How to handle kids’ mental stress with Joey Paras | Mars Pa More - video Dailymotion

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When kids become burnt out and stressed, how would Joey Paras give them love and understanding?

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00:00Who doesn't have a personal question?

00:04If you don't have a question,

00:06we'll be honest.

00:08We don't have a problem.

00:10But we don't have a pressure.

00:12Let's say,

00:14let's say,

00:16one problem.

00:18But let's say,

00:20anonymously.

00:22Right?

00:24He really wants to shout out their problem

00:26and let everybody know.

00:28Anonymous!

00:30It's the universe of God.

00:32We'll try it, Mars.

00:34That's the Mars sharing group.

00:36We're going up today.

00:38We're going to ask our current issue,

00:40problem or question

00:42that we need advice.

00:44Let's put it in our bowl.

00:46We'll send it randomly

00:48and we'll give this advice

00:50to the anonymous sender.

00:52Who will send it?

00:54Mars!

00:56Oh my God!

00:58Let's repeat it.

01:00These problems come to us.

01:02But we don't know.

01:04If you have a problem,

01:06it's hard, Mars.

01:08It's hard to advise you to yourself.

01:10Correct.

01:11You need help.

01:13This is it.

01:14I love it.

01:16How to handle mental stress

01:18stress for kids during pandemic?

01:22Magandang tanong yan.

01:23Ako,

01:24ang mapapayo ko for this is...

01:28Patience.

01:30Aside from prayers.

01:32Ang mga bata,

01:34kasi may iba silang ano talaga eh.

01:36Iba pa yung kultura nila

01:38o iba pa yung takbo ng utak nila, diba?

01:42Yung iba hindi.

01:43Aral.

01:44At may iba't ibang personalities

01:46at characteristics ng tao.

01:48We differ from each other.

01:50Yes.

01:51As adults,

01:52as parents,

01:53meron tayong capability

01:55to know

01:56and to label

01:58or...

01:59To adjust.

02:00Yes.

02:01To adjust.

02:02Kung ano yung bata,

02:03yung needs ng bata.

02:04Agree.

02:05So, sa aspeto ng mental stress,

02:08I think,

02:09kailangan mo rin magpahinga,

02:12matulog.

02:13Huwag mo masyadong indahin yung problema.

02:17Para sa akin, yun ang mapapayo ko

02:19kay sayo.

02:20Charo!

02:22Kasusunod na ba na bubunod?

02:24Mars!

02:25Okay, pero ngayon daw bawal ng umamin sa problema.

02:27Ako ba ba na sabihin?

02:28Okay.

02:29Ako lang amin.

02:30O.

02:31Paano ba magpalaki ng batang magiging teenager na?

02:34You know, times are changing.

02:37Yung pag-iisip ng mga teenager na ngayon,

02:40iba sa pag-iisip ng mga teenager noon.

02:43Correct!

02:44Di ba?

02:45So, these are changes that you have to move with.

02:47You have to adjust your way of thinking.

02:50So, kailangan mo rin matutulan na

02:54itabi mo muna yung sarili mong emotions

02:57and feelings.

02:59Especially when you see your child going through something.

03:02I agree.

03:03Kasi, there are times na, as parents,

03:05gusto mong pagsabihan agad eh.

03:08Bakit mo niisip?

03:09Iyan kasig eh.

03:10Madalas, actually.

03:11Ganon ang...

03:12Unang reaksyon.

03:13Ng isang pilo ng magulan na.

03:15Iyan kasig!

03:16Bakit mo niisip?

03:17Bakit mo niisip?

03:18Bakit mo nagawa niyan?

03:19Oo, but...

03:20Yung nga, as a teenager who I'm sure...

03:22Ganon yung acting.

03:23Ganon yung acting.

03:24Ganon yung acting.

03:25Ganon yung acting.

03:26Taas agad.

03:27Who will make mistakes and who may have to learn the hard way.

03:28You have to respect them.

03:29You have to put your emotions and your personal battles aside

03:33and just listen to your child

03:35and to support them in whatever way.

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