course,
07:44you'll also connect with people.
07:46That's why
07:48he's into social media.
07:50Social media?
07:51Social media.
07:52You're creating a network.
07:53Yes.
07:54Right?
07:55You want your following to grow
07:56so that your network
07:57and connections also grow.
07:59There's nothing wrong with that.
08:00DJ is also a businessman.
08:02When you promote,
08:03a lot of people will see it.
08:04You're also true to yourself.
08:05Correct.
08:06He's really good when he's wearing a vest.
08:08Of course.
08:09The vest.
08:10I'm the vest.
08:11Yes.
08:12They were the first ones to wear the vest.
08:15I saw Gimsho
08:16because you were the first one.
08:19I was the first one?
08:21Yes.
08:23So,
08:24when he messaged you,
08:26were you still attracted to him?
08:28You didn't miss him?
08:29You didn't miss him?
08:30Of course,
08:31I was really attracted to him.
08:32Actually,
08:33he said that
08:34he wasn't okay.
08:35That's when I felt
08:36the opportunity to
08:37ask him what happened.
08:39Do you want to know?
08:40Yes.
08:43Do you want to know?
08:45Do you want to help him?
08:47Are you affected by him?
08:48Yes.
08:50He wants to get involved
08:52in your life.
08:53Really?
08:54Okay.
08:55So, when you became...
08:57Do your families know about this?
08:59Is this a secret relationship?
09:01No,
09:02it's not a secret relationship.
09:04In the legal part,
09:06he was the first one
09:07who introduced me to my parents,
09:09to my mom personally,
09:11and to my grandfather.
09:12So, it's a bit conservative.
09:14But when we became a couple,
09:15we were very open
09:16on both sides.
09:17It's legal.
09:19Okay.
09:20What did your family say?
09:21They like him.
09:23They like him,
09:24but of course...
09:25Why did they say
09:26they like your family?
09:27I like them.
09:28I like them too.
09:29Oh, is that so?
09:30If you like them,
09:31you can support them.
09:32But honestly,
09:33at first,
09:34they were kind of
09:35worried and concerned
09:37because
09:38given that it was
09:39my first relationship,
09:40our age gap was quite far.
09:42Oh.
09:43There.
09:44Seven years?
09:45Seven years.
09:46Okay.
09:47So, there.
09:48The worry was there.
09:49But when you became his boyfriend,
09:50were you a minor?
09:51No, right?
09:52No.
09:53Oh, it's legal now.
09:54I think you were 19.
09:55I answered him
09:56when I turned 18.
09:57Okay.
09:58Then,
09:59there.
10:00So,
10:01I was very open,
10:02but at the same time,
10:03I was worried
10:04that he wouldn't leave me.
10:05Of course,
10:06we're not in the same wavelength
10:07and not in the same path
10:08in life.
10:09Okay.
10:10So, Esha,
10:11when you met him,
10:12did you introduce him
10:13to your family?
10:15No,
10:16I didn't introduce him
10:17to my parents
10:18because for me,
10:19until...
10:20I think that was it.
10:21But when I introduced him,
10:22actually,
10:23my parents
10:24always noticed
10:25my dad and mom
10:26that I already had a girlfriend
10:27when I was always away
10:28from home
10:29because I was always late
10:30to go home.
10:31My dad is from Dasmarines.
10:32So,
10:33the trip
10:34that almost every day...
10:35So,
10:36why did you introduce him?
10:37You don't usually
10:38introduce people,
10:39but why did you introduce him?
10:40At that time,
10:41I felt like
10:42he was the one
10:43that would really
10:44settle me down.
10:45What did your parents
10:46and your family
10:47say about him?
10:48That he's good-looking.
10:49That he's good-looking.
10:50They voted for him.
10:51Yes,
10:52they voted for him.
10:53My dad,
10:54at first,
10:55because he was young,
10:56he was a bit doubtful at first.
10:57But as the months progressed,
10:58he became really close
10:59to my family.
11:00To my parents.
11:01Especially to my uncle.
11:02Yes.
11:03Ah, okay.
11:04So,
11:05you became close
11:06to his mom.
11:07Because,
11:08isn't there something like that?
11:09The party becomes close.
11:10Yes.
11:11Or,
11:12we're okay,
11:13but we're not
11:14that close.
11:15But our relationship
11:16is good.
11:17I'm close
11:18to both of his parents,
11:19but I'm closer
11:20to his dad.
11:21Like that.
11:22Because with his dad,
11:23that's where I saw
11:24my father figure.
11:25Because I'm a single mom.
11:26Why didn't you
11:27see your father's
11:28mother figure?
11:29Actually,
11:30actually,
11:31sometimes,
11:32I think about it.
11:33No,
11:34you're a single mom.
11:35Yes.
11:36So,
11:37that's where
11:38I saw my uncle.
11:39That's where I had
11:40a second family.
11:41But I'm also close
11:42to his mom.
11:43Sometimes,
11:44we borrow clothes.
11:45Ah, really?
11:46Does your mom
11:47wear an outfit like this?
11:48She can really do it.
11:49No,
11:50there are events
11:51where Miyuki
11:52doesn't have an outfit.
11:53Then,
11:54she borrows it from her mom.
11:55I thought your mom
11:56went to a yacht party.
11:57She went to a yacht party.
11:58She went to a yacht party.
11:59She went to a yacht party.
12:00She went to a yacht party.
12:01She went to a yacht party.
12:02She went to a yacht party.
12:03She went to a yacht party.
12:04She went to a yacht party.
12:05She went to a yacht party.
12:06And when you go to a yacht party,
12:07you should be like,
12:08why is Bikini Brief
12:09your brief?
12:10Why?
12:11Why?
12:12That's what you think.
12:13Why is it a yacht club?
12:14Why is it Bikini Brief?
12:15Why is it Bikini Brief?
12:16Why is it Bikini Brief?
12:17Why is it Bikini Brief?
12:18Why is it Bikini Brief?
12:19Why is it Bikini Brief?
12:20Hey, come on.
12:21Not tomorrow.
12:22Not tomorrow.
12:27Pwede pa tomorrow.
12:28What's that?
12:29Side B.
12:30Pwede pa tomorrow.
12:33Anyway, anyway, anyway.
12:34I always ask this.
12:35What's the best moment?
12:36Because I also want to tackle
12:37the best moment of the relationship.
12:40For me,
12:41we had a golden retriever.
12:45Because I like cats.
12:47But my dream is to have a golden retriever.
12:50And in January,
12:52I remember I told him
12:54that I really like him.
12:55And then, we got one.
12:56So, that's the happiest moment.
12:59And maybe the routine is
13:01every month,
13:02there's a bouquet of flowers.
13:04So, you celebrate.
13:06Yes, every month.
13:08Actually, the flowers are not monthly.
13:10It's just because of the flowers.
13:14That's different.
13:15It's scary.
13:16That's different.
13:17It's scary.
13:18That's what she said.
13:19That's what she said.
13:22Don't you miss
13:23the bouquet of flowers monthly?
13:26Now, no.
13:27It's not in my mind.
13:28I can get myself now.
13:31By Miley Cyrus.
13:32That's true.
13:33I can buy myself.
13:34I didn't say that.
13:35The golden retriever is also monthly.
13:40I don't believe it.
13:41So, that's like your baby.
13:42The golden retriever.
13:43Actually, we have a lot of cats now.
13:45For me,
13:46I have five cats left.
13:47And then,
13:48I have two cats left.
13:51What breed of cats?
13:52It's a golden prie.
13:54It's not a t-fashion.
13:56It's a golden prie.
13:57It's a golden prie with canola oil.
14:00The breed…
14:01I like to rescue
14:03or adopt.
14:05So, most of them are domestic shorthairs.
14:07But, I have a Persian cat.
14:08It's Willow.
14:10That's the first one.
14:11You like dogs.
14:12Yes.
14:13What's the first one?
14:14That's her cat.
14:15What's her cat?
14:16Domestic shorthair.
14:17Persian?
14:18Yes, Persian.
14:19That's the first one.
14:23Munch.
14:28Why do I feel nervous when I'm joking?
14:32I don't know.
14:35Just be fair.
14:36If it's Persian,
14:37just believe it.
14:40If it's Persian,
14:41that's the first one.
14:42That's the first one.
14:43That's the first cat.
14:45Persian.
14:46I was surprised when I said
14:47it's not a domestic shorthair.
14:52Why do I feel nervous?
14:56You're handsome.
14:57What's the best moment for you?
14:59For me,
15:00it's my 26th birthday.
15:03Usually,
15:04when I celebrate my birthday,
15:06I want to be alone.
15:08Celebrate with my family.
15:09So, for the first time,
15:10I was surprised
15:12when my girlfriend was there.
15:13So, they set up at my house.
15:15A party?
15:16A set up?
15:17A happy birthday party.
15:18I thought it's a set up
15:19when she thought there's a shooting
15:20at her house.
15:21It's not a set up.
15:22There's a shooting.
15:23There's a shooting.
15:24You can't use the bathroom
15:25because there's a shooting.
15:28And also,
15:29our random dates.
15:31Those are the best moments
15:32because Miyuki really likes to take pictures.
15:35So, she captures all the moments.
15:37Picture, video,
15:38even when...
15:39Before eating,
15:40she takes a picture.
15:41Is it like that?
15:42Yes, actually, it's like that.
15:43Even before eating.
15:44It's not like that.
15:45No, always.
15:46Always?
15:47Even when you're hungry,
15:48she still needs to take a picture.
15:49Yes.
15:50I'm already hungry.
15:52Yes, that's how it is.
15:53Yes, that's how it is.
15:54Right?
15:55She takes a picture first
15:56before eating.
15:57You need to move your hands.
15:58She still needs to move her hands.
16:01It's hard.
16:02When you're confused
16:03about what to eat,
16:04she can't take a picture.
16:05She needs to pose.
16:06That's right.
16:10Like that.
16:11It's hard.
16:12After praying,
16:13after praying,
16:14after anger,
16:16she does that a lot
16:17before eating.
16:18Then, after praying,
16:19after praying,
16:20after anger,
16:21she does that a lot.
16:22Through Christ our Lord,
16:23Amen.
16:24Then, she moves her hands.
16:25She still needs to move her hands.
16:28Through Christ our Lord,
16:29Amen.
16:30Where's the soup?
16:33Because it's slow.
16:35That's how she prays.
16:36That's why I don't pray.
16:39Because it's hot.
16:40Because it's hot.
16:41Yes.
16:42It's really hot.
16:43She does that a lot.
16:44She does that a lot.
16:45She prays a lot,
16:46but...
16:47Who is that?
16:49Yes.
16:50Anyway.
16:51Anyway.
16:52Let's go to Masalimuot.
16:53There.
16:55How long have they been together?
16:57Almost two years
16:58with the courtship.
16:59Courtship stage.
17:00No.
17:01Their relationship.
17:02In a relationship.
17:03Ten months.
17:04Almost one year.
17:05Ten months.
17:06There.
17:07Don't make it too long.
17:08It's too short.
17:09Ten months.
17:10You're joining the courtship.
17:11Two years.
17:12Two months.
17:13You're joining.
17:14Twenty months.
17:15You're joining the Victoria courtship.
17:17Basketball.
17:18Basketball.
17:20Victoria courtship.
17:22It's a new ship.
17:23Yes.
17:24Yes.
17:25The chicken is good.
17:26Yes.
17:27Yes.
17:28And the courtship is different.
17:29Yes.
17:30Yes.
17:31It's different.
17:32It's different design.
17:33I was sleeping there.
17:34When I woke up,
17:35I was surprised.
17:36Why?
17:37I thought I saw a ghost.
17:38I woke up.
17:39Why?
17:40There's a ghost in the mirror.
17:41I was really surprised.
17:42There's a ghost in the mirror.
17:43I saw a horse with a broom.
17:44Yes.
17:46You need to be beautiful.
17:47Joseph is laughing.
17:48Yes.
17:49Why?
17:50I saw your card.
17:51There's a lot of cards.
17:54There's a free pancit canton.
17:55Yes.
17:56Eligible for one free pancit canton.
18:01I even met him there.
18:02I don't know who he is with.
18:03Who is he with?
18:04He's also a cameraman.
18:06Maybe he's a guy.
18:07Maybe he's a guy.
18:08No.
18:09You know,
18:10there's nothing wrong with going there.
18:11Even for me,
18:12the beauty of exploring
18:13is that
18:14my whole team
18:15edits in Sogo.
18:16Yes.
18:17Yes.
18:18They're even laughing
18:19because they go to Sogo
18:20in groups
18:21to edit
18:22the whole content.
18:23Yes.
18:24That's why it's a motel.
18:25It's like a motel
18:26for motorists
18:27who get
18:28a disorder at night.
18:29Correct.
18:30It's like a short time stay.
18:31It's just a sleep.
18:32Yes.
18:33It's just a rest.
18:34Yes.
18:35Ogiel,
18:36you're always free there,
18:37right?
18:38Why?
18:39Short time.
18:40Short time.
18:41Short time.
18:42Short time.
18:44The beds are small.
18:46Yes.
18:47The ceilings are low.
18:49The shower.
18:50You cried
18:51when you checked in there.
18:52There's no bed.
18:53Just a throw pillow.
18:57Then you go to the front desk
18:59and you're angry
19:00because there's a throw pillow.
19:01You told the receptionist,
19:02******.
19:07Anyway,
19:08so 10 months.
19:0910 months.
19:10How?
19:11How and
19:12what was the reason
19:14for this relationship
19:15to break up?
19:17You wanna go first?
19:18Okay, you go first.
19:19You're always right.
19:20Oh my God.
19:21Is it true?
19:22Wow.
19:23Wow.
19:24You know,
19:25you're the one.
19:26You're the one.
19:27You know,
19:28that's the beauty of jokes.
19:29Actually,
19:30that's the reason.
19:31What you're saying,
19:32what you want to say,
19:33for example,
19:34I'm kidding.
19:35That's the first reason
19:36why we broke up
19:37because he's like that.
19:38Oh.
19:39Oh.
19:41That's the one
19:42who's talkative
19:43or talkative.
19:44He's just kidding.
19:45Um.
19:48Who will you tell the story to?
19:50Just me.
19:51I read the program.
19:52I read it.
19:53Just them.
19:54DK, you're the DJ.
19:55You go first.
19:56No, it's okay.
19:57You're the judge.
19:58Who's the one
19:59who broke up?
20:00It was mutual.
20:01I was the one who brought up
20:02but it was mutual.
20:03Yeah, mutual
20:04because, of course,
20:05when you talk.
20:06But whose idea
20:07was to talk
20:08because I want to break up.
20:09It was yours.
20:10It was mine.
20:11Why did you want to break up?
20:13At the time,
20:16I felt I was drained.
20:19I feel like
20:20I was going through so much
20:21at a very young age.
20:23I carry such burden
20:24that I shouldn't.
20:25I just want a normal relationship.
20:27Because you're already full.
20:29You ran out.
20:30Yes.
20:31You're saying
20:32because you're still young.
20:34Partly,
20:35but that's not the reason.
20:36Because you said
20:37you have a lot going on
20:38at a very young age.
20:40Yes.
20:41With our relationship.
20:42Do you feel like
20:43you can handle it
20:44when you're older?
20:45With our relationship,
20:46a lot is happening.
20:48Which is,
20:49for me,
20:50being with someone
20:51who's more mature than me
20:52or older,
20:53I don't have to worry
20:54about things like that
20:55anymore.
20:56Yeah,
20:57but you mentioned
20:58at a very young age.
21:00Do you feel like
21:01there's a reason
21:02you're still young
21:03that's why you can't
21:04handle what's happening to you?
21:05So, if you're older
21:07and you can handle it,
21:08is there a reason
21:09for the age gap?
21:12Maybe if I was older,
21:14I'd have more patience
21:16with him.
21:18So, there's a bearing
21:19in the age gap?
21:20Yes, there is.
21:22So, is there a chance
21:23that you don't understand
21:24what you're doing
21:25at the age of 27?
21:28There are times
21:29when there are
21:30misunderstandings.
21:32Of course,
21:33the age gap
21:34and the culture
21:35since Gen Z
21:36and partly millennial.
21:38So, there are things
21:39that we don't understand.
21:41There are times
21:42when he's doing something
21:44that I can't relate to.
21:45There are instances
21:47when I'm busy at work.
21:49I feel like
21:50he doesn't understand.
21:52It's like my story
21:53has no worth.
21:55There's no...
21:59She asked me
22:00to cry on her shoulder,
22:01but I was like,
22:02okay, I'm the more mature one.
22:04I'm the one
22:05who's better at relationships.
22:06So, for me,
22:07since with the age gap as well,
22:09I need to lead the relationship.
22:13What's wrong with it
22:14if you're the one
22:15who leads the relationship?
22:16Actually, there's nothing.
22:18I just feel like
22:20there came a time
22:21when I felt like
22:22I was alone.
22:24She will be there
22:25because there are times
22:26when she told me
22:27that she doesn't understand
22:28my work.
22:30So, you're both
22:31not feeling well
22:33because she's drained.
22:34You feel like
22:35you're the only one
22:36in the relationship.
22:38I feel like
22:39he felt that he was alone
22:40because I pushed him away.
22:42It's like I was distancing myself
22:44from him
22:45because I realized
22:46that it's not healthy
22:47for me anymore.
22:48There were so many
22:49issues with that.
22:51What were your issues?
22:53Well, for one,
22:58on his side,
22:59his family,
23:00there are many times
23:01that he couldn't stand up for me.
23:03I had to swallow
23:05or tolerate the treatment.
23:09I'm okay with his parents,
23:11but there are certain people
23:12in his family
23:13that I asked him,
23:14as my boyfriend,
23:16I expect you.
23:17It's your responsibility.
23:19My family entrusted me to you.
23:21You will take care of me.
23:22You will protect me
23:23because if you cannot protect me
23:24from your own family,
23:25then how are you going
23:26to protect me from others?
23:27What kind of protection
23:28were you asking at the time?
23:29Because, for example,
23:30it's not like
23:31the other members
23:32of his family
23:33are okay with you.
23:34Let's simplify the story.
23:35The other members
23:36of his family
23:37are okay with you.
23:38But his parents
23:39are nice to you.
23:40He's nice to you,
23:41right?
23:42But the other members
23:43of his family
23:44are okay with you.
23:45What kind of protection
23:46were you asking for
23:47from him?
23:48Even if it's just
23:49talking to him.
23:50Didn't you do that?
23:52The main reason
23:54within the feud
23:55in my family
23:56is political views.
23:57There came a time
23:58during the election,
23:59of course,
24:00they have different
24:01political views.
24:02I mean,
24:03I think that was
24:04the outlet.
24:05But even before that,
24:06I already felt
24:07that it was really off.
24:08So, I said that
24:09I was uncomfortable.
24:10You have different
24:11support in politics.
24:12So, you feel like
24:13you grew up when
24:14you weren't...
24:15That was the outlet.
24:16They didn't bet on you
24:17from the start.
24:18There are people
24:19in their family
24:20who didn't bet on you
24:21from the start.
24:22But when they found out
24:23that you have different
24:24votes or support...
24:25Actually, the funny thing
24:26at that time,
24:27I was 17.
24:28The funny thing
24:29at that time?
24:30You're too much.
24:31The funny thing
24:32at that time?
24:34Because,
24:35they were mad at me
24:36politically.
24:37I wasn't even a voter
24:38back then.
24:39I was 17.
24:40I don't know
24:41anything about...
24:42But do you have
24:43a political view?
24:44I don't have
24:45anyone to support me.
24:46What's the issue
24:47about political views?
24:48Because,
24:49I have a story
24:50about a bowler
24:51who was like a
24:52goods from my dad.
24:53My dad works
24:54in a government
24:55that supports him.
24:56So,
24:57it wasn't
24:58intentional
24:59at all.
25:00Just a story.
25:01So,
25:02you don't have
25:03a political view?
25:04No.
25:05Actually,
25:06I didn't know
25:07at the time.
25:08She said
25:09it's different.
25:10What's different?
25:11Your parents?
25:12Yes.
25:13Well,
25:14she was influenced
25:15by her family.
25:16So,
25:17it's different.
25:18Oh,
25:19it's not her.
25:20It's not her.
25:21It's not her.
25:22It's not her.
25:23She chose
25:24to post it online.
25:25So,
25:26at the time,
25:27she had
25:28a different
25:29kind of
25:30political view.
25:31And then,
25:32our family
25:33also had
25:34a different
25:35political view.
25:36So,
25:37that's how it started.
25:38Okay.
25:39I'll cut you off
25:40so we don't
25:41have to go further.
25:42Okay.
25:43We were just
25:44talking about
25:45the protection
25:46she asked for earlier.
25:47So,
25:48her family
25:49supports her.
25:50But,
25:51what about her?
25:52Don't you have
25:53anyone to support you?
25:54I don't know.
25:55I really don't know.
25:56That's how it is.
25:57Why don't you know?
25:58Why don't you know?
25:59And that was
26:00the funny thing about it.
26:03No,
26:04it's just a joke.
26:05So,
26:06there are different opinions
26:07about that.
26:08But,
26:09she feels
26:10that she's not welcome
26:11or she's being criticized.
26:12So,
26:13she wants you
26:14to protect her.
26:15So,
26:16my simple question is,
26:17did you protect her or not?
26:18I only protected
26:19my parents.
26:20Because,
26:21for me,
26:22if in terms of
26:23out-of-touch,
26:24it's out-of-touch
26:25to talk to each other.
26:26So, I told her...
26:27No,
26:28that's the only thing
26:29that makes her cry.
26:30Yes.
26:31Did you talk to her?
26:32I didn't talk to her
26:33about crying to Miyuki.
26:34Because?
26:35Because,
26:38on the side of...
26:41she's really
26:42a sister-in-law.
26:44Crying to Miyuki.
26:45Yeah,
26:46whoever that is.
26:47But, you can't talk to her
26:48or...
26:49To protect her.
26:50Yes,
26:51at that time,
26:52out-of-touch to me,
26:53I talked to her directly.
26:55So,
26:56in respect to my parents,
26:57they were the ones
26:58I talked to.
26:59To talk to
27:00that family member.
27:01Did you talk to her?
27:02Did you talk to
27:03that family member?
27:04That's what I don't know
27:05if I talked to her.
27:06But,
27:07that was the last time
27:08I talked to my parents
27:09about it.
27:11So, do you feel like
27:12you protected her
27:13at that time?
27:15At that time...
27:16Was there enough
27:17that you did
27:18to protect her
27:19at that time?
27:20Did you feel like,
27:21I'm crying here
27:22because of this politics.
27:25At that time,
27:26I feel like
27:27I was trapped
27:28for both parties.
27:30I love my family so much.
27:32I wanted to protect
27:33my parents
27:34or anyone
27:35related to my family.
27:36At the same time,
27:38I really loved Miyuki
27:39at that time.
27:40So,
27:41for me,
27:42there was a moment
27:43where I did
27:44what I could
27:45between the two of them.
27:46I felt like
27:47I did everything
27:48at that time.
27:49But,
27:50at least,
27:51there was still
27:52a demand.
27:53I saw that
27:54there was still
27:55something missing.
27:56Why didn't you
27:57talk to her?
27:58Then,
27:59it came to the point
28:00that even her parents
28:01wanted to talk to her.
28:02I was like,
28:03Dad, wait.
28:04So, you felt like
28:05you did something
28:06but it wasn't enough
28:07for her.
28:08Yes.
28:09And,
28:10that was a big thing
28:11for her.
28:12It had a big effect
28:13on you.
28:14The crying
28:15that her family
28:16member did
28:17to you.
28:18For me,
28:19it was a family event
28:20that sometimes
28:21I get embarrassed
28:22or they crop
28:23half of my face
28:24or something like that.
28:25Then,
28:26they admitted
28:27that it's
28:28too straight up
28:29bullying me.
28:30She really has
28:31friends like that.
28:32Even you sent
28:33a picture to her
28:34and she cropped it.
28:35This is it.
28:36Who is that?
28:37The one before.
28:38Girl,
28:39there are two of us there.
28:40It's just a solo.
28:41It's just a solo.
28:42It's necessary.
28:43Ah, okay.
28:44So,
28:45this is my account.
28:47It's just a solo.
28:48It's just a solo.
28:49It's necessary.
28:50Why?
28:51Because,
28:52you can say
28:53that
28:54you're okay
28:55with the two of you.
28:56Why?
28:57Why did you
28:58let this happen?
28:59You can't be separated.
29:00You let
29:01the show
29:02ruin you.
29:03What's
29:04your answer?
29:05For me,
29:06it's not just
29:07the reason
29:08why I got tired.
29:09It's like,
29:10the time came
29:11when there's
29:12micro-cheating.
29:13So,
29:14I was like that.
29:15DJ is just laughing.
29:16Is that true?
29:17That there's
29:18micro-cheating?
29:19Maybe
29:20from his point of view.
29:21Okay.
29:22I don't know.
29:23Okay.
29:24Hey.
29:25Hey.
29:26Hey.
29:27What's your version?
29:28I'll go first.
29:29It's not just
29:30the political views.
29:31It's in his version.
29:32What's your version?
29:33In terms of
29:34micro-cheating,
29:35because
29:36it's only now
29:37that there's
29:38micro-cheating in Gen.G.
29:39Before,
29:40it was cheating as is.
29:41At that time,
29:42our relationship
29:43was about to end.
29:44So,
29:45it was cut
29:46when it came to
29:47the part
29:48where I would
29:49find myself
29:50on TikTok.
29:51So,
29:52I would look at
29:53videos and watch.
29:54Then,
29:55while I was watching,
29:56he caught me.
29:57Actually,
29:58he caught me
29:59looking at a girl.
30:00You also commented.
30:03So,
30:04on TikTok.
30:05Because you met
30:06on IG, right?
30:07Instagram.
30:08Yes, yes.
30:09So, you watched
30:10TikTok.
30:11There's still one
30:12world on TikTok.
30:13But you messaged
30:14there.
30:15Actually,
30:16the story
30:17behind that
30:18is that
30:19throughout our relationship,
30:20we practiced
30:21celibacy.
30:22So,
30:23we were very
30:24wholesome during
30:25our relationship.
30:26So,
30:27on my end,
30:28I was very
30:29religious at that time.
30:30So,
30:31for me,
30:32that was my way
30:33to satisfy
30:34my lust
30:35at that time.
30:36I was there
30:37on TikTok
30:38when I
30:39watched
30:40and talked
30:41to people.
30:42Did you see
30:43the video
30:44or was it a dance
30:45or was it
30:46on the beach?
30:47At that time,
30:48I was really
30:49on and off TikTok.
30:50I opened
30:51my account.
30:52Yes,
30:53he opened it.
30:54But at that time,
30:55I deleted
30:56TikTok.
30:57I downloaded it
30:58again.
30:59I was fighting
31:00over
31:01the stuff
31:02like that
31:03because I want
31:04our relationship
31:05to be pure
31:06and everything.
31:07Yes,
31:08but
31:09for others,
31:10it's cheating
31:11if...
31:13At that time,
31:14I could tolerate
31:15or I could
31:16understand
31:17and give more.
31:18But when he
31:19commented
31:20that he wanted
31:21to meet that girl
31:22or he saw her
31:23earlier
31:24and he was shy
31:25to approach her,
31:26I was off.
31:27Why do you have
31:28to initiate?
31:29That's the
31:30thing you can do
31:31because I would
31:32never do that
31:33to him.
31:34Yes,
31:35and the funny
31:36thing about it
31:37is...
31:38Right?
31:42Yes.
31:43It's true.
31:44It's true.
31:45It's true.
31:46It's true.
31:47It's true.
31:48It's true.
31:49It's true.
31:50It's true.
31:51It's true.
31:52It's true.
31:53It's true.
31:54It's true.
31:55It's true.
31:56It's true.
31:57It's true.
31:58It's true.
31:59It's true.
32:00It's true.
32:01It's true.
32:02It's true.
32:03It's true.
32:04It's true.
32:05It's true.
32:06It's true.
32:07It's true.
32:08It's true.
32:09It's true.
32:10It's true.
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