So you've gotten this far and by some unbelievable feat you're still locked firmly in the jaws of your committed relationship. Bummer. Don't give up hope just yet though, because this next one might just work. Remember how all the times you got broken up with she had a "where is this relationship going" discussion with you beforehand? Well if you start that same line of conversation, she might just get nervous and try to preempt a breakup with you. You have to plant the seeds of doubt to reap the sweet rewards of relationship freedom.