- We humans are social creatures and we love feeling needed and wanted- something that your perfect match will provide you with! Most importantly, we need to feel loved. Finding your perfect match is not about finding the most attractive person. It involves a whole lot more hard work. You need to look for someone who is not only attractive, but also compatible with you. In the end, when you’re sixty, you’re going to be left with companionship. All the attractions of youthful beauty will have faded. You wouldn’t like to grow old with someone who you aren’t compatible with, would you? Finding a match for yourself can indeed be hard work, but I can tell you that it is by no means impossible.