nuptialstv.com It’s a fact of life that many people have parents who got divorced and have remarried, so many brides out there will have the dilemma of picking either their birth or step father to dance with during the father/ daughter dance at your wedding reception. Don’t agonize over this decision… dance with both of them. In most cases, depending on the relationship you have with these important men who helped raise you, you should probably dance with your birth father first, then dance with your step father. You don’t even need to dance with both of them for a song each… switch from your birth father to your step father mid-song. They will both understand, and probably both feel moved that they were included equally in your special day.