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00:04 After the day, that has been difficult,
00:07 you pray together?
00:09 Yes, we pray together.
00:11 Sarah makes it a point that we pray together before going to bed.
00:14 That's something that's naturally in her.
00:17 Is it expressed?
00:18 Do you talk to each other?
00:21 Or you say, "Keep quiet and let's pray in silence"?
00:25 No, we pray out loud.
00:27 Oh, that's great.
00:28 We pray out loud.
00:29 Why did we talk about fighting?
00:31 I don't know, but this is really interesting.
00:33 How is Sarah as a wife?
00:35 Amazing.
00:37 You may say, "Oh, that's such a showbiz answer. Amazing."
00:40 But no, I really...
00:42 No, I'm not going to say that.
00:43 No, I'm so interested.
00:44 But I'd like to believe that marriage is such a beautiful journey,
00:48 such a beautiful moment, such a beautiful experience.
00:51 Why?
00:52 Because it's about two different people from two corners of the ring
00:56 or two corners of life with different likes and wants
00:59 joining together and synergizing together
01:02 and going through life together, dreaming together,
01:05 working hard together to achieve those goals, those dreams that both have.
01:10 Okay.
01:11 I'll raise something.
01:13 And I apologize to the kids, but I want to say this
01:16 because I heard this from someone or I read this from a book.
01:20 Now, when two very passionate people are in love
01:23 and are in a relationship, in a marriage, for example,
01:25 they're hotly fighting,
01:27 one thing you can do is talk to each other, you fight naked.
01:32 Like literally?
01:34 Literally.
01:35 As in literally.
01:36 No, no. I see the point there.
01:38 Okay.
01:39 Because you're vulnerable, you're defenseless.
01:41 You haven't done that yet.
01:43 I don't think so.
01:44 That's why I apologize to the kids.
01:47 No, but our relationship, we don't fight.
01:49 I know we argue at times, but our days are more of fixing things.
01:56 Like, "Love, how do we bring this dog to where it's supposed to be?"
01:59 And then we have some discussions here and there,
02:02 but they're all creative improvement for our individual being.
02:07 I get it.
02:08 Sarah is jealous.
02:09 Is she jealous?
02:10 Or are you jealous?
02:12 Yes, I'd like to believe.
02:14 I'm not showing this, boy.
02:16 I'm not showing this, but yes.
02:20 Sarah is showing it.
02:22 She's not jealous.
02:25 I know my boundaries as a husband.
02:28 I like to protect that.
02:30 You know, 10 years before we got married, we dated for a long time,
02:35 and I believe Sarah really protected our relationship.
02:37 How?
02:38 Being private and being silent from our industry.
02:41 And I'm very thankful for that.
02:43 Continues to be exactly that.
02:46 Yeah, but now today, we like sharing here and there
02:49 because life is meant to be shared and expressed with love.
02:56 It shouldn't just be keep-keep.
02:58 What can you share with us now that you haven't shared?
03:01 Huh?
03:02 [Laughter]
03:03 Coming from you, life is meant to be shared.
03:06 You know why?
03:07 It's important to talk about marriages.
03:08 It's important to talk about relationships.
03:10 People learn a lot.
03:12 A lot.
03:13 A lot.
03:14 And if you were to tell me right now, Mat Mat,
03:16 one very important lesson in your relationship.
03:20 What is it?
03:21 Not just relationship, I'm sorry.
03:23 In your marriage.
03:28 Listening.
03:29 It's very, very important to listen.
03:33 Not just to hear or not just to--
03:36 Yeah, you have to listen and really absorb
03:39 and reciprocate that way.
03:41 Okay.
03:42 You're doing Black Rider.
03:43 You're in the first row in the morning.
03:44 You have G Studios.
03:45 And I'm sure you're doing a lot of other things.
03:47 Yes, I am.
03:48 Your wife doesn't complain.
03:50 The main priority is being a husband, right?
03:52 That's the main priority.
03:53 Yes.
03:54 Going home to my wife, kissing her goodnight,
03:57 and waking up beside her.
03:59 That's the priority.
04:00 Okay.
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