00:00And if my sister happens to live in America, where there are 4.8 million females more than
00:07men, or my sister happens to live in one of the countries of European Union, where there
00:12are 10.2 million females more than men, and if every man finds a woman for himself, every
00:23man finds a woman for himself, and I agree with you, one man should marry only one woman,
00:28yet there'll be 4.8 million females in America who will not find husbands. There'll be 1.2
00:37million females in Germany who will not find husbands. There will be 10.2 million females
00:42in Bangladesh who will not find husbands. There'll be 4.2 million females in Bangladesh who will
00:49not find husbands. There'll be 10 million females in Russia who will not find husbands. There'll
00:53be 10.2 million females in
00:55European Union who will not find husband.
00:58I'm asking the question. If your
00:59sister or my sister happens
01:01to be one of
01:03these women,
01:05the only option for them is
01:07if the market is saturated.
01:09If one man has found a woman for himself,
01:13there will be
01:13millions of people in America,
01:15Bangladesh, Russia,
01:17European Union.
01:20Millions of females who won't find
01:21husband. The only option remaining
01:23for them is that they either marry
01:25a man
01:26who has already got a wife
01:29or become
01:31public property.
01:33People say, Dr. Zakir,
01:36public property,
01:38such a harsh word.
01:39I say this is the most
01:41sophisticated word I can use.
01:43There is no third option. You either
01:45marry a man who already has a wife
01:47or become public property.
01:50Any
01:51modest woman
01:52if
01:54there is no choice for her,
01:58she would prefer
01:59marrying a man
02:01who already
02:02has
02:05a wife
02:07rather than become public property.
02:09In USA,
02:11in USA,
02:12having mistresses is common.
02:14on average,
02:16a man,
02:16before he marries a woman,
02:19he has six
02:19sexual partners.
02:22On average,
02:23some may have two,
02:25three,
02:26some may have ten,
02:26twenty.
02:27On average,
02:28an American man
02:29has eight
02:30different sexual partners
02:32before he settles down
02:34and marries one.
02:35The statistic doesn't say
02:37after he marries,
02:37how many more does he have.
02:39That's not mentioned.
02:39So I don't know about it.
02:41But before
02:42an American man
02:43marries a woman,
02:45he has eight
02:45different sexual partners.
02:47So having mistresses
02:50in America is common.
02:51Five,
02:51ten,
02:52twenty,
02:52hundred,
02:52no problem.
02:53But if you have more than one
02:55legal wife,
02:56they have a problem.
02:57When you are a mistress,
02:58a woman is degraded.
03:01A woman is locked down upon.
03:03She does not get a rights.
03:05She doesn't
03:06get peace.
03:08She doesn't
03:09live peacefully.
03:12On the other hand,
03:15in Islam,
03:16if a woman
03:17marries a man
03:17who already
03:18has a wife,
03:19she gets her
03:20due rights.
03:22She is respected.
03:23She gets honor.
03:25She is not disgraced.
03:27She can walk
03:27with the head up.
03:29So,
03:30in America,
03:32having mistresses
03:32is no problem.
03:33Law allows you.
03:34No problem.
03:35Having legally
03:36married wife
03:37more than one,
03:38they have a problem.
03:38So,
03:41if we analyze
03:42the only solution
03:45for a man,
03:49for a woman,
03:51if the market
03:51is saturated,
03:52she either marries
03:53a man
03:54who already has a wife
03:54or gets a public property.
03:56I know,
03:57generally,
03:58no woman
03:59would like
04:00to share a husband.
04:01I know that.
04:03But,
04:04a Muslima
04:05who has knowledge
04:06of Islam,
04:07she would not
04:08mind sharing
04:09a husband
04:10to prevent
04:11a sister
04:11from becoming
04:12public property.
04:14Everyone doesn't
04:14have to do small.
04:15Normally,
04:16the percentage
04:16of increase
04:17is only half percent.
04:19That is,
04:2015 every thousand.
04:22Approximately.
04:23So,
04:24in Islam,
04:25if a woman
04:26who has the true
04:27knowledge of the deen,
04:28she would not
04:29mind sharing
04:29a husband
04:30to prevent
04:31a sister
04:32from becoming
04:32public property.
04:34So,
04:35one of the reasons
04:36is,
04:36that by nature,
04:37women
04:38are normally
04:40more than men.
04:41That is the reason
04:42you find
04:43more widowers,
04:44more widows
04:46in the world
04:46than widowers.
04:49The woman
04:49without husband,
04:51the husband
04:51has died,
04:52is much more
04:53than a man
04:54whose wife
04:55has died.
04:56Because the
04:57life expectancy
04:58of a woman
04:59is much more.
05:07of the woman
05:09.
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