And please, don't any of you high and mighty fundamentalist males get on here and say something like, "Well, I'm a male and I don't have to masturbate or engage in any sexual activity at all, and I make out just fine".
You're either borderline asexual, in which case you have no authority to speak on the subject, or you're lying, simple as that. You may fool your girlfriend, and you may fool the other women in your life into believing in your supposed chastity, but you don't fool a fellow male.
To prove my point about the male sex drive being unimaginably stronger than the female one, consider this....
No male with any sex drive at all is going to turn down an opportunity to have sex with an attractive partner. (If he knows he can get away with it) 99 guys out of 100 will gladly except sex from a female who is a complete stranger, assuming he's not in a truly committed relationship. If you doubt this, go find a group of young single heterosexual guys and offer yourself to them individually and see how many turn you down.
On the other hand, if a man walks up to a woman he's never met and offers to have sex with her, 99 out of 100 women will say something like, "Are you kidding? I don't even know you!"
That is the difference between the male and the female sex drives. No woman can possibly even begin to understand just how strong the sex drive of a man is. I'm not trying to be sexist. I'm just being real.
OK, Christianprophetess, so you believe that "God" gave us our bodies, but that we should repress our natural sexual impulses that "God" gave us?
I hope this doesn't come across as sexist, because I don't intend it to be sexist, but you have to be female. A woman is incapable of understanding the male sex drive. The male sex drive is incalculably stronger than the female one. We must have sexual release, period. If we don't orgasm during the waking hours, we will do so during sleep. That is simply reality. Show me a guy who is suppressing his sex drive, and I'll show you a guy who is ready to explode in an act of most horrendous violence. To expect any male, with the possible exception of the most asexual, to completely abstain from all sexual gratification, is beyond unreasonable, and completely unrealistic.
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You're either borderline asexual, in which case you have no authority to speak on the subject, or you're lying, simple as that. You may fool your girlfriend, and you may fool the other women in your life into believing in your supposed chastity, but you don't fool a fellow male.
No male with any sex drive at all is going to turn down an opportunity to have sex with an attractive partner. (If he knows he can get away with it) 99 guys out of 100 will gladly except sex from a female who is a complete stranger, assuming he's not in a truly committed relationship. If you doubt this, go find a group of young single heterosexual guys and offer yourself to them individually and see how many turn you down.
On the other hand, if a man walks up to a woman he's never met and offers to have sex with her, 99 out of 100 women will say something like, "Are you kidding? I don't even know you!"
That is the difference between the male and the female sex drives. No woman can possibly even begin to understand just how strong the sex drive of a man is. I'm not trying to be sexist. I'm just being real.
I hope this doesn't come across as sexist, because I don't intend it to be sexist, but you have to be female. A woman is incapable of understanding the male sex drive. The male sex drive is incalculably stronger than the female one. We must have sexual release, period. If we don't orgasm during the waking hours, we will do so during sleep. That is simply reality. Show me a guy who is suppressing his sex drive, and I'll show you a guy who is ready to explode in an act of most horrendous violence. To expect any male, with the possible exception of the most asexual, to completely abstain from all sexual gratification, is beyond unreasonable, and completely unrealistic.
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