As Josie and John James worry about how much Jo is struggling in the house, they talk about how they are the center of their relationships with their friends. John tells Josie he thought it would be harder for him to give up being in control of all the situations he was in, because that's how he usually is. He says he had to step back and let Nathan take the role of alpha male, because if he didn't, they would have fought. Talk then turns to John James' love of hankies.
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