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00:00 I was so busy, so I decided to move to Australia.
00:06 After I did some research, I found out that Vancouver is very similar to Melbourne.
00:12 So I moved to Melbourne to get my S2.
00:15 After that, I went back to Jakarta, Indonesia.
00:29 Despite her perfect body and the addition of every woman,
00:32 who would have thought that her love for sports would be lowered by her family.
00:36 Not only that, as the only daughter, she is not a spoiled child.
00:43 My mother used to play karate.
00:52 So she was my assistant.
00:56 My older brother was a weightlifter.
01:01 My younger brother was a Muay Thai and a gym athlete.
01:07 So my older brother and younger brother were active men.
01:11 And I was also active.
01:14 As for discipline, my parents were not very strict.
01:19 I was more strict with myself.
01:25 I put pressure on myself to always rank.
01:32 In high school and high school, I had to rank at least 10th.
01:38 I was okay with 3rd, but I couldn't be below 10th.
01:42 I like to learn and push myself.
01:49 I like to compete and challenge myself.
01:56 And as if time has stopped,
02:01 Inge and Ariwibowo's love story is colored by many stories.
02:05 From their first date, to their wedding on July 7, 2006.
02:12 We met at church.
02:18 Back then, she was very active in giving testimony.
02:23 One of the churches she visited was my church.
02:26 So we met there.
02:28 Not at that time.
02:37 After a while.
02:39 At that time, I didn't have a feeling of love.
02:43 I just knew her as a friend.
02:47 But knowing that she was a witness,
02:52 That was a special thing for me.
02:55 A religious person.
02:57 Maybe that's how we became friends.
03:00 We became friends through SMS.
03:03 We texted through SMS.
03:06 We were close friends.
03:08 We had a long-distance relationship through SMS.
03:11 And then, I graduated, she came.
03:16 I went home, worked, and got married.
03:19 In marriage, there are many changes that are felt by every couple.
03:34 Just like the women who are often called "Mr. Inge".
03:40 At the beginning of marriage, it's still the same as what I know through SMS.
03:46 Maybe the changes happened after a few years.
03:50 Maybe, it's already expected.
03:56 Because we had a pre-counseling before getting married to the church.
04:01 They told us not to expect too much.
04:05 Because usually, it's either the same or the marriage life will be decreased.
04:10 So, don't expect too much.
04:12 And then, it's okay.
04:15 It's the character of people.
04:18 After living together for years, maybe we can get to know each other.
04:26 Maybe it's the way of life or the value.
04:30 Little by little, it started to change.
04:34 And we have to adjust.
04:37 But sometimes, if it's too different, it's hard to balance.
05:00 Trying to be a perfect wife and mother, Inge also tries to give her time only for the happiness of her beloved family.
05:09 For a moment, I left it because I felt that my presence for my children is more important.
05:17 The time is really for my children.
05:20 I don't think about my career, I'm always focused on my children.
05:25 You gave me life.
05:31 You gave me...
05:34 That moment, I felt like a bomb dropped.
05:37 No one said, "Okay, we're divorced." But the reason is you're cheating on me.
05:40 "We're divorced." But the reason is you're cheating on me.
05:46 That's...
05:49 Wow...
05:51 "We're divorced."
05:54 "We're divorced."
05:59 "We're divorced."
06:02 "We're divorced."
06:04 Life is not always like the weather.
06:07 When it's sunny, it feels like happiness.
06:10 With Chocolate Toast, with chocolate from Italy, enjoy your heart.
06:15 Let go of your burden.
06:17 Chocolate Toast, Mamma Mia! Delicious!
06:20 It's not delicious.
06:21 Yes, it's like there's a sweet taste.
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06:35 Just filled my stomach, I'm already empty again.
06:37 I'm a little hungry.
06:38 I just ate, but I'm still hungry.
06:41 I'm a little hungry.
06:43 Sarigandum, with white rice and delicious chocolate cream, make you full longer.
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07:18 I love what I do.
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07:49 Coffee together like a cafe.
07:53 Anytime.
07:55 Anywhere.
07:58 Nescafe, this is my cafe.
08:05 Hey, where are you from?
08:07 From Rapat Ausis, ma'am.
08:09 Liar! You just ate squid, right?
08:13 With sauce, right?
08:14 That's why, guys.
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08:17 Kiss! Fragrant after eating.
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08:35 I want noodles.
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08:39 Healthier choice.
08:40 The product is in the oven, not fried.
08:42 The noodles are chewy, the taste is better.
08:46 Delicious!
08:48 Oven Noodles are healthy, delicious.
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08:55 and uncomfortable.
08:57 One in four children experience light disturbance.
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09:35 Ah, where is it?
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09:39 Only Thai Pucuk Harum from Pucuk Thai Pilihan.
09:42 Keep your spirit up to face the challenge.
09:46 Make your day more exciting.
09:48 Pucuk Harum Tea.
09:50 To face various daily conditions.
09:55 Make sure the purity accompanies you.
10:00 BareBrand. Feel the purity.
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10:08 Safe for children and family.
10:10 The characteristic of BPA-free galon is clear and transparent.
10:13 Marked as condition number one.
10:16 Galon Le Mineral for the health of family.
10:19 People say I'm a hard worker.
10:22 Work all day, suddenly I have a headache.
10:24 Oskadon is good for headache.
10:26 Work actively in the center,
10:28 can be drunk before eating, without being sleepy.
10:30 Oskadon, good solution,
10:31 complete the relief of headache and anxiety.
10:33 Panchen Oye.
10:44 She has a perfect husband in the eyes of other women.
10:47 And a house far from gossip.
10:49 Apparently able to make many netizens assume
10:52 if the life of a married couple
10:54 run by Inge and Ariwi Bowo
10:56 is a harmonious life.
10:58 But who would have thought
11:02 if in the back of the room
11:03 that they show in the Maya world,
11:05 in fact, this is the opposite
11:07 in real life.
11:09 Chronologically, this is like a drama.
11:13 Real drama.
11:15 Okay, so at first,
11:17 the past four or five years,
11:20 I have asked for a divorce many times.
11:23 The last one was the fourth.
11:26 Because, again, there is no change, right?
11:30 I'm tired too.
11:32 The fourth one,
11:34 I told her again,
11:36 after the incident in 2022,
11:40 there is a fairly viral event in Bali.
11:44 There is a new beach club opened.
11:48 And then it went up to social media.
11:50 There I,
11:53 I know it was a bit late,
11:54 a few days later,
11:56 someone gave me a link,
11:58 this matter.
11:59 And then I said,
12:01 "How are you all this time?"
12:03 "I just stay quiet."
12:04 "I take care of your baby."
12:06 "But this has gone up like this."
12:09 "It's already crowded."
12:10 "You better fix it."
12:11 "You fix your name." I said.
12:13 Because if it's already up,
12:16 the possibility of the children being bullied.
12:21 I don't want that, right?
12:23 So I said, "You fix your name."
12:25 But she didn't want to.
12:26 She said,
12:27 "Oh, these are just influencers."
12:30 "Just want fame."
12:32 "Just want to be famous."
12:34 "If I do something about it,"
12:36 "they will only be more viral."
12:38 Okay, I stayed quiet again.
12:40 The next day I said,
12:41 "Okay, when are we getting a divorce?"
12:43 "No, we cannot."
12:47 "We can't file a divorce now."
12:50 "Later, Indonesia will know about this problem."
12:54 And I also thought,
12:58 until her name is bad,
13:00 there is no offer,
13:02 my children will be bullied.
13:04 I have to think long and hard.
13:07 I didn't say that anymore.
13:11 There are many ways that God shows for his people.
13:33 When Inge really wanted to get a divorce,
13:35 her ex-husband finally granted her wish.
13:38 Until recently,
13:45 like in January,
13:47 I asked again,
13:49 "So what?"
13:51 "When?"
13:52 And then finally,
13:53 "Okay, we will get a divorce."
13:54 But at that moment,
13:56 it was like a bomb fell.
13:58 Because he said,
13:59 "Okay, we will get a divorce."
14:00 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:03 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:05 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:06 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:07 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:08 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:09 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:10 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:11 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:12 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:13 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:14 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:15 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:16 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:17 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:18 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:19 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:20 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:21 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:22 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:23 "But the reason is you are cheating."
14:24 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
14:31 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
14:32 "I agree, he agrees."
14:37 "I'm looking forward to divorce."
14:42 "I'm looking forward to divorce."
14:43 "I can't, I can't do it forever."
14:50 "I hate you, I really don't want to."
14:55 Even though she feels hurt to be divorced from her ex-boyfriend,
14:59 Inge still gets full support from her two children, Kenzo and Marco.
15:04 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
15:07 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
15:08 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
15:09 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
15:10 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
15:11 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
15:12 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
15:13 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
15:14 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
15:15 "I want to be happy even though I'm not with him."
15:17 What Kenzo still sees is that you guys call each other "babe".
15:21 You guys never hold hands, you guys never hug each other anymore.
15:25 So, it's okay.
15:26 Marco still says, "Why can't we just live together under the same roof but different room?"
15:34 Marco can't say that.
15:37 But don't worry, I said.
15:39 Because it's just a different house.
15:41 I still love him, I still have Kenzo and Marco.
15:47 Whenever he calls me, I'll make an arrangement.
15:51 So, for now, every Sunday, he'll definitely come to our wedding.
15:56 [Music]
16:15 I'll help you guys to get back your friendship.
16:18 Life is not always like the weather.
16:22 When it's sunny, it feels happy.
16:26 With Chocolate Toast, with a lot of Italian chocolate, enjoy your heart, let go of your burden.
16:32 Chocolate Toast, Mamma Mia, delicious toast.
16:34 Glowing means brightening.
16:38 Fragrant skin every time.
16:41 Glowing means dot, dot, scarlet.
16:44 Always glow on the go.
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16:56 Sprinkled with sebusi, the taste is really delicious.
17:00 Indomie Damin Sirip, the authentic taste is really good.
17:05 [Music]
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17:24 The chocolate is thick.
17:26 The coconut is savory.
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17:32 It's delicious.
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18:05 Let's have an Energen cereal breakfast.
18:07 I want the strong one, Mom.
18:08 I want vanilla.
18:09 I want the chocolate.
18:10 Energen, the number one cereal in Indonesia.
18:13 Made from Australian wheat.
18:15 Nutritious and refreshing.
18:17 It's delicious.
18:18 It's fattening.
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18:38 Anytime.
18:39 Anywhere.
18:42 Nescafe.
18:48 This is my cafe.
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20:24 Every drop contains balanced essential minerals that are important for the body
20:29 and also make the water taste fresher.
20:31 The freshness.
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20:33 Love can make us blind.
20:47 And this is what Inge felt when she was still married to Arebi Bowo.
20:52 After officially divorced, Inge told her story about her ex-husband.
20:58 Why it can be like that?
21:03 Again, I understand the character or the game of people with that kind of character.
21:11 Toxic relationship, play victim, NPD, narcissistic personality disorder.
21:19 I can't answer the question of people with that kind of character.
21:25 If I answer, it will be more and more.
21:28 Because they will try to be the right type.
21:33 They will be able to twist things.
21:40 Gather people who will be their team.
21:44 I don't want to go on.
21:47 I want to stay silent.
21:49 That's why I always choose to stay silent.
21:52 Because I know the type of people like this.
21:54 If I defend myself, it will never end.
21:58 They will find a way to turn back.
22:01 So that they are the right type.
22:03 Remembering the past sometimes makes us learn something meaningful.
22:14 And this is what these two mothers felt when they told their beautiful memories with actor Tampan Arebi Bowo.
22:22 And now, Inge has become an independent woman both mentally and financially.
22:28 To divorce? No.
22:34 Do I regret getting married? No.
22:36 Because I have my kids.
22:38 There are times when we are genuinely happy.
22:44 But let's say our destiny is only here.
22:50 Only for those 16 years.
22:53 Then it's okay.
22:55 [Music]
23:08 I don't know how God helps me.
23:15 Am I afraid? Of course I am.
23:18 I don't have money. I don't have any assets.
23:21 I don't go out with anything.
23:23 Of course I am afraid.
23:24 But I pray and pray and pray.
23:26 And there are many people who pray for me.
23:29 Who know the truth.
23:31 And until today, praise God, I'm okay.
23:35 I'm happy.
23:36 I have a job.
23:39 I can even rent an apartment.
23:43 Rent a car.
23:45 I'm just happy.
23:48 When they see me independent, they are happy.
23:52 When they eat, they are relaxed.
23:56 They are happy to see me paying for their meals.
24:00 And just yesterday, Lekinzo said, "Mommy, can you transfer me? I need to buy shoes."
24:07 Because he is busy with his company.
24:10 But he is already at the place.
24:12 It's already 9.30 p.m.
24:14 He needs formal shoes for school.
24:16 "Yes, sure, Kenzo. I'll transfer you now."
24:18 So, in a way, I feel proud.
24:20 I can do that for my son.
24:22 After experiencing a lot of pain in her marriage with Ariwi Bowo,
24:36 Kini Inge hopes that she and her ex-husband can find happiness in their own ways.
24:44 Thank you for those beautiful years.
24:51 And thank you for loving me and allowing me to love you.
25:02 Now, we are separated.
25:06 Let's move on.
25:08 Be a good parent for our kids.
25:11 No more drama.
25:14 No more bad words or bad mouthing about each other.
25:18 Let's focus on working so that we can make our kids happy.
25:28 Just move on.
25:30 And I hope you find your happiness.
25:34 And thank you.
25:36 I heard you said that you want me to be happy again.
25:41 Thank you for that.
25:43 And let's go find our happiness.
25:46 It's like a proverb.
25:55 "If you are hurt first, you will be happy later."
25:58 That's what Inge feels right now.
26:01 What has been her learning for her life?
26:05 To always give up her life to the plan of the almighty.
26:09 Do you know what Bishu likes?
26:28 What?
26:29 He has a wife.
26:30 (Bishu's wife)
26:32 You're such a jerk!
26:38 Let's talk.
26:41 I'm with you.
26:43 Actually, this song is good.
26:48 But...
26:49 We often forget this song because someone said, "I'm sorry, I love you."
26:54 That's the person.
26:55 That's Isdalia.
26:58 (Isdalia)
27:01 Without you, I can't
27:04 You don't have to make me crazy
27:08 I don't have to fall in love
27:11 There are still many people who can do it like you
27:15 I don't have to try
27:24 There are still many, many
27:27 Others still have to feel
27:31 Feel the love with others
27:36 I don't have to fall in love
27:43 I don't have to fall in love
27:53 I don't have to fall in love
27:57 I don't have to fall in love
28:06 Our love is really hard
28:08 Enough, there will be no end
28:12 Let it be whatever
28:15 Whatever, whatever
28:20 I don't have to fall in love
28:24 Our love is really hard
28:31 Enough, there will be no end
28:38 Let it be whatever
28:46 (Woo)
28:47 Our love is really hard
29:01 Our longing is also hard
29:04 All these feelings are hard
29:08 The relationship is unclear, let it be
29:12 I give you whatever
29:15 You also give me whatever
29:18 Our love is really hard
29:21 You and me, whatever
29:25 (Woo)
29:26 Our love is really hard
29:32 Our longing is also hard
29:39 All these feelings are hard
29:42 The relationship is unclear, let it be
29:46 Our love is really hard