Ray J also wires that he had no respect for Kim but stuck with her anyway. Why? Read Ahead. "We were like animals; sexually free to try anything, and we did," he writes. "For years KK and I had a great sex life. There was more to our relationship, but the majority of it was about our wild and extreme sexual chemistry. She was a straight freak who was down to do whatever, whenever and that seriously hypnotized me."