Signs Your Husband is Cheating on You - as part of the expert series by GeoBeats. Signs Your Husband is Cheating on You Some signs that your husband may be cheating on you are: he’s working late a little too often, stories don’t match, there’s some secret about his texting. Usually it’s something very subtle, but this is what happens. If a man is doing this, he may do one or two or three or four subtle things, but eventually it turns into 20 subtle things. And the most important thing a woman needs to do is keep her discernment open at all times, not that you don’t not trust your husband, but you also don’t go into some La-La Land where nothing bad can ever happen to us place. Keep your radar up a little bit.