- Laura writes: "Some men are great at picking out that special gift to give to their partner. Men that are "geeks" seem to be the worst gift givers. Let me rephrase that... they are bad at giving "girl" gifts. Every girl now and again loves to receive that Techie gift from her guy: like an ipod, iphone or Blu-Ray player. However, there are times when we need to feel special - that our guy cares enough to know about what makes us a girl."